I've been dating a girl for 2 months. She says she likes me but has barely made out with me, let alone have sex with me. What the fuck is wrong with me ?
I've been dating a girl for 2 months. She says she likes me but has barely made out with me, let alone have sex with me...
Crap b8
Also you're just a beta. She's fucking other dudes. Move on.
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I'm kinda beta, but I don't think she's fucking other dudes.
>wah wah she won't fuck me
you tard, why the fuck are you still wasting your time with her. fuck some other girl and if she finds out (hint: make sure she finds out) she has no reason to be mad. if you haven't fucked and you've barely made out you're not exclusive.
2 months? I know it's the current thing not to expect too much from a girl these days but, for fuck's sake, I was balls deep inside my 16 year old girlfriend within 3 weeks, and I was a boring fuck who dropped out of grammar school with shit grades and a bad haircut
If she won;t kiss you in public at every given opportunity she's really fucking not into you
Move on
Why does she keep hanging out with me and kissing me and says she likes me if she isn't into me? I agree it seems like she's not that into me, that's why I'm asking about it, but she tells me she is and she keeps hanging out with me, so I don't get it.
Ok, I'll back up. So you're getting some lip action, you're spending time together and as far as you know seem to enjoy each other's company?
Question, does her body language when she sees you tell you she's happy to see you, or as someone she has to spend the next few hours with?
It seems good. She seems happy to see me and I directly asked her if she liked me the other night and she said she does. We kiss a little bit every time we hang out, but she cuts it short. It's odd. Maybe she's just shy, but it seems like it should be developing faster.
Could it be that she is not a whore like most women?
Yeah, she doesn't seem very whorish, but even so it feels like after this length of time there should be a bit more passion between us. Here's some more pics of random girls to keep the thread going.
Then I'd give it time. Don;t bullshit her, or you'll get found out. 2 months is still early days, it seems to be going ok, if you really enjoy each other's company, then carry on
Remeber, cinema dates means you're sitting in silence for 2 hours, and escape rooms are either poison or fucking gold. Do one of them, then you'll know
Fucking hell, that was an epiphany
>2 months is still early days
Nigger, I...
I'm guessing you're in high school, because I was in basically the same situation, and most adult women fuck on the first date, more or less.
In any normal relationship, you'd have had sex by now. It's possible that it'll happen, but to be honest I doubt it, especially as she hasn't given any sexual contact, no oral, no handjob, nothing. There is a very small chance she will ever want to do that, and even if she does, it'll be such a rare occurrence that you won't be much happier. I'm not saying you should break up with her, but you should know that you're not going to be any happier in a few months.
You should really have a talk with her about it. Don't be too aggressive or anything, just say that without some sort of sexual aspect to the relationship, you feel dissatisfied. Now she'll probably say that she just wants to get to know you better before she's comfortable or whatever, don't push her on it. But if she is not now enthusiastically sexual with you, she is probably never going to be.
Because your giving her attention, probably spoiling her and she has no other options that require her to cut you off or claim you
Dude, I've been with my wife since 97. 2 months is fuck all
Ha we did an escape room a few weeks ago and it was fun as well. We killed it and escaped with plenty of time to spare.
Ha, I'm an adult, I'm just kinda drunk so I'm typing like an idiot, and I realize this story sounds like it's coming from a kid.
It's going well in every sense except the physical one, so it's frustrating.
Maybe you found one that isn't a thot. There are still girls out there that save themselves for their husbands. They're not going to bring that up unless pushed because the hope is if you're able to give it enough time to have an emotional investment you won't instantly dump as /b is already suggesting. Contrary to what the media will have you believe there is still a decent number of both men and women who actually want to get to know a person before engaging in what is supposed to be the ultimate act of intimacy instead of just monkeys ramming genitals together. Married with kids BTW.
Thank you for real feedback. I'm not the typical /b demographic, and I'm fine with developing a relationship rather than just trying to fuck at the first chance, but it still seems like it's moving slowly. I'm just struggling for what to say that tells her A) I'm ok with being pretty patient about sex B) but I would like us to be more physical than we've been and C) I do also hope to have sex at some point.
OP is there a cultural or religious component at play here?
Look dude, I don't know this chick personally but if you two have been dating for 2 months and she hasn't even given you a handy but makes out with you sometimes my gut tells me she's only like 50 to 60% into you and it using you more so for male attention. I think dudes highly underestimate how much females value men looking at them sexually.
Personally I think your wasting your time but I would just tell her straight up that you need more out of this relationship than just a friend that you occasionally make out with. You need to be direct and honest about what you want and need out of the relationship instead of just hoping something happens.
How much free shit have you provided in that 2 months, OP?
Let it play out a little longer. I wouldn't put her on the spot with you opening a direct conversation on his topic. If you're into a kissing session maybe see were a hand that brushes across a nipple leads to; might be heavier kissing , might be the abrupt stop with explanation. Push slow and subtle (emphasis) but push a bit every time. At least for now worst case scenario is you're spending time with someone you enjoy spending time with
I offer to pay for things much of the time, but she pays before I do other times. It hasn't been 50/50, but she doesn't let me pay for everything. She makes a big deal out of being an independent woman, so she'd probably even prefer me to pay less often than I have been.
Thanks for genuine advice, man.
No problem. Hope it goes well for you..