Well guys it’s me again...

Well guys it’s me again. If you missed it last night I’m the guy who sent my gf a video of me jerking off last week and we broke up yesterday so she decided that she would just show everyone that video. She put it up on her Facebook and sent it to a bunch of her friends. I told her I would get the police involved if she didn’t take it down and she did but it’s too late everyone I know has seen the video now. My life is fucking ruined and I don’t know what to do.

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post the video or it didn't happen

I don’t have it and I don’t want anyone else seeing it. I want it fucking gone. I just need it all to end

At least everyone you know is aware that you don’t have erectile disfunction. Also if she posted it on your facebook wall ll you need is a screenshot (or contact) FB for confirmation and you can sue her ass for damages and get the police involved.

Own it bro. Make sure everyone know that she was the asshole for sharing something that’s clearly meant to stay between you two.

Go full white person and do legal action anyway if it actually did damage

I’m sorry bro that sucks, that girls a god damn bitch. I wish I knew what to tell you other than just keep your head up and sue that bitch for damages. Love - user

Your life isn't ruined! Everybody on Earth jerks off. The fact that she posted it makes her a criminal. Says nothing about you, except that you were smart to break up with her. I would press charges. Revenge porn is illegal. You can also sue for damages. Talk to a lawyer.

See if your state (in the US) or local govt has a "revenge porn" law and report. Also sue for damages

Not OP but I’ve got a large amount of my business network on facebook. 900 or so out of my 1500 contacts are business related. Now imagine if they all had the opportunity to see my ex displaying our private sexting material on my private page. That’s potentially a career killer. (Which is why I need to approve any material on my wall or stuff that I’ve been tagged in).

What damages can I sue for and how. I would rather this just went away but I don’t think that can happen now. She deleted it and I don’t know who she sent it to except from what people have told me

How would you feel if everyone you knew saw you jerkingoff

Some people think she’s an asshole but most people are just laughing at me

She deleted it, but its still stored on her profile for example if she downloaded a copy of her account it would still be there

Although of course you would have to be able to access her account.

Harm to reputation maybe, but the big one is emotional damages (lack of sleep, anxiety, etc). Start seeing a therapist to document the damages. If she broke a law its an easy case to win

Honestly, I wouldn't give a fuck.

If they were a girl and they were laughing Id tell them they secretly liked it and spread rumours about them asking about my cock they saw in the video and then meeting up with me. Fight fire with fire.

If its a dude, Id call em a faggot for watching a guy jerk off.

Get the police on her anyway, she sounds like a piece of shit. Even if she deleted it there will definitely still be traces of it on facebook

I am not very educated in this subject but at least it is defamation of some sort, there is also revenge porn laws depending on where you live, it is an illegal violation of your privacy at least in some sense, although i think it depends on how bad it is in your discretion

How big is your dick op? Did you cum? You didnt do anything weird with your jizz did you?

Average maybe slightly smaller. Yes. And no

kek, people calling her a criminal and that OP needs to sue the woman and call the police
>on the meanwhile, Yea Forums full of you shouldn't share threads

Are you a fatty or skinny?

Fat

just saying OP could share her nudes

Absolutely get cops involved. She's laughing at you, thinks she got away with it. You're pathetic joke to her. Get cops involved, do it do it do it. She would do it to you if you sent out her flicking the bean. Dont be a fucking cuck

First and foremost, you can still sue. IT doesn't matter if everyone saw it you can still send her to jail and take her cash instead of teaching her she can do whatever she want because she is a girl. That being said you seem to have forced the video on to her instead of the general scenario which is a girl feels she has to send the video because the guy asks and then they post it.

own it though. If you are too ashamed for people to see you jerking off, don't do it. If you have a decent dick and weren't doing anything embarassing then what is the issue?

Here is a picture of me, naked, in a mario hat. When I made this I was high but I knew that literally, everyone might see it. I've met strangers who later realized that I am the man in the photo. I sent censored versions to my family. The point is that I owned it, from the moment I started the camera I owned it and wasn't ashamed.

What is there to be ashamed of? Sure it's stupid and funny. But so are many good things.

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That's what you get for trusting a woman with anything at all.
They're cruel, heartless, and only care about themselves.
Trust me. I'm a woman.

That's great, user. Very wholesome and helpful.

revenge porn is punishable with jail time. go to the cops.

mods underaged content b&

I'm 26, go be annoying somewhere else.

>tits
>gtfo
pick one

why would you send an ex a video of you jerking off. what the fuck did you think it would accomplish. just turn 360 and walk away

can't rn, ur mom's busy with other clients

She's not actually, she just doesn't want to fuck you no matter how much you pay.

Report her and see it through to the end, or just ignore it and even use it to your advantage.
Chances are a lot of females will be turned on by it.
Meet up with other girls, find a new girlfriend, forget that cunt ever existed.

>white person
jews are the ones that sue everyone and everything and are obsessed with defamation. Kill yourself.

see Follow this guy's advice.
Girls will be interested in it, and it will be a way for you to talk sexually with them to see if they are interested. That will make your stupid cunt of an ex-girlfriend be extremely jealous.
Then just call any guys watching it a faggot.

Secret it with these things is to either ignore them or turn them to your advantage. It is a mindset you have to develop. Start now.

Oh. No one wants to see a fat guy guy jerk off. Unless a fat guy has a big dick he shouldn't be taking or send vids

i agree, fucking go hell on her, she fucked you, now you fuck her, get the cops and lawyer up make the whore cry

Why haven't you killed her yet? At a minimum you should have done an acid attack on her.

Then do something about it.
Use this episode as a turning point in your life.
Start exercising every day, buy some dumbbells, second hand if need be. Use them every day, read on how to exercise well and to avoid injury or strain.
Walk briskly for 30 minutes every day. Take an interest in nutrition.
For every piece of humiliation or anger you feel, use that energy to drive yourself towards improvement.
For every person that you feel is ridiculing you, become stronger than them, faster than them, study harder than them, work harder than them, become richer than them.
Use the energy constructively, that's what emotions are for.
If you start exercising today, doing good quality pushups, even if you can only do 1-2 to begin with; and if you start eating healthily, adding one new healthy food to your diet every week and eating it once a day, within a few months, you will feel like a new man.
Further to that, no one will ever be able to recognise that it was you in the video.

I know that but we were in a relationship for a year and a half.

I highly doubt this. Unless you and all your friends are like 12

I’m 20 she’s 18 and all my friends are in that age group

Then it will only reflect badly on her dude.
She is the foul cunt that released private stuff after having been together for a year and a half.
You have the moral superiority.
If you don't let yourself be embarassed by it, and don't let her affect or control you with it, then you become the superior man.
Who gives a shit dude, really.
It is all about perspective.
Save this thread, read through it all 10-20 times over the next week or two, and change your mindset and your perspective on this.
1. she is a cunt and any future boyfriends can see what kind of a cunt she is, which ruins her life for the foreseeable future. no one will trust her, no one will share secrets or private things with her if this is how she treats people.
2. people know that you were sexual with your girlfriend, big deal.
3. the internet is full of hundreds of millions of these videos and pictures, they are quickly forgotten. pass it off as unimportant, if any guys mention it call them a faggot for watching naked men in videos, if any girls mention it, ask them if they liked it - they'll either be too nervous to speak or blush, or they will say it turned them on.
4. follow my advice here: Don't let evil people affect you negatively in life.

who gives a shit, it only continues to be a source of amusement if you react to it.
if someone mentions it, you just say "who gives a shit, glad to be rid of the untrustworthy cunt".
Turn it around on them, ask if they masturbated while watching it, that should shut them up.
Biggest thing is, don't let her or them see that it bothers you, who gives a fuck, you are going to study hard, work hard, have a good future and find a decent girl.

op you faggot

Brother, you gotta realize that everybody does the same thing. If anybody judges you for it, they aren't worth your time. If somebody you NEED to respect you, say a boss or potential boss, brings this up, point out those two simple facts, explain the situation, and it's likely he'll commend you for your attitude.
Besides that, this'll probably blow over in a couple weeks.
Confidence, OP. Be naked and proud, not naked and afraid.

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op abandoned the thread because he's a useless piece of weak shit who can't listen to advice and instead will let his life fucking rot

Get the police involved anyways.

get the police involved