Why is it so fucking hard to get a girlfriend? I work full-time have a nice car and I'm a halfway decent looking person

Why is it so fucking hard to get a girlfriend? I work full-time have a nice car and I'm a halfway decent looking person

Not looking for landwhales or 2/10s

Tips? All I do is work and go home and I have 0 social life

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go to where the woman are.

same boat but I just thought of an idea the other day. You gotta make friends with someone who has a good looking GF (who isn't a hermit), she will eventually get you hooked up with her friends.

>I have 0 social life
I think I've found your problem, OP. Women are social.

Besides, getting a gf won't make you fill that hole and make you happy. You've got some reflecting to do.

samefag here but basically what I'm saying is to get a girlfriend you gotta make guy friends. Also having guy friends will get you out and about with confidence, even 1 friend can inspire you to go after a girl with no fear if he just dares you or something. You'd probably never approach a woman in public if you are all by yourself, the way you would when you have a friend handy.

Go to parties

You need to socialize more. Go out with friends, join a club, or some shit. Volunteer work, or community service is a good start.

nah op, you all ready fuck up your chances to have a girlfriend the day you decide to be a faggot

It's more about personality and what your project than anything else. If you have shit hobbies too like hunting, you'll attract women who enjoy those shit hobbies and they may not be attractive. I'm in great shape now, 175lbs, 6'1" and go to the gym daily. Retired too at 30. I used to be a huge manwhore. I'd been with about 100 women, all attractive, no fatties. I looked like crap. I looked anorexic at 120 lbs, I was super pale, hair a mess, and even had pimples. I'm told now by women it's more important to dress nice than be attractive but I dressed like shit too. I had girls approach ME to give their numbers over. Having a nice car helps though mine wasn't anything special back then. Be interesting, have fascinating facts and shit to say. Talk about her, let her talk and listen. Definitely don't be afraid to make the first move. I used to drink just to be able to speak in public or talk to girls and for whatever reason I'm fine with all of it. Push yourself even if you feel like you might have a panic attack. Don't say some stupid pick-up line or ask if they have a boyfriend either, just approach them, tell them you think they're pretty and you'd like their number. You can do it anywhere from the god damn grocery store to out on the street but don't dress like a retard (button down shirt with flames type shit or copying some TV show..looking at you Yea Forums) if a girl shoots you down, don't be a cunt, just smile and tell them thanks anyway and continue on. It'll happen. If you want a repeat date, don't be pushy and if you fuck, focus on them. Don't worry about your dick or ask insecure questions about yourself either. It's not that hard to be a functioning human being....but few if any on here will be helpful

>Not looking for landwhales or 2/10s
Having this attitude towards women is probably the main reason you're single, but also having no social life is a big factor. Do you expect a woman to just randomly walk up to you and talk to you? There's another problem. You sound like a beta and ultimately this is why I think you're a single crybaby

Guy with the rant here after seeing the zero social life thing... You can always doing a dating site or tinder too but getting responses on there is a totally different approach and women on hookup apps are looking for the top 20% of guys, physically.

because youre a whiny bitch. you can have all the things you mentioned and still be a massive faggot.

i dont know i used to have girlfriends its just been dry the last two years

This. Before you enter a relationship with someone else, you need to get your shit together, or else you'll just have more stress on your head; since relationships require dedication and commitment. Don't make the other person your main source of happiness. They can be part of what makes you happy, but if you put them too high above you, they could try to take advantage of that - or the break-up will leave you worse than before you entered the relationship.

No amount of advice can fix the fuckup you've become. Ugly, no admirable qualities, inept etc. Join the club.

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You've got to be indifferent. If they see you want/need them, girls hate that. So know you've got the goods, be confident, and indifferent, and that's what attracts them. That's why it seems like they always go for asshats, because those guys are confident and indifferent, so you can be a decent human being and still get the girl.

Getting a girlfriend is a social thing, if u no social u get no qt gfs

>Going supreme gentleman route
Why bother? You'll have to maintain that bitch later.

You probably have the personality of the typical Yea Forumstard. That is not a positive.

Ignore this. I have a hatred ror fatties and unattractive women. I honestly don't respect most of them and despite fucking triple digits, I've only dated maybe five. Now, getting a girlfriend is different than hooking up if you want it to last. Statistically few relationships do, but I'm also picky when it comes to a girls intelligence and finding the hot/smart combo that doesn't hear voices means you have to go through a lot of airheaded pussy

travel. Go to a country full of women that have an attitude and lifestyle you think is a good match. That's what I did. Japan, then Morocco then Australia. People think I'm this big time world traveler when in fact, I was just chasing pussy. The tinder app... key... while at home, pay the extra fee to allow yourself to project where you want to say you're from. Wherever you get the most action from... THAT'S where you go. I mean sheeeeet, I got the girl picking me up from the airport, helping me find a place to stay and later that night I'm fucking her -- hell of a welcome wagon I'd say! :-)

Have a social life

If you’re looking for a girlfriend and not a hookup you should cast a wider net. Be fun and flirty with all types of women. Be nice and take interest in them all. The right one will come along. Not saying instantly commit to the first hambeast you see but just feel everyone out by being casual yet genuine. Talk to friends of friends you see at bars. Be friendly. Sure one may look like a fat garden gnome but she may introduce you to some cool hotties. Just open up your social network(real life not just online) and see where it takes you. Think of all the acquaintances you’ve met and how you didn’t get to know them all better. Change that.

This

>I have a nice car

I guess this explains a part of why you don't have a girlfriend. Maybe you can go for a shallow, materialist bitch from China.

>Why is it so fucking hard to get a girlfriend?
cause you're so fuckin different from her DADDY HER DADA .

Your gay op, just accept it

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