Pretend you played volleyball in a group with some friends at a park, and one of the girl's there was a solid 8/10. You didn't talk to her very much, but she's cute as hell and confirmed single by her co-worker. After the game, you invite her (in front of a group) informally to be a part of a house party you're throwing in a few weeks. She asks where you live, says yeah that sounds like fun, and says she'll go. You spend 15 minutes talking about the logistics with your friends, she stays for it all, but then leaves quickly after cleaning up and you never get the chance to get her number.
Do you add this person on Facebook in between then, and message them about the upcoming party to see if they're still interested? Ask your friend to ask her if she's coming? Do nothing and trust that she'll go if she remembers you and is interested, too?
This hypothetical girl is a coworker to a friend of mine's girlfriend. I don't see my friend super often (maybe once a month, in a group), and was curious how appropriate Facebook contact is before getting to know a person you just met.
Ideally, I remind her without creeping her out. I show her interest without losing my chance before I even start to make a move.
just tell your friend to tell her that you're wondering if she's coming
Jaxson Phillips
She’s probably had another 20 guys invite her to things since then.
She knows where you live, she said she’ll go.
The fact you’re so obsessed with 1 person suggests you are a social desperado. There will be other girls at the party you can creep on.
Gabriel Rogers
7 months from a long term relationship. First person I've had legitimate interest in.
Never acted this way about anyone else in my life. Not sure why I feel so strongly, but that's why I'm on Yea Forums, to get a feel of my creep level.
James Moore
Mmk. And my friend will ask her, showing my interest without coming on too strong?
Levi Cooper
You're boring me from 10,000 miles away God only knows how fucking boring you are face to face, kys or spend the next 5 years getting the life you forgot to get when you were a teen.
Wyatt Wood
Not here to entertain you. Move to a different thread.
Also not sure how I would entertain you on Yea Forums if I wasn't talking about my own bs haha
Gabriel Stewart
>Do you add this person on Facebook in between then, and message them about the upcoming party to see if they're still interested?
you wanted to get a feel for your creep level I think this is useful. This is creepy question to ask, she probs wasn't invited to 20 more but she likely hasn't decided yet, and switching from the irl group to online single interaction, about an irl meeting is aggressive.
ur freind would probably make it more chill and if she's down already it's better but I'm pretty high so idk
honestly go out and make the mistakes, being a person that checks creep level just don't be afraid to make the small mistakes and move forward, every girl is receptive differently
Joseph Lewis
yes but it's obvious you are a no life boring fuck by the dumbass 12 year old questions you are asking. This is is shit you should have discovered if you weren't masturbating over porn when you should have been asking girls out on dates when you were in your teens.
Really stick to fat fuck pigs and leave the hot chicks to alpha males who have lives.
Angel Wood
If she’s remotely interested she would have said something to her friend, and they would have said something to you like ‘send her a message’.
She didn’t. The interaction meant nothing to her.
You know this. You don’t want to accept it.
David Adams
You can see how this fucking sucks that I didn't get her number up front now, huh.
No, that would be nature making sure your pathetic genes don't make it into the next generation.
Gavin King
>this Stick to masturbation, if you have no clue as to when a chick is interested in you or not then anything more advanced is out of your league
Nathaniel Morales
>these guys don't realise there's more than just physical first impressions
Matthew Green
ehh if she comes to the party just drunk make her laugh
just focus on yourself plus women like the passion
Luke Thomas
Don’t need green text for your shitty opinion
Ayden Flores
My first impression with her was as solid as it could be for not actually having one on one conversation.
I can safely say I have a clue, and she would be receptive if I asked for her number.
Facebook and social media are a tool for communication but I don't want to overstep and fuck up something I've already started to set up.
But yeah, I've got my answer. To not do anything, and assume she's interested if she actually shows up to the party.
I mean, it's my own house. If she shows up, I'm going to assume she took my invitation as me being interested, and not just her being included as an extra.
Easton Morgan
Is your opinion really not shitty, though?
Joshua Mitchell
Seriously? If her coworker doesn't tell her boyfriend to tell me to talk to her, I have zero chance?
If this happens, I definitely over thought the park's interaction.
Leo Garcia
I wasn’t arguing that, stupid.
Blake Bell
That’s not what I said.
You’re so fucking desperate to convince yourself though, I fucking give up.
Daniel Stewart
The reason she is not interested in you is you are fucking boring. Stop making it about anything else, if she was interested in you, you would know it and have the courage to ask her out.
This has to be the most fucking boring relationship Q&A that has ever been posted on /b. kys or get a life.
Noah Sullivan
>To not do anything, and assume she's interested if she actually shows up
Unless she loves cowards then you are going down in flames.........let me see you like her so much you're too afraid to open your mouth, you know the mouth you open for everyone else, every fucking day.....can you see what a fucking joke she will think you are......so desperate to have her yet not desperate enough to approach her and ask her out.
