What the fuck is it called when you don't feel attracted to anyone? I mean it's weird to explain it. Sexy women in pics...

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If you really not attracted to anyone, then you could be asexual or aromantic.

Like if you want to hang out with a girl, hug her, cuddle her, and shit like that, but have no interest in sex, then you are asexual. If you think women are hot, but want nothing to do with them other than sex, you are aromantic. Or you could be both.

Even asexuals get horny sometimes. Some of them at least.

Where the fuck this commin from? Incel shit and etc... What a fuck is this LOL

This is what you got wrong man. I didn't say I don't find them attractive. I could see an attractive woman, but as soon as she opens her mouth to say anything I'm out of it.

About the fed up part, yeah you're right. I was fed with woman's shit. But that was 3 yrs ago when I had my last relationship. But you'd think I got over it by then. I mean, literally wouldn't care.

Wow. Now that's a hard question. Like I said to the other guy, the last relationship I had was 3 yrs ago. I mean sex was ok, it was sex after all, but I got tired of it easily. I mean after almost 6 months sex was inexistent from my part. I would even make up excuses to avoid getting private with my ex-gf.

> want to hang out with a girl, hug her, cuddle her, and shit like that
The problem is, I don't even have that interest.

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It's called too much fapping.

The longer you go on without ejaculating the more attracted you become to girls. It's just how your body works.

Either too much porn.
> You've already denied this.
Potentially on the Asexual spectrum
> pic related.
Potentially stress fucking you up
> look into how stress fucks with sex drive, and attraction.

But at least you're not attracted to dolls and robots.

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you're probably gay mystery solved

I'm going to look into that stress shit. Maybe that's the thing.

Looked into gay shit to be honest, not into that. And I really checked it, it's not denial, I'm just not into that.

Also you might be gay and experiencing internalised homophobia.

you're either normal or a faggot, no need to make these useless charts.

Jesus christ get the fuck out of here

google it fag stop attaching words to things you just make the problem worse simply stop jerking off go outside

Might be schizoid

Maybe get your hormone levels tested? You could be naturally very low in T, which can affect sex drives I think.

Also, what do you want? Like, do you want to be in a relationship with a girl?

Fag

Yeah, I think this best describes what I'm going to... but can this be developed or is it something you just have? I just read a little on wikipedia.

T is fine. Grow healthy hair on my body. Absolutely 0 man boobs, etc. Also, it's almost an year since I quit smoking.

What do I want? Another hard question. I don't know how to answer it even if I kinda' know what I want in my head.

I think im on the same boat as you, OP.
I reached the conclusion that it’s just sloth. The unwillingness of being arsed to put up a front to be likable by someone, relationships almost completely out of the question. Then you slowly start to think of casual sex as unnecessary because it takes you out of your comfort zone. As a defense, you’re rejecting all sexual contact.

Just try - you're anonymous here, it's a good opportunity to be honest with how you feel.

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It's not that I'm not honest. It's just that I don't know how to put it into words to make myself understood. People usually tend to misinterpret, and the conversation could go on a shit path that I have to explain each and every word. But this guy put it in words quite nicely.

some may say its harsh but that doesnt make it any less true

I, at the same time envy people who have the drive for these things. Because I feel very lonely at times and it’s exhausting my sense of self, as all my peers including my brother and sister have had someone they love mutually.

I can relate a lot. I've had girlfriends but not really long term. Sex has always been fairly underwhelming. Probably has a lot to do with lifelong severe depression and social isolation, growing up without forming close relationships with family. At least in my case.

You've overstimulated yourself to porn and now your brain thinks that's what sex is.
And your disgust around others could be anxiety and discomfort which you've turned to disgust as an ego defense.

The first one I listed is a real thing. The second is my opinion only you can confirm or deny, but give it a hard think before denying it.

I envy people who have the drive to kill themselves, because it's never bad enough to get me to that point but it all just feels tedious and I don't want to have to do it any more.

I know people who like 2D better than 3D. Can't get a word for this, but it might be more common than you think.

Same here. But my only "envy" is that while they put up with a lot of shit with that relationship, I feel I'm not worth that whole shit.

True here. But unlike you I have close relationships with my family while I tend not to have friends. I mean I know a lot of people, I am sociable while around people, but I don't like to get close with people.

Again. Idk why, but I feel the same here.

Well. I can deny it only because, I know that sex feels different in a way to jacking off. Sex is better than jacking off. I only jack off because I heard that it's unhealthy to keep semen up in your balls prolonged times.

Well it's not that I'm attracted to 2d or drawn things.

That's just your brain sending you signals not to reproduce and to let your gene pool die off. Simple as that.

But isn't that against the whole nature and shit?

You just developed better taste than what's around you.

Its a good thing. Women are shit and you shouldn't give them attention.

This is an assumption. Get your Test tested dude.

Yeah it's an asumption, BUT if there are no actual evidence on your body like man boobs, lack of body hair, etc. it means shit is working fine. If testosterone was low I wouldn't grow hair on my shoulders, wouldn't grow a healthy beard, wouldn't have a flat, wide chest.

Hmmm...who guessed it was him...?

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i think it's called risk assessment and effort involved.

i find women attractive also but they're just not worth it, i rub out out every now and then to porn and that's about as far as i am willing to take it.

How about how is your life in general? are you happy (at least somewhat). Because if you are depressed (eg. no drive for anything, just getting absolutely minimum done) then that would be cause. Depression = under functional frontal lobe. And fixes would be sport, sleep, diet whit some veggies, less sugar and alcohol and stress/emotional management ...

I had those issues.

You're either desensitised by watching too much porn or your T levels are abysmally low.

Life is okay. I'm doing shit and getting shit done. Really. I feel a little down sometimes but wouldn't call it depression to be frank.

Can you source me on that, OP? Google didnt help.

Normal

Hmm, that is hard one then. I would guess it is either hormones or psychological.

If psychological, then it is more work, because you need to start asking guestions from your self, to figure out why you are feeling(or in this case not feeling) way you are. After finding reason for your emotions(or lack of) you need to decide if those reason are reasonably and if you want to keep thinking in such way.

Bad relationship can leave really long traumas specially unconscious ones are nasty. eg. one you just decided not to think about, because it hurt so much.

if you feel disgust or similar toward womans in general, then that would point toward psychological stuff.

I hope this helps.

Yeah it helps. Thank you.

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You could be aromantic. Is your test normal?

"Aromantic"

If you have all the answers then what are you doing on here? Stop making assumptions, Low T can manifest itself in many ways or very few.

I vote for that test for T, it doesn't cost that much and low T has other nasty health effects in long run.

Also part of your problem could be that you want to have proper relationship(short or long) with person you sleep with. Meaning you want to be respected, accepted and loved. And finding a woman nowadays that can provide those without bringing too much other kind of insanity as price is extremely hard. Most of us in general tend to have good amount of issues.

How overprotective you are on your own opinion.
>If you have all the answers then what are you doing on here?
I literally have an answer for a question you asked me related to my original question. Having one answer doesn't mean I have them all. If I reject an opinion doesn't mean you need to get all passive aggressive on an user thread.

Enjoy bring alone ya fag. Maybe you should try out cock sucking like some of the other guys said.

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And there goes the butthurt faggot. Fuck off ya' over obsessed over testosterone tranny,

From what I read in the thread so far it sounds like you either have depression or a serious lack of confidence or self worth or some other issue which leads to your lack of desire or perhaps fear to form meaningful relationships with women.

Or, you have indeed watched too much porn and your idea of sexual pleasure is now linked to an ideal of selfishly getting off entirely on your own terms and by your own fetishes in ten minutes or less. You should definitely try give up the porn for a while either way. Doesn't matter if you consider yourself addicted in terms of frequency of use, you clearly have a mental dependency related to it.

People say stop watching porn and masturbating are wrong.
It's not worth it depriving myself just so some tired slag with no performance can starfish in bed and expect a top review.
Women need to step up their bedgame.

Also minge stinks, it smells up the room, cleanup is too much and I'm only showering once per day. Plus she wants to fuck and maybe I just want to get my nut cleanly without all the stickiness

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The only person with dumber opinions about women than an incel is someone only capable of having bad sex with bad partners

>Women just starfish and they smell >:(
If you're not an incel you should be

I don't know why, but you kinda' sound just about right. Yeah it's true, while sex is just different from jacking off, it implies some details I'm not always in the mood of dealing with.

Sometimes just emptying the balls with 0 after problems is just what you need.

>yeah man you're an incel because you have bad sex with no experience partners

No, you're a faggot who clearly doesn't have an idea on how women generally are. Women in general have such a great view on their pussy and they think that if they spread their legs and do nothing they're going to please you. That guy is actually right. And before starting to make autistic screeches around here just note that I said most women, not all women.

Asexual

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You're a real genius dude. You know most of everything is shit right? You think most men are paragon examples and outstanding specimens of their gender?

You have to be an idiot not to see that guy's point. No one said men are great as sex, just as not all women are great at sex. The point was on another level... but your whiteknighting is keeping you from seeing that.

>google made up bullshit words you never heard of

All you have to do is work out and get a job and your a alpha

Low T

Ohhh did everyone hurt your feels because nobody liked your faggot answer?

Fat. Exercise, you lazy prick.

Buzz buzz. Did i trigger ya? Heh. Snowflake

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Your cynicism and lack of standards/confidence is keeping you from being happy. And your anger is keeping you from seeing that :)

I own a small business.
I own a sports car.
I am not the definition of /fit/ but I'm normal.

>lack of standards
Literally stated standards there, are you really that stupid?
>lack of confidence
Not needing help is the greatest confidence.
>anger
this is something someone passive/aggressive would always shout when losing an argument

pee

it's the erotic atmosphere, girls just wait the man do all the work

I'm not losing an argument or even having one tho :) I've been in bad relationships and had bad sex and now I'm not and I don't. I have standards now and things I will not accept and I have the confidence to state that outright.

Settling for the sake of sparing someone else's feelings it because you can't do better just ends up hurting everyone. I mean look at you ;)

Ah, i see some animations?
Christy Mack. i can't resist her tits Post somethin man...

OP, user didn't assert his "opinion." He suggested what might be a cause to your apparent problem.

This fella's right on the money. Instead of immediately shutting down any suggestions to alter your lifestyle, face the reality that it is atypical to experience this. If it is a hinderance to your life, consider what you can do to change. Stopping masturbation is just a check of will.

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Asexual means you're not attracted to anyone albeit male or female. If this is a buzzword and it offends you, oh well then don't ask what it's called

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