Recently started fucking my ex again. I've always had this problem where I could only cum through jerking off...

Recently started fucking my ex again. I've always had this problem where I could only cum through jerking off, so I tend to last ages in bed. At first the long sessions are great, but I think she's getting offended that she can't make me cum. I know it's definitely not her, I've had the same issue with other girls. The sex does feel great, along with blowjob etc, but it's never been as good as my hand. Does anyone else have this issue, or any tips?

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Check’d quads and quit jerking off

1. She's your ex why care
2. If you do care then stop wanking a few days before ffs

Don't so much care about the ex, more just girls in general. Don't want this to keep being a problem in the future. I've also tried the no fap technique, doesn't really work

I mostly come too quickly. And I noticed I can hold off coming fast if I'm "less in the moment".
If I let my animal instinct take over I come very fast. If I put myself as rationalising and observing the situation I come later.
Maybe you could turn this around? It's a mindset thing. Get yourself more worked up and hornier?

Eat her out first and be slow jerking it helps me when I’m exhausted
Plz share moar of that ass!

I have this exact same problem, the amount of people that have been offended has honestly scared me away from sleeping around. If you find an answer let me know. Also, when I exercised alot I found I was alot more sensitive because of increased blood flow, give that a try

It's not just not fapping but you have to get your dick used to slower and not as tight feelings as the death grip. You gotta jerk yourself off slowly while you're lubed up to get your dick used to slower motions

Any particular kind of exercise? This does make sense, thanks

Tell her you want the Gluck Gluck 9000 cause she needs to try harder

You're not alone bro. I can't even keep my dick hard for a girl (blowjob or pussy). But I stay rock hard when I jack off. So yeah.. it sucks.

are you circumcised bro? that might be why you can't feel anything when you're actually using your penis the way nature intended

>Recently started fucking my ex again
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Nope, I've got my foreskin thankfully

It was swimming mixed with weight lifting! What one guy has said here may also make sense, do you use lube? I don't, maybe that causes us to be too used to extreme feelings, as when I use lube I go soft almost instantly unless im already close

I have this problem, and I even had it when I lost my vcard. I didn't even get off like the first 5 times. It's annoying af because women do want you to cum

So heres a backstory of an user and it may help you understand what's happening.

I recently just came out of psychosis, and the amount of stress and tension that causes your body to undergo meant I couldn't get it up WHATSOEVER including to jerk off. Absolute fucking hell imo. Now, I have terrible anxiety when I go to sleep with a girl. Twice now I haven't been able to get it up, unless I use viagra AS A PLACEBO. It gives me the confidence that no matter what I'll get it up, though I am a healthy young male with no cardiovascular problems. I think, potentially, you may be alot more stressed than you think and this situation will be adding to it. I think maybe stop banging your ex, and find someone you love and who loves you enough to understand that you need kind, gentle coaxing rather than stress and pressure to finish. Many many girls suffer this same thing, and its why alot of them fake it. Hope this has shed some light.

Same issue here - exactly

I've had this problem. There is only one cure. You need to stop or almost stop masturbating, then cum in a pussy frequently. Like 3 times a week. If you don't cum, you wait until next time. Now I'm cured of my cumming autism and I occasionally masturbate, and it feels better than ever.

you have carte blanche to ask/receive anything, consider options wisely

sounds like you're gay to me lmao

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There is no easy solution. You spent too long using manual stimulation and you are too accustomed to it. Unfortunately, even if you abstain from masturbation indefinitely, there is no garuntee you will ever regain a normal healthy sexual function. Assuming you ever had one. I'm sorry man. This is the price of modern culture/society delaying adulthood and being sexually restrictive. Its a hard price to pay.

If u jerk off laying down then try laying down on ur back and fucking her. That's how I jerk off and it's the only position I can cum in

I have the same problem. I jerked off A LOT growing up. I didnt lose my v until 28. I didnt cum that night. Lol. Now I'm 31 and can only think of a few times where I actually came. I had to really concentrate. The pussy had to be really tight too. I found ot was best to do Doggy, short quick thrusts. Not full shaft.

antidepressants can cause erectile dysfunction and delayed/stalled orgasm. I was taking cymbalta for about a year and it took half an hour just to jack off for most of it. was boring and made my dick hurt but I just had to get it out.

Got the same issue. My girl is getting really upset meanwhile cause she wants me to cum on her ass and tits and face occasionally and I just can't manage to hose her down the way she loves it. :(

It’s a mental thing

You have to stop watching porn.

The stimulation itself isn’t the big issue. Your brain is desensitized to fucking one girl when you jerk off to multiple in a single jerk session.

Leave Yea Forums, stop watching porn, start exercising and realize that your future long term partner will thank you

I've had this problem most of my life OP, my current girlfriend also gets offended or is upset if I don't cum.

Very recently I've discovered that if I fuck very slowly, I can cum pretty much every time. Also, I've noticed it's very hard to cum in alot of positions, and being flat on my back or in the standing position seem to be the best. Beyond that I notice that when I get used to cumming purely from sex for a while, and not from masturbating, my dick cooperates much better.

Do you think your peen has lost sensitivity due to your rampant dick-beating?

i have the same problem. i can't cum while having sex with girls...

After she is done, tell her you cum on her tits and jerk off on those.
Nice and Simple

For the record, I watch porn and jerk off all the time and don't feel that it affects my sex drive, or the amount I enjoy or am aroused by sex, even with the same partner over a long period of time. Though some medicine I up until recently took made having multiple orgasms, or having sex not long after jerking it difficult due to it being a strong vasoconstrictor, and making it hard to keep an erection for more than 20 minutes or so unless incredibly aroused, so I can see the arguement of porn affecting OP's ability to shoot ropes during sex being effected by it.

>modern culture/society
Because people only started jerking off in the last 20 years

look into tantric sex.

slow down the physical stimulation.
rely more on the emotional connection.

get it as deep as you can and sync your breathing,
eventually your heartbeats will sync

it's truly an amazing experience.

What this guy says about just putting the dick in shallow helps. There's no impact on your pelvis when jerking off, and theres alot more sensation near the entrance than father in. I feel alot more sensation when not giving it a full thrust.

I also see this alot in porn

I have this problem. It's not a big deal, rather I'd even say it's beneficial to you in a relationship. As long as you are able to mantain an erection, you fuck your girl until she's had enough, then you jack off on her ass, tits or mouth depending on how you're feeling.

I've never had girls complain, although admittedly my gf is a bit insecure about it because she will blow me for hours and fail to make me cum.

>tantric sex
>Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice
stopped reading there

Jerk off while eating her out then when you are closer put it in

I dated a grill for a year or so that gave me 20mg adderall and vyvanse on the reg. Would bang all night, she was initially impressed but grew physically tired after a few months. Kept doing it because I knew I was going to leave her. Torture through extended penetration. Fuck that cunt.

While heartbeats can be very temporarily synchronize, its through audio/visual stimulation, and has only been observed during a few plays and movies.

Manually synchronizing your breathing with somebody else achieves nothing but throwing off both of your oxygen saturation levels.

You can however synchronize your breathing with someone you're sleeping on/next to, if your heart rates and oxygen needs are similar enough.

i'm not going to pretend to be anything like an expert on the science behind any of this,

however the breathing exercise which i do are aimed more at the carbon dioxide saturation levels (yes i know it's toxic) which has lead to some interesting experiences.

i couldn't explain how the sex thing worked.

however the feeling was very exciting, very comforting, and highly desirable. i would recommend it.

i do realise that my expereince was highly specific and in the midst of a long term, high trust relationship, so i'm not sure how other's might acheive this with any reliability

more so the idea behind tantric sex, which is to disregard the desire to cum and choose to prolong and enjoy the sex.

why would you wolf down your meal when you can savour every bite?

take them to pound town sure, but you can also just slow it up and enjoy the dick in vagina feeling, relax and breathe....

it's not a race to the finish.

this.
there's tons of research on the effects of porn.

I have this same issue. just try different positions and fuck different times at night or day. For me its a mood thing, i think. I'm also into forceful entry so i asked her if i can fuck her while she sleeps. She loves it surprisingly and i cum buckets.

Stop being a faggot that desires men. Problem solved.

Stop masturbating, also, watch your fav porn before sex, but dont jack off

Fuck off jared.
Also you may have diabetes. A lot of guys I know had issues getting off cause of it.
Last ex would take hours cause of it.

Just get away bro