Have you ever catfished a girl/woman and genuinely fallen in love with her ?
I originally just wanted someone to talk to and maybe get some private nudes to jerk off to. We've been talking for a few months, we've clicked on practically every level and way possible, everything I've told her is real except for the pics I sent her and my name (which I new regret as she's never called me by my real name). We plan on meeting soon and I don't know if I should find a way to break it off and let her down incredibly gently (by making it seem like I'm the ass). I could literally marry this woman and be content with life.
Not sharing anything I've gotten from her, I'm not a monster.
>except for the pics I sent her and my name You gotta come clean. Tell her what you told us. It's up to her at that point.
Elijah Baker
yeah your totally fucked unless shes a desperate fat ho
Jeremiah Harris
I really don't know man, I know I don't want to hurt her.
I'm white, she's mixed (black/white), not thin, but not fat at all, and incredibly beautiful/wholesome with a wonderful personality I can't get enough of.
Isaac Robinson
Who's catfishin' who? Prepare to be surprised.
Carson Nelson
>never met >would marry
Retard.
Jack Perez
We face timed, but I blocked out my camera and came up with an excuse. It's definitely her.
The key word you're looking for here is 'could', retard.
Try learning to read.
Colton Edwards
>catfished a girl/woman >genuinely fallen in love with her It's not genuine if it's based on a lie. She'd treat you ENTIRELY different if you were actually who you are, probably would never have started talking to you in the first place. Although that kind of makes both of you shitty people, so it's not like there's NO hope.
Adam Gray
I'm aware of that logic, I'm actually better looking than the guy in the random pics and absofrigginglutely her type, and we talk on the phone every single day- she's in love with my voice too.
Eli Evans
Look up the catfish greentext and fucking pull the ol’ Switched Oo on her >set meet up time >get there 30 before and ask for a table for two >she gets there asks to sit with whoever has a party of two >You ask, “oh, are you ____’s friend?” >she’ll say no, and explain you were suppose to meet some 30 minutes ago for a blind date >let her go sit off by herself >she sits by herself wait awhile, until she’s leaving and leave at the same time, strike up a conversation about both being stood up >ask why she’s here, she’ll talk about meeting up
Luis Anderson
>she's in love with my voice Then that's how you should tell her. If there's any hope at all it's in that. Totally fall on your sword, though.
Ethan Martinez
You're 99% catfishing another guy, pretending to be a girl.
Kevin Roberts
I'm leaving out many details because I've actually seen people on here asking for pics of her- people that went to school with her (She's not famous or anything). I literally can't say anything else or there's a high chance someone will figure out who I'm talking about.
That's definitely not the case, believe me.
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Michael Cook
They can use fake webcams. Have you spoken voice to voice? If not, 100% a man.
Hudson Hernandez
Sorry didnt read rest of your comment.
Matthew Harris
>I know I don't want to hurt her. Gotta tell her that too. Lay out all out and then step away. She'll need the space to decide what to do. Up to her to reach back.
Hudson Jackson
I realize it's possible if someone went through quite a bit of trouble, but I've received custom pics, videos, videos of her talking, seen where she works, full name, address, school history (she's an adult), her facebook/instagram, facebook videos of her mother talking, heard the same woman speaking in the background while we're on the phone and responding to what she's said- so that's a timestamp.
We literally speak on the phone almost every single day.
Brayden Martin
In that case, you are fucked. Really fucked you did this.
Grayson Evans
Is the right one, you?!? You nigger faggot pucci boi
Wow. You're actually delusional on a whole new level. I assume you only catfished for another reason because your ashamed of how you look IRL, which would add to just the level of creepiness shes going to feel when she meets you if you go through with that.
Come clean or dont, but do NOT meet up with her unless you've already come clean. That level of shock to her IRL would GUARENTEE send her away from you. IDK how close you are, but the trust issues this creates for you 2 is niggered. you could also catch legal trouble for this.
god ur stupid
Hudson Hill
Nope, actually just scared of commitment. But she's changed things, which is basically a fitting punishment because coming clean will ruin it.
Of course I'm not going to meet her without coming clean,
> "ur stupid" > "ur"
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Nothing's been done, I'm not conning her out of anything and would make sure to come clean long before we meet and before she spends any money. Plus, I'd be visiting her first as her family cares about her safety.
Eli Young
come clean right now
Literally call her right now
And tell us what happens
Chase Reed
She doesn't need that stress right now, she's fairly emotional in general.
Luis Roberts
yep. just shows how delusional you are. if you dont actually see the gravity of this situation you're fagged. and you comment on grammar like a fucking nigger.
i almost guarantee she never talks to you again, and i hope so
Benjamin Ward
*autism intensifies*
Charles Morales
> fagged > nigger
I thought you people don't leave /pol/ often
Parker Stewart
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Hunter Harris
and i thought degenerates like you lived on /r9k/
Thomas Lewis
Retard. You fucked up. How can she trust you after you did this to her? I wouldn't.
Justin Clark
you're living in a fantasy world. going to be nice to know your going to wake up soon
Jason Lee
the irony of this
Camden Hernandez
I’ve been in this situation before, on the opposite end. it was a girl, (I’m bi), she was my type, a sweetheart, and I could joke around with her about whatever. I sent her nudes. she sent me some back. I thought things were good until she just completely stopped messaging me. then she deleted her account. it sucked but there wasn't anything I could do about it but move on. a month later a dude messaged me asking about her. he did some digging. found out it was a dude who also followed me. I confronted him about it, he said he had mental problems, and apologized profusely.
I empathized, he was insecure, I can be too. maybe I was too lenient on the guy. I still scolded him but who knows if that did anything. I hope it did. he seemed to understand, he knew what he did was wrong.
it honestly fucked with me, that’s a fucked thing to do to another person. just come clean dude. just do it. he was such a cool person to talk to- well ‘she’ was. if he was just straight up from the beginning maybe there might have still been something. but he took the lie way too far. don’t lie to people like that. what trust is there ever gonna be if you founded that relationship on a lie?
Aaron Sanders
That's the fucking irony of it....If I had been clean from the beginning... I wouldn't be in this predicament.
And yeah, I assume there's of gay dudes here posing as chicks to get dick pics.
Anthony Collins
arrange a date stand the bitch up call her on the phone and tell her it's because she's fat and annoying masturbate while she sobs
Charles Campbell
kys
Cooper Walker
if you had been clean from the beginning she probably wouldnt have continued a relationship with you. the irony of it is you dont see that.
Jason Sullivan
Or you're too retarded to read the posts.
Hudson Russell
>plot twist >OP is being catfished too and has been jerking off daily to words from a 400lb basement dweller with psoriasis and a microdick
Joseph Reed
Another retard that doesn't read replies
Cooper Allen
ahh buddy. you're actually so fucked in the head that you dont realize, or cant accept the fact that shes never going to want to speak to you again. what if you were in the same situation? this person who you thought you had a real connection with and sending pictures and videos to was some random retard?
the trust issues thats going to cause, not just from you're emotional relationship, but the ramifications of her sending you nudes adn stuff, is going to be hell for you.
Shes never going to be able to see you the same way, even if in some chance in hell she doesnt block you immediately.
Bentley Taylor
You're a shitty person and there's no way to justify the shitty thing you did to her and probably others just for tit pics. Your only chance is if she has absolutely no self confidence.
Tyler Martinez
retards trying to get him to end it so he'll dump OC.
Julian Lopez
unless you look better than the guy whos pics you catfished her with, you will be a letdown and she obviously wont give a shit about your personality. i hate to break it to you, but real life is a not a romantic comedy movie. she is going to be very weirded out, traumatized, and very pissed off when she finds out the guy she had a crush on is not real
John Bailey
I am, read the thread.
Jace Edwards
how much more attractive is the fake picture than yourself
Cooper Fisher
LOL YOURE GOING TO HELL DUDE, ONCE YOU TELL THE TRUTH SHES NEVER GOING TO TRUST YOU FOOL
Jayden Moore
>I am, read the thread. nigger you have no trip and are posting no pics, how the fuck does anyone konw which posts belong to you and which belong to random anons?
Ryan Adams
once she understands that your face is the one that tried to catfish her it's going to be the ugliest fucking shit on the planet
Zachary Taylor
I'm definitely more attractive, and she loves my voice.
Try that thing called reading.
I know, but that's not guaranteed
Joseph Ward
don't fool yourself child its guaranteed
Evan Lopez
Lidia. A Polish qt I fell in love with when using a fake FB account. Zuck the cuck deleted it and I never spoke to her since.