>Be me
>Together with a girl with tattoos
>make her girl rid of the tattoos that are showing too much
>She agrees
>have great sex
>She is really nice when we are alone
>Turns in to a bitch when we are in public or.meeting with her family
>I get irritated everytime and let her have it and putting her down as a result
>trying to explain to her in a nice way when we are alone not to behave like that
>doesntwork.jpg
>next time I'm telling her in a aggressive way
>it works for some time then she starts acting up again
>also extremely stubborn and can never admit when she's wrong even with the most trivial things
>I'm starting to get bored by this shit but I still think I love her
What to do?
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just give her an ultimatum but only if you really have to because if you do it you could ruin the relationship and she could fall out of love thinking you're so quick to break up with her
I'm not the being a dick. I treat her well but only start putting her down when she is acting like a bitch.
Funny thing is I already did this user. She started sobbing and promising to change and it worked out well for a short time but after that she started acting like a bitch again. I have a lot of integrity and I'm afraid her behaviour is making me look weak.
Kind of just sounds like you're an asshole and she should stop being nice to you in private, then she'll be be a bitch in public and private. Like, what's the deal with you making her get rid of tattoos? WTF.
She's probably cheating on you.
>when she’s acting like a bitch
Which, over time, will happen more and more frequently.
She’s hiding her true self when you’re alone together. When you’re around other people that know her, she can’t hide it.
Eventually you’ll get bitch-mode all the time. Get out now.
You seem like an absolute cunt of a human being.
So you think it's okay for her to be having like a bitch in public and blame that behaviour on me despite the fact that I'm being nice to her?
Let me guess, you're a roastie?
Tattoos are degenerate when you have them to visible. That's why I made her getting rid of them.
And no, she doesn't cheat on me because I'm already way out of her league and make her cum multiple times when wr have sex. That's not the issue.
This is exactly what I suspect. The funny thing is that she is about to turn 30 and I'm probably her last chance of having a family and all. I can't see why she wants to ruin this :(
>make her cum multiple times when wr have sex
All girls cum multiple times when they have sex. You’re not doing anything extraordinary there.
Why?
>Implying being this brainwashed by porn
No they aren't user. A lot of girls are not being satisfied at all by their bf's.
Spank her. That's what she wants and needs.
>Imagine
Its no Love op, its the sex.
Shes probably great looking and staff, but do you guys actually bond?
Had the same issue with a girl last couple of months. If she just acts differently in front of other people then there's something wrong. My issue was solved with an open relationship, we get to fuck and move on with our lives. When it gets boring get out.
Not wanting to sound like a cuck or anything but I'm not interested in being in a open relationship. I want to find someone I can actually have a meaningful relationship with. And that's the thing, when we are alone she is really great and we have a lot of fun together. I tried to talk with her about this but I can't get any good answer on why she behaves like this.
>claims not to be an asshole
>says visible tattoos are degenerate
>says is way out of girlfriend's league
>still says is not an asshole
>feels these way about another human person and then says "I still think I love her."
>is probably huge asshole.
She's probably not even being a bitch, you're probably just too sensitive. If you're so out of her league and and from the stuff you say, probably honestly never really liked her that much to begin with - seeing as how she's a degenerate at all - you should do yourself a favor and break up with her.
I slapped her once after I got really mad when she behaved bad the second last time. It didn't help.
I’ve never had a gf that I couldn’t make cum multiple times. You just need to find the right way for each of them.
>I'm not an asshole
>Forces gf to remove tattoos
>Physical Abuse
>Think of yourself as a sex god
mfw
Huge asshole confirmed.
No I actually love her but im not a superficial bastard who only looks at beauty on the outside. She is not bad looking at all and she has good qualities but how can I be someone who turns completely 180 everytime we are with her family and friends.
This person gets it.
A slap is not fysical abuse. You are just brainwashed by feminist propaganda.
Why?
Not superficial but makes a person remove their tattoos to not be a "degenerate."
I get your point. It's kind of the dream right? So don't settle for anything less than you think you deserve user. There's a lot of fish in the sea, but don't let instant and nearby sex fool you around. The open realtionship thing is just a way to still fuck her if you have nothing in common, which is my case. About her not giving you a straight answer, if you really want to know you need to confront her. Maybe she just wants the good sex as you say (mine just wanted that too) and she sees that you want something more
And I never said I was a sex good but I'm good at my oral skills and like to make my gf have a good time in bed. Is that so bad?
Yes because visible tattoos are not nice and will look terrible when she becomes older. I'm doing it mostly for her because obviously some people make bad decisions and need people.to help them make it right.
Slapping your gf because her words hurt your feelings makes you a dick. Whether you want to classify it as physical abuse is irrelevant.
No, hitting someone and trying to control them is definitely abuse. Just cos you got frustrated by someone being mean to you and your little feelings doesn't mean you can just up and hit them.
Language you've used throught this whole thing like "how to behave" and shit is just such a red flag. I hope this girl is smart enough to get the fuck out.
No, it's was a last resort after calm reasoning didn't work. I wouldn't mind if some girl slapped me if I treated them disrespectfully.
you sound like a sociopath.
Holy shit. So you slap her around, and you psychologically abuse her. What trailer park do you live in?
>girlfriend
Fake and gay
ITT:
An OP not wanting to come to terms with the fact he's an asshole, justifying his shit behaviour from some moral high ground.
The thing is that she tells me all the time that she loves me and want to spend her life with me but it's like she simply can't change in her behaviour. I wonder sometimes if she is so insecure about herself that she can't be nice when in public. Like a defence mechanism?
"I can't see why this scorpion would sting me! Now we will both drown!!" It's so much easier to understand women when you accept their true nature.
"I'm just doing this for you. Me changing you to be more like my ideal is for you. I love you."
Yeah, not a good person at all.
>turns completely 180 everytime we are with her family and friends.
She’s clearly scared of you and afraid of what you’re capable of doing to her when you’re alone together.
You psycho.
She's likely BPD with a lot of bad habits.
Seems like you have enough clout and frame to make her get rid of tattoos. Good job that established a strong frame.
Just apply that masculine energy and dominance over her in public. When she acts up give her a warning or two then leave her where she stands, ignore phone for an hour, call her back being totally chill and calm and not in your feelings if she blew you phone up. If she didn't blow your phone up she's a stubborn bitch and just go ghost until either she never hits you up again or she breaks up with you or wants to reconcile.
Be ready to walk away from a bitch at any time my man. You know the rules.
I slapped her once and I'm not physically abusing her. I'm giving back with the same methods as she is using on me. I never start shit with her, but she makes be be an asshole to her because I'm not going to accept her bitch behaviour.
No, me wanting her to be able to look in the mirror when she's older without feeling like an idiot. Me wanting her not to feel ashamed in front of future children.
You two are horrible for each other and need to separate, forever.
Why should she be scared when I'm always nice to her when were alone?
100% THIS.
I'm sure she'd like to believe this. And it's probably not her that needs to change her behavior. It's you who needs to change yours. Poor chick deserves so much better than you but you've probably fucking brainwashed her into thinking your the best she can do. I mean, you already declared yourself out of her league.
You sound like an abusive boyfriend who thinks they can control they own their women. The reality is people are what they are, you can't change them much. If you don't like her personality and she won't change, then leave her, not discpline her. You're not her father. Frankly I hope she leaves you before you hurt her with your fists.
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Good job again. Women need to be reminded they are physically inefrior every once in a while and there's nothing wrong with that. I personally slap women if they get real outta line but try to avoid physical violence. You gotta beat em up in their domepiece, remind them you are better.
Ignore these gameless chumps
Not the same thing. You have to establish rules ahead of time and let her know that she'll be punished when you get home if she breaks them.
Take her over your knee and spank her bare ass until she's sorry. She'll either learn to behave or you'll break up.
Problem solved either way.
The thing about me is that I hate doing public scenes and feel ashamed of being some dominating dick in front of her family. I have no problems doing that when we are outside of her family company. Maybe I want her family approval so that's why I usually keep silent and show the masculine dominance once we are outside.
Translation: I know I'll get called out for being an abuser if I don't limit my abuse to the privacy of our own home.
You sick bastard. I hope your daughter ends up in an abusive relationship and she gets slapped and hit daily resulting in brain damage and a black eye. Then I'm sure you'll hold the same opinion.
Where the hell do you faggots find these completely deranged women that allow themselves to be abused by you while not in bed? I feel so sorry for them. You guys are disgusting. I hope you all burn and your daughters are abused forever so you can develop some sympathy you fucking psychopaths.
Use plain language that everyone can understand.
I don't like the way you're acting right now.
What you just said was unnecessary.
Why are you talking shit [or whatever your preferred way of saying that is]?
Then immediately let her know the consequences of her actions if she starts to argue or doesn't apologize. Which is you will leave her right there. If you want to be a classy motherfucker then throw a 20 in her face and tell her to find her own way home.
Don't be a coward, you gotta be a man all the time. God all the way, not just in private.
I don't like conflict, I don't like public scenes, I don't like any of that. Know what I like more though? My dignity. No way some raggedy bitch is gonna treat me with disrespect in public I don't care how many people are around. I'll say fuck you in front of god and everybody and get the fuck outta there.
Why don't you just casually tell her dad that she was misbehaving and you had no choice but to assert some male dominance and slap her. It's cool, right? Just two dudes talkin'. Women, right? Sheesh.
Maybe he'll have something to say about whether or not you're abusive.
Damn you're gay. Women like strong men. That's why you never get laid.
You are the abuser who wants someones daughter getting slapped daily. Nobody here wants to slap any women daily. Sometimes it's necessary though.
You are proving the fact that sjw cucks are latent abusers and rapists.
Be a man so she stops treating you like her bitch
OP just show us your tiny dick, and everything will be ok. Just a dicklet thinks like you do bruh, how much you have? 3 inches?
>I’m not abusive
>I won’t treat her like that in front of her family
Holy shit man. You’re full on trailer trash.
I hope you have 5 daughters, and they all end up with guys just like you.
OP, these are the types of people that are coming to your defense. That should be more than enough of a signal that you're on the wrong side of this thing. Do yourself, but mostly this poor girl, a favor and break up with her.
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Lol, I've been married for 10 years in a stable relationship where we play Dom/Sub in bed but never in real life. You guys are still trying to figure out how to even keep one chick in your bed for a day.
Keep projecting.
> Sometime's it's necessary though
Okay psychopath, whatever you say. I hope someone thinks that about your daughter one day and treats her like that. I'm sure you would be happy to find that out.
Btw, if it wasn't clear to your genius brain, I am obviously not being serious about your daughter being abused and I just want you to develop some sympathy for women who are being abused by their spouse, possibly it could even be your daughter.
>married
>proof of manliness
Holy cuck
I've been married for 18 years. We don't play D/s, that's just the way we are. It works for us, but it's probably not for everyone.
Married or in a relationship, it doesn't matter, call it whatever you want. The reality is I was able to hold a relationship for 10 years and counting, and that's not something a lot of couples can say. What's your relationship accomplishment, user?
You're awfully judgmental regarding other people's sex lives and fetishes.
Poor girl. I hope she doesn't feel trapped in your relationship and she can't leave. Like Stockholm syndrome.
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try harder virgin
Jesus Christ, this makes me hard.
>girl with tattoos everywhere
its your fault for ignoring nature's giant billboard for mental illness
You don’t treat her well. You are accepting like a beta fag whatever she does.
Next time she does that you will yell at her. Not nice talk, be aggressive and yell, she will like it because well.. biology. When she will do this next time again then you brake up. Literally on the spot. If she comes back then good. If not literally you won’t marry her so whatever.
Beat her, you fucking loser.