Hi Yea Forums, So throughout all my life I've experienced and witnessed unfairness. And have not figured out how to deal with the fact that I cant do anything about life's unfair nature.
It may seem a stupid example but this has been a struggle my whole life. A friend of mine (we know eachother since first grade, im 21 now) is quite the chad. He is handsome, smart and has many other qualities. The thing is that he'll do anything for his own benefit rarely thinking about others: Cheating on his girlfriends, Spending more time with "new friends" to get something from them...
Despite this, life treats him well, The girls he cheats on end up forgiving him, the new ones he meets dont care he has cheated on all his previous girlfriends. He also excels in social interactions.
When I confront him about his behaviour towards other people he laughs it off and says life is not meant to be fair, he does not care about other people at all.
I think about it very often and it really gets to me. The worst part is that I cant do anything about it. No one will ever make him pay for his selfishness.
Do you guys know how to ignore/cope with the fact that life is simply unfair?
>The worst part is that I cant do anything about it You could suck his dick
Anthony Foster
Why are you looking at other people and what they have instead of looking at yourself and making yourself better?
Jason Johnson
I'ts so difficult, I get very angry it fucking sucks.
Jason Perry
I've become better at ignoring it, but its difficult.
Thomas Hall
Why is it difficult? What's difficult about keeping your eyes on your own paper?
Easton Davis
Why not become him?
Benjamin Diaz
I don't want to live greatly if I have to trump others to get there. Theres no way im becoming like him.
Brandon Rogers
I cant help it, I tend to compare myself to other people. He also rubs it in my face so its hard not to.
Easton Price
Accept it and do unfair things yourself. If everyone else can do bad things, why can't you? You can either cry helplessly and despair, or you can use it. People are filth and the world is hopeless, either adapt to that from your childish idealism and become a shark among the sharks, or...be you.
Ayden Baker
just copy his formula OP. Be an asshole to everyone and only care about yourself, then you will get grills and do well in social interactions.
Ayden Price
So you're like him personalitywise.
Easton Brown
as stupid as it sounds I believe in a world where everyone is kind to eachother. I will never be knowingly unfair to someone. or atleast i'll try
Isaac Diaz
I dont think so.
Cooper Rogers
Then you have no right to complain. You will never excel. You will live the status quo and be fine with it. Life is unfair. If you can't deal then I would suggest learning how to deal with it. Make yourself better and stop focusing on other people. When you become a better person, you will realize that you didn't need to become a Chad. Just a more refined beta. Don't get all neckbeardy. Just stop comparing yourself to others. Trust nigga.
Its not about the grills. I dont care he is getting more than me. What really gets to me is that he gets to be an asshole and does not get punished by it.
Michael Turner
He's looking at you saying "at least I'm not him" and you're looking at him saying "I wish I had his life!" You're both insecure faggots.
Nolan Rogers
>he laughs it off and says life is not meant to be fair, he does not care about other people at all.
He's right
>I cant do anything about it.
Won't
Jose Miller
One thing that has helped me is to compare myself to my old self. I get to see Improvement and dot get blinded by other people as much. But its hard, im still trying tho
Gabriel Williams
its not Won't its can't. Even if I were to do something he would still act in the same fashion
Anthony Reyes
I dont wish I had his life. I want him to be more empathetic and think about other people. we are all in this bitch why not be nice to eachother?
Ian Cook
Wait until you know he'll be out one night. When he's coming home and distracted opening his door, ambush him and kill/cripple him. You can even justify it to yourself as a good and virtuous thing to do because of all the suffering and harm you'd be preventing him from causing over decades
But you won't. Afraid? Weak? Doesn't matter why, only what
Evan Turner
Yeah exactly why are you worried about him and what he does?
Kevin Wright
Batman knows you are wrong
Evan Garcia
>why not be nice to eachother?
Because the vast majority of people are utterly unworthy of 'nice'-ness and many if not most will exploit and abuse or at least not at all appreciate any such treatment shown to them?
Juan Powell
You could kill him. Look into his eyes as you cut the heart from his chest and know justice.
Lucas Russell
because I see it. Same as if you see somebody fell, you help them up beacuse you saw them struggling.
Hunter Cruz
So if you saw this guy on the ground, you'd help him up? You see him struggling.
