>be me >been going to house parties with this group of friends for 2 years >one of only three guys in a group of about 10 total >dated a few of the girls in there, 1 of the other guys was super fucking socially awkward and the other guy was rarely around so i was the closest to most of the girls >fastforward to a week or two ago >cutest girl in the group breaks up with her bf >looks like pic related >mytimetoshine.webm >see on her snapchat a few days later shes getting drunk with another girl at home >message her and jokingly ask why i wasnt invited >she tells me she didnt plan it but she'd love me to come >nice >i live like 2 hours away >i get a taxi and show up >get absolutely fucked, one of her other friends shows up who's a major lesbo >this lesbo starts flirting with me for some reason >ohdear >the lesbian decides to try kissing me to see what guys are like in our drunkeness >nicer >we make out for a bit, but the main girl isnt phased and is still really into me >continue to get drunk, gets late >we all get on a mattress on the floor in her living room, im tucked inbetween the two girls >nicest
>end up getting frisky with main qt >hand goes down her pants, she's giggling seems into it >we're all too fucked to sleep >she needs the toilet so I end up going to take her up >carry her upstairs and we fall over in the bathroom >end up making out on the bathroom floor and my hands reenter her pants >feelsgoodman >she does her business eventually and i go to carry her away into her room upstairs and leave the others downstairs >we cont. on bed, she's enjoying it and pressing up against me >eventually the original friend she was with (not the lesbo) comes up and cockblocks me >fuck >midway through the night she starts crying >oh no >no context as to why >this girl gets super emotional so not a major concern though >go to bed w/ "lesbo" chick and sleep till morning >all is good but she still seems kinda upset >still oblivious >on my way home i realise maybe she was upset about what happened between us >send her a text saying we should probably talk about it >she ignores me >blocks me on snapchat >oshit.jpg >dont hear anything of it the rest of the weekend >monday >get removed from the groupchat with friends >now think she's going around telling everyone I raped her
Shouldn't have taken advantage of her weakened emotional and drunken state, you beta cuck.
Isaiah Williams
>794168712 >ask socially awkward guy friend what was said >no reply >ask one of my closest female friends in the group >she's got no idea - she was pretty distant from the group anyway >tells me she will look into it >hasnt got back to me
I don't know what to do here. She's super emotional so I get why that upset her after a breakup but I don't think I'm at fault here - we were both drunk. I really had an emotional connection with this girl too so it was a massive bummer, not to mention the fact I've basically been booted from my group of friends.
Stop thinking, "Oh! This girl just went through a break up! Now is my chance since she's not thinking straight!" That shit is pathetic and you deserve what you got.
Connor Roberts
Next time. Maybe just be an actual friend to someone who is heartbroken instead of just trying to be a "nice guy"
Owen Young
Men and women can't be friends. Both sides are equally retarded and if you feel bad for her because she has holes, you're a retard. When you invite a guy over, you know what they want.
Jaxson Barnes
I had done - we got really close after her breakup and we were even before that, this took place over a week after that. We got drunk and shit happened, it wasn't malicious attempt to take advantage of her
Charles Allen
So I hate feminists as much as the next guy. But you are the EXACT reason those 'insufferable bastards exist. "Oh. She invited me over so I have every right to fuck her." That's pathetic and proves you actually don't know jack shit about women and relationships. Or people in general. Do yourself a favor and drink bleach
Nolan Hill
Might not have been malicious. But it was still only a week, and you should have known she might regret it later. Breakups have the potential to take years to get over and when a friend makes a move that soon, it hurts. It hurts like hell. You feel like that's the only reason they were your friend even if it isn't true
Landon Ortiz
>794169497 If she came onto me then she's also at fault, regardless of how emotional she was - we were BOTH drunk. I'm not happy with what happened but I'm not entirely to blame
Jackson James
I agree with you man, and had I not have been drunk I wouldn't have done what I did. I just want to know if you guys think there's anything I can do from here to remedy this or if I should just pack my bags and move on
Zachary Smith
You are to blame cuz you WENT INTO IT knowing you were going to try to fuck her BEFORE YOU GOT DRUNK. You flat out said that. Don't backpedal cuz you don't want to hear the truth.
Matthew Nelson
move on.
Michael Rivera
I wanted to get with her for the longterm, not just fuck her and leave her. I only went as far as I did because I was drunk and because she was coming onto me so strongly
Liam Sanders
Shouldn't have been trying to get with her in any way. That's the point. You're an adult. You should be able to understand this concept. Trying to fuck/date someone who just went through a breakup a week ago is scummy as all hell. Move on.
This is dumb. He shouldn’t have wanted to fuck her? How is that avoidable. You don’t choose who you get the hots for.
Sounds like you don’t talk to women much.
Jason Hall
He shouldn't have GONE FOR IT. He shouldn't have acted on his emotions and tried to take advantage of her. How are all of you so stupid that you literally can't read?
Andrew Gray
The fact that you think it's okay to prey on psychologically weak people proves you just can't get a woman normally, betafag
Thomas King
He didn’t “go for it” she did you dumb fuck. The mistake he made was drinking with other girls they will always cock block you.
I’ve never dated someone fresh off of a relationship. I have seen girls bounce back in less than a week and ride lots of dick though. People get over shit at different rates. Just because your last gf who cucked you two years ago is on your mind 24/7 doesn’t mean other people don’t have emotional stability and are able to move on.
Parker White
Obviously she wasn't over it. And reread his greentext. "mytimetoshine.webm" we all know what that means. unless you're a moron. So he went into the whole situation planning on getting with her. Also >drinking with other girls will always cockblock you actually means >drinking with others will prevent you from RAPING someone.
Landon Morgan
It's her fault for coming on to you so strong. She felt embarrassed because her friend interrupted you both. Be staunch and stick to what happened
Aaron Hall
>both drunk >she came on to him >clearly is fine with making out >friend comes in Oh thank god the friend saved her from being raped! Geez, she should’ve called the police on user too. Press charges for assault.
Daniel Scott
Too many fucking women posting in here. Go pull that feminist fucking rapey shit somewhere else cunts! It had been a week, get the fuck over it. A week is more than enough time.
You wanna know what really happened? The cockblock bitch was jealous as fuck and talked her into believing some bullshit #metoo faggotry. She was either super fucking jealous because she wanted you, or secretely didnt like you to begin with and is using this as a reason to get you fucked. People dont cock block unless one of those things happen. fact. If she thought you 2 were having a good time, a real friend would leave it alone and let a good time happen. She was jealous, simple.
Hunter Barnes
She's capable of knowing what she wants and saying yes or no, even while drunk and upset over a break up. Tell her that you want to continue your relationship with her and ask her to explain why she's avoiding / blocking you.
Adrian Nelson
If you think people are not responsible for their actions when drunk then don’t come bitching if some drunk driver hits your house.
user going over to the house wanting to have sex isn’t a fucking sin, what are you catholic? If he forced himself on her I’d agree but he did not. Jesus fucking Christ.
Ian Edwards
Don't listen to these morons unless you want to be in jail for harassment or sexual assault. Regardless of beliefs, it IS rape to have sex with someone under the influence, and the courts ARE skewed against men. You're an idiot if you actually are willing to risk that for "easy pussy." I'm NOT a feminist. at all. I hate feminists. But these are facts. Whether you like it or not. Men are treated like shit anymore and you need to look out for yourself before doing ANYTHING that can be misconstrued. THIS is why OP is in the wrong. This is why I say to move on and don't try to salvage. And this is why I say ANY grown man should know not to pull this shit anymore. It's not 1980 anymore. You will get yourself in trouble. Why cant people get it through their heads that IT IS ILLEGAL TO HAVE SEX WITH A PERSON UNDER THE INFLUENCE> END OF STORY> NO BUTS. And's that the man is more likely to get in trouble for it so he bears more responsibility for his actions. It sucks. It's unfair. I know. DEAL WITH IT. That's the world we live in. And it isn't changing anytime soon. And being emotionally traumatized and making a bad decision is different than just being a drunk idiot so your point is invalid.
I'm done. If you can't understand it after I've spelled it out for you repeatedly, do yourself a favor and don't drink. You'll likely get in trouble.
Alexander Parker
Another worthless feminist trying to scare you with lies and bullshit. Dont fucking listen to this shit.
You did nothing wrong. these fucking #metoo cunts just wanna fuck up the world. Everything said here is simply not reality. Ur fine bruh
Landon Miller
>>eventually the original friend she was with (not the lesbo) comes up and cockblocks me >>fuck >>midway through the night she starts crying >>oh no >>no context as to why >>this girl gets super emotional so not a major concern though >>go to bed w/ "lesbo" chick and sleep till morning >>all is good but she still seems kinda upset The cockblocking friend sounds like the one who is stirring up shit. Why did you leave and go sleep with the lesbian?
Daniel Davis
The main girl went off to go talk to her and the lesbo got into bed with me - at this point I was tired af so I didnt really argue.
Theres obvious levels of drunkenness. Plastered oblivious compared to just drank enough to feel good are completely different. Get that bullshit outta here. Ur bullshit dont scare anyone u fucking retard cunt
Jonathan Hernandez
There's way more evidence I can pull up to prove that alcohol and sex are not a good idea. So explain how I am lying? I'm not saying there is a rape culture. There isn't. I'm not saying I like anything I said. I don't. I say this to hopefully prevent another fellow man from getting in trouble over something absolutely idiotic that shouldn't be a thing, BUT IS. How is it that you think the reality is that you can go around and fuck plastered women and not get in trouble? How can you even disagree with that? It's a fact. Case after case has shown that men DO get jail time for this behavior. And he HAD TO CARRY HER TO THE BATHROOM. That's "plastered oblivious." I'm just trying to keep you idiots out of jail and actually give realistic advice regardless of what I like and don't like.
Isaac Gomez
Actually. Y'know what OP and all you Yea Forumstards out there. Go get a girl drunk right now and fuck her. See how well it goes. Fucking idiot neckbeards trying to act cool on the internet and deny reality so they can live in their fantasy where women just fall at their knees and ALWAYS want them. I mean I'm conceited, but fuck.
Jaxson Robinson
He never said she was too drunk to walk. Just that he carried her. Maybe he was just the "knight in shining armor" trying to get close to her and they both thought it was funny. Think about that? No you didnt. You just try to create false narratives and lies and try to scare people into your #metoo raey bullshit scare tactics. Fuck off.
Brody Morgan
I hope at least one person reading this thread sees where I'm coming from with all this and actually takes sound advice for once. Heaven forbid, it NEVER happens on this site. I mean all the arguments against my posts have been strawmen, red herrings, what ifs, and personal attacks. Granted. I'm not an idiot and can handle it. I'm not gonna get offended by stupid. But just one fucking lurker.
Jacob Garcia
I'm NOT trying to scare anyone. I'm offering the facts. The bullshit #metoo is real god damn it. Like it or not. Women ARE using it to hurt men. Often good men.
Anthony Clark
Have you read a news article lately? Or all those part of the conspiracy too? It's just a fact women are getting away with this shit. And men are getting hurt by it. A lot of times unjustly.
Owen Powell
>it IS rape to have sex with someone under the influence
so two people can rape each other at the same time?
Thomas Barnes
It's exceedingly rare that you'll find a girl that will challenge the implicit disapproval of her friends and maintain that she was tryna get the D.
There are also regularly posts on popular social sites about a girl getting cockblocked by a bystander and how she's supposed to react to having her sexuality policed with gratitude.
We're in the pendulum swing back towards puritanism, so it's increasingly being normalized that women cannot be considered equals.
Xavier Hernandez
Perhaps lay low for a bit user. Try to enloy alone time more(Read, Meditate, Think, Write , Hike, etc.) It'll help.
Caleb Sullivan
OP. never seek help on Yea Forums. It never works.
