Ik this is the wrong place for relationship advice but fuck it im drunk af and have a lot on my mind. So 6 grade i met this girl (ill call her A) and i just instantly knew this was the girl for me and i just had to be with her but she had a boy friend and that was the time when i went from being fit and popular to fat and in my emo phase. We just clicked on everything and she has this amazing personality and she drew you in and got in your head until she was all you could think about and she was absolutely gorgeous and funny and miles out of my league. Fast forward eight years she moves to Texas and it crushes me but we remain friends and keep talking and im still in love with her but middle of my junior year she moves back and i couldn't be more excited she i help her and her family move in her parents and siblings love my while they all despise the guy she was currently with. In the time she moves back till june first we become best friends were always spending time together and always talking and it was incredible her boy friend at the time was emotional abusive and he was so jealous of me and kept saying sad boi shit about how she was going to leave him for me. June first drunk as hell i finally confess how i feel about her after some super cutesy "you can ask me any question rn im an open book" back and forth until she finally said her friends said that i liked her and i told her i did and she said she felt the same, and the next day we talked and she dumped her boyfriend for me and so began the most incredible two years of my life (keep in mind im a kissless virgin at 17) and im with a extremely hot girl super far out my league. This post is getting way to long thanks anyone whos still reading ill try to keep the next part shorter
Ik this is the wrong place for relationship advice but fuck it im drunk af and have a lot on my mind...
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I did absolute everything for this girl, I paid for everything whether it was somewhere we went or even if she was buying something for her and its not because she asked me too, she always fought me on it and tired to pay but i would grab her card and pay, its not that i did it to try and "be worth being with" or anything like that i paid for everything because i loved her so so much and they way it made me feel too see her that happy was so worth it and i would do it all over again. I constantly thought of surprises and gifts and made countless romantic gestures and went over board on holidays (our first Christmas i took out a loan and flew us to Chicago and got us Hamilton tickets which was her favorite show and our second Christmas i flew us to Texas for a week mostly to see her friend she hadn't seen in years and to visit her old school and shit all just because it made her happy). This girl had been through some shit her parents were emotionally abusive and treat her like garbage and she didn't do this for attention but she was bi polar type 2 (actually diagnosed not self diagnosed) and im the one that got her help and got her to therapy and she had eating problems to which i helped her with.
everything is perfect until she starts getting close to this guy she works with and October we go on our first break when she tells me she has feelings for him and it lasts two days until she tells me she was wrong and she wants to get back together and we do then a couple of months later we go on a break again because she wanted an open relation ship and i didn't and two days later she tells me she wants to get back together and we do again. February 12 we break up because she wants to be open and "young" and "try being single" which absolutely crushes me and i got cried every night over her (i haven't cried since m parents got divorced when i was in second grade) and got drunk every night just so i could stop thinking about her for at least a couple of hours. we still talked during this time trying to work things out and almost every night i stuck my self so far out there like a pathetic fool trying to say the right thing to finally maker her want to be with me but every time she cut me down. Our breakup hurt so bad but it never felt real to me until s couple of weeks ago she texted me saying she knew being single isn't what she wanted and she wanted to get back together but while we were apart she had slept with that guy from earlier from out first break and that she had stayed at his house pretty much every night since we broke up and that she had sexted that friend from texas that i paid so much money for her to see while i was alone and crying.
Continue, OP. We're listening.
I cant play the complete victim because i could've done the same once we broke up i started talking to a bunch of different girls and quite a few of them were dtf (Ive lost a lot of weight since 6 grade and gained a lot of muscle and truthfully i look fairly decent now) if i wanted to but honestly i was just using them as an ego boost then ghosting them because i dont want a meaningless hookup because as unmanly as this sounds sex is more than just sex to me its a loving emotional connection with someone you care deeply for which is why it hurts so much that she hooked up with that other guy. The next week and a half i just absolutely spiraled and completely lost myself until all of a sudden all the pain from the breakup and her sleeping with the other guy was gone. I didn't feel anger or hurt or anything about he situation i felt nothing and im pretty sure im just locking away my feelings about her in general because once the hurt wen away so did the memory of her like i cant remember what she looks like or smells like or feels like or sounds like it all just went away in a snap. So what should i do b? If i wanted to i could text her right now and we would be back together but i just dont know how i feel
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Bro. This is gunna be one of them life lessons for sure. This is could be one of those cut the losses moments that hurts like hell but is better for you in the long run.
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This whole situation sucks man. There is no right or wrong. It’s a make the decision and follow through kinda things. But she’s not doing anything for you man. She’s not got her eyes on you or her heart. And for that I’d say I’m out.
you are exactly right. I stayed with a girl who cheated on me because it was too hard to leave. Not i'm wishing I just cut my losses much earlier than I did
I have no doubt that she loved me i just dont know if im really over her or if im just bottling up everything
Happened a few times with me. Wish I ducked out way earlier than I did. So much wasted time. Sometimes you gotta dirt through the trash to find what you’re looking for. It’s gunna show up and you’re gunna forget all the shitty ex’s
Block her from your life and go interact with the other 4 billion women there are out there. She only seems so amazing because you have childhood/teenage history, she stepped on the moon first so to speak. It's not worth the stress, if it was going to work out you wouldn't be here asking for advice
Sure. She probably does love you. Love isn’t exclusive. But she doesn’t love you like you deserve. And that’s an important thing man. I’d go so far as to say she’s more in like with you not love. Cause when you truly love someone you don’t hurt them by saying you wanna fuck others
But i dont know how i fell about her i dont know if im over her or just locking me feelings away, and another hurdle is if we get back together how am i ever going to be able to face her family because they all know, it would be so awful
>dedicating your life to a roastie
jfc, she''ll come to you when she is ready, cuck
seriously tho, woman have been handed all the power. just walk away
Don’t get back together. Don’t make that even an option. Cause it shouldn’t be. Stay friends and leave it as a love of siblings/friends not of lovers. Pull your pants up and realize she’s no good for you. It’s tough it is, no lie. But you will get over it and her.
lol so far my experience with any other girl has been shallow and they have no personality
Its weird any time i talk to someone else about her i list my complaints and as soon as anyone says anything negative about her im immediately on the defense and defending her and i dont know if that means i still have feelings for her or what
It means you’re a nice person who defends friends even when they are assholes. Your a good friend. Don’t mistake that for the wrong feelings in this.
It’s kinda just an obsession and it’s what happens with girls like that
Your relationship sounds unhealthy but my suggestions are either give her one more chance but as soon as you have any doubts of her just drop her
Or be single and figure yourself and your life out so you can move on and look at it from another perspective
>you’ll later realize how stupid you were at the time for a girl
>This post is getting way to long thanks anyone whos still reading ill try to keep the next part shorter
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>Or be single and figure yourself and your life out so you can move on and look at it from another perspective
^^^this man. This so fucking much
>keep in mind im a kissless virgin at 17
inb4 underage ban
It wasnt unhealthy as much as my rant made it sound like it was, she loved me and she was there for me emotionally the only difference was i choose to do more for her than she did for me
yeah but being single has nothing to offer me i want the connection and love of a relation ship
She wanted to fuck other guys and told you basically. Hell you broke up about it.
UNHEALTHY!!
lmao i know the second part had to be split in to three different posts because it was too long
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I’m 32 married with 2 kids. I wish I had spent more time in my 20s single. But I was stupid and wanted to be loved. If I knew then what I know now man
not OP but tldr; lil nigga got lucky with a pretty whore, she fucked him over many times, yet he kept his trust intact in hopes of his love growing out of her whore habits. from the looks of it, shes an insufferable whore who will never be complacent with anyone. OP is better off finding a more faithful women loving girl who isnt a fucking nigger
it wasn't sex she was after because honestly that was another problem in our realtor ship, i wanted to have sex more but she didnt like it because it gave he anxiety while for me it was a physical proof of love and emotional bond between two people
I got to tell you that it’s unhealthy for your mental state and I know it’s hard to look at it objectively
That’s why I say give her one last chance, but make sure she’s on the thinnest ice
Any doubt, any feeling that something is wrong, anything suspicious, any really nasty attitude that she give you
Drop her like a fucking sack and don’t look back because you’re much better than letting someone test your trust and patience
couldnt have said it better. young people (myself included) are foolish to resent abstinence for a better quality love life and family in the future
And the one you did think had a personality played you. I'm not saying the intentions were malicious but she knew you'd keep taking her back. And I guarantee you'd take her back again. It seems you love to justify her behavior too, you're trapped until you stop seeing everything through rose-tinted lenses.
>tl;dr OP is underage, so I'm not going to even read your summary
this
im almost 20
why havent you dumped this whore and gone for better girls. shes obviously unworthy of any praise let alone heartfelt love
Sooo.... where are her nudes?
i feel stupid that i keep defending her but she didn't play me she really did love me she just has never been single and wanted to explore. i just dont know if i can get past her sleeping with another guy
She'd slept with another guy before y'all got together.
Then you’re still young enough to listen to those that have been through what you’re going through and maybe take what we are saying to heart. We aren’t all knowing but maybe we have a better grasp of it. Maybe trust we’re trying to give you the best info we can so you can make the best decision for yourself. Think about yourself in this. You have a right to be selfish with your own well-being
You're the biggest fucking faggot I've ever encountered here. Kill yourself you thumb sucking, cry baby, low testosterone incel fuck. Just die.
seeyes, 17 is almost 20...
she did but that feels completely different to me for some reason when she had slept with the guy from before we dated i wasn't even a thought on her mind but now she knows me and how i feel so it feels like a huge emotional betrayal
Get bent moron. Go crawl in a hole somewhere. World doesnt need plebs like you. Hell, no one cares what you even think.
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yeah... when we first staring dating which was two years ago im 19 now and turning 20 soon
lmao you think i give a fuck about what your dumb ass has to say? go suck a dick faggot
you must be an uneducated nigger to refer to yourself in the present tense as 17.
Dude, if a girl even leaves you once, especially for a time period of two days, and especially if you haven't done anything wrong, you just know she's planning on taking someone else's cock. That's when you say no more and leave her. It'll be hard, but shit man, bury yourself balls deep into someone else, or buy a classic car, thats what id do if the GF ever left me (4years still together). I cant imagine the pain if that hoe leaves me, BUT I know that I'd more than likely be over it in a few weeks. Got my dog, my cars, and a face which just screams sit on me to some girls for some reason.
Also, I am like you, fucking love sex, very personal and dont think I could do casual sex, BUT its one of the few things that I reckon will get me over someone so just fucking do it
I know because like i said she wants to get back together so if i decided thats what i want it would be for me i just dont know if thats what i want
uneducated or drunk as hell
I don’t think you would be making the right choice. But you do you man. I think your emotions might be driving more than your heart in this.
Kid, get the fuck out of here at 17. Don't rot your brain with this shit. Don't come back here until you're a 35 year old shut-in whose sweaty shirt is completely covered in Cheeto dust
She played you but without ill intent, and that's ok, she probably felt she needed you too. But fact is she kept asking for breaks to enjoy herself and you kept giving them and taking her back.
She at least had the decency to lay it out for you and not sneak behind your back and you agreed to play ball how she wanted. She played you because she kept you around knowing you'd take her back. You think she didn't because you feel you've had control over this situation as well, not really though.
But if it's any consolation she probably thinks you're the best thing that's happened to her, yet don't think that means she'll follow reason about it, humans rarely follow reason and they take shit for granted.
You kind of remind me of Forrest Gump in the sense he took the chick back again and again every time she'd go fuck off with someone else because I assume the character also wanted to enjoy her youth. There's hope yet, OP. Make like Forrest and put a baby in the oven before she comes back with the aids. That or run Forrest....runnnnn!!! Sorry about the shitty humor at the end. Been there, not telling you what road to take but I am imploring that you take an honest look at what could be the road that came before.
but shes not like that she dosnt like sex and i got the car part covered lol i have a 68 mustang a 97 cobra and on Sunday im buying a 92 Vulcan
Hey dumb fuck. You have already said she hated sex with you. She used you to get free stuff. Kill yourself.
Jeez man dump her and date me. I’ll leave the wife and kids if you got that kinda cash laying around.
god damn man thats the best advice ive received on this im making a note to reread that when im sober because that was wise as hell
>So what should i do b?
what the fuck is b? this is Yea Forums.
>legit answer: kys faggot
you dont know her she wasnt like that. and she didn't hate sex with me it just gave her anxiety i was the only one that actually made her cum ever
Go take a long walk of a tall cliff asshole
lol the 68 has been a three year ongoing project i took a loan out for the cobra and the Vulcan is only a grand and needs work
that is the most retarded thing ive ever read and im personally offend that i had to read that with my own eyes
Whelp guess I’ll stay with these assholes a while longer then lol
Leave this cunt and find another. Stop being such a fucking beta you stupid piece of shit. She doesn't give a fuck about you. Don't look for a logic explanation, there is no logic to this cunts actions. Everyone in this thread is telling you the same thing because we went through something similar. It will take years but you will eventually forget her, but LEAVE her, not contact, no nothing.
I would have dumped her ass the first time she pulled that anxiety bullshit. Right after I slapped the shit out of her. You are a pathetic loser. Kys.
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Godspeed, OP. Best of luck
So thats what I'm saying dude, find someone who is and while it.may make you feel shitty at first, you'll start feeling better, and tbh you may even find someone who likes sex just as much as you do.
Nice car collection, I'm in the UK so whats available easily is different over here, I've got three 70s Datsuns, and some less impressive Japanese, French and British shite. I really get into cars, and its mostly when the GF argues with me.
Forget about her. If youre not fat and smelly, you'll do well
Lol, it was worth a shot mate
It's a beautiful thing that you've invested so much into someone that needed your help like that, OP. But trust me dude. She can't reciprocate. She doesn't have it in her. Find a stable girl that gives a damn and knows what she wants.
I just dont know if im over her yet or if i still want to be with her
my buddy had a 85 datsun 300z that was rusted out with no interior or exhaust that we whipped around and was fun as hell
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make sure you really deal with those emotions and the Situation in general
i´ve been through something almost completely similar and i handeled it very poorly and got Five years of clinical Depression to Show for it
also: now that shes been with somebody else, while you still wanted her for yourself, would you really be ok with that?
i know in my mind that she loved and cared about me back as much as i did for her the biggest problem was that she didn't show it on a physical level which is something that i was really needed
You are a little bitch puppy dog. Always ready to run back to her. Your friend is a fucked in the head slut that eants to ride the cock carousel because daddy probably didn’t give enough attention. Move on or forever be a bitch boy who ends up offing himself at forty cause this girl sucks off some twenty year old and will somehow put the blame on you.
You sound like such a pathetic loser who is low iq. Took out loans for Christmas gifts is fucking idiotic. You must be a nigger.
i hope you get over this slump dude, it takes time but inknow you'll find soemone better, just move on and dont stand a round waiting for soemthing, because like how others have said, if she really wanted you and wanted to be with you, she would have stayed from the get go. you got it bruv
i really dont know (full disclosure we had ddlg relationship ((which i only did for her because i wasn't in to that but it made her so happy)) and even though the ddlg was dumb to me it completely changed how i saw her i no longer saw her as a capable woman who can make her own choices i saw her as a little girl who needed me for everything
You really should just get over her. She's done it three times now. Will just do it again.
Also, I second the guy above, taking loans out for gifts is very dumb and risky. If you don't have it, don't spend it
that doesnt really change the question, though
are you comfortable with the idea of her fucking someone else, while both of you knew you still wanted her for yourself?
if no, then this thought will definately ruin any romantic relationship you two could possible have
im white af and even though i took out loans i built my credit and i have it payed off. she does have daddy problems but i dont know if i want to go back to her which is the entire point of the thread
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honest, Im in kinda the same boat, gf left me after three years because I flirted around and cheated, but even this being the second time when she found out i had someone new, she came running for me, Im one of two guys she has slept with, and shes dumb enough to take me back, knowing Im going to keep it up. I love her but I have a love for sex that she doesnt live up too. Actually im banging my step sister, haha wincest. But for real, lay some ground rules, have access to all media and info, and keep her on a leash, tell her to cut the act and the moment she does something wrong boot her ass out the door, you marry her, make her sign a prenup, or just be single and fuck all the bitchs you can, and send her proof, make her feel terrible about what she has doen to you, It works, trust me it works
>step sister
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Pick one, faggot.
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