>Been together 12 years >Have a 3 year old >All our finances are mingled Also >She's a manipulator >She is in massive debt >The house is in her name >I can't stand her personality >I can't stand her family
Divorce doesn't solve problems, it trades one set of problems for a different set. Get counseling. (You)
Charles Lopez
Fucking take the money and bail
Josiah Torres
Just slip out the back, Jack Make a new plan, Stan Don't need to be coy, Roy Just listen to me Hop on the bus, Gus Don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee And get yourself free
Ryder Martin
(This takes prior knowledge that you will seperate) ALWAYS KEEP MONEY HIDDEN FROM YOUR SPOUSE seperate account,safe hidden in your home, etc.You go full incognito. I did it when i divorced. You take the most important stuff that can fit in your car and you leave. Buy her and her friend tickets to a concert or a movie. And while shes out. RUN. grab your stuff and GO. try finding a job that pays cash or if you have to buy a fake id and ssn. And this is the most important part send her 400 bucks A MONTH for child support. But it has to be in money order so you can keep all receipts. That way a child support bill wont add up and you dont loose your passport and licence. Do not contact her and she will not try to contact you. I was lucky and had only been married for 4 years so i didnt owe her alimony.
Dylan Lewis
>The house is in her name Cuck
Jonathan Carter
Start talking about all these problems and tell her you're about to leave. Maybe she'll do something. If not, start separating finances and get a lawyer to deal with the kid business. You're probably gonna lose the house to her since you're the one wanting to leave. If she isn't a cheater then you may have legal issues when getting a divorce if you're married, but it sounds like you're in a trailer trash situation.
Carson Jackson
HEY, there is none of that here. When a bro needs help getting away from crazy we HELP him. We stick toghether. Women will never have the bond us men share.