Is it weird if a 21 year old asked out a 17 year old?
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Is it weird if a 21 year old asked out a 17 year old?
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yeah dipshit it is
wait another year and it will be less weid, wait another one and it'll be ok
yeah, why the fuck would you go for an oldhag like that.
im 24, almost 25, and im trying to boink a girl who just turned 19
nope, just don't do anything until he/she is legal
it really isn't. maybe in america.
Yes. But weird doesn't mean bad. Aside from age of consent, which is generally 16+, depending on where your friend lives, consensual love is all good, even if normies gonna judge. Long as no one gets hurt, it's all good
What's her name? I'm in a similar situation and I'm hoping my we've not been strung along
yeah i tried explaining this to the police too
you can still get in different trouble for "corruption of a minor" is anyone tries to complain about railing a 16 y/o.
the charge is really broad. even if she is enamored enough to forget to do a homework assignment it counts.
no thanks. on even the slightest chance you are who i think you are im not going to say anything.
Yeah you gotta be careful for sure, but as long as you have some sense, you won't get in the way of her life, or negatively affect her in other ways.
it's really situational my first gf was 16 when I was 18 going on 19. her parents were cool with it and her dad was a cop and didn't bust my ass.
nope, i know a friend who is 22 and is turning 23 in 2 weeks and he is going out with a 16 year old (age of consent)
I know next to no one so I think it's highly unlikely you know me, don't worry. A location or initials would suffice. I'm just legit curious. Again, HIGHLY unlikely
fuck off Alex
Lol nope
Yeah that's what i think too. But she will have a boyfriend by then
yeah that's what my friend would do
Yeah it's normies that makes my friend hesitant to ask her out. But my friend really is generally does not like kids he just generally likes the girl
ok, then different girl
As I said above, he just needs to have some common sense. He needs to be mature and rational and enlightened enough in himself that he can make responsible decisions that don't lead her astray. Mostly that she doesn't put being with him before school or anything else important.
I mean genuinely not generally
based on the rule of x/2+7, it's ok
only if you are into loli shit and assuming by the picture, yes because you are probably attracted to the age specifically.
17 is the almost same as 18 honestly, i got with my bf when i was 17 and he was 28.
>i got with my bf
Tit or gtfo
It is if you ask while posting loli pics...
My friend is not into loli it just get's attention and fits the theme of the thread
I'm 19 and I'm dating a 16 year old... She'll be 17 in 3 months. We met in highschool before I graduated and things kinda worked out and her parents dont have a problem with it.
Nah, my ex who was 27 at the time asked out a 16yr old.
if its illegal in your friends country yes
Not weird at all. Make sure it's legal where you live, though.
No.
Is it weird for a 26 year old to ask out an 18 year old?
having a bf doesn't specifically mean i'm female, user. i'll be generous though and show you some other tits.
sure, pal
Age of consent is 16 in his state
But i think he would just wait till she was 18
Not weird.
Myself and lots of mates when we were 22-25 we're dating 16-18 year olds by chance. All the girls' parents were fine with it since (and I quote) we're "trusted" (hold down good jobs/uni degrees, have goals and aspirations in life, don't do drugs, not incel or have aggressive shitty personalities, etc.) and not "bad people" per se. It's perfectly fine if the girl is cool with it, actively pursuing the relationship, _knows_ what she's getting into and the parents have okayed it.
Just don't take any hot and heavy pics until the day of her 18th birthday (as tempting as it is prior, you got to have self-awareness and remember that being given permission to these girls in the first place is a gift in itself) and it's all gravy.
No.
But blue pilled normies might think it's weird
if it's legal, go for it.
what i did with my GF
though im 22
In 2019 the pedo arguments are quiet and far-flung
The real question we have is, how do you expect to be treated like an adult when all ya wanna do is date kids?
Just sayin' man. You don't gotta like it. You don't gotta listen. But at some point you're gonna realize a lot of people wonder what's so fucked with you that you gotta date a kid
This this this.
(nasty) sex is cool (they all lose it at that age anyways, and more than often to chad/based college guys with a heart of gold than you'd think -- as much as moralfags would argue otherwise) just be self-aware and don't ever make it public. What goes on behind the four walls, so long as her parents know, stays there.
Nope. Go for it. Worse that can happen if she says no. Life goes on.
You round up though. Not passable. 21 and 18 is the magic combo
usually once both partys are 18 or older the age gap doesnt matter.
And this too.
Switch it up with girls your own age on occasion if you keep lucking out. Don't even think about "muh gap" when consciously going for girls. If it clicks, then it clicks regardless of age. Otherwise no hard feelings, move on to something else.
Don't make things weird. Only one to blame if things go pearshaped is the guy. Self-awareness yo. Creepiness is very much a self-fulfilling prophecy.
nope
21/2+7=17
This. You can always choose the kinds of people you surround yourself around. No one to blame if things go bad but yourself for not thinking it through.
21/7+2=5
He's gud
He doesn't think it's weird. They get along really well. And they both are really flirty with each other
Same boat, am 22. Her name is also Alex. Get that pussy fam
Nope that's not weird. I'm 20 going out with a 17 year old, and I'll be 21 before she is 18.
In my state that is totally legal, and actually no one finds it weird and if you do you're fucking stupid.
Like, the dumb fuckers on this thread who think they wouldn't get hard at a bunch of pictures of hot 17 year olds giving blowjobs is unbelievable.
Do you realize that 17 is the age a lot of girls go to college? 21 is the age of some sophomores in colleges. Is it weird for a sophomore to date a freshman in college? Age is not a good reflector of maturity in life, sexual or otherwise. Acting like 1 year magically shifts a child to an adult is totally ridiculous.
In general it's a little weird, then again, that's also perfectly legal in some states.
This. Hell when I started college I was 16 due to skipping grades and shit (I'm obvs a dude, but the concept still remains)
It's so common, what with the idea of months-proximity (moralfags keep yakking on about muh year when it's so much more complicated than that. Stuff doesn't change overnight), that y'all don't even know it.
Wait until shes 18 degenerate
So waiting 5 mouths automatically makes it not weird?
People don't change over night she will be the same person she is now then she is 18
Yeah because humans think in catagorization and she is currently in (although at the boundary of) girls who are too young to fuck grown-ups. I don't give a shit what you do but you asked if it would be weird. It would.
>THIS IS WHAT SCIENTOLOGISTS ACTUALLY BELIEVE
Not remotely weird, unless you're an American. I was 21 when I started dating a 16 year old, and nobody had anything against it because Norway isn't a fucked up, retarded place like that.
OP is asking if it would be weird to ask her out not fuck her.
Is it weird because there are local laws against it.
It is not weird because 'She isn't mentally capable of being in a relationship' or anything like that. So your thought of 'she is the same person' is correct; its just also irrelevant.
The law does not care what kind of person she is, it cares how old she is.
The formula for minimal acceptable age difference:
Own age divided by two and then add seven. (x/2)+7=y
x your age
y her age
So, it's not weird for you.
if there's a field, play ball.
I'm 31 hitting a 17 year old right now, it's fine.
You are correct that that is the generally used formula, but I've always disliked it. It breaks down at older ages. Someone who is 80 has no business dating a 47 year old. Hell, even a 60 year old I can't see with a 37 year old. A 23 year difference, are you kidding? Those people lived entirely different lives, the odds of them being compatible are so low. Yeah, its not impossible, but we shouldn't count exceptions as 'the general rule'.
To be fair, for young ages it's a pretty good formula.
Meh this is lazy and doesn't really work.
If I'm 14: (14/2)+7 = 14. So it's weird to date a 13 year old at 14?
If I'm 40, it's weird to date a 26 year old but not a 27 year old? If I'm a 2 year old, it's weird for me to date a 7 year old, but I can date a 40 year old woman?
I'm being an asshole with that last one but yeah this is too lazy. Just think about your situation. Hell, even customs of the country/town you're in should factor.
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>If I'm 14: (14/2)+7 = 14. So it's weird to date a 13 year old at 14?
Yes, If you are 14 it is weird to date a 13 year old. As 14/13 is the line between high school and middle school. If you're a freshman in highschool and want to date another freshman, go for it. You shouldn't be dating someone who is 13 and goes to a different school. No one is legitimately dating before highschool anyway so the formula becomes moot at that point.
inb4 hurrdurr but freshman could actually be 13 or 14
Shutup nigga you clearly see my point
reminds me of this song
(Take Her Back by The Pigeon Detectives)
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