Feels thread. Please keep pics sfw. Thank you
How are you all doing today, my friends?
Come get what's bothering you off your chest
Feels thread. Please keep pics sfw. Thank you
Xavier Taylor
Jayden Bell
How are you doing OP? How was your day?
Benjamin Nguyen
I fell in love with a girl
she feels nothing for me
I then had to watch her fall in love with someone else right in front of me
I'm having nightmares that are just simple replays of the past few months and they're the worst dreams I've ever had
Jordan Perez
I'm not even sad or jealous the past couple of days. I just feel empty inside realizing my life quite literally passes for a nightmare while someone else is living my dream
Mason Lopez
Broke up with my fiancee yesterday. We were together 3 years. At work right now trying to keep it together.
Levi Morales
This is how everyone feels always and forever, the human condition, but it doesn't really matter though does it?
Sebastian Wright
I'm doing alright. Day went same as any other haha. Thanks for asking. How are you doing?
You're giving her so much power over you for no reason, friend. How is it fair on you that someone else living their life brings you down? Because you don't want to let go of her. Why do you still hold onto your feelings for her? I'm in your position and I know it's very very hard to let go but the first step to anything is always the hardest, friend
Why did you break up with her, friend? I hope you don't regret it. You broke up with her for a reason and I doubt it was a spontaneous thing, rather something that built up and you considered for a while. Or it was something huge that you have every right to break up with her over.
Parker Collins
Hello OP i see someone beat me on the health check up
So i'll bump and wish you well
Eli Watson
I was her friend before I had these feelings and that part of me still needs her in that way, needs the social connection that my social circle brings that can't exist unless I'm cool with her. The only way to really distance myself involves pushing *all* of my friends away and that's the same misery but lonelier- so I chose the way that lets me stick with my friends.
I never wanted these other feelings. They snuck up on me and then hit me like a train like three times. I thought it was just a crush, but she'd become the most important person in the world to me.
Even platonically, I always felt like I couldn't get close. And in like a month he beat me there, too. I feel completely invalidated and defeated and I feel like I'm just barely hanging on with the help of my friends
Dylan Powell
It was something that was building for a long while, finally broke yesterday. So I don't regret it, but it's still pretty shitty cause it was only yesterday.
Alexander Robinson
Thank you for taking the time out, friend. And glad to see you're back
Ayden Brown
Well I'm glad you saw it as a problem, friend. I'm also glad you're no longer with her if it was something that's been there for so long. Take all the time you need to get over her but don't let time stop for her. She's not worth it. Continue living life, be successful, find someone perfect for you :) Best of luck!
Benjamin Russell
Insomnia the circle of not getting enough physical activity to sleep at night, then not having enough energy to do anything physical the next day.
Leo Phillips
OP, is it possible to fall in love with an animated character
Connor Brooks
> your social circle won't give you what you emotionally desire unless you contort to their whim
It's not really like that. They're genuine friends, but they're inseperable from her. To distance myself from her I'd have to distance myself from all of them, relationships I've built over years. I can't give all of that up over 1 thing, even love. I do wish I was closer to them, but the only thing I have to do to accomplish that is get past my insecurity and social anxiety. They don't expect me to jump through any hoops.
>If she doesn't, why do you love her so much
Because I've shown her my weakest, most vulnerable state, and she could have destroyed me with a few words. She could have used me and I would have liked it. She could have done anything she wanted. But what she wanted was to be gentle and kind and honest and nothing else. I acted crazy and approached her in a way that anyone would have been justified in hitting a block in response to, but instead she forgave me. In that way, being rejected as a lover has shown me the kind of person she is as a friend.
The jealousy is the worst part. It hurts the most being jealous of my friend instead of happy for her.
>So why hang onto her if she's not perfect. And by perfect I mean subjectively perfect. Perfect to you.
Almost nobody meets a perfect person, that's an unreasonable way of thinking. Especially today. But I've met *her.* She's right here in front of me, unavailable now, but I can still be her friend and have her be part of my life if I can just be strong. And though I could never hope for her to fail, relationships don't always work out, and I can't let go of the idea that maybe things can change.
Anthony Cooper
I found when I struggled to get into the mindset to exercise, I would just fill my bottle with water and walk outside before I even turn my computer on. I just walk for 5 minutes and see how I do there. Or walk to a park that's close to me and sit on the bench. From there it's "well I either jog or I walk home and I'm kinda in the mood to jog tbh the breeze feels nice". Sorta force yourself to do the minimum and try and push yourself from there :)
I believe so, yes. I don't see why it's any different than falling for a movie actor or someone else you've only ever seen on TV. Other than the fact they're animated, if someone is able to grasp your idea of a beautiful person with a beautiful personality, why are you not allowed to be like "wow if that person was real, I would live life with them"
Christopher Carter
Then i blame you in particular for my newfound love of Isabelle
Camden Edwards
I should just turn off the computer and take a short walk... and its raining.
Elijah Price
No need to thank a user when you do the work
Be well isabelle user if i catch you next time i'll be sure to harass you with annoying questions
until then take care of yourself
Jayden Wright
Ah I apologize, I may have misread or misinterpreted what you said. I agree that getting rid of them would be a silly thing to do over something like that. It's good that you don't jump through hoops for them.
But you're implying that she's the only person who can see you at your most vulnerable and still respect you. Here you are spilling your mind about this girl you really like and how upset it's making you. Are these not the kind of things in terms of how sensitive your thoughts that you would tell her? I've met numerous people in my life who I could tell literally anything to, 3 of those I still talk to now, and all of them respect me enough to not utter a single word about anything I've told them. 2 of them are best friends and their reply to "did you talk to the other person about such and such that I told you" is "... why? It's not my place to talk about it". There are people out there, friend. Don't limit yourself to one or you'll never find another.
I think there's someone perfect out there for everyone. The ones that settle down for less than their image of "perfect" are those that give up searching too early. Either in the case of falling for someone and not letting go or giving up too early. In my case, I have found someone, much like you, that I believe is the perfect person but the perfect person is one that loves me back the same way I love them. She does not so she can't be the perfect one for me, no matter how much I believe it. Trust me when I say I am in the exact same position as you. Upset that I get jealous instead of happy. Upset that she can't bring up talking to her partner let alone talking about him. It does stink, friend, but choose to leave those thoughts and emotions before it engulfs you further.
Ahh she's just amazing, isn't she? Haha I wish I knew someone like her. And no I'm not sorry haha
Hunter Bell
Well I'll thank you anyway :) You're a very kind person. I hope to see you soon and you please do the same, my friend.
Hunter Edwards
There can only be one to have her and im willing to fight to the death, ill warn you, i have over 5 hours of experience playing star wars kinect, im practically a martial arts master
Lucas Gray
Aha but I have uncountable hours in Wii Sports Tennis. I can swing a tennis racket, and by extension a weapon (of love and kindness), faster than you can even fathom
Brody Evans
Lets call it a draw?
Owen Cox
Kevin Lopez
I'll allow it
This time
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I hope she gets her own house in the Switch Animal Crossing!
Carson Ward
How do i start socialising, out of school and not doing uni. Working part time with just me and the boss. I'm 21 and need to make some friends but don't know how now that i'm out of school
Lucas Sanders
Ah I'm sorry for the late response, friend. Unfortunately I don't quite have an answer to that other than going to public places that interest you. I personally am trying to find an answer to that situation. Sorry!
Julian Bell
So blacks are your favorite go-to, huh?
Ian Reyes
I'm not sure what you mean, friend