I'm actually in a relationship with a gf that has a really lower libido than me.
I would like to fuck her 1 to 3 times a day, but 1-2 times a month is enough for her.
Have you ever been in the same situation ? What did you do ? Or if not, wwyd ?
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She's catching dick on the side.
get her a sex toy like a vibrator. I've heard that can breathe some life into a girl's libido.
don't always believe this kind of shit.
Talk to her about it faggot.
Birth control can seriously fuck up libido. Also, magic wand is called that for a reason. Is she orgasmic? It can be quite hard to get libido up if she can't orgasm.
15 years and better sex life now than than after the first 2 years.
done already, she says it's bc of her exams.
she is not on the pill, but you might be right on that second point
This. Tell her to get off birth control and profit.
call her a nigger
Testosterone generates libido.
Get a trap gf.
Well then help her study
That's pretty normal for a long term relationship. Bitches only get horny when they're ovulating, unless you have a rare wild one with too much testosterone, which means she's a crazy bitch and probably not long term relationship stuff.
They get horny when you tell them you desire them and push a little. If you're too nice and don't initiate, you'll be in a lesbian bed death situation. Somebody's got to bring the testosterone.
Basically, you need to find a woman who will submit to your advances regardless of her mood, knowing that she'll enjoy it once you share your hornines with her.
This is how successful long term relationships work. Horny bitches aren't good material for it, and the rest need to be led into the sex.
Good luck!
I agree with this guy.
Run. Run far away and as fast as you can. Sex drive only gets lower with age and time together. What's what's 1 or 2 times a month turns to 1 or 2 times a year after marraige.
You sound like a Betta. Get ready to be abandoned soon.
I know its not what you want to hear, but if youre not satisfied with sex, it wont last. Unless either you or she can actually adjust youre better off with someone else.
yes. it sucks and you're gonna be fucking upset for putting up with that when you two split. my first gf was the same way, finally ended it and found a nympho I could barely keep up with a few months later. good luck
Don't settle for partners whose libido is far away from yours
It's not worth it
This is literally the dumbest shit I have ever read.
I agree with this unless OP is just a beta bitch
it's right tho many of my friends' and kolleges' gf's that didn't want to have sex were cheating some even asked me
>be gay
>have bf
>sex basically whenever we're horny
>super good relationship
straightfags btfo
you can't even have sex whenever you want to
libido correlates with testosterone. you do the math, genius.
>done already, she says it's bc of her exams.
Well there's you answer.
How about helping her by giving her neck and back massages. Eat her out. Study with her.
Make it all about her.
A friend of mine was on a 2 year dry spell with his wife. But she would get nervous he would fick someone else. Gee you think. Why do women do this shit.
Like a virgin reading out of a romance novel.
now thats a cuck answer. she doesn't want to fuck ? trash her ass and get a new one-
I'm in a reverse situation. I just give it up, I don't have to cum for her to manage it. It's an hour of work. Not 3 times a day but she needs to invest in the relationship more than once a month.
I agree with this on some level.
The typical relationship lacks communication and understanding
if people were hoenst with each other divorce would be a rare occurence
Easy there edge lord
Found the fag who's view of women has been shaped by porn and not reality.
1. You're awful in bed.
2. She's fucking someone else
Probably both.
Depends on if u can deal with it. Just escaped a marriage where 1 to 2 times a year was the norm. It was hell.
Just take it rape that bitch and beat her into submission
Yeah no shit. He probably never touched a woman, let alone have a gf.
She doesn't have a low libido. She's just bored of you and losing attraction. I'm assuming youre becoming complacent and lazy in the relationship. Shit was probably good at the beginning when you actually planned shit and did things eh? She's about to swing branches on your ass.
I'm 41 and been married 15 years. It's very common for women to loose their desire for someone they've been with for a long time. 90% of guys I know all say the same thing.
my time is too valuable to waste it on bullshit like that. It's not hard to find another woman and most of the time after you dumped them they try to get back together and get all submissive and pathetic.
Enjoy your lonely existence and stds
I've been married 11 years, with her for 15 years. We fuck 2-3 times per week, and she likes it like that, but at the same time if I left it to her to initiate, it'd be once a month.
Why do you think gay guys fuck all the time? Why is all of entertainment filled with the trope of women hating sex? Why is lesbian bed death a thing? There is research here retard. Is it really so hard to figure out that females don't like sex as much as men? What are you, a fucking dumb feminist or something that thinks all gender differences are environmental?
For fuck's sake you're dim.
Women like sex, the issue is people in relationships not being mature enough to discuss things thag bother them inba civil manner
Enjoy AIDS
I went through the same situation with myself. Studying my ass off and working all day. Tired, stressed, grumpy, just trying to make my (our) life better. Had a high sex drive before that, 1-3 times a day. Went to zero drive. Gf trashed me to her friends and family, cheated on me several times, tried to get me to hit her hard enough to bruise her while we were fucking to get me arrested for domestic violence. All in a time where a little tiny bit of support would have gone miles. But all she did was bitch at me for not cooking her dinner every day, not cleaning the inside of the house top to bottom, all while working a full time job and doing full time engineering program, and taking care of the outside of the house.
If she’s stressed, wouldn’t put it past her to be that way.
Also, your pic is def not related.
>all gay men have aids
huh my monthly tests must all be wrong then
Agreed! Don't assume it will get better. It rarely does and usually gets worse. Take it from a guy who has unhappily been in a sexless relationship for a long time. Beta? Maybe, she's really nice (I've never met anyone who doesn't like my wife) and the relationship is excellent in almost every way beyond the sex. She just is not into sex. I thought that might change, but it didn't.
Well, the problem is that when we met she already had exams coming, yet we fucked at least 3 times a week, and I already do all that stuff.
I'm 99% sure she's not cheating on me tho. We've been talking about that and I trust her.
>Women like sex
Not as much as men. And even if they do, they do not initiate. And IF they do like it as much as men, then it's highly unlikely they're in a long term relationship because they're crazy and anyone as horny as a man needs whatever it's trying to fuck to resist him, or they'll just be in a bathhouse all day fucking.
Shut the fuck up you absolute braindead retard.
Just talk to her about it. I was in a similar situation and my girlfriend and I had a talk about it.
Escape while u can. And feel lucky you arent married and she can't take half your shit when u leave.
gay
just fuck her
nothing dries up a woman faster than discussing sex
That's actually helping, ty
this too kek
stop being a child
its so frustrating to hear people like you complain about their sex life then give out advice likr this
Heyy!...he was behind of this...?
I'm sorry but even if shes is busy or stressed, 1-2 times a month is not normal. Even married couples average 1- times a week.
On top off that even if she's not in the mood thee's no reason she cant do something for you other then being lazy and selfish
my Wife was like this too. there are many reasons for girls to just dont get into the mood. (Psych, like bad experiences befor you,. Does not like her body (makes a stupid diet and does not give the body all the nutrients), other mental problems. or from physical reasons. The pill is known to kill the libido.
you can go the way this guy does
but if you think she ist the one . than you have to speak about it. and that not in the moment you are frustratet and just want to punch the wall cause you are so horny..
do some sport or go into the shower and relase some pressure than speak together like grown ups ;-) she can speak with her gyn doc about it .. change the pill or use other protektions
my wife had .. like all of the reasons i write up there .. she get herselfe a therapist. and changed the pill . and we give her many new good experiences with the time. the last kick was getting her pregnant. Since she is completely gone from the pill, she can keep up with my libido well. unfortunately due to the mental health problems there are still ups and downs but for nothing in the world I wanted to be with someone else than her.
1-3times a day is fucking overkill. maybe you're putting her off by being too pushy. Just stop asking for sex and she will come to you.
Be more attractive.
>510
dude we talked about it for over 3 years and gave her every opportunity. never pressured her for sex. it gets old real fucking quick and isn't worth it imo. definitely not going to ever put up with that again
and btw nobody is "the one" romantic love is a made up idea
wow you haven't actually dated that many women have you? using your experiences with one to judge them all, just accept you made a bad choice and now have to spend your life with a dried old hag with zero imagination in the bedroom. must be boring....
this made up idea is now you talking about .. i (we) are nearla twenty years in now and i dont see that this is endeing soon . so even IF this end there will be a good fucking part of my life where i was very happy in love with my wife and my two kids.. so i will just stay here in my made up bubble .. and hope you have a life as good and happy as me with your own way to see the world.
Good quality bait
sorry for the bunch of spelling errors .. i am tired its 3 am here
that's fine. love is real, romantic love is not. nobody has a soulmate
there may not be a literal soul mate but you certainly can have a figurative one where it feels like you do. My neighbor's wife and I feel like this, or at least as close as possible. She isn't perfect by any means but it's as close as I've ever gotten. That whole completing each other's sentences and enjoying their company at every moment is a real thing for some people. I can love many people but some people are on a different level which is what makes it "romantic love".
For me, it's the McChicken, the best fast food sandwich. I even ask for extra McChicken sauce packets and the staff is so friendly and more than willing to oblige.
One time, I asked for McChicken sauce packets and they gave me three. I said, "Wow, three for free!" and the nice friendly McDonalds's worker laughed and said, "I'm going to call you 3-for-Free!".
Now the staff greets me with "Hey, it's 3 for free!" and always give me three packets. It's such a fun and cool atmosphere at my local McDonald's restaurant. I go there at least 3 times a week for lunch and a large iced coffee with milk instead of cream, 1-2 times for breakfast on the weekend, and maybe once for dinner when I'm in a rush, but what a great meal that is affordable, fast, and can match my daily nutritional needs.
I even dip my fries in McChicken sauce, it's delicious! What a great restaurant.
been together 5 years now, it hasn't gotten better through counseling and therapy. i'm getting a divorce lawyer at the end of the month
I'm ops gf
No.
why would she want to fuck a faggot that can't even triforce.
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