You guys saved my life once. I need advice

You guys saved my life once. I need advice.
>be me. 17 male
>move two states away to live with dad out of spite for rest of family
>start going to school there
superfuckingemo.rar
>female emo qt there
>pass by her nearly every day
>she approaches and compliments my shirt one day
>she runs away .0048 seconds later, and I'm too autistic to say "thanks"
>graduated
>forced to move out of dad's, because no job
>start staying with other family two states away

14 months later
>am 18
>moved in with a friend I've known for my whole life
>work shitty fast food job
>get snapchat notification while at work
>'"J" added you'
>add back, and ask who it is
>it's emo qt from old school
>immediately hit it off, and buy a round trip train ticket to go see her
>roommate warns not to, but go anyway
>she's still interested
>try to stay with dad again, but can't because no job
>go back home
>apply for jobs every second I possibly can
>get interviews set up
>convinced J is the love of my life
>get train ticket to go again
>roommate sees me packing bags and starts to argue
>miss the train
Alright. I have the money to get another train ticket, and J really wants me to go back, and says the long distance stuff is too painful. She doesn't want to continue unless I am there. Made her wait for like months. I didn't tell her I missed the train. Could continue. Any advice?

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Sounds like you're putting your entire life on the line for a girl you barely know

If you really believe that she is the love of your life then go ahead man, do it.

This.

Don't do shit you'll regret, OP. Proceed with caution.

Forget her

Tell her to get a job by you. Make her bend over backwards. Chances are she'll cheat or break up with you in a few months and then you've wasted everything

That's what I have a problem with. It's been a few months now, and she's fucking gay for me, but I don't know how to go through with this. I really don't want to cut it off, and I really want to see her, but I think I might be putting a lot on the line.

He who risks; wins.

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Dude, I don't know
>Is something happening between you and emo qt?
If the answer is yes, tell her to move where you got a job.
If not, fuck it, I'd rather try hook with her and after decide what to do.

>borderline homeless, no actual job
didn't you read his actual post? he has no life.

life is short OP, give it a try, the worst thing that can happen is it doesn't work out. unless you got some once in a lifetime work opportunity wherever you are now, you can just look for jobs somewhere else.

I feel like that would be a lot to ask. She isn't familiar at all with where I live, and doesn't know anyone except for me here. She knows I'm already pretty familiar with where she lives.

Well, seems like you've got nothing to lose...

I like you. Alright I'll go for it.

Faggot, life is too short to live it for a pussy.
Also, you got no real opportunities only fast food jobs.
Don't do a kid just yet, use condoms, have some fun.
Try to get a good job, work harder then enroll to a shitty university for a degree (in something that you like).
Live life my friend, but think about the future. This girl might be temporary, but you'll have to live with yourself for the rest of your life and user, I want you not to be ashamed of yourself and choices.

Do you think I'd be better off just getting a job near her? It wouldn't be the worst if I got stuck there for a bit.

Na listen to your roommate.

good luck OP! enjoy time with her but don't lose your head, stay true to yourself and don't be too disappointed in life in case it doesn't work out.

Thank you. I'll try my best not to die.

Listen to your bro. You're falling in love with a girl that you barely know, she could turn out to be totally different than what you think.

Also its only fair that she comes to you this time.

Fren, it's your life. I told you what I'd do. If you think it's best, go and find something close to where she lives (if together). Move out, don't move together straight away, try to find a job first.
Then continue education (some shit university but take a class that you like and think would suit you).
Everything will be fine user. Lots of hope for you frend.

The moral is improve your life to the point where you can be proud of yourself and provide for others. There's also other opportunies like trade schools, CDL licence, or community college

anyway, flip a coin if you're that undecided, let fate chose for you and don't look back.
yes. OP has choices, he's young. I'd still hit it off with the chick but not commit like crazy at his age. Hormones.

What's the worst that will happen? Broken heart?

If it will motivate you to get a job and move forward in life it's worth it, whether you end up with the girl or not.