So I'm not a Chad or anything but I'm ok in the looks department.
I've had many casual flings before.
But this time the lady is 26 and wants to have my child.
She said she doesn't want to marry and she said she'll take care of the child alone and I need not worry about it.
She said she wants to have a child if I was ok with the idea otherwise she said she respects my decision.
My dick got so hard when she texted me this.
Guys basically from an evolutionary perspective.
Male sex pattern is to fuck as many woman as possible till death.
And woman sex pattern is to fuck a few select good mates.
But I'm also concerned about the statistics related towards fatherless children and how shit single mothers are at raising children on their own again this is just statistics I respect single mothers who actually raise good children and also i respect all people.
But I'm so confused.
I want to do it.
But you know this is statistically speaking a bad idea and she is better of without being a single mother to my child.
Also I don't even know if this is ethically moral.
Like we are not ooga booga anymore .
I really don't know.
This lady is amazing very sweet kind independent but out of nowhere she hits me with this offer.
She was also very respectful and serious about this.
I really don't know.
Any serious advice?
I also posted this on advice board and didn't get much help
So I'm not a Chad or anything but I'm ok in the looks department
You wouldn't kill someone because it got you laid, right? Don't be tricked into taking a life, don't be tricked into making a life.
>She said she doesn't want to marry and she said she'll take care of the child alone and I need not worry about it.
And you're believing it? Fucking lol.
You deserve the financial assrape you're lining yourself up for
She told me she will work while her mom will take care of the kid.
And she is very serious about this
just do it, breed the slut and be done with it
Also this is not a financial ass rape she said she will work for the child I told her I won't be there. She said no problem and she and her mother will take care of the child. She also told me there are many kids nowadays without Fathers
I know that's what I'm thinking I wouldn't call her a slut though because she lost her virginity to me and she is actually a very strong kind and independent woman. She just really likes me and she doesn't really go near men in general. That's why she wants the kid. She wanted to have a kid but without marriage. If it's not mine she will probably go to a sperm bank or something
Honestly might want to ask a lawyer, if you can get it in writing that you’re not responsible for the child I’d say do it! Otherwise she could come hitting you up in 10 years and sue you for ten years of child support.
You really think so she can do that?
I searched google and it said as long as I'm unwed I don't need to pay any child support
With a good enough lawyer absolutely, especially when it comes to money.
Haha tell that to all the single black fathers paying child support lmao!
Ok guys no jokes now
Will I have to pay child support?
Also I'm a teenager
She is almost going to be thirty
Like she told me her age is 26
But I remember one of her profile pages had her age as 29
don't fool yourself. You're gonna pay. Even if she is honest now as soon as she struggles with her child you're fucked.
If she changes her mind then yes you will have to pay child support, there’s not much protection for guys on that end. That’s the price you pay for knocking a bitch up.
You are a teenager and thnking of impregnating someone you aren't with?
Sure go ahead. Post pics of the creampie tho.
If you guys are really serious then fuck this shit I'm out.
The offer did sound too good to be true
Do it, but get an agreement with her in writing motorized. I’ve done this before, turned out okay.
Notorized*
Sure why not ofcourse I'll post pics of creampie but I'm scared now.
Because literally every one is telling me this is a bad idea
...look, first of all... you should assume you'll have to pay child support, because regardless of if your lady friend plans to request it, there's a real risk her economy will tank for one reason or another within the next 18 years, in which case she may be forced to file for child support.
Second of all... even if you don't plan to have a very "hands-on" role, you'd still be the kid's father. The kid would idealize you and want to meet you.
Imagine yourself in that kid's position.
If you wanna raise a kid, then go for it. You may not have to do 50% of the work, but if you knock her up, you should take an active role in that kid's life.
Take sterilizing meds and fuck the shit out of her for several months.
Its not unheard of to get "donor" agreements. Basically they absolve you of any responsibility, and prevent you from interfering in the kids life.
Id say there isn't a good reason for her to not adopt a kid, so you shouldnt bump the population up, just cause it's hot.
For the record you can't get paid anything more than a nominal amount for this if your wondering that.
Thank you for the well thought out response.
I'm here just for college.
And next year she told me she'll move to another country.
We have sex regularly and she treats me really nice.
She gave me this offer literally a few hours back.
Basically after a year she'll be gone
And if she isn't gone I will be .
I came here just for college.
I'm not fr this country
That’s false. If you are unwed it means you won’t automatically have to pay child support. But she can still take you to court and have a judge force you to pay some point down the road. If you are seriously considering this you do need to get a lawyer. You will need to set it up like you are a sperm donned, otherwise the law will view you as the father.
But I'm not From this country
Just came here for college
Also she will leave also to some where else next year
:) You're welcome, man.
I'm glad you met a woman you like.
That said... if I were you I'd make sure to be the one bringing the condoms when it's time for sexy time in the future...
My sister-in-law punctured the condoms my brother used whenever she wanted another kid... he ended up with five of them before he got his tubes tied.
Anyways, good thing you asked, making a kid is not a decision to take lightly :P
Demand a signed written contract if you do go through with this. That's all the advice I'm willing to give in this situation.
Ok bro
This makes things really, really tricky legally.
Chances are the country you're in, the country she's from, and the country you'll return to, all have different legal rules around children's rights, parental rights and child support.
Yup
also... Is it even leagal for you two to do the shanking? Might complicate things even further. I guess I wouldn't do it. You don't toy around with another persons (the childs) life like this. We have enough sad cunts in the world. Don't need another.
Just jacked one off for some of that post but clarity
Don't do it. Even a contract won't save you. The courts will ALWAYS side with the woman. Not to mention, a fatherless household is statistically speaking one of the worst things you can do to a child. It leads to delinquency in the very best case scenario, but usually much worse.
I don't know anything about the law.
But she told me she really wants a child and that she and her mother will raise the child
Hmmm...ok I've learnt enough and here's my conclusion.
Before when I was talking to her about this like an hour back
I was ready
But now talking to you guys
I am 40 for and 60 against
She can easily go to an in vitro clinic, and get it from an anonymous donor. They'll even let her pick one with superior genetics. But I promise you, if she falls on hard times, she will squeeze you for every penny she can, and the courts will give her whatever she asks for.
save your bay juice for someone worthy. Someone you'll stay in touch with.
baby*
She can and will to sue for child support, you know that right?
Women are liars
it's a tarp don't fall for it
Ok I'm done
I'm motherfucking done
Fuck impregnating a woman I don't know
Fuck it
Fuck this whole thing
I'm fucking done
I'm just going to call her and very politely reject her offer.
Then just say good bye
Block her
And ghost the living shit out of her.
I had no idea she could come at me and take every single one of my pennies.
Holy motherfucking shit balls thanks b.
I don't know if you guys are trolling me or not but I'm not taking any chances with this shit.
Shit sounded shady as fuck to begin with.
But knowing about the child custody shit just fucking did it for me.
Thanks b
Fuck this shit I'm out
I have only one life on this shit fuck rock
Not taking any chances fucking it up before my life even started I'm still in college first year for fucks sales
Anyhow either I dodged a bullet or you guys trolled me but anyhow I'm not taking any chances I'm outy
Good man. Not trolling at all, child support is a bitch, and it lasts for 18 years.
Get it in writing then fill her cunt
Hmm... hope so this is not a troll.
I didn't want this to begin with
But she was very respectful and serious.
So I considered it.
She also explained everything like she had the whole thing planned so I was like meh what's the worst that could happen.
But now coming to b I'm like fuck my life is on the line.
good job we might be able to save this one. fucking hos AINT shit
Guys just everyone pour out their advice I could use everything I get .
And maybe then make the best decision.
I wrote what's up
I'm a teen who doesn't know jack about life
Help a faggot out on this one fuckers
I have some work now I'll be back in 30 minutes read what you guys posted then I'm off to bed
She might genuinely mean all of that now. But like I said, things might change for her. If she suddenly comes into a large amount of debt, or loses her job, she has a free bankroll in you. Imagine never getting a full paycheck until you're almost 40. Imagine working your ass off, and having half your paycheck disappear before taxes.
are you retarded? this is common sense, really if you really considered doing this, you're not going very far at life anyway
Hi
Here's what I have to say
I AM MOTHERFUCKING OUT
I AM OUT
FUCK THIS SHIT.
I'M JUST A FUCKING COLLEGE STUDENT
WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT I'M GETTING MYSELF INTO
FUCK THIS
FUCK THE GIRL
FUCK FUCKING HER RAW AND IMPREGNATING HER
FUCK HER RAISING CHILD ALONE
FUCK EVERYTHING
I'M BLOCKING THE LADY
AND GHOSTING THE FUCK OUT OF HER
JUST SIMPLY FUCK THIS SHIT
Bye now b gotta go sleep it's getting late.
My descision before b :- not too bad she seems reasonable
My descision after b :-FUCK MOTHERFUCKING NIGGER FAGGOT BEN SHAPIRO FACTS LOGIC CUNT NIGGER ASSHOLE FART SCAT FUCK 420 69 Xxx_BlazeitPu$$YLSAYERD_Xxx Nibba bitch nigger cunt. Asshole cum fart fuck
So thanks guys
I'm just going to reject her offer
And say goodbye.
Btw I already rejected her offer just now so yea once she replies I'm saying goodbye and just moving on.
I don't really understand at this point if I dodged a bullet or got trolled but hopefully later down the road this makes sense and I'm thankful to you niggers.
Bye now good night
Sleep tight
Sweet dreams
XOXO
Another soul, set on the right path by Yea Forums. Glad we could help.
this. OP probably has to ask for tips and advice before taking a shit
should I bunch up the toilet paper or fold it? hurry user, I got a turtle head pokin out
user, are you only concerned about the moral aspect? Or also the possibility that you could end up responsible for the kid.