Hello Yea Forums, I am having trouble viewing women as real independent human beings with dreams and personalities, and not annoying worthless sex objects. I entered college as a scrub losing my virginity the summer before my first semester. But I joined a fraternity and became /chad/ and fucked 70+ girls my first year as a freshman. I'm now a senior about to graduate and my body count is well over 200. I haven't had sex in 2 months though because I no longer desire to be around women. Even the girls I thought were unique and not complete THOTS become thots after I bang them. Anyone else have this problem?
Hello Yea Forums, I am having trouble viewing women as real independent human beings with dreams and personalities...
Whats the problem? You don't like girls anymore so you aren't dealing with them. Why would you want to change? It's like saying
>I HATE RIDING BIKES
>I STOPPED RIDING MY BIKE BECUASE I HATE IT EVEN THOUGH I USED TO LOVE IT
>MAKE ME LOVE RIDING BIKES AGAIN???
Why?
were the girls you fucked sorority girls? they are pretty dumb and have very generic personalities. even i have trouble viewing them as real independent human beings.
Because I actually want to believe in love and that I can find a women that is genuinely interesting and respectable that I can love and start a family with
A lot of them were. And I also thought it was just because they were sorority girls, so I started only talking to non-greek girls and it was the same problem. You'd think they'd be different but they actually want to be the sorority girls so they unconsciously start acting like them when they're with me.
shoosh fag
They’re really fucking hard to find but there are still some out there. You’ll find some intelligent poon eventually.
Good luck
yeah, your problem is the girls you're associating yourself with. but, since you are in a fraternity, non-sorority girls will probably think you are despicable and not want to associate with you. the fraternity life is good for shallow relationships and sex. but my advice to you if you actually want to surround yourself with real, meaningful human interaction: get out of it. like i 100% think less of people in greek societies or who want to be in greek societies. theres a couple girls in my classes who are im them, and even though they are nice, idk, theres just something about them that makes me want to avoid them.
Thanks frend
You’re most likely actually gay. Take one in the ass I bet you’ll like being the sub for a change
I absolutely envy gay men. I don't find them sexually attractive but god damn they must have awesome lives.
Women really do exist to be cum dumpsters, if I could find it in me to be gay and just marry a bro life would be awesome.
No matter how special or unique you think a girl is, the moment you fuck them you realize they are just lesser beings. The are physically and mentally weaker.
It sucks but that's life, I think my dream would be to marry and live with a bro or bros and just pound puss and send them packing.
Everything you're talking about is the revelation all men have after they've fucked enough girls, unfortunately monogamy was perpetuated to try to encourage families and child bearing and weaker males who don't get to fuck enough girls idolize them and worship whichever girl they get lucky enough to slosh around her filthy cunt.
How much of that is stereotype and perhaps jealousy? My fraternity brothers are the most genuine friends I've ever had. And they're surprisingly smart and well put together. I used to think Greek life was stupid and gay as fuck too in highschool. I think the problem lies with sororities because they literally indoctrinate the girls to be our sluts.
Sounds like the college feminazi indoctrination is finally starting to set in.
JACK IS A COMBAT MACHINE HE HAS NO EMOTION OP
i don't have a solid opinion about this. i'm brazilian, and here in Brazil, the great part of womens are thots with poor personalities and degenerate customs. I think the ideal woman should be the least possible round and with as little social interaction as possible with young cultures
You have it right on my man, exactly what I was thinking. The last time I had sex with a girl I was actually on 2 tabs of acid and something about the power dynamic of sex really stuck in my head that they will never be my equal in anything. And that to marry them is to link yourself with an inferior being forever. I feel no attachment to them besides me indulging my sexual urges.
Incel alert
You want a stick pariah?
What is sex like on acid? I love my GF and we've been together for 5 years but I want to do acid while fucking her, just scared if it changes the way I think about her lol
You don't respect women who fuck you because deep down you don't respect yourself. you're projecting your self loathing onto anyone that gives you sexual attention.
You have low self-esteem user. You're a garbage human being and you know it. Only garbage women will put up with you. Self fulfilling prophecy.
I do not know what that means
I promise you it'll 100% change the way you view her and the act of sex. How depends on your brain but it what really set off this chain of thinking for me. But then again I was just fucking some hoe I had no attachment too.
That's because you're fucking whores you have no emotional connection with. You're basically just a man whore. You'd be afraid to find a woman who is your equal because she could hurt you. You're not willing to be vulnerable so you only fuck inferior sluts.
>Fucks college girls
>Wonders why they're all void of personality and thoughts and feelings.
No one, man or woman, from a metropolitan area (which is where 99.99% of colleges are located) has anything to offer in terms of personality. Find a rural girl from the countryside.
Love is just a chemical reaction secreted by your body to make you procreate it's artificial and you will feel it again soon enough but it's okay if you don't it doesn't matter until you start feeling lonely or lack confidence at some point
The Greeks banged other men because they felt gay relationships would be more fulfilling than straight ones.
Maybe that's what you're looking for.
Sounds like you fucked up your most basic human instinct. You should probably kys
Lol. Got real
This is where you're wrong and most likely because you have no experience with fucking the amount of girls/women I have fucked. I have literally banged everything from 18-40 year olds. College freshman, women with careers. They're all the same. Again unless you've mastered and experience women like I have which only the most elite of men in society do then you could never understand this problem.
>i have trouble viewing them as real independent human beings
That's because they aren't. They are just holes. There is just a pretty face and pretty clothes and makeup and nothing more than an animal like any other animal.
Love is not real. You have been lucky enough to be born with top tier genetics which allowed all of those girls to be attracted to you and lay with you. You won't find what you're looking for. You have seen the best that women can be, and they were that for you only because of your genetics. Just imagine if you pulled your personality out of your skin and placed it into a short balding indian janitor, and none of those girls would ever touch you let alone look at you. You are bluepilled.
Stinkfist
>inferior sluts
You are so fucking dumb. They're all sluts. And you are exactly right, he shouldn't be vulnerable because the moment he was those sluts' pussy would dry up instantly. You have no clue at all.
Are you asking for help or affirmation?
I'm looking for conversation on the topic and see if anyone who has overcome this problem would share their insight with me.
You came to the wrong place Yea Forumsro, but I wish you luck. Might be asking the wrong question.
For most of us, OP, we're dying of thirst while watching you drown.
Get out of the water and find your soul's hydration elsewhere. Actively challenge your assumptions and social capabilities, you just might find another scene interesting enough to stick with.
There is no further insight. Women don't think like you and I or any other logical male. You really have it better than most will and yet you want more, when really there is nothing more. Just remember that all those girls you fucked and any others you fuck and any relationship you achieve will be the result of your looks.
If not for general stable companionship, or at least her contributing her salary to joint efforts. Some married gays even have it right. If that's not good enough, you're damaged goods and are destined to die alone. There's no other way around it.
Have you ever fucked a girl? or interact with them daily? Looks are a factor for sure, but I know plenty of ugly ass dudes who fuck sexy girls just because they are overly-confident and can make them laugh. You'd be surprised how easy it is to fuck them
Maybe bangs some dudes, see if they turn into thots.
Old and lonely. Trust me, it will be worth it.
>Love is not real.
Love is real. But if you fucked so many girls (only meaningless sex) your heart gets numb. Love needs innocence.
Don't fuck anyone. Be celibate. Wait till your heart (not wiener) can feel again. Rebuild your innocence. Find your center. Learn to appreciate the beauty of life. Become a naive boy. Be romantic.
But if you don’t feel anything for girls, you might feel something for guys...!
I appreciate the positive message man
Jesus fuck. How fucking lonely do you have to be that you go on the internet to convince strangers there's no hope and nothing worth having in life?
You know OP, I was you 5 years ago. Ivy League Frat- International Chad edition. I was pretty burned out and about to give up- posting more or less exactly this shit myself. But I didn't give up, and met my wife after 2 years of searching. It seemed like forever then, but after 5 years of marriage, it seems like a laughably short time to think about giving up.
Thing is you have to be strategic. This shit wont' fall in your lap. Think hard about what a woman would have to be and what qualities she has to have to earn your respect. Write them down. Find your bottom line- the point at which you'd rather be alone- by what number of those criteria she'd have to have. Now proxy search for those things.
One of my frat bros is so dense he didn't even think to go to a MAGA rally to find a right wing girl in Boston. "But what if she's a religious brainlet?" Motherfucker you haven't met her yet- stop making excuses about how things can possibly fail before they even have.
Second, don't waste time. If you know your criteria, look for them. Test for them. Move on the moment its clear she isn't legit. Its like farming drops in a vidya- the faster your turnover the better your success.
Third- don't have unrealistic expectations. Even fratty bros are assholes sometimes. So too will the finest women disappoint you occasionally. Know the difference between imperfect and flawed.
Don't just date at random and hope for the best. Winners make their own luck. They don't make excuses about why they failed like this virgin cuck.
I appreciate you Yea Forumsro and thank you for taking the time to reply.
Read the whole thing. Don't give a shit about who you've been with. I hope you never reproduce.
Actually, you probably won't, and it's not because of chemical birth control, never mind... waste of time
>Actually, you probably won't,
yeah you're kinda proving my point for me. Your worldview is so delusional that you can't comprehend I've already won at this. And reproducing just isn't a high bar you limp wristed incel. It's not hard. Even a nigger can do it.