How do I completely disappear?
I am 34, married, no kids, and I just quit my 100k+ a year job because I cant do the 84 hour 7 days a week plus 3 hours of commute anymore. I have over 250k in the bank but 140k is her inheritance and the other account with 100k is a joint where we have both been putting in half our income for the last 7 years.
How do I completely disappear?
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are you just tryna escape the marriage ? did you get in trouble ??
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Thanks.
I should add, I really want to know how much I should tactfully cash out with. All the money is I. My accounts but I do love her and dont want to fuck her over any worse.
Why are you doing this
Why do you want to disappear?
No, but it is falling apart. We love each other but we cant interact without snapping and arguing anymore. We are growing apart and making each other miserable. It fucking sucks but i think it's time.
Moving to another country is your best bet. It's easier then cleaning out your identity and and leaving to another state
I cant do the grind anymore.
I need to escape but I am to proud to kill myself
>U3HKa5z
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Delete digital fingerprint, all social media, all accounts, any thing you can remember signing up for or giving info to, delete everything. Cashout and make damn sure you have a safeplace to stow your cash meantime... anonymously (in person if you have reserve a plane ticket for either cross country or out of country flight), severe all communication faucets with potential loved ones, block all contacts out by any means necessary. Once you arrive at your desired destination there you can complete wiping your old profile from existence electronically and remotely
How do I safeguard the cash? I was thinking that I would take 50k from the joint and I have another 20k in my account. If I do it before August then I will be under the 5 year for marriage.
Depends very much on where you're starting from and what your goals are..US vs Can, NY or CA vs say Alabama..wanting to own land and just be left alone by family or wanting to be a drifter etc..more info needed
You should try to explain your situation to your wife in a note or something when you leave. It would be pretty fucked not too. Tell her you just want a new life
it's a lot easier to disappear by going to another country user
Bury, safe deposit box, some place in the home you have to dismantle a few things to get too?
you take ALL that you can take without leaving her high and dry.... youre gonna need every cent you can carry. Buying a new life in a new place will not be cheap. 70k is doable but the more you have the more realistic the chances of this being permanent and not blowing up in your face it'll be
google doc, burner email, send with proxy
Not necessarily drifter but I don't know where to go. I was thinking somewhere towards the Mississippi river because all I know is water work.
I'm in California.
I would. I really fucking love her but I can't do this life anymore.
what are the chances of running into anyone you know if you stay in the same country ???
Drop a throwaway email from a Tor email service and I will put you in contact with someone who can falsify passports, citizenship, other necessary ID's of most countries. You can disappear within 1 month if you truly desire to.
It will cost you $10,000 USD FYI, but of course, in Bitcoin.
well, for starters, what life DO you want? do you have any idealized/fantasy scenario to live out? is life right now so miserable that anything else is acceptable?
Cash out as much as you can. Convert to jewelry or diamonds. Something easy to travel with. I'd goto south America. Thinking about fleeing to Colombia personally. Very cheap to survive down there.
Find the good parts of life. What do you like to do in your free time? If you don't have any free time then what hobbies would you want to have? There's so much more to discover in your life
i saw this vid once. it looks helpful
I was thinking watches. Good idea?
>severe
>faucets
If you've got any dirt to get into the witness protection program, that's the easiest route to take by far, but starting from Cali makes it easier if you're willing to head to Mexico because the illegal immigrant pipelines are already established there and can be used in the reverse very easily..I worked for a bail bondsman for a decade and saw a few people disappear using that route
A watch would depreciate in value the second you buy it.
Alabama has a dirt cheap cost of living and is actually a pretty scenic place to live. Relocate north though, because hurricanes are no fun.
Not if you know what to buy. How do you really think the elite have been moving wealth for the last 2000 years?
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autocorrect, im typing way fast and in like 3 threads at once
If you only knew the crazy shit I have done on the water in unimaginable weather. I'm not scared of high wind after hanging off the bow of an anchor boat in 20 foot swell and 90mph gusts (sustained at least you could get the bow into it and have some control, gusts are random) hooking up mooring buoys.
If you love her, don't be a cunt by fucking her over and making your life unnecessarily complex in the process. Pay her her fair share and move on with your life.
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Just cashout. Take everything and pit it suitcase. Book a flight to some nice place on this world like sierra leone or dr congo. Go to airport declare your money and get proof your money is lehmgal money. Then check in a cheap hotel first and keep planning from there at best with a hooker in your arms but never fall asleep when a hooker is in your room. Always watch and guard your suitcase full of cash. One day call your wife and say sorry but you needed to make this step to find enlightenment. Look how she reacts
Firstly, don't touch anything or talk to anyone. Don't do any google searches or anything like that, the authorities will know what you did. Don't delete social media or stop contacting family and friends.
Second, get into crypto and invest, this is your way out with the money. Do a little research and get a type of wallet that can disappear easily. Do this for awhile.
Third, leave suddenly. What you want to emulate is a sudden disappearance. This happens all the time. People go missing and the police investigate, but can't find out a thing. Leave your car in a dangerous part of town with the keys in the ignition or something like that. Try to associate your disappearance with some major crime without being personally involved in any way.
Don't fly, don't take a train. I don't know how it would work for you, but I live in Seattle so I have two routes available. I could say I'm going for a hike then take the Pacific Crest Trail up to Canada or down to Mexico or bribe my way onto a freighter ship bound for Asia. Putting myself in someone else's power at that point seems like a roll of the dice and I would want to take the hiking option.
Why not just quit the job and find something you enjoy more? If you have enough money to disappear then you have enough money to take an extended vacation
This. And consider your relationship has probably taken a huge hit from the stupid hours and stress your job was giving you. Now that you have quite, and if you love her, why not give making the relationship great a go now that you will be in a better head space?
Because the long hours and work stress has been the foundation of our entire relationship. I have never been around and now that I am, we are both realizing that we really just dont get along with each other.
Can I have your wifes number? She's gonna need a shoulder to cry on.
Cost of living is 400/mo in costa rica. just move there. its not like you're wanted by the FBI, you're not some sort of celebrity. arrange with your bank to take out 50k cash, go open a new bank account, and move to costa rica.
Or you know. A note.
OP draw out 80 k and move to another country. You arent on 4chin trying to escape the feds, so just move.
>if you buy the same watch from a different store, it doesnt depreciate.
Fine pieces of art, gold, and other non branded, poor tax unique items. Elite wouldnt be so bothered as to move 5000 watches or some other stupid thing
>unimaginable weather.
weather that cannot be imagined
It more sounds like you cba to give it a college try. Is there some reason you keep brushing your relationship off and avoiding the advice to just make a simple move?
Whats the real story?
You didnt move closer to your job even though you had a 3 hour commute? this a bait thread.
you should read a book called "How to Disappear Completely". I think by a guy named Ronald WIlliams
3 hour round trip is pretty normal for people that commute in busy areas. It must really suck after 7 12s with no break like OP is making it sound.
then take the 150 that's yours and leave the 190 that's hers and go wherever you want. the police will see that you've taken your own money and gone and won't give a shit. she will see that you've left her. nobody will hunt you. voila, you're gone.
unless you want to be found immediately in which case take it all and go and enjoy being hunted vigorously and going on an international list of fraudsters who are always traced down.
Take only what's yours. Don't tell anybody you're leaving. Anybody.
Move at least 2500 miles away. Buy a new identity.
You couldnt just ya know move closer? because he has no kids it would be so much easier.
Poor country
Buy land (cheap)
Build home from natural supplies
Farm and barter for self sufficient existance.
Omce removed from the 'machine' you will attain cosmic awareness of self.
(All possible on less than half the money you have...)
I did it on 20k user. Are you me?
OP here decided to tell my wife i needed a break on a note. Then take roughly the money whats mine and put it in a case and book a flight to south east asia. Then check in a hotel first and from there i gonna ask for advice again from you after few days of leisure with streetmeat. My wife will understand
It's spelled 'existence' with an e.
>Be OP
>is somewhat wealthy with family and lots of money
>surfing Yea Forums asking for advice on Yea Forums at 4am.
Cool story haha go to bed kid
Get a divorce.
You’ll split everything 50/50...
Even your debt