>Hate my current gf
>Bitch is stupid and clingy as shit
>Only staying with her for sex
>She has a secret rape kink and I hate her so she can’t tell the difference
>Sooo many issues
>Bitch is in love with me
>Talking about marriage in the future
>wtf no
>Pretty sure if I break up with her she’ll kill me or kill herself
>mfw
What should I do?
Sounds textbook like BPD. You dun goofed, OP. kek.
Leave on an extended holiday and breakup on your way to the airport. May seem like a dick move but if she hurts you she could go to hail. You’re giving her space and a cooling off period. You can also text one of her friends so they can watch over her so she doesn’t hurt. Herself.
break up with her over text. its safer if what you say really is true, OP. however, i will say that it would be of your best interest to buy a weapon or some sort of security protocols/get the police involved if she says shes gonna kill you. just play it safe in my opinion. rather be over prepared looking like an idiot rather than dead.
Post her nudes. Nothing more, nothing less.
Whatever she does is not your fault.
Damn, you’re probably right. Thanks for the advice
my girlfriend's dope
but i'm not physically attracted to her and she lacks a rape kink
she's intelligent, sweet, and would be a great mom
let's just trade gfs
Cool blog faggot
She’ll just be waiting for me. No sense of “cool down” for her. I hardly know her friends, all of them are generally unreliable.
Fine by me
oh, adding to this
the marriage stuff is scary, but i'd try being up front about valuing stability
works for me
"yeah, we've been together awhile, but i think we should spend more time together before talking about having kids. it's nice to fantasize, but we both need to thoroughly evaluate each other and the long term viability of this shit before we make a decision as serious as having kids, i love you too much to risk you suffering breaking a family."
if that doesn't make her chill, you're fucked and have sympathy
You’re right. I’m going to get buy a gun in case she tries anything, break up with her and physically/emotionally distance myself from her
I’ve tried to derail the topic of marriage before as lightly as I possibly could but she went literally insane at the thought of us not marrying. Appreciate the advice and yes I’m beyond fucked
Dont get a fucking gun you idiot if she's crazy enough she'll use it on you. Dumbfuck.
> she loves, honors, and obeys you
> you're asking people how to get out of cherishing her
kill yourself before you convince her not to bother with you, that way you'll die knowing that at least one person in the world respects you
I’d rather take my chance, if she is going to try and kill me she’s bringing a knife or a gun herself. I’ll have it in my car when I tell her we’re breaking up. If I think she’s going to try something then I’ll go back to my carry and have it in my holster from a safe distance away. No way I’m dying this young for something so dumb. I’ve still got to finish college, get married, have kids, and have a midlife crisis while I’m at it. I’m going to be able cautious as possible, thanks for the warning though user
>She can't tell the difference
Fucking kek
Ya stuck your stick in crazy and someone's gonna pay. I say roll the dice and hope it's her
are you my bf lol
If she kills herself that's a win for you OP, no sane person will say it's your fault or that you pushed her to do it because you made a personal decision.
I know she browses this Yea Forums once in a while, it better not be you. What’s your name?
She’s not in love with me she’s obessessed with me. My life has been hell since we got together. She is a very very sick person, I’ll send screenshots of some of our convos if I don’t convince that she is.
The plot thickens
Break up with her.
Bump for possible kek
the problems of 2 little people don't amount to a hill of beans in this crazy world.
Real question is how you got in this situation in the first place
i was joking, i know you aren't because my bf is in the same bed as me doing something else, but it just sounds like something he might write. my name starts with e though.
my advice if shes bpd like other anons are saying and you want to leave her just find a way to get her to stop loving you. it's the easiest way.
I wanna see this too.
I mistook her obsessive tendencies to her being new to dating, I am her first. But she just kept spiraling into who’s she’s become now. I’ll admit I should’ve known better but I’m not apologizing for who she is now.
Oh thank god. I’m the centerpiece of her obsession, I’ve tried everything. Unless I maybe stop going to the gym and act differently entirely she’s not letting up. Thank you though e
yeah girls with bpd can be hard to get rid of when they become obsessed with a person. just pretend to become the type of person she doesn't like or hates and eventually she will stop loving you. you don't actually have to change, just put on an act when around her but make it believable. bore her to death and she will probably leave you eventually, especially if she is still young. i know it doesn't sound healthy but dating a girl with bpd and not being prepared for her behavior it is terrible for both people involved.