Me and my girlfriend broke up for good tonight b

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holy shit that's a power move. get back with you after you dump her just so she can dump you. women are something else

Yeah... I really thought she wanted to try and work towards something

I really like(d) her

You’re a good user

Sounds like a minor issue. Imagine raising a child with this girl. You’re better off.

itll be ok user my last relationship ended basically the same way after she did some stupid shit while blackout drunk
I still love her so breaking up with her was hard and being apart is still shitty
but there will always be someone else for you

True, that’s one of the comforting thoughts I’ve had. Is that if this is such a huge bump in the road it would never have worked anyway.

Thanks user, kind words.
A little more context. I recently started dating her after moving to a new place and 95% of my friends here are through her. I feel so alone.

ah yeah that's a shitty situation. opposite for me, my ex became friends with all my friends and has none of her own really. my friends know I don't care if they hang out with her but nobody really does and I hate knowing she's so lonely. I wish I could give advice for your loneliness but I'm not the most social person either. best thing I can tell you is that everything will get better with time, nothing lasts forever

I wish I could press fast forward

Where’s Adam Sandler’s stupid fucking remote

If that’s all, thanks bros. Happy to have anyone to talk to

I’ll still be here til the thread dies

Op

lmao. well think of it this way: the pain you feel from loss is proportional to the joy you felt from whatever you had. it's good to feel bad. you'll grow from it and become stronger

step 1: don't have a drinking problem
step 2: yes

Cheer up lad, you can't stay sad forever eventually you'll just stop giving a fuck and move on
If not, try to replace sadness with anger and use that energy for something productive like working out

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Yeah, true. This will make me stronger. I can already tell. Got back into the gym already after our first break up on Friday and am not going to stop

Definitely have struggled with this. You’re right, it’s probably my worst trait. I’ve already decided to give up alcohol for at least 21 days. This was absolutely a wake up call for me in that regard. Although I’d appreciate a little more thoughtfulness, your sentiment isn’t wrong, friend

Am on my way, not necessarily anger. Anger got me into this. Definitely going to try to channel it into drive and determination

keep it up. in my experience keeping yourself occupied will help the most. focus on yourself and don't let yourself fall into depression or unhealthy coping habits :)

Yeah, had also made the conscious effort to stop smoking weed in the past few weeks too.

Thanks user

ITT: anons reminding me why this place isn’t so bad after all

-OP

Thats good op, I've never had any drinking issues but when me and my gf broke up my thoughts trailed there way more often than I'd care to admit but I kept to it and I doubt i'd ever get over her if i resorted to drinking. Keep yourself occupied, i found that hanging out with friends and reconnecting with old acquaintances did it for me.

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good idea. drugs don't make you happy, only intensify what you're feeling. and I'm glad you got some help here. I've seen a lot of examples of people posting genuine threads and being open to advice and typically Yea Forums is actually pretty helpful. you'll find your way as long as you keep being positive

Thanks user. Good advice. Not gonna lie bros am starting to feel a little better about the whole thing. Am watching YouTube vids on the subject too.

Definitely built her up too much in my head. I don’t think she was emotionally available for a relationship anyway. The good times were good, but there was enough of a her way or the highway to be cause for pause.

Still appreciate everyone in this thread and am responding til it dies. Please don’t stop friends

Frend. Fight through this and heed my words. You are free. Utterly and truly, and with the whole of existence before you. No longer drowning in the wellspring of common sense inducements; a feeble woman and child to provide filler for every concious moment. What is it to brave the horrors of earth without a companion? Will you be content, as so many are, to accept the canned comfort of the rotted old trope, the genesis of this failed man-made civilization - the family? The potential of the determined man is impossible to circumscribe, but are you content to wallow in the filth of filial familiarity? Milquetoast faggot.

It’s a hard thing to do given the situation of where she and I are. Staying positive will be very hard

I mean, I do want a family. I do want a companion. I genuinely get more joy in life having a partner to share it with.

Don't worry, OP. Get yourself a nice thicc ebony bitch.

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Smiled but not interested

Not even if they sat on your face?

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women don't know what they want, and the decision to break up with you was based on 0% logical thought and a 100% knee-jerk reaction

wow. must be nice to lose someone so insignificant to you to break up over this stupidity kys faggot.

I know, that’s what makes it so hard for me... quote from her “my mind says yes but my gut says no”

Why are you so angry user?

Funny how it’s easy to be brought up by strangers, but so hard to be brought down by them

hey we're trying to lighten up his mood here, why you gotta come and say that?

What else is there? Without a family, everything you achieve is for nothing. To know that you protect your wife and children from a literal hell, that everything moves on your command. And you would aspire to this without knowing what it is to be alone, to command your own life through the gates of hell, where you get a job as a nameless pawn, confront your own inadequacies and relentlessly work on them until you properly foster a sense of self worth worthy of fatherhood? Dont be a cunt.

Post her nudes OP. That will make you feel better.

refresh timer is reaching 60, thread probably bout to 404. Before that happens I want you to know OP you are not alone in this shithole we call post-relationship period but like the rest of us you'll get through it unscathed and find happiness. This im sure of. Take care and be safe in your endeavors. Rooting for ya.

I’m confused. I said I do want that.

Break ups always suck user, but if you don't mind me saying - to break up over something so trivial, it couldnt have been the most stable relationship to begin with; better it happens now than in a few years when you've got kids and are married right? It'll be shit for a while, we've all been there, but you're gonna bounce back and find the girl who's right for you, man!

Thanks user, you’re a good bud. Is that really how 404 works? I mean I always just thought it’s when it reached page 11

Come suck THIS!

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You're going to be OK.

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This is one of the sentiments that’s pushing me forward already. Nice to hear it echoed :)

:) thanks user

Nothing a near girl cock won't fix.

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Sticks and stones friend. Don’t worry, the insults don’t get to me

Chicks with dicks is the answer, OP!

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Attractive and secure enough to not need to go this route. Thanks tho :)

Shecock time.

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Is my breakup thread really being hijacked by shemales? What a wild world

Sorry, I genuinely tried to cheer you up as the majority of the Yea Forumstards of this generation tend to like them. One last photo.

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Hence why dickgirls are the answer

Soo...he was behind that!?

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honestly pretty funny when you put it that way. much better than trolls though eh?
this reply is fucking hilarious idk why and also that cock looks delicious

Doesn't it? ;) I knew you'd like it!

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Don’t like this guy at all

Life will get better. I think I’m in for a pretty good one if I’m being completely honest with myself. Just feeling shitty and down right now.

Appreciate all y’all anons

I can understand a good motive when I see one, but yeah not my thing

This wasn’t OP

Also I’ve been coming to Yea Forums for over 12 years now (off and on of course)

not really into most guys but one of my biggest fantasies is to be with a passing trans girl in any capacity :)
oh. oh well lol

I meant your comment. The shemale thread thing was OP. Confusing stuff.

Hey go for it if that’s what you want man. OP is gonna stick to women

Come on man.

I don't know how old are you, but couple of life tips. 3 years ago I broke up with my gf after 10 years, my world got shattered, I decided to make couple of life changing decisions, I started to work out, hang out with my friends, partying and shit.

Just be open to new things and everything will eventually fix by itself. Sure you will still think of your ex and be depressed from time to time, find new things to be happy about.

At start you will desperately look for a new relationship and probably be disappointed couple of times, but thats just couple of routes you "have" to make.

After every breakup you'll get out stronger, you'll bang couple of chicks and just live your life.

I have never been happier than I am now.

In the end you can still bang shemales. :D

ok hahaha makes sense. but yeah man I like it all. probably will stick to women too though, always just been interested in cock but I'm not into hooking up or anything. I like your attitude though you seem like a good dude

I’m 28, this isn’t my first rodeo. This one just hurts more than some of the others. Actually genuinely liked this one and I worked hard to improve myself. She made me want to be a better person.

These habits that I’ve started aren’t going to go by the wayside. Definitely plan on channeling this into a positive influence on my life. Hell part of me almost thinks I needed this to shake me up and get me out of the rut I was in. I know that may sound ironic given the nature of this thread but given the recency it just hurts so bad.

I lost more than my girlfriend, she was my best friend. I know that’s a played out trope, but it’s true. Since moving to this new area 8 months ago, she really has been far and away my best friend.

Thanks man. Likewise. Not everyone would comfort a random poster on Yea Forums

Fucking kys already

I don’t understand why people get so angry here. This break up really puts things in perspective

Spring break I guess. I bet you a 100 bucks that was born in the 21st century.

Who knows friend? Still no need to attack him back either way :)

I’m not a kumbaya singing hippie either, it’s just not worth being angry at strangers on the net

Born in heil1988
>no nazi btw
I just dont get why these fucking faggots need to annoy everyone with their disgusting shemales traps and whatever degenerate shit

I feel you. I mean it’s clearly not my preference either, see but telling them to kill them selves and calling them faggots is a little extreme.

Either way, if you’ve posted any of the stuff about helping me get through this shitty night, then thanks user, appreciate you too :)

You can't get it right unless you learn to be alone first.

we all gotta do what we can to make the world a better place :)

No explanations work for me. Words don't do anything for me anymore. Just try dick instead I guess.

Shut the fuck up Tom

I have to admit kys was a bit harsh... but faggot i think is the normal thing on Yea Forums. I come here for years and ive always been a germanfag and so on...
Youre Wellcome, all good to you

Not even close.

I actually am decent at being alone. Given where I am in my life (grad school) that makes it tough.

:)

Well that’s like, your opinion, man

Cmon, Go suck dicks yourself if you like to, but Stop annoying normal People with shit like this

Here's some maybe good news.

My gf and I broke up countless times while drunk. She would be blackout and wouldn't remember and I got sick of it. The only time we argued was when drunk. It got very old. She would break up with me, come back, argue, break up, come back, she'd argue, I would break up, go back, etc until I said fuck this dumb shit. She was in the danger zone on the hot crazy matrix. Very hot, very crazy.

After a period of being 'single' but still fucking, we got back together. Basically now I don't argue with her when she is drunk and the problem is solved. It's hard not to argue when she is saying mean shit or accusing of dumb shit, but then I think of huge 7 feet tall, 300 lb dudes taking shit from their tiny little girlfriends (my gf is cute and tiny), and I figure I can man up and listen to a drunk bitch piss and moan for a few hours. The trick is to put on a sad puppy face and look down, like how I pictured the big dudes acting with their tiny gf. Let her feel like a big dog. Shit blows over and she sucks my dick the next day to apologize for being a bitch and to thank me for being so patient with her.

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Yeah this isn’t gonna happen. Happy for you tho user :). Glad it worked out

Thanks.

Good luck. There are plenty of women out there, you just have to be seen. I found that working on your personal happiness attracts people.

Treat yourself to a concert or something.

jesus this post hit too close to home for me