Guys, ive had a huge mistake and ive got no one else to talk to...

To answer that hint question, she was giving hints to apologies to her.

She doesn't really sounds like a good mom

She gets like this alot, and ive gotten thick skin towards it, but I usually dont yell back, but ive gotten sick of it recently. She isnt prepared for this, so she feels 'attacked'

Im gunna go talk to my sister real quick, brb.

she fights dirty no surprise... has to win. bipolar disorder obviously doesn't help with all this, but you do have to remain the sane one. no reason you should take that abuse, but screaming back won't help... not sure how you would calmly get her out of your room so she doesn't destroy your shit. maybe calmly ask to
continue the discussion in a different room, lock your door while you're leaving and if she's still going ballistic leave the house for a bit?

she cant talk fuck

Sad thing is, we dont have locks on our doors

Also, the neighborhood I live in isnt exactly friendly towards me.

sounds good, hope she can give you some advice. when do you plan or when will you be able to move out?

... why is that?

Just that type of neighborhood. We moved in cuz it was cheap.

Luckily my dad is divorced and has his own house now, so if I need to I can move over there, but that means new school cuz he's out of the district and I have an eating disorder, ARFID, and he doesnt have the food I eat over there.

It sounds really complicated, specially bc she's bipolar
Is she medicated? my brother's the same but he doesn't act like an asshole or says hurtful things, or at least he tries really hard to not to
Keep in mind that is not an excuse to treat people badly

I dont know if she's medicated, but if she is she doesnt seem like it. It's nothing like it was when I was young, and she got fucked up by chemo and radiation.

Ill get this out there - the cancer occurred about a month after I was born.

i gtg she's coming

Did the cancer affect some part of her brain?

may be worth it for your mental health, surely he could get the food you need...?
not a great association there... especially since she's bipolar plus all the hormones and shit throughout pregnancy. i'm sure that happening didn't help her mental state...

nvm she went downstairs

Thankfully no, it was breast cancer stage 3.
He doesnt really believe there's anything wrong with me, so thats something, and you're right about cancer not helping her after birth

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yknow m8, this is about the only place I can come to talk to people about shit that I did wrong, and this mightve ruined my relationship with my mom entirely? Though I can just go to reddit I guess.

You're not exactly helping.

look kid, man the FUCK up and tell your mom you're sorry and say it like you goddamn mean it.
I'm not here for his goddamn pity party, he knows what he has to do and he's just stalling.

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maybe get a part time job after school a few days a week and on the weekend (if you don't have one) so you can buy your own food and live with your dad? maybe limit the vidya a bit so you can do what you need to improve your living situation, vidya is fun but doubtful it'll help get you out of your situation or improve it...

I really just needed someone to talk to, and you obviously have no idea about
the relationship I have with my mom. So if you're gunna talk like that, you can fuck off.

Im getting a job on April 16th, so yay for me, but it's located near my mom's because that's my main residence (hopefully not for long)

>still stalling
your relationship with your mom is shit because you keep it shitty. Take some responsibility in your life. I'm sorry you never had a father to tell you these things but better late than never you spineless little shit.

That's good because that could leave some permanent demage in her conduct

If you really care about having or maintaining a good relationship with her then the only solution I can come with is going to family therapy or something like that together (if you can), try talking things out and be sincere, say to her that having a healthy relationship is important to you and that you love her etc.
Convincing is the hardest part so don't expect it to happen instantly

The other option would be just cutting ties with her, but that's only if you feel like you are going to be good without her

Spoiled kid rages on a video game so he takes his anger out on his mom with cancer. Yep. That's the whitest thing I can think of at the moment.

We don't know anything about you. You fucking retard.

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this guy gets it

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Im starting to think that is right, because that sounds like something that can work

She's having an emotional woman moment and is acting out because you didn't validate her feelings. It'll either blow over, or she'll carry on till she gets her way by PROBABLY threatening to kick you out. How old is she, I can tell you exactly what she'll do by her age.

Yes I'm an expert.

Im going to get this out there; cancer happened 2 decades ago. Seem to not have read that. And I am perfectly capable of cooling off on myself, so when she comes in here angry while im already angry, there obviously going to be a fight.

THATS WHAT IM TRYING TO EXPLAIN YOU EGGHEAD

She's 49-50

you don't need to pay a shrink to tell you to act mature and be honest. stop looking to others to solve your problems.

Cant remember exactly and rn isnt a good time to ask her.

she should kick your NEET ass out, fekkin waste of gametes that you are

I just skimmed thru the thread and i have a feeling i might know you
Where are you from OP?
you’re a gril, aren’t you?

OP you don't need to apologize. Your mom had a shit day and decided to pounce on you when she heard you yelling at your stupid fucking game. She poked the bear and got mauled.

That being said, never go to bed angry. Go ask her if shes hungry or something and if she gives you shit and an attitude say, Well okay, gnight mom see you in the morning, and then she'll think about what happened and SHE'LL think she was wrong, which she was...

if u paly this right u might be getting a new nintendo switch or smth retard

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you obviously arent Jewish

you need to emotionally manipulate your mom for financial and emotional gains

HAH, I knew it, thats exactly why I asked. She's at the menopausal stage in her life. You're in for a fucking ride bucko.

Best thing you can do when shes at that time, is to just non sarcastically tell her shes right in as non direct a manner as possible, and/or MAYBE offer her something. Her mind will slowly calm down, and/or if she doesn't calm down least talk it out with her to validate her.

Your only other option is move out, because until she's about 55, the shits not gonna stop flying. It will LITERALLY only get worse from here, and if you're browsing Yea Forums, your tolerance for emotional female bullshit is probably already low, it will NOT get easier.

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Not a gril, from MN

alright, fuck

Oh k nvm then lol
Your situation sounded alot like someone i know aside from a couple of details that made me doubt

my foreskin is luxuriously long and floppy

She sleeps in real fuckin late, no job cuz paid for by dad, and I get up real early so...

wow white kids have the shittiest lives letting their parents walk all over them kek

quick.. post nude pics of mom and sister

we know you have them you little pervert. so post them.

he's right move out and, like I've been saying over and over, grow.the.fuck.up.

trash comes in all colors user

I feel nothing for her anymore, she's dead to me.
Best chance is to move in with dad now.

Not much you can do to someone who controls you're whole fuckin life

>the parasite moves from one host to the next

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get your mom a goldfish (ask your dad for 50 bucks and then go buy a cheap 2-3 dollar goldfish and put it in a jar). that should keep your menopaused mom busy and out of your hair.

or, you could just get her interested in VR and have your dad buy her a 4k VR setup. win-win.

Cant afford my own place rn, dont even officially have a job yet.

And anyways the step children are worse than me.

because you're a fuckup. No NEET ever became a NEET without a series of bad decisions.

Lmao, like she'd want a pet again. We used to have a cat and my mom hated her so fuckin much

I find that hard to believe. get a job and then get your own place, don't mooch off your father.

I think OP might be underage

M8 im getting a job at the Macca's. Atleast im trying to stop being a NEET.

Im getting a job. April 16th, m8.

I don't think so, I'm envisioning a frail 22 year old recluse who just plays vidya all day while brooding like a hormonal 14 year old.

yeah, well, maybe your dad tortured her pussy and she had bad associations, ever think of that? your parents sound divorced. maybe shes more of a dog or fish person.

you get my point...find her weakness and exploit it for personal gain

hopefully you're not a drama queen at work too. Just get your own place, it will be the best decision you ever make.

Atleast I just stay in my room and mind my own business. They literally call their mom, named Regina, Vagnia.

That's what i want to do.

My parents have been divorced since I was 3.

We got the cat after the divorce.

stop comparing yourself to others. grow the fuck up and focus on yourself.
so fucking do it. are you underage then, is that why you're not doing it?

Guy murders dozens of his own race members, rapes women, and does drugs into his early grave. Yep. That's the niggest thing I can think of at the moment.

Pretty accurate, ngl.

I. DONT. HAVE. THE. JOB. YET. How many times do I have to say that?

Im moving to my dads so I can save up to rent a apartment without losing my sanity.

his mom had cancer 20 years ago

shes milking her titty cancer for sympathy and using it as a Trump card to emotionally manipulate her son

fuck her, shes an evil cunt...good thing for OP being a male...hes all she has to remember her ex husband. shes probably single/never remarried and loves and hates OP

he can make out like a bandit or possibly even fuck his moms if shes hot enough and hes crazy enough to try it

entitled white kid with no job expecting his parents to take care of him forever. Can't get much worse than this. classic case of a white kid with mental issues raging over vidya games, next he'll be shooting up his school because johnny football hero called him a nerd and fucked a girl he crushed on for years.

Tbh user, your dad is partially right. "Eating disorders" are mental ones. You can overcome a mental disorder, it just takes a lot of work.

just empty your piss jugs over her

I know I'm right, I know your type
a mess of your own making, what the fuck have you been doing since high school?
mistake IMO. You're going get comfortable and fall into old routines. Better to make amends with your mother, drop the "she's dead to me" teenage bullshit, avoid her until you can move into your own place.

Thats why I go to therapy, but my mom doesnt really take me to it unless I pester her. I dont exactly have a drivers license.

At least white kids shooting up schools is a rarity compared to nigger murder rates.

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maybe i do have a vidya problem

wow youre really making this difficult to defend you user

22 years old, no job, no drivers license, cant/wont take public transit....smh

ITT: kiddo discards actual advice

Unable to use public transit because there is none in my area. None that I can use without being called out on anyway.

Fair enough, as long as you're working on it. Bottom line is, if she's in menopause, she'll probably get over her current feelings. My mom went through it about 10 years ago, and it was similar to what you're describing. She threatened to leave my dad because he watched a show she didn't like. It's crazy hormonal time.

WHY CANT YOU BE NORMAL LIKE YOUR STEP SIBLINGS user REEEEEEE

well, ive missed my chance for that. If I wasnt such a social recluse I wouldve been able to pick up on her hints and said sorry.

KEK
better than nigs who don't have dads at all, and moms who beat them

excuses, always with the excuses

You can still apologize dude. Why would it seem insincere now?

get your shit together before you play any more vidya. I stopped for years while I was in college and starting my career and only now that I have things going my way do I allow myself an hour or two a night.

m8, 1 I have no money, 2 the buses dont line up with what I need, and 3 its used my elderly peeps to get to the liqueur store.

I have a problem with being sarcastic to her, and she herself said she wouldnt accept an apology from me

again with this teenage-tier, faux drama. Just tell her you're sorry.

arent those also wypipo problems, more so than Black and Latinos...?

you're pretty exact on that. OP must of messed up because her cancer was 10 years ago, this is OP's older sister. She emotionally manipulates me, OP and OP's older brother and I can guarantee she almost hates males. She's a huge guilt tripper

that's her problem, YOU can control your actions. Apologize and put the ball in her court. If she tries to bait you into a fight, just leave.

what you have to realize is you are not a child anymore. your free hand outs and support are not going to be there forever.
life sucks. it really, REALLY sucks. and in the end the only thing that you really have is friends and family so swallow your fucking pride and at least apologize to your mom.
one day you're gonna be old and your parents and friends will be long gone and you will have spent a good portion of your life as a faggot NEET shut-in playing video games all day and night instead of caring for and cherishing the people in your life that actually matter. you yelled at the woman responsible for your existence over some fucking flashing lights? what the fuck is wrong with you? Life is going to FUCK YOU UP if you don't get your shit together and start acting like the adult that you now are.

That was my plan with the job originally, to get my mind off of it and to have something else to do.

the plot fucking thiccins

>this is OP's older sister

You know the rules, Tits or GTFO bitch

I understand that, and im not looking for excuses but the way she handled it is not the way you shouldve, and I just escalated it from there.

m8, you're talking about my sis here, you know that?

Sounds like she's incredibly narcissistic. You should probably GTFO of there, for your own sanity. Yes, cancer sucks, but she still sounds like she's massively fucking with you.

so do it. games ain't going anywhere, they'll be there for you when you've got your life together. And they'll be more fun because you won't have that nagging guilt in the back of your mind about being a NEET. Trust me, I know this. I make good money now and playing games is pure enjoyment.

Yeah. I gotta call back on the 16th.

No, i think that makes perfect sense for her to act that way. you yelled at and humiliated her under her own roof and just guessing here but i assume it happens a lot. put yourself in her shoes. you spawn a little shit who eats all of your food and yells at you all the fucking time, even after you survived having a terminal illness? if i were her i would have thrown all your shit out on the front lawn and told you to figure it out. quit being ungrateful and just fucking apologize.

Rules are rules cunt boy

this threads too MPD for me its midnight and ive got classes in the AM

fuck your mom, or go fuck your sister. im an only child so those are the only options i can see for you here op

your sis is on Yea Forums anyways so shes a freak like the rest of us

Nope. Single parent homes are as follows:
>Asian - 15%
>White - 24%
>Latino - 41%
>Native - 54%
>Black - 65%

datacenter.kidscount.org/data/tables/107-children-in-single-parent-families-by#detailed/1/any/false/871,870,573,869,36,868,867,133,38,35/10,11,9,12,1,185,13/432,431

It's not even close.

she shouldve swallowed then

her titty cancer was gods wrath for her future shit attitude towards her prince

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well then unlucky me cuz im white

This problem didnt just stem from me, it also stemmed from her. She know how I think and still expects me to do something im incapable of.

I am able to calm myself down, and she knows this, YET SHE COMES IN, EARS RED.

she played you into the corner.
give up and apologize, if you don't move there's a higher chance of this never getting resolved.

it's her house you ungrateful bitch.

and why shouldn't she? She has a parasitic infestation in her house and every spergy outburst from you is a reminder of the crushing disappointment she must feel as a result

alright well gl with all this op pic related

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Well 24% isn't exactly a rarity. Honestly all those numbers should be improved, and what's more important is what kind of role model the single parent is. Is your parent a good role model?

And it's my computer, yet she tosses it around the room like it's a ball.

Did you pay for it?

Depends on how she feels that day.

Yes i did.

Its a shitty laptop from 2011, but I did.

considering she lets you squat there rent-free, I think she can lay claim to a lot of "your" property.

and guess what? she broke it. The bezzle is broken.

Let's say you're in my position. You have a computer, and you're mom chucks it across the room like a ball, then kicks it. How do you feel?

considering i'm living rent-free, I let it fucking slide.

it's the physical embodiment of your sloth, you're lucky she hasn't sledged it.

Good point.

Fair enough.

Well imma go to bed soon. I feel like shit right now.

Not just physically, emotionally too.

Nah man. My mom lets me live rent free, but she respects my damn property. If she has an issue with me, she tells me. That's how grown ups act.

Looking at the other comments, bipolar or not, your mom is a stupid, selfish cunt. Don't bother apologising. Fuck her. My mom is the same way. That's why I decided to live with my grandparents. I tried to forgive her in the past but it always lead to me getting my heart broken. Fuck your mom. She is a bitch and she doesn't deserve ant love whatsoever.

Just be a good boy, do your work, go to school. Save up and then leave her to die. Never speak to her again. That's my plan at least.

IMO, you should. you're acting like a surly teenager.

such an overblown sense of entitlement, no wonder you're a no-hoper.

Cyall maybe later.

another parasite

You know nothing about me.

not to be that guy, but le indirect characterization is a real meme you know?

So because my mother doesn't destroy the things I worked to earn, and I think that's a good quality in a person, I'm an entitled NEET? Okay then, good to know.

Just apologize as sincerely as possible with as few words as possible, then let it die. Especially if your mom is bipolar.

Also good advice from the user who said to just try to walk it off. My mom gets pretty crazy like that too sometimes and yells crazy things attacking my character. I, fortunately, can take it because Im some kind of emotional whipping post but my little brother gets angry and retaliates. But hes training himself to disengage and leave mid fight for a walk outside.