Feels thread anyone? Relationship for a few months, she’s in college so lived in another city about hour and half away. Texted all day, talked every night saw each other when possible. Next semester was about to start, she had already planned years prior a trip to Europe. Relationship seemed solid so no worries. She went to Europe and said she couldn’t wait to be back because next semester she was going to new college only 20-30 minutes away so now we would spend more time together. First 2 months everything great, even with different time zones we still managed to talk daily. When she got to Italy things seemed different, she said she could only use her phone on WiFi and the area she was staying at didn’t have reliable WiFi. Didn’t mind appreciated the times we did get to talk more. Constantly sharing memes. She accidentally sent a screen shot of someone being outside ready to pick her up at 2am their time, she told me it was old and sent by accident. I get upset and she gets upset at me for not trusting her. Noticed I was blocked on all social media get more upset and she just says I’m acting crazy and that she actually deleted everything to not be tempted to use data. Turns out she met up with said guy, she stopped talking to me and got back to the states and now we don’t talk. We planned a lot together, we talked about life, I helped her in college however I could. Feels bad man.
Feels thread anyone? Relationship for a few months...
Have you self-pitying teenage tardpockets ever considered that the reason you're so fucking alone all the time is because you're the type of wallowing, self-centered, over-emotional fuckstick pussy faggots that mope in cringeworthy threads like these? SERIOUSLY, YOU USELESS FUCKING CUNTS.
At times yeah. But it’s cheaper than a therapist. I’d rather do this than one thing destructive that would fuck up my life in the long run. It’s okay to feel sad.
Post her nudes for revenge! It’s the only way to heal
Don’t really have many nudes, mostly ass pics but in underwear. Also that wouldn’t help to heal.
rough shit dude long distance relationships are a bitch its like really hard to keep it and takes little to go downhill been there done that.....
Just try to get over it have fun with your mates take time for your hoobies flirt with some girls you got this dude
Issue with that is I don’t really have friends, most are raging alcoholics that I cut out because of her. I used to drink all day every day and she showed me that I didn’t need that in my life. So I cut them out to stop temptation. My job is simple and only 40 hours a week so I’m hardly there. I don’t have the motivation for hobbies, I just lay around doing nothing. I know it’s self pity and all but just not having motivation sucks. I just really looked forward to her getting back and it seemed like she did as well.
I have a relationship long distance. Going on a good number of years. Shit has hit the fan recently. Want out. Did everything but trust is a big one. Unlucky dude. Things get easier. You realise there's plenty of other girls and some of whom better than the last. Don't sweat it.
theres a difference between "feels" and being sad that youre slut gf broke up with you
Gonna go with my story
Came together with my crush last Christmas things worked out very well at first was kissing for the first time in my life etc nevertheless she's still in school with me but we broke up n she said it won't be that bad but we somehow more or less ignore each other
Also I know another girl I always thought was into me but she as I brought the topic up lately she said that we'd be just friends so that's that
My life is pretty depressing as is just want to get school done asap but things are weird
I hadn’t been in a relationship for 3 years, not because I couldn’t find someone but because I didn’t want the heart break again. I was enjoying the bachelor life, drinking all the time, going to clubs and bars, hooking up with random chicks. When she came along I argued with myself every step of the way, that I shouldn’t let her in emotionally but I did. Now it feels bad, she still tries to communicate and will tell me she misses me but that things wouldn’t work out. I told her I respected that and I would give her whatever time and space she needed. Trying not to just drown this feeling with alcohol is the hard part.
Also my parents hate me for drinking too much and my friends hate me for not taking hard drugs and I'm playing vidya all day as I have neither hobbies nor real like real friends (never learned how to socialize etc guess that's why I'm here)
I do coke on the daily, I used to sell drugs so I know a lot of people. I play games almost all day. My parents worry because they have had to bail me out of jail at least 4 times the last 5 years.
I dont know you user but for me sport helped. My depression is actually a lot better since i started again. Was hard to get motivated at all but if you can stick with it a bit its easy and quite rewarding.
Plus you can meet some new people in a pretty relaxed setting.
Otherwise maybe try to reconnect with some childhood or school friends?
Shitty tatt
Yeah that’s true, I was just trying to get some feels going. I kinda in a weird way enjoy the sad feeling. It’s better than not feeling anything at all. Yeah she cheated but unfortunately I’m weak and I would forgive her.
Thing is I really don't want do drugs my father is a really honorable person who achieved much in his life and I'm just failing coming close to him but i feel like I would loose even more control on my life if I was doing drugs
It's normal in our school (our generation I guess) to do drugs daily but I don't think that's how things should be tbh
I do go out often, I still have friends but 9/10 are chicks that like to go to bars and clubs. Most are really good looking but are just friends. I try not to go out as much cause it starts to get expensive drinking out. I used to play soccer but haven’t played any sports in at least 4/5 years. I want to get into the gym but I’m content with just playing games and laying around.
Got very very drunk, went home. Been going through feels of my father passing away. Very angry for what he did so I've been doing everything to piss him off. I have a gf, I love her to the end of the moon and back and hope to marry her someday. Reminder I am very drunk and easily convinced. Had not ever wanted to go on chatrollete, I just stayed away. Wasn't sure what would happen and didn't want to take the risk. Went on because I knew my dad would hate it. I go on and first one is a girl, she says she's high out of her mind. She's asking all these questions about my size and I'm trying to avoid it and change the conversation. She for 15 minutes tries to convince me. I finally do it feeling like I have no choice. She flashes and I end the chat (I had just remembered that I could do that). /bros I feel awful about what I did and more that I got convinced to do that. Not telling my girl, but I feel like a bad person and never plan to do it again. Never cheated before. And this isn't cheating but it's a hazy line
Also, didn't show my face the entire time. But I accidentally showed it once. She said she didn't see but idk. I love my gf
I don’t hate her, if anything I appreciate who she was in my life. Before I would just go crazy in a way whenever something inconvenient would occur in my life, I would lose my job because I would be to drunk to get there or I would take drugs and black out for days. She taught me to not react to everything so quickly. To just take some time and act appropriately. I will occasionally go out and drink with my brother or sister but it’s responsible drinking. I just want to stop thinking about her. It’s been 3 weeks at this point and she just can’t leave my mind.
Yeah fuck being content its for your retirement when you have a gilf wife and 12 grandkids.
My life isn’t bad, I’m a manager at my location, I have a nice ass car that I enjoy to drive, I have my own place. It’s just the happiness that she brought that’s missing now.
Three weeks is not a long time at all user. Just be patient, it will take some time but you will get over her. At least that's what you should keep telling yourself.
You know what came to me today? Maybe I really am a mysogynistic asshole. Maybe i really just hate hate women and I am just not willing to admit it to myself. I wish I could just stop getting emotionally attached to people.
When my first love left me in my mid twenties, it hurt like a motherfucker, but the way I handled it makes me a little ashamed now. I was pathetically devastated, like in mourning, for around 3 months. I moved to a big city with a friend of mine and kinda hid from myself by doing a bunch bad shit - drugs, womanizing, ghosting my family. I spent a lot of time making bad art too. Honestly sinking into my hobbies and setting goals wasn't working. Kinda felt like I had nothing left to lose. Looking back lmao because of course I did. Somehow I think maybe I started feeling pride in myself for having been through something traumatic? I have always been an attention-seeker. Maybe it was because I felt like an underdog. That feeling of nothing left to lose slowly became liberating. I think my narcissism ultimately helped set me back on track, really. And getting a new job at a company whose work I actually consider meaningful. Helped me build some genuine connection with the new world around me and gain insights about my life that were uniquely mine - nobody else but me could grant them to me. Point is, she's probably not a unique perfect-for-you goddess, she's just another fucking person. She's really not special at all and that's because none of us are. You'll find another. You gotta stop fuckin around though, like you gotta not drink at work, and keep a job. I did some bad shit and regret some of it but keeping the rest of your house in order in non-negotioable. Ask yourself - you wanna be ashes? Or you wanna be a phoenix?
Aww dude come on then just give it some time, pity yourself a bit, fuck a chick or two
For the last 3 weeks when I found out about the other guy I went out with some chick friends, we went to the strip club, bars, clubs. Was drinking more than usual. Smoking weed and doing coke. I started trying to fuck different chicks, went to concerts. But at the end of it, when the drugs are gone, the friends go home and I’m left alone in bed that’s when it hits the most because that’s the time when she would call me, when we would communicate the most. I got a promotion at work and she was the first one I wanted to tell. I don’t want a pity party just wanted to vent.