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What a very typical stoner response (not the 44 year old)

Don’t put your dick in crazy.
It will incredibly tempting.
It’s just not worth all the drama and chaos it will inject into your life.

You're absolutely correct, Psychedelics are good, smoking pot is retarded, eat weed is the best option

well learned by error and trial...

psychedelics are good, but he said all drugs bad mkay

Crush your friends, and enemies, before they crush you.

Find out what you like to do and do that until you don't. Repeat until dead.

34 here. The worst parts of my life so far were caused by my own inaction and laziness. My advice is to not be lazy. At the end of each day ask yourself what you did that day that improved your position in life.

This is 100% the best advice ever.

DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY

I stuck my dick in crazy, and it kicked off a miserable series of events that ended with me married to someone I can't stand for five years, and "divorced" is not a good label to have when dating. Thank Christ she didn't get pregnant.

All of this could've been avoided if I had just followed the simple rule of not fucking crazy chicks, no matter how tempting and how hard they come after you.

but you can pump and run right?
just hide your info

Find a Centre for Spiritual Living.

This advice is stupid. I suppose I'm "addicted" to things like "having a job" too. Idiot. Screens are a universal truth, now.

Massage parlours really are the way to go if you want to get laid. Just save up a bit before you go.

Vagina really smells like fish, and it also tastes really salty. Also, don't ever go down on a woman you just met, make sure she's clean... and shaved. You do don't want a pube in the back of your throat.

>disease risk
>her insane ass tracking you down risk
>something happens in the future that gets your DNA sampled and then get hit with a surprise bill for 15 years of back child support

"Don't stick your dick in crazy, ever, for any reason, no matter how much you're tempted to" was the most expensive lesson I ever learned.

The whole arc of my life got bent hard towards being shit, all from one hookup with a psycho.

Mental issues are usually just you being a slob.

Tits will stop being as interesting, gives you more time for other things.

Find a faithful white chick and make lots of white babies for the war.

what are you some kind of a princess

>If she cheated once, she will do it again

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fuck that's heavy, thanks

a buddy of mine has been on his knees for years now bc of a crazy he made child to

theres no point in trying to educate yugins, they think they already know everything, so fuck em let em learn through failure

Learning through failure is key

You sound like a fucked up sad old man.

What kind of advice is "buy hookers at the gross ass massage parlor"?

bamp

44 old fag here.

I can't stress this enough. Find a job you're good at. Spend 10 years doing it so you're amazing at it. Then go off on your own, self employed, consultant work, etc, specializing in whatever it is you just spent 10 years doing. Someone somewhere will pay you what you are worth if you are amazing at what you do. I've never complained about pay with that mindset as my end goal.

Be rich. Buy lots of stuff, cars, home, toys, etc. Make your own hours, work harder.

It's worth it.

And don't forget that working out and being well groomed and well dressed says a lot about you.

You can't be the hardest working guy and be a fat poorly dressed slob. Take some pride in your appearance. It goes a long way.

Sex is alright. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's "meh", and sometimes it doesn't feel worth the effort. Every so often, with the right person, under the right circumstances, it can be pretty amazing.

That being said, if you're a virgin, sex is *nothing* like what your dick is telling you it will be like. NOTHING.

Your dick has a vested interest in you spreading your genetic legacy, so it causes you to pedastalize sex - and women - to an absurd degree.

After you lose your virginity, and have enough experience under your belt, you will see this for the unfortunate truth that it is. Try not to get too disillusioned by it. At least you'll finally be able to see what absolute retards your peers were when they talked about sex as if they were experts.

>You cannot bring somebody to your level, they will likely bring you to their.
>bring you to their.
>their.

I bet that's a really high level, the one you bring people to! xD

42 year old fag here.

Find a vocation. Something you can focus on and try to master. If your lucky, you can make money at it - but if not, that’s ok - but you still need a challenge. Sports and business and great vocations.

You can fuck crazy girls, but don’t marry or have kids with them. This can be hard since some are lots of fun and/or really sweet people. But be pragmatic in choosing a mate. It’s ok to judge.

Invest time in your friends and family when you’re young. When you get older, things get in the way and it’s hard to connect with people. Maintain friendships - put in the work, even if you’re tired or busy. It’s very much worth it.

Don’t ever take a handout. It’s ok to accept help when you need it, but don’t ever take a fucking handout. You’ll regret it and if you don’t, then you’re probably a useless piece of shit. That’s a crummy thing to realize when you hit 40 and you’ve never earned anything in your life.

Exercise. Maintain your body. Don’t go to crazy with drugs, booze, or smoking. It gets exponentially harder as you get older.

Thanks for the advice I will use it wisely.

knocking on that big 4 - 0 door here coming up in June. I wish I hadn't fucked around through my 20s because I could be coming up on retirement here soon but I have another 10-15 years to go at the cooperate rat race. Money isn't all there is in life but god damn does it help relieve stress. Just had to get a new fridge, no big deal now. 10 years ago it would have caused me a ton of stress because I had a shitty job and no savings.

>save 30-40% of your income, you can retire in ~22 years
>focus on something and become an expert, this will help you increase your income
>find a job you don't hate, you don't have to love it but don't hate it.
>always keep 6 months living expenses in the bank
>buying shit wont make you happy
>drive old but reliable cars, they're one of the biggest expenses you'll have
>if you plan to live somewhere for 3-5+ years buy a house or condo, you'll save a ton a money compared to renting.
>have experiences over stuff. Take trips. visit countries
>only get married if you're sure. If there is any doubt in your mind you wouldn't take bullets for each other do not do it.
>dont have kids before 25. No reason to at all.

AMA i guess

one other thing develop good habits, work out, eat clean ect. it will catch up to you. Don't skip the steak or burger but don't eat it every day either. Nothing wrong with a couple cigars a year but don't smoke 3 packs a day.

This.

56 here. I'll add:
Avoid debt like the plague. Save enough of what you earn to pay for 3 months living expenses. Set it aside and then start investing.

Learn to cook, now.

Learn to code, soon.

Learn a trade, eventually.

Talk less, listen more.

Learn to lose without feeling bad & learn to win without making others feel bad.

Understand contracts. They are less about what should happen when things go right, and far more about what happens when things go wrong. Know what all the exit scenarios are.

our society is collapsing and you might as well kill yourself

i dont think you should trust the advice of 40 uear olds addicted to Yea Forums

pic related.

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I'd personally trust a 40 year Yea Forums users a lot more than an average 25 year old.

Don't force your good deeds upon others. Don't walk up to a hobo and offer him cash, let him come to you. Don't give advice unless explicitly asked. Don't offer to help unless explicitly asked. It would take me the better part of the day to list all the headaches these actions can give you.

Learn how to do basic electrical, plumbing and general house maintenance stuff. It'll save you a lot of money in the long run.

Hard liquor before beer if you want to have a good time. Hard liquor after beer if you just want to get fucked up.

In the entire history of mankind, no parent was ever actually ready to have kids. If you want kids then get kids, if not then don't -- don't bullshit yourself with maybe's and but's.

Change which side you're sleeping on and the position of your bed once in a while. It's a free and (relatively) safe way to keep yourself on your toes.

Never drink or do drugs alone.

Listen to music more often.

lol i read most of that. hurts me that when i try online dating I get almost no replies at all. Women truly are rude as fuck.

What?

I've had a ton better luck in other countries, the vast majority of american women today, no thanks. Enjoy the ultimate consequence of your feminazism, you won't even have a guy to fuck over anymore. may your jars remain forever unopened bitch.

who is she?

I am under the impression my state in particular or rather the entire north east coast sucks cause its expensive to live here and it tries hard to be well educated and liberal.

You're just an ignorant incel wanna-be-fuckboy who can't play their game. Get out of your basement.

I fuck hot women all the time. It's not that hard.

I've never lived in the south but maybe its regional

lol im just saying dating sites suck not that I cant get laid. Projecting much?

you never grow out of anything you really like. if you did grow out of it you where never into it in the first place you just followed the rest of the kids.

stick your dick in crazy as often as you can, just your dick not your soul and heart and make shure it does not produce little crazy children. its worth it if you can handle it like a man.

Is this the Incel code? Who even has time to read all this shit?

If you can read this, you are one of the lucky ones, not only are you born and have thereby won the sperm and egg lottery but also you managed to survive all these many alements that killed most others.

if there were ghosts 99%+ of them would be younger then one year...

it was luck....

you idiots would be dead if you had to actually do something on your own. futher more if things continue, your kids won't be lucky because you managed to end our society.....

who let grandma in here?

People who are literate and don't want to end up with 3 kids from 3 different mothers paying child support living in a trailer smoking meth. Clearly you are not the target demographic of the research.

76 year old fag here. never marry someone unless they love you more than you love them. it dosent matter houw much you trust her. get a d.n.a test. get a prenup. do a through background check. never tell her exactly how much you make if you decide to tell her at all. always hide your most valuable possessions. if you get divorced she will try to take them from you. keep a checking/savings account hidden from her. deposit a bit of money in it each payday.leave no paper trail to it. you deposit. burn the slip.dont shred it. dont throw it away. burn it.

he isnt wrong
>waste of money
>waste of time
>makes you unhireable
>makes you tired

man I did drugs for years and its a fucking waste of time and money. My life is honestly so much shittier in the long run because I thought drugs were cool.

Maybe once and a while, its cool to take some shrooms or smoke some pot or drink some alcohol, but in general as you get older you have to become more mature. Its better to have this value when you are younger.

-Short response is better than detailed response.
-Attitude is everything.

I'm 54. I have been happily married for 30 years and have only one piece of universal advice for all young men:

Before you propose to a girl, try to check her credit rating and savings, and pay very close attention to her spending habits. More divorces are caused by foolish squandering wives than any other factor, including cheating. Unfortunately, the vast majority of women are like this. Almost every one of them behaves like a selfish, spoiled 14-year-old mall-rat, and her #1 goal for marriage is to find a hard-working husband who will indulge her every whim just like her Daddy used to.

If you can find a gal who is an honest-to-god tightwad, that is worth 2 or 3 points on the 0-10 scale. Good looks fade, but a woman who prefers to cook delicious food at home than to eat in a fancy restaurant, and refuses to piss away money on (((designer))) clothes and accessories, and can carefully keep your books on a spreadsheet or Quicken account, will make you happy and rich.

If she's ever missed paying her rent or a car loan payment because she spent the money on a new purse or shoes instead, she is poison. She will make your life a living hell. Fuck her for a while and then kick her to the curb, if you like, but do NOT make a life partnership with her.

I read most of it and it's just a bunch of false information that isn't even true. Who the fuck writes this bullshit and who's stupid enough to believe it? It's the blind leading the blind.

If you want something or something more, you need to give it or give it more. The things that you want and need are the same things that others want and need. This mostly applies to all of the important things, friendship, love, hugs, duty, responsibility, money, success, respect, trust. You're getting no love? It's for one reason and one reason only - because you're not really putting any out there.

>live a life of utter distrust to hoard your pennies

*"lurk more", assholes.

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tits or gtfo

He is giving you advice. It isn't what you have to think about every minute you are awake.

I feel so sorry for you that you think all woman would do this to you. I've been with the same woman since my teenage years for 20 years now, and we both share finances and deposit our paycheques into the same account. She also helped me grow my career and I helped her and we wouldn't be where we are without each other. We both deserve 50% of our shared wealth if we ever get a divorce, because our wealth is only there as a result of supporting each other in the worst and best of times. A prenup is basically an insult to our relationship. Only losers need prenups.

>>live a life of utter distrust to hoard your pennies

He's correct, jackass. Even if you only save five percent of your income, your life will be WAY better than someone who lives paycheck to paycheck and spends more than they make. Even worse is the guy who lets his wife drag him into debt with (((credit cards))). Debt is slavery. Don't ever spend more than one night with a woman who keeps a balance on a credit card.

true

you basically married your highschool sweetheart and discovered your life and values together. Just saying.

these kind of posts are blackpilling me, honestly at this ripe age of 19 i am willing to abandon any hopes of finding a woman and just replacing my need of companionship with dogs.

But dad!

Turned 65 yesterday.
>Don't take anyone at their word. Especially not a woman.
>If at first you don't succeed, try try again. Then give up. There's no sens in being a damned fool about it.
>If two women are flirting with you at the same time, they're looking for a threesome.
>Salaried jobs are now full-on wage slavery. Avoid them if you can.
>Money is only money because other people think it is. Don't put all your faith in a single currency.
>Politicians are prostitutes.
>Don't believe people who have to speak too loudly.

As my last comment...
Don't let appearance keep you from taking a chance from dating some one who might not be a 10/10 or even a 3/10 for that matter.
I met a girl that many of you, would likely never date, but she still can change her life and her appearance.
The sad thing in life is our appearances change as we age shit happens man, take a chance on going out with some one you never know you might surprise yourself.
I used to care about appearance and trust it does kinda matter to a point but I believe for once now that I found the right girl for me she's smart, she's got money, she's got a car, she's planning to get her own place soon and she makes me happy, and helping me become a better person and less depressed the more time I get to spend with her.

What makes me laugh about a lot of the people who act like they got a hot girlfriend or wife is none of them have yet to post a picture of them together.
This whole being anonymous is horse shit, the reason you don't show your face is being you don't want people to hurt your internet feelings.
Plenty of people on /soc/ post their pictures, who gives a fuck if this isn't /soc/

By the way I think my dick is broken boy's from being fat, changing my diet, lack of working out and drug use in the past. And I am not a pussy to admit that on here.

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Pc principal here.

You mentally challenged young man?

Men age like fine wine, women like cheap beer. No thanks.

Exactly my point. The poster I replied to, his scenario doesn't apply to everyone. So there's no need to fearmonger that all women are like this. Only he picked the wrong women and he's still sulking about it a hundred years later when he's on his deathbed.

You sound gay.

So you married a girl when you both had NOTHING and you both worked together to build all you have!!! Had you NOT married her, and lets say you were 30, 40, and you had a home, 300k in cash/assets, and your soon to be wife had NOTHING, then I think you might think different about a prenup being that if you just married this bisnatch, after a short period if brokeup marriage, she would take half or more of what you spent many years to get. So only losers don't understand when prenups are appropriate or not.

You are a dumbass and everything is black and white to you. You can still date, just dont marry someone you dont trust. How she will use you financially is something you can easily overlook if you arent aware of the possibility.

so what it doesnt apply to everyone? he lived and has a story to tell as opposed to being young and not having made mistakes yet.

Saving money is different than hiding money. If he made good choices then he wouldn't have to hide and stash his money, but he obviously doesn't make good choices which is why his advice is just as shitty as it sounds.

Wb 19yr old me? I wouldnt do you dirty.

34 year old and married for nine years, this advice is SPOT on.

Looks fade. Bad habits do not, especially with money.

If you didn't marry/stay together with someone until you're 30 or 40, you're the loser and no wonder you can't find the right woman and have to sign a prenup.

you sound insecure about your sexuality. you're probably a closet fag getting a boner when someone you hear a man complement another man's looks.

If I had to boil down my 40+ years of experience into one bit of advice, it'd be this:

Every problem is more complicated than you think it is. EVERY. SINGLE. PROBLEM.

The solution on the other hand, is almost always simpler than you think.

imagine being such a daft cunt and marrying someone you dont trust. thanks for the bloody sage advice there.

you havnt lived. You have no idea who you can trust long term yet.

Again with this thread today?

Don't tell people what to do

It's a great story but it's just fearmongering. Pick the right woman and it's not a problem. This guy just picked the wrong women and now he wants to tell others that all women suck. He's a loser who didn't figure out how to pick the right women so just creates security nets around everything in his life to deal with the crazy women.

Its not fucking fearmongering. You dont have to take advice to heart bro. Just hear it and think about it when it happens to you. and I made this post only after reading
>It's a great story but it's just fearmongering. Pick the right woman
before stopping and knowing you are an idiot. stop fucking getting upset bro.

I don't think that's true. The other day I was cooking and I forgot to buy basil, so I went to the store quickly while my sauce was simmering and bought the basil. That was the end of the problem.

Ergo, not all problems are more complicated than you think.

If there's one thing I learned in my life, it's not to make absolute statements. They'll always nip you in the butt.

I'm not upset. I'm just discussing, I'm sorry you don't know the difference, user.

It is fearmongering. Can't figure out how to choose woman so you bitch that woman are going to steal your stuff like your dumbass whore did. Maybe pick the right woman? It's not that difficult.

Truth. 48 here, married for 22 years. Combined our incomes when we first got married and we just paid off our 3rd house/mortgage. Selling the first one this month for $390k, bought it for $180k. Rolling it all into our retirement. We're not going out and buying new cars or vacationing. We've got joint access to all our accounts and life is good. Life is good BECAUSE of trust. If you distrust the people that you decide to spend your life with than you have bigger personal problems than financial ones.

you make it sound like dating is marriage. Pick a woman, but dont marry her til you do your research.

41 here. Will give my grandmother's brother advise -wich he gave me when I was 18 or 19-
Whenever you have a gf do this little test to her:
Ask her to go to the mall to buy you some groceries and make an excuse saying you can't do it because reasons. Also tell her she can buy something fo herself.
See how she manages your money and what she buys for herself. This will be your future life in a nutshell.

i know that i shouldnt trust some broad i've barely met.

You can't live up to everyone's expectations and it is okay if you don't.

You can drink as much and smoke as much as you want, but you are trading away time to escape boredom. An afternoon getting blotto doesn't seem like a big deal, but do it enough and you'll be shaving off your best years.

then you just know there are checks to be made

Must explain why you're single and alone huh? Gonna wait thinking you're gonna score a 10/10 hottie so you can get that pussy and realize one day that their is more then getting your dick wet brah! By the one them Barbie doll girls are not girlfriend material
For once in my life I am not depressed about being alone and have someone I can be with and be happy.

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Generic right wing garbage.

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>Start a business, it’s ok if you fail
I'm broke now user and living out of my car. Is this OK to you?

i genuinely dont care about women right now. but yeah, i could score a 10/10 but what's the point? sex in itself is just empty, carnal pleasure without any deeper emotions.

Exactly this. Trust is the single most important factor in a relationship. Without trust, your relationship is bound to break apart. Why even be with someone if you don't trust them so much that you would hide your finances and sign prenups because you're afraid she'll betray you? That isn't love, it's just a non-platonic relationship.

The second most important thing in a relationship is sex. Sex keeps you happy, trust keeps you together.

That's it. However, marriage is an outdated concept. People can live together and not be married. So you have to differentiate between dating and being in a serious relationship (which could be marriage but not required).

Either way, don't say you want to spend the rest of your life with someone unless you've been together for a while, lived together for a while, and know each other inside out, habits and all. This is the only surefire way to end up with someone that wants to be with you forever as you want to be with them forever.

alright, I'll jump in. 60 here - the most basic and simple answer is that it is all you. Success or failure, great in interpersonal relationships or shit, it is all you. You can make it great or you can fuck it up, you decide.

Communication: most people aren't listening to you, they're waiting for you to stop so they can talk. If you know this as a truth, you can quiet your mind and listen more actively. You would be amazed at what you'll learn. It will teach you to ask follow up questions or to dig deeper. Also, learn how to say no. You do not need to give a reason, that's just giving someone else the opportunity to overcome your objections. Learn how to say yes to risk. Take some chances - don't be stupid but understand your feelings have zero value for you. If a social situations gives you anxiety, go anyway. Don't be afraid of what people think of you, they are far, far more concerned with what you think of them. In summary, true tranquility and confidence comes from knowing that no one is better than you. And that you are not better than anyone else. And that they're all freaking out just as much as you are. Calm the fuck down, time will fly by.

Did you think that maybe you're gay or asexual?

You're giving contradictory advice, user. First you say communication is very important, then you say not to give a reason when you say no. Are you stupid? That is the single worst advice I've ever heard.

Communicate with your spouse, that includes explaining why you are saying no. Or else you'll just frustrate each other because you're not communicating properly and the other person will get frustrated without an explanation.

no, I am attracted to women but i dont see the point in chasing skirts right now. sex isn't the most important thing to me, even though i am a virgin. im 19, in college and without steady income. this is just the most pragmatic option for me.

You're just making up excuses for why you're still a virgin. You don't need income to get a girlfriend. You don't need anything other than to fall in love with each other.

And women aren't some object you go out looking for. They're your friends and family that you befriend (e.g. normal social interactions for you incels) and eventually form a bond and relationship together. Some of these bonds will progress to a serious relationship of love and passion. Other bonds will stay friends only. Some will die out completely.

Make some friends, live your life normally, and eventually you and your spouse will find each other.

how you communicate is important. not contradictory at all. communication is rarely about you spilling every feeling you've ever had, it's actually more about listening. this was pointed out in the post clearly. I am going to contradict you on explaining why you say no each time you do so. That sort of a situation leads to negotiation and someone is going to feel cheated at the end. It is perfectly okay to say either yes or no without an explanation. Word vomit is rarely the answer.

Crazy doesn't mean stupid, they always find out somehow. Seriously, the crazy ones, no matter how hot, are never worth it.

Every member of my friend group has made this mistake, myself included, and it was a fucking disaster each time. Thank god we all wised up and found much more mature women.

>wanting advice from people from the 80's
I mean, enjoy your dated nonsense.

as a follow up, I just want to add that if the issue is important to your partner, and you should know if it is, it's okay to ask "Is this important to you?" and if it is, then feel free to give an explanation.

but if she asks if you want to go shopping with her and you don't, just say no.

No it is never okay to say no without an explanation. I would never let my wife get away with telling me no without an explanation, and she would never let me get away with it either. Explaining things is the only way to convince each other that no is the right answer. And if we disagree, then we have a discussion. And if we can't agree at the end of it, we'll either drop it or continue later. But there is no way either of us can just say no and that's the end of it.

I don't know what relationship you're in where you can just no and no one asks why. Sounds crazy.

i will feel stupid if i cant pay for anything honestly. im not an incel, im not making excuses, i genuinely could care less. there will be time in life for everything.

You're supposed to do it with friends.

Okay, I didn't even think of such mundane topics. Obvious no one's going to ask for an explanation for why you don't want to go shopping or why you don't feel like pizza tonight. I thought you were talking about more serious matters than what's for dinner.

If you meet an asshole in the morning, he's probably just an asshole. If you meet assholes all day, it's you who's the asshole.

ITT relationship advice and not much else.

Dude, we don't live in the 80s anymore. You don't have to pay for your girlfriend when you go out. You each pay for yourselves until you're actually serious then you pay together, or you can treat her if you want. But seriously, no girl is going to care if you pay for her. Actually, girls today would be offended if you paid for them. You think they're so helpless they can't even pay for themselves? That's how they'll think of you if you pay for them when you're just starting out the relationship.

Modern relationships are dual income. The man isn't responsible for the household, and dating has reflected that too. Everyone pays for themselves now. Don't insult the woman and pay for them just because you have a dick. Get out of this sexist mentality.

well that's just shit. im supposed to be the provider, not a "co-provider". what kind of commie bullshit is this? fuck this postmodernist bullshit, women cant fend for themselves and as a man it is my natural role to take care of my woman.

27 year old here. Screen captured this to look back on. Thanks, user

What the fuck are you even talking about? Did you read some book that told you that or what? No one is forced to be the provider. It depends on the relationship. Sometimes, both parties work, sometimes the man only works, and sometimes the female only works, and sometimes you are in a gay relationship and these typical gender norms don't even apply anymore because you're both make or female.

Get the fuck out of here with such sexist, decades old rhetoric. You are a human being. Your spouse is a human being. You're both providing, whether it's at home or at work.

However, the recent trend is for both spouses to work because no body can live on a single paycheque anymore in our economy, and on top of that females are empowered to work as well, and they enjoy working, so the gender norms have broken down completely. And thank fuck for that. I don't want to be the only one working, my wife better fucking word and provide for us as well, as she is completely capable and able, and thankfully she does.

Get with the present, user. We're not fucking cavemen anymore. We're civilized now.

Invest in real estate and guns. Pay off debts as soon as you can. Don’t get a new car unless you have to, and get maintenance done before shit breaks completely. Rub your partners feet and back. Learn to cook and clean and wash and sew, women aren’t gonna do that shit for you anymore. Go to the gym regularly, and start injecting test after 30. Ejaculate at least every other day, preferably with a woman.

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civilised? no. fucking kiked is what we are. with women the job market became saturated. those negros and sandbombers coming here dont help either. you're spouting this sick, unnatural marxist bullshit supported by the postmodernist "scientists" and "thinkers". men are naturally suited to the role of the provider and women are naturally suited to the role of the homemaker. like it or not. you're a lazy piece of shit forcing your woman to work. disgusting. you dare give other people advice? you are no man, you are pathetic. go back to your r/cucks or whether you migrated from.

Jesus Christ dude, you have some issues with gender and gender roles. If this is how you think, you're not going to find a single woman. No woman wants a man who is this sexist and uncivilized that he believes women shouldn't be working. At most you'll end up with is a Mormon if you think like that, and you'll just end up having missionary sex only for the purpose of making babies for the rest of your life.

This isn't the 80s, my friend. We are in 2019, and women work. Women are engineers, CEOs, and doctors. Some women earn more than you'll ever earn. Some women enjoy working more than you'll ever enjoy. You have no right to tell any women that she should just not work and sit at home and be reliant on your fucking income, as if she's your property.

Women want to be independent in this day and age, they want to be self-reliant. They want to feel like if anything happens and you get divorced, they are still able to survive because they have a career that is ongoing, just as you do. That is the woman of today. I honestly don't know what expectations you have of woman, but they seem very outdated and fringe. You'll only end up with a prude christian thinking this way.

Nothing you said makes any sense upon deeper investigation. Hurr durr, I'm user and everything is this way because everything is this way. Tautological argument much? What even do you mean? If you can't provide for your woman on one salary and have to make the woman work, you're an idiot with a low paying job or are just chasing money. Also, why are you preaching to the other user? Who elected you grand arbiter of all ways of living? Do you not see your rampant use of female shaming language? You are so full of this neo Marxist rhetoric you'll bnever dig youself out and attain the awareness of a real human. You're just an animal slave.

Can't find anything I give a fuck about

Women will always be women, just deal with it.
Whoever said "no vacations" is an unfun individual who wants to have a very vanilla life, more power to him, but go out and experience life. You'd be surprised.
Money isn't everything. I've seen people that had absolutely nothing and were some of the happiest folks ever. Build a nestegg, but don't let it rule your life.
Try to be aware of the world around you, alot of people aren't.
Don't ever use the kiosks at McDonald's. Trust me on this.
Alot of people don't wash their hands after using the bathroom. Don't be one of them.

Follow the categorical imperative as described by Kant and your life will improve dramatically.

You must be quite young.

No body is talking about forcing anyone to work, you moron. Women of today enjoy working as much as men do. They want to work. It's not your choice to stop them. Women want to work and they want to be able to spend their hard-earned money and feel the same level of accomplishment in their careers as any of us do.

You're welcome to marry a woman that doesn't want to work, there's nothing wrong with that. It's just going to be very difficult to find one that doesn't want to work in this day and age. It's going to be very difficult to find a woman who doesn't have a career path and ambitions that she is pursuing, or a woman who is willing to drop all her career goals for your sexist beliefs that you should be the only provider. Literally, you have to go to the Amish or Mormon communities for women who have this mentality.

I'm sorry that your mentality is completely outdated and isn't relevant anymore in our era. You need to evolve your attitudes the the present if you want any chance in finding a proper partner that will stay happy with you for the rest of your life.

I'm 40 and happily married for 18 years now.

>What?

Nevermind, son.

>idiot boomer thinks the only reason for a prenup is because you haven't found the right girl
god you old fucks are so stupid, please die and take your fat boomer wife with you

How can you preach to someone that's living a different life than you and sharing ideas from that life? You're literally telling me my life doesn't exist. Get your head out of your ass. Women have jobs, not careers. Women make money and spend it to compete with other women. No one is happy working for someone else and women largely don't work for themselves. Ambition and avarice are just distraction from joy. Talk to a childless 42 year old woman and ask her how feminism has treated her. Rage and tears, my friend, rage and tears.

You're trolling, though, aren't you?

Women have careers today, not jobs. Every single women around me has a career. Off the top of my head, one is a doctor, one is a psychiatrist, one is an engineer, one is a district manager, and another is a professor and researcher. What is your career, user? Don't insult others and say their careers are just jobs. So fucking condescending.

I'm happy for you if you think women shouldn't work and you found a girl who thinks like you, but the reality is most women today aren't like that. They have careers and they're not dropping them for anything. You have to accommodate that or you're not ending up with any woman today.

Don't spend too long thinking
1) you're a pimp daddy fuckin the bitches right and left and this will continue forever
or
2) you're hopeless nerd and nobody can ever love you

Both end in disaster. Don't fall for this meme of being single forever or only dating or thinking "I need my space". Find someone good that you think you can live with and marry her. Seriously.

Because one day you'll find yourself 40 and single and ain't nothing out there but divorced moms with 3 kids who are 35 years old and look older than you do.

If you're a #2, try to get out more. Find a local band to follow. Explore some bars. If you don't chat anyone up after a few visits, try something else. Ya gotta get out there.

Don't still be untethered late in life. All the good ones will be gone.

50 reporting in.
•Crazy girls are great fucks, but you pay for it.
•Don't be a pussy snob. I should have fucked more girls who wanted my dick, but "weren't up to my standards'.
You can do gay stuff without being gay. I haven't done it, but I can't rule it out in the future. I'm not gay.
•OP is always a faggot.

No. I'm serious.

As someone who knows many of the women you speak of I digress, most would rather just have a rich husband and sit home, I hear it from my wife's girlfriends all the time. Her one friend this past Saturday asked her husband if he could just pay her to stay home because she is tired of working at 38, she is a nurse.

How old are the women around you? Clearly these are different demographics. I haven't heard a single women in my life ever say she would prefer to sit at home and have her husband work. Every women I know has a career they're pursuing.

Sometimes I tell people I wish I could just stay home and just have my wife work and make money for us. That doesn't mean I actually want to quit and become self-reliant. I might hate working, but being self-reliant is much more important to me, so I would rather work but I still complain. And similarly, the females of today think the same way.

55 , your own mouth will get you in more trouble than anything else on earth. Think before you open it

Also, "digress" means to go on a tangent and leave the main subject temporarily. I think you meant to say "disagree" but maybe you're an idiot?

Take care of your body, it's the only one you'll get.
Girls love money and security, get both before you pursue them or you'll waste what you have.
At a minimum 10% of everything you earn is yours, don't spend it hold on to it, this is in addition to your retirement savings.
Read and understand philosophy.
Kill your ego.
Kill your idols ( figuratively, they do not deserve the pedestal)
Nothing is perfect, the sooner you can apply that to everything the better.
Be humble.
Discipline, you need that shit more than food.
Don't brag, just do it.
If your friends aren't building you up, they are tearing you down.
Build up your friends.
Dirty jobs pay the most for young people, more than college jobs over the long term.
Put money away early.
DO NOT get married, if she really wants to be with you, she will without the ring.
Fancy cars are for dull people, don't be dull.
Always be extra kind to old people, no matter what, yes, no matter what.
Yes sir and no sir are rare, use those words.
Ask for help.
Eat right, even if you are broke, ramen and peanut butter are poison.
Read The richest man in Babylon

50 year old.

Here’s some advice.

Listen to loud music with really, really big speakers but not too long that you damage your hearing.

Pick a night that you go out with friends and leave your cell phone at home. I know, it sounds risky.

Fuck crazy chicks while your young. And wrap that rascal. Don’t make kids until you can afford them.

Invest some money each month. Even a little will help. Increase over time. I just checked and I have $970k in my 401k.

Try to find a job you live. You will likely work 45 years. Might as well surround yourself with good people.

Take care of your body. Don’t eat too much shit food. Stay fit. Exercise.

Don’t be a dick. If you are not a sociopath, there will come a time when you will regret how you treated people.

Wife’s home. Gotta go.

Sissy hypno porn rots your brain

Be kind, show up, work hard. Care for others and be grateful towards them, and tell them that you appreciate and care for them. Don't bother lying. Talk to your parents more often.

And no one, in the history of planet Earth, has ever wanted to hear the music being played on your car stereo. Not one single other human being has ever thought anything about it except "that's annoying," and no one ever will. Turn it the fuck down.

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50 yr old fag here.

Get a few credit cards, and a car loan. Charge to the cards and pay off about 75% each month so you carry a balance. ALWAYS make payments on time, even if it's just the minimum. Even if shit happens and you end up with huge card debt, do whatever it takes to pay the minimum and on time (including paying one card with cash advance checks from the other -- do anything to make minimum payments).

This will give you a super high credit rating even if you don't make much. You'll run into shit where you need a lot of money fast and having that high rating will make it much easier to increase your credit card limit or get a personal loan. Or mortgage for a house. Or loan to start a business.

Stay away from negative people. You can't reason with them, you can't teach them, you can't change their mind, you can't help their shitty outlook. Don't bother with them.

You increase your salary the most by changing jobs, not getting yearly raises.

Consider starting a business doing what your employer or previous employer did. They made money it at, you know how the business works, you know the industry lingo, you know the suppliers, the customers, where to advertise. You can do the same, just at a smaller scale and build your way up (I did that at age 35 and retired with $4 million at 41).

Then the rest of the advise by oldfags above, I also agree with. Good stuff.

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