What does having a family feel like?

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Yep!
>married to wrong person for 6 years
>in relationship far longer than that before marrying
>seemed sensible choice
>did cool shit together
>chemistry wasnt quite there
>no kids
>THANK FUCK!
>finally meet perfect partner
>also married
>realize perfect for each other
>leave marriages
>but we are not going to have kids tho
>nosireebob.jpg
>realize we want a kid
>chemistry is perfect
>14 weeks preggo today
>never been this in love
>over 40 btw so its not hormones, limerance, or infatuation
>inb4 retarded baby

That seems all true. Even though I don't really have a choice. I say I never really want kids because I have a hard time taking care of myself and a woman. Like that Is the max responsibly I want. But I just want to see if having one changes my perspective. Will I find a way to take care of us. Would I feel any different. Does this really change a man. I just want to know that feeling. Adopting just isn't the same but again my best friends or cousins or anybody like that if for some reason they couldn't anymore I would. I think I would have a closer idea and feeling to them instead of a random.

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wish I knew Yea Forumsrother

congrats
i'm not a great barometer. i've ALWAYS wanted kids, even when i'd given up on finding a woman who would meet my expectations AND tolerate my ideosyncracies. fortunately she turned up and now i have my kids.

anxiety and dirty diapers

said the guy from his mom's basement

lol

keep tellimg yourself that incel faggot cuck

what flavor hot pockets did you have for dinner tonight?

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I'm sterile I cant even if I found the one and she's gonna have to accept that or fuck off.

I'm a 50 year old virgin, but from what I can see with my siblings who all have children, it's a shift of priorities and compromise between what you want in life and what is best for your often stupid-acting offspring.

oof, sorry user. i hope you find someone who will work through that with you.

dad of 2 from upthread here. your assessment isn't far from the truth. but it's still rewarding and fulfilling, in a way that's difficult to explain.

It's ok. I learned to accept it. Sure I just would of liked to know the feeling but they will just have to accept it too or kick rocks

Are you going to murder your friend?

How'd you figure out your sterile? Skateboarding accident?

Stressful. Avoid it at all costs.

No never. I don't want them. I just want to know if I did would it alter who I am. My perspective and other shit. That is all.
And well 3 different urologist told me this.

Feels great OP

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I thought I was sterile until I was 29. Had been with my girl for 3 years and suddenly she comes up pregnant. My first words were "How could this have happened?"

We have 3 together now and working on a 4th. Gotta propagate the white race. No one else is going to.

What made you sterile? Tell me. Was there a warning sign that made you get checked out?

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What'd you do if your baby turns out retarded?

> I thought I was sterile

You ever have it checked professionally?

Feels good user.
Kids only 3.5 so dont have too much experience but its been great.

Come home from work and this tiny human comes running up to you and wants nothing more than your attention and time.

Me and my old lady have 'old fashion' gender roles too so that helps alot.

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I married my high school sweetheart. We've now been married 12 years. A couple for 24.

3 super nice kids. 7, 9, 10.5

We have fun. My kids are all smart and normal. It's a blessing.

They're watching back to the future 3 right before bed. I'm lying in bed with my wife and our dogs.

Like having a family

I can't stop laughing at this shit. I've seen it since it first came out but it can't be fucking real.

God I love this.

>They're watching back to the future 3 right before bed. I'm lying in bed with my wife and our dogs.

Sounds amazing man, livn the life

OP, the bond I feel with my 2 kids is like nothing else on earth.

I was 42 when my first was born so maybe being older makes me appreciate things more, I don't know. But it is an awesome thing for me. Even when they drive me crazy and act like total assholes and I want to hit them for being shits. So it's not all love-love-love all the time. But at its best, when you are teaching them to think and to do the right things, it's awesome. It feels really good to try to help them understand what they need to do to have a good life.

hmm, are these signs of abuse?

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I deeply regret having a kid. The world is going to hell and my daughter will suffer because of it. It kills me.

So yeah don’t have kids.

theyre all actors, probably not even his kids.

Depends on how you use them..... (••)