I had sex for the first few times over this past month with my girlfriend but I can't fucking cum. I haven't tried without condom, but I thought I'd at least be able to finish with one on. Are condoms just this bad, or am I fucking gay?
pic unrelated
I'm also on day like 180 of nofap because im a faggot if that helps with any responses
Day 180?
Wow.
yeah, life is hell. It's 176 actually. Been going since September 8th
But why?
I take it this isn't voluntary at this point
me and a friend of mine started on the same day, the goal was 100. Now it's just a race to see who can hold out the longest, it's retarded
This just opens up more questions
Why are you doing nofap with your friend?
Condoms are fucking terrible, but if you're nofap for that long and you still can't finish, it's more likely your girlfriend is fucking terrible in bed, or just extremely ugly.
Try closing your eyes and relying on your internal porn database.
I don't know man, we just gay homies
We both lost virginity together, so I'd say we're both inexperienced as hell. Hopefully that's why. It's destroying my manhood
But why?...
shhhhh
earthporn for yall cuz i dont got any real porn
Condoms suck ass, put the bitch on birth control and raw dog. Then you'll complain about finishing too fast.
I will keep this in mind
>earthporn
That's not an earthporn
Pic related is an earthporn.
okay, you got me there actually
I can’t even stay hard in a condom, so I feel ya
Just fucked a bitch with one on by putting one on before I ready to cum.
Hate condoms. Can’t fuck random hot sluts because of that
It's struggle to stay hard for me. I try and go until she needs to stop. Last time we had sex, it was solid penetration for about an hour and half, I still couldn't fucking finish.
The putting condoms on before ready to cum thing is okay, but our concern is STD's. We don't think we have any, but we haven't been tested yet either. Gotta play it safe.
There's even a comet right in the middle.
I get to fucking paranoid about STD
Fucked a bitch with a condom still have anxiety about catching something
didn't even see the comet, that's fucking unreal
Condom broke during the 2nd time me and girlfriend had sex, i caught it pretty quick but it still worries me. STD's scare the shit out of me
Get her a bigger strap-on.
i need my prostate tickled
Yep I’m about to decline one of the finest sluts I’ve seen cause I can’t fuck in condoms
we should just put corks in our dicks like wine bottles so we dont need condoms, we can just reabsorb our cum
Are you a cutfag? You probably can't cum because you can't feel shit.
I am cut, and I can't feel shit. I can finish during handjobs from her, just not actual sex.
are u anxious about not cumming user? that'll do it
100% i am, and I can't help it
I'm a cutfag as well user. Had the same problem when I started having sex and it lasted for a few months. Basically just deal with it and you'll eventually start hitting the right angles on yourself. Not being able to cum for a long time will please her and make you look good. If you want to finish ask if you can tittyfuck or asscheek fuck her. That's a good angle for to finish with, for me at least.
I’m pretty good at sex but those first few times are the worse. I’m too anxious to lose my hard on or cum too early
>I am cut, and I can't feel shit
Well there you go user, there's your answer to all your problems. The Jews took your foreskin. Your pleasure has been stripped away ever since you were born.
Look into foreskin restoration. You would get a lot of pleasure back and start being able to cum from regular intercourse.
Okay, glossing over your weird nofap thing, are you in good shape?
If your muscles can't keep up, your body diverts the blood from your cock to the muscles which will prevent you from cumming and might even make you go soft. With a condom on, it will take longer to cum so it's easier to overdo it and reach that point.
If it's not that, do you think it's psychological? What are you thinking about while fucking? Also, how long do you spend fucking and how long on foreplay?
Last thing, I'm not even sure your nofap is good for your sexual health. It's very unusual to go that long without fapping. Do you find masturbation shameful or did you have a problem with it? Or is it really just to compete with your friend?
Pic unrelated. Sort of.
is foreskin restoration legit?
I'm a pretty fit guy. Mentally, in my head, it's a big concern over if I can finish or not. I think that's the biggest thing.
Foreplay, not very much. I texted her about it a bit just now actually, we're gonna try and rework how we do things maybe.
The nofap thing, it was just to do more productive things in my day, but now it's just to compete with my friend whichever has the strongest will. It's pretty gay, but we do it anyways.
gay, probably jacking off to too much porn
>is foreskin restoration legit?
Yes.
It uses the method of tissue expansion to create more skin and mucosa tissue. Look it up, it's nothing new at all and has been around for a long time.
maybe the opposite
that is pretty epic, im surprised
Happened to me too, give it some time, you'll learn how to cum while fucking. I didn't use condoms though.
I'm actually restoring myself, and I can say that it's legit. I was cut pretty tightly but now the skin bunches up behind the glans a bit.
Eventually I will probably be mistaken for an intact man, and I'm gonna love it.
How's the nerve ending density compare to a real foreskin?
I'm asking because I haven't researched it at all, what is the advantages to having foreskin over having it cut? Why would you want it back other than the feeling?
To be honest, I don't think foreplay is going to make a dramatic difference. Not to mention that, statistically speaking, she probably sucks. I meant sucks in the colloquial sense but I guess the literal is also applicable. I'm trying to say she's probably bad at foreplay.
How long do you spend fucking? I have several other questions that are dependent on this one.
Are you spending the whole time thinking about whether you're going to cum or not? Are you concerned about not lasting long enough that she's satisfied? Or what runs through your head? Be specific man, I can't help if you're vague.
Also, the nofap thing is super weird. Masturbation habits can make a huge difference in how long you last during sex.