Been dating gf for almost 2 years and Im not sure I want to be with her for the rest of my life.
She has never done anything wrong to me, ever. We have never been in any fights. Anything I want to do , she does. All my hobbies are now her hobbies too. I know it sounds stupid but I wish that once she would disagree with something I said. That way it can somehow bring change to the relationship.
One of the things that makes me not want to break up is how much she idolizes me though. I know she's head over heels with me. Anything I tell her to do I can make her do. But I just don't feel that way towards her? Is that bad? Am I an asshole?
If you don’t mind me asking, what’s the age difference?
Gabriel Sanders
I'm about to turn 23 . She's about to turn 21
Thomas Bell
Holy fuck user are you me? 3rd year with my gf and shes fantastic.lovely person whos mad about me, shes 22 im turning 24 soon and we've been through alot together (pregnancy scares, i nearly died at one point long story) but lately...idk...it's weird. I was madly in love with her before but i just feel sort of....distant or something? Almost bored with the relationship. Like i still respect the girl 100% but now I'm not entirely sure I want to get married with her as we always talked about.
It fucking sucks and is confusing, hope you're ok Yea Forumsrother
Jeremiah Johnson
Ah ok, so not a huge difference in ages. My gf acts somewhat similarly to yours, what I usually do is make sure I’m not “pressuring” her into doing what I want because I’m not aware of it. I ask her if she really wants to do (insert whatever) here, because we don’t have to.
Eli Hill
Yeah believe me I'm bored. I felt like before I was excited to go out with her and stuff but now it's just not the same. I understand all relationships hit a slump and you know everything about each other but she's just so complacent and unmotivated.
Good luck as well man
Benjamin Richardson
Haha no I don't want to make it seem like I make her do things. I always ask before we do anything and I know when she doesn't want to do something. I just wish she would help ME. I know it might sound dumb but I felt like I've been helping her grow. I've been helping her stay on top of things and getting a new job, etc. But I feel like I'm still the same guy from 2 years ago. I feel stuck.
Isaiah Stewart
how often do ye see each other? i see her maybe a few days a month, 1 week max. Shes in college im working so we're doing a bit long distance stuff and I think that's also taking a toll. I should be missing her more than ever but I kinda....dont? It's not a chore to see her or anything just not as exciting.
