Be me

Dammit bro, your last text killed you. Alright, are you willing to go all in? Or are you actually fine being friends?

>thinking you're good looking
>Only ugly guys and nerds get these texts from a girl

i’ve only met this girl once so i really don’t know why i’m trying to value her friendship

I’ll assume that the rest of that last text isn’t very important. I’d say just allow a normal conversation flow to happen but at some point bring up the two of you going on a date, but make it clear it’s only to see if something is there or not. And you can do it while your out of town, you just gotta make sure you have a time and place down for it after you return. If it goes well congrats, if it doesn’t there’s not much you can do and the ball is back in your court my dude. You can decide if you want to stay friends or slowly drift apart. Hell, you could end it immediately, but that’s a dickish thing to do.

yeah that’s fair but i do go to a prettt prestigious university so everyone is a nerd. she knows 4 languages lol

>How can we be friends our tongues have licked each other
So? She found you sexually attractive in a party setting, alcohol, possibly drugs, dancing, music, lightheartedness and a good portion of deliberately seeking sexual satisfaction. Do you think that so easily translates to completely different situations? She liked your party self, because it fit her needs in that specific situation. She doesn't like your non-party self.

Show us her pics

this is some solid advice. i initially wrote this to relieve my mind, but it’s been helpful. thanks user

Alright
Send her this:
Hey look, I just want you to know that you're stunning and I haven't stopped thinking about you since that night. Honestly, I'm not sure what I'm looking for right now, but I want you.

yeah alcohol definetly makes sense, and that point was mostly for the memes. but she was saying that shit in the texts ^ so idk

No prob. It’s a slow night and I don’t want to deal with the stuff I’ve got to do today, so I’m more than happy to help.

no

Nah, she wanted him to pursue her. The "I don't know what I want" is her telling you to tell her what you want. He fucked himself by backing down

Now now, I think he can recover if he plays his cards right.

>semi good looking guy
>beta male
wrong

testosterone is directly related to both attractive physical traits and attractive mental traits, you thinking you look good is in your head and you also probably dress like a fag

this is how whores operate.

I think he can too

which is?

aw man i loved the shirt i was wearing :( time to throw it out

What I posted above,

First of all stop telling her how She is better than you and how pretty she is etc. I know that sounds kind of like a cliche but girls almost never want a guy who is like that. Show less interest in her.

Make sure he has the ball in his court, show confidence, and don’t be too pushy. He has to have patience and optimism, and keep her in a good mood. From there he makes his moves and it either goes well or it doesn’t (that’s where the optimism comes in).

seems too forward, and not entirely true

Half of that is right. Don't undermine yourself, but he's already engaged her personality, doubling down on the looks now is the way forward

Yeah I don’t agree with it either, seems forced and a bit general. Definitely written by someone who doesn’t have 100% of the information of the situation.

i’ve actually found this to be true, girls have gotten so used to their friends hyping them up they associate any compliment with friendship.

That's the point. You flaked out before and if you don't recover strong then you're done. Besides, you'll get a response guaranteed and we can go from there

alright anons OP here, i’m headed to bed but if you leave advice i’ll check it in the morning. love u autists :)

No homo you faggot. Get some sleep you’ll need it.

Steven Hawking impresses me a lot.

Listen, I don't know you, it's foolish to assume that I could give specific, useful advice to you personally, so I'll pretend you're that one friend of mine who is so starved of emotional attachment that he falls in love with every woman that gives him just a little bit of positive attention. Get out there more, talk to as many people as possible, improve your social skills through trial and error and learn to distinguish between the social, the emotional and the sexual, judge how you and a potential partner fit together in those categories and follow this:

emotional and social -> good friends
social and sexual -> casual sex
sexual and emotional -> doomed relationship
all of the above -> potentially good relationship

Alright man, you fucked up. When she said "i think we should be friends" you should have told her no. Tell her your intentions were to get to know her to date her, you have enough friends. Also, you should never have female friends. Friends are supposed to offer advice and assistance when needed. Women cant even tell you where they want to eat without a 20 questions session, let alone help you beyond making shit more difficult than it needs to be. You might be able to salvage this by telling her youre going out to do something and youre inviting her along, then tell her face to face that you want to date her. If she says yes, go from there. If she still says she just wants to be friends, bye. Uber is cheap, bitch can waste her money getting home since she just wasted your time.
>Tl;dr. Bitches aint shit.

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>19
>normalfag
>wojak
>>>/reddit/

>Also, you should never have female friends.
Opinion immediately discarded. One of my best friends is female. We used to share a flat back in college and are still close. I'm literally typing this on her laptop while she's asleep as I came over because we'll be at a party together later to where she invited a woman I'm interested in. I'm not telling you you should befriend women out of principle, I'm just saying you'd be a fucking idiot to turn away from someone who makes a good friend, just because she's a woman. Why would you arbitrarily lower the quality of your pool of friends?

i didn’t feel like finding a better image fag

Guess what, treat a woman like you don’t give a shit about her and you will notice that they will all flock to you. The trick is to either be inherently alpha like that, or to keep the act up long enough for the relationship to settle to release your more, softer beta side.

I consider myself the former but have always noticed that I could fuck a lot of chicks but would never have any of them take me up in coffee if I were to lead with that.

God damnit beta boy, last text sealed your fate. Listen to the Yea Forumsros for advice

She has decided you took to long to get her, so now there will never be a chance again. You blew it.

This was her telling you to step up and say something. Why else would she have randomly shifted the conversation to this? It's also possible she spoke to some of her girl friends and decided you're not good enough for her.