How many are you from an abusive home?

that's how they do it man. Stockholm style. military is a good option. discipline, order, a mission. things make sense, even though they're stupid. it won't give you direction though. it's a job and it will take you places. don't rely on it too heavily though, like i did. have an exit plan.

go to law school m8

Why is that dude pointing a gun in the camera

i've already spent my GI bill and the one good thing in my life besides health is no debt. i know too many lawyers to know i don't want to deal with civil cases where people argue over who pays for the remodeling or criminal cases dealing with the dregs of society i was raised in. thanks tho

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I always thought they loved me, no matter how many times I got scared by them, or when they'd starve me i'd tell myself its better than other people but I deserved better like the rest of us.

>doesn't into corporate legal
>doesn't into patent attorney
don't want to make money and work with high caliber people, got it.

Why don't you move?

I got kicked out at 17.

My homes have never abused me.
But my father has.

yea. kids need love. they'll project that need onto just about anything, even genitals, sadly. i didn't really have thoughts back then. just day after day, line after line. then puberty hit and all i felt was rage and wanting fuck. it's a miracle i'm not in prison. the fact i'm not, is a blessing. count your blessings user.

actually i don't want to go into debt for a law degree that may or may not actually get me into a job, a field i'd just be starting in my 40s.

>be me
>about 5 years ago
>12
>out in slc with my parents, recently built a new pc to play vidya's with friends
>step-dad works for norton
>norton child or some shit, i forget
>i use my mom's ipad because i can't access actual porn sites to get my meat beat off
>i do my do
>i find this weird russian sight for some of my fetishes
>i do this
>mom thinks i'm into child pr0n
>she refuses to talk to me for the next 2 days before i'm sent back to california w/ my dad
>i get back to cali, none the wise
>all my tech is gone and my dad is in shambles
>outside, crying
>he talks to me saying my mother said i had child pr0n on my pc
>idk what to say, it's all false
>go thru long legal process
>taken into police station nearly 8 times for interogation
>they found nothing besides furry porn, which was all it was tbh
>ff to 1 year ago
>be me, 16
> court case finally ends, and i haven't talked to my mom in nearly 4 years besides little convo's on facebook

is this what i need user's? was this god pushing me into the spotlight?

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bump :(

fuck that bitch, you're better off without her and don't need shit from her

Mine were just emotionally abusive. My dad did spank me when he got angry for stupid reasons sometimes. Oh shit i'm appologizing for his behavior. Yea guess I was physically abused too fuck

My folks were poor and have personality disorders so I guess I forgive them, they're only people and most people are pretty shitty tbh fam

bumparooni

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My brother was the worst. I am an advocate for 'boys will be boys' in terms of wrestling around and obviously some are going to get hurt, but my situation was not remotely close to that. He held me down and tortured me for an hour or two almost every single day. Looking back it is practically sociopathic. Whenever I tried to tell my parents they would tell me to fight back. Any time I fought back (a futile effort, he was twice my weight) they would punish us for fighting.

Mother gaslit us the year my dad left in an attempt to get him to come home. As an adult I can't speak to her anymore because she pretends to commit suicide every 3 to 4 months.

Father was more of the verbal abusive type, he stopped hitting us when we went into grade school. He would play really weird mind games. If my older brother didn't like carrots he didn't have to eat them with dinner, but if I didn't like lasagna he would force feed me until I vomitted then woudl call me a sissy for it. I remember in highschool we got tired of him yelling at us every single day so we decided we were going to do an extreme 'spring cleaning' level amount of chores one day to try and impress him. When he got home he yelled at us for not doing a 'good enough' job, on all the extra chores we weren't even asked to do. At that point we realized that was the point, we didn't necessarilly ever do anything wrong he simply wanted to yell at us. We gave up trying at that point.

It is interesting reading everyone else's stories on the subject as well.

YOU KIDS SHUT THE FUCK UP OR I WILL COME IN THERE AND FUCK YOU UP!!!!!!!

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>tons of interesting and meaningful insights to respond to
>just says 'bump' instead
Why would anyone want to post in a thread where someone admits they are just going to ignore them?

Yea thats why I wanted to make the thread, I know theres people fucked up like me because of their parents, too many stories to greentext about my own but I just want to read others issues.

This isn't OP bud. This is someone else bumping.

Left home at 16. Forged a new identity from a birth certificate. Joined military for GI bill. Am a physician now. Never spoke to my father again. He was an abusive violent fuck.

I want to do system adminstration once I get my shit together and get through all these bullshit feelings, feeling like an emo kids on tumblr right now lmfao

How's the alcoholism?

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I had to deal with my friends 5 yr old and her 1 yr old at the doctors office. Never have been parental before, and the 5yr old was getting kinda nutty. When I asked her to relax she said I literally can't relax and started running around the table.

So what I did was just grab her and hold her still, saying we are gonna relax together until you can relax. I didn't know what else to do this chick never disciplines her kids.

How so?

I have just recently been realizing how not so great my childhood was. Like shit I never think about all that much. Call me naive or fucked up, whatever it is I'm not ashamed it's taken me this long to figure out. I'm about to be 31 and I just recently started experiencing and figuring out some of my fucked up shit and why I feel very different. Got some stories if anyone is interested.

yea kids are crazy, but the moms. shit that's where most the problems are in my opinion. i dated this one broad with a 3yr old. kid was out of control. she was hyper latina, couldnt sit still, very introverted though, terrified of conflict. he'd push her buttons like a pro, she'd snatch him up and smack him around, screaming in Spanish. i had to to intervene. i can't stand seeing that. this kid had night terrors to boot. flailing around ,smacking her in the face, she's crying and shit. over time i figured out his problem was separation anxiety. she just wasn't there for him and he really needed her. he didn't know how else to express it. things improved after a while. his night terrors went away once i coached him on getting up and taking a piss. he actually chills now. he also freaked out when water got in his face in the bath. i taught him how to hold the shower piece so he could do it himself. the way his face lit up when he realized he had control, man, i get it why people say having kids is the best. you just have to be there for them and deal with their shit. most of it's got to do with mommy anyways. hell my own mom was the scum of the earth. see

interested

hey, you're not alone there. it took therapy to figure out my damage around that age too. your early development is crucial to your adulthood.

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The only cure to abusive parents is to put them in their place

In before a bunch of winy ass sissy fags cry about how bad their lives are and blame it on their parents instead of accepting the truth that they are all just degenerate scum that never even deserved the love they did get.

so ...you wanna talk about it, user?

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Daddy hitting you wasn't okay user, just come out and join us in our support group.

Thats what im doing, showing them ill have a better life than they had and given me.

It's nice to know I'm not alone and able to talk about it. It's not always the coolest shit to talk about at parties and family gatherings and whatnot

I didn't forget about you man, just give a little bit

Tes

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Shut

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yea, there's that nagging suspicion you'll be judged as damaged goods or an attention whore. i never talk about it, but things come out on their own. i apparently sob in my sleep sometimes. luckily i can just blame it on PTSD or someshit, but people don't like going near this. meanwhile much of your life was defined by it. :(

What? Half of these posts are about how we are still living good lives or working towards them despite the abuse. Or are people just never allowed to bring up anything negative ever even if prompted by someone else?

If my mother didn't beat the autism out of me when I was younger I would be way worse off than I am now. Lets just say every time a teacher brought up Ritalin to my mother I got a belt and not a pill. And I thank God every day now that I did. I spent my childhood hating her for being so hard on me but I am who I am today because of it. I love my mother and father I rarely talk to them because I'm so busy. I need to call them.

Yea this is why I made it, hope for my future.
Most people get beaten way too far, scars, broken bones, just because your mom helped you doesn't mean others needed it.

I guess that depends on your definition of ABUSE

autistic kids don't just act up though. especially ones that apparently can be cured with beatings. you hate her, you just don't realize it yet. we're here for you if and when that day comes.

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Physical violence.

Does the military recruit citizens with criminal pasts?

The majority of my close relatives were physically and emotionally abusive up until I was 16, though they’re still utter cunts to me nowadays. My dad, who’s side of the family were the worst; has always taken their sides, and even though he can’t deny what they did, he just dismisses it and overlooks it because he glorifies them so much.
I have a good cry over my relationship with my dad every so often.

they did during my time. "roadside bombs" were driving recruitment down apparently. they took guys with felonies for a while. those are subject to change. peace time, they keep the standards high. you just have to ask recruiters. Marines are pretty snooty, but Army will take just about anyone. that's not to their discredit. we had some god guys that grew up in gangs.

christ i had to do like 40 capchas to post this

No I did hate her because she would leave welts on my back with a belt and I had to do what she said or else. But now I know it was because she loved me. I wasn't the kind of kid that would do timeout or talk too. I tested the water to much I swear I would be in prison or dead now if not for what she did. And I know it hurt her because she would bawl her eyes out after and seeing her sad eventually changed my behavior. When I became a productive responsible adult all the hatred I had for her shed away especially after finding out how hard life is on your own.

seems like may have caught some of that too and he's relieved it's on you now. seems like a coward from where i sit.

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well it seems like she was consistent at the very least and never gave up on you. those are qualities in themselves. maybe i'm wrong about her. i'm glad you both sorted it out.

Ok so my stories might seem all over the place or written like a retard, but I my brain is all over the place and I never claimed to be a writer.

The classic "Daddy wasn't around" scenario. My mom attaches herself to others for emotional and financial support, so she started doing just that. One of my first ever memories at a young age (2-3 years old) is of her first husband laughing with a friend on the couch. My mom wasn't home I remember and it was just these 2 guys. I see them while I'm in another room, and her husband throws something at me while cracking up. Realized later in life it was a dildo. Not too bad of a story! I'm sure I'm not the only person who's ever had sex toys thrown at them as a kid, but it's one of my earliest memories I have to start off my life. That story ain't shit.

My mother sacrificed allot made my dad pay to send me to the best schools and made sure I had the good clothes and food I remember store clerks telling my mom and dad that the cheaper clothes are down that way because their clothes were so shabby looking and my dad never hesitated to get me the best clothes and he worked all day the sacrifices that they made with smiles on their faces for me is what I will always remember about my parents.

neglect isn't nothing, user. home should be where you're safe and not having your mom's sex toys thrown at you. that's the kind of shit that would be funny at 15 if you guys were cool like that.

seems like you had a pretty damn good family, user. a little jelly here.

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The older I got those smiles turned to tired faces and I felt sorry for my mom and dad I wanted to do something for them and now that I'm grown they pay for nothing I moved out and went to college at 18 dropped out a year later been living on my own ever since and they are both retired now and I see the smiles now when I see them and ever day I thank God for the sacrifices they made for me.

Next up came what I considered my "step-dad". I was about 5 years old meeting him. Big fucking guy and eventually became a great police officer. I remember when we all first moved in our house as a family. I was terrified because I had been getting my ass spanked for not being able to answer simple questions. My other family members we lived with before we moved out hated him because they found a canoe paddle he had been using to spank me with in their home. Later they were all too hesitant to contact anybody about child abuse because of his status in the city in general. Spankings with a belt were always common. I found new friends just a couple houses over and they were all siblings. 3 of them. Weird ass family. From then on things only got worse and way more weird than I care to remember.

Sorry man, I just know people have been through way worse than me so I always tend to downplay my shit all the time. I'm working on it