Yea Forumsrothers ,for the first time in my life a girl likes me and I like her...

Yea Forumsrothers ,for the first time in my life a girl likes me and I like her.She is way above my head and the only reason why I got her to talk to me is because i'm good with words. I've spent the last 6-7 years pretty much alone in a room playing video games ,my body is a mess ,i'm skinny ,some of my molars are fucked up and tomorrow i'm going to meet her and tell her what failure of a man I am. What would you do ?

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have you told her your opinion on the filthy kikes?

The situation you are in is something you can always influence and change without much effort, in comparison to trying to change who you are as a person.

Apparently you have something going for you in regards to who you are, so just be yourself and calmly work on your surroundings.
She already likes you, relax a bit my dude.

Be confident or be a fag

I am broke ,i hate jews ,no.

You know ,she's basically the type of girl that could have any man. I am barely a shell of a man.

She could have any man, yet she likes you.
Don't shut yourself down, don't try to sabotage yourself, just take it as it is.

You like her, and she likes you. It doesn't have to be more complicated than that.

My man, be confident.
>Some of my molars are fucked up
Dude, I got an infection, lost half my teeth and lost like 60 pounds because of that. You can always go to a dentist and fix your teeth.
>I'm going to tell her what failure of a man I am
Dude, if you expect pity, it's not desirable to get it from the person you look up to.
Be proud of yourself, stay tall and look her in the eyes and tell her what you truly feel when she's around you.

Also, I'd hit the dentist so I'd have my teeth back, so I can be confident in myself. I'd tell her about my teeth problems and that I'm working on fixing it.
I'd call her at a cafe and maybe take a walk trough the park.

I gotta get a job first.I've spent the past 6-7 years in a room with no social skills ,hoping that smoking might kill me. I don't know how to work my man.
She chose me cause I'm around ,she has like 1k followers on instagram ,if any of these ripped and rich boys were around she wouldn't even know I exist.

And lastly, secluding yourself from people isn't a crime (I don't know what caused that but I am/had did that same thing).
I know it takes a toll on you, mentally and physically but you should always believe in yourself and you should love yourself.
If you don't love yourself, if you don't value yourself, if you don't treat yourself with respect the people around you won't either.
No one is like you, no one will be an exact copy of yourself. You know you aren't special, but you really are user. Don't fuck things up for yourself because this moment can be either life changing or not, but you'll never know if you shoot yourself in the foot.

You know ,I came here looking for comfort, I've always lurked around, always loved Yea Forums even though the traps and shit around is aids.I came here because you are my brothers and i really needed to tell this to someone.Thank you.

Ugh, people following people doesn't mean shit user. You might have a great sense of humor and a big heart that no one of those rich wankers do.
In regards to the teeth as I have lost my frontal ones (painful ik), go and do a check-up. Trust me, the situation might not be as grim as you'd expect.
In relation to that girl, don't ever put someone on a pedestal, I haven't been with many women (only 3, but I'm a beta-fag that likes to get emotionally involved), but you should never do these things:
1. Undervalue yourself
2.Overvalue the person you like/love
Listen friend, I've lost plenty people because I was thinking too little of myself (maybe for a good reason), but they might've lost A REAL FRIEND AND A CARING PERSON (which they can't find on normie social sites).
If the teeth situation is affecting you, take a loan, doesn't matter what happens after, your physical and mental health and self esteem is SO SO SO much more important than anything pecuniary.

I remember when I was an 87lb meth head, ousting over this girl from work. But she hung out with me. She was the type of girl who if she goes over to your place fucking was basically a give in but I had no confidence to do anything. The last time she was over she put on a semi porn movie in my bed and still to much a bitch to do nothing.

Pick little goals and complete them to build that confidence. Cleaning my room and practicing a skill was my route. The girl mentioned before cut me out of her life before I had this epiphany. But since I got a hook up in the woods with a cutie but I had gotten lucky with her back in high school so was a bit easier to make happen, as she was the one that suggested we hang out.

I’m almost 3 years clean from the hard stuff, have a girlfriend, weigh 110 of muscle, and still working on my goals.

You play a lot of vidya? But sounds like you play for escape, break your game down and get good. Ex. League only worry bout csing all game, only practice this mechanic yada yada. Point is vidya interests you, but you aren’t passionate about it. Women generally want to see you have some kind of interest that they may not care about but can clearly see you put time and EFFORT into.

Eat better bro, exercise, find something fun that will challenge your body. Put on productive YouTube as background noise, diet advice exercise advice vidya advice as long as it seems productive towards the future you. Look at most big lifters, most say years of lifting... it takes time to see results but it takes just this moment to have fun working towards those results.

She likes you and you’re gonna chill cool. No self confidence now we’ll it’s gonna turn her off slightly to a lot depending how much of a bitch you act like. The important thing is to always be working on you and if she really likes you she will give you another chance or two, and if you’re working hard on yourself it will be way easier with each next time, this girl or the next

No worries my dude, the beauty if Yea Forums is that we come from all walks of life, but we all share in the fact that we're pretty messed up.

Gotta look out for eachother y'know.

And what said is very, very good advice.

Hey,congrats on your outcome and thanks for the kind words.

I see myself in you friend, that's why I DO NOT WANT anyone to go on the self-destruction path that I took, there is never too late to change. There is never too late to feel better and there is never too late for you buddy.
I'll say it again, HIT THAT DENTIST UP, DO A CHECK-UP. When you can smile for everyone to see, you'll share your joy with people.
I know EXACTLY, how you feel bud, it's painful to feel "dirty, scarred or just abnormal". I wasn't fat, nor retarded, but due to some problems I've secluded myself like you did, for 4 long ass years.
I'll tell you what I did, I went to the dentist, fixed my teeth, then got out more, started reading, went and played basketball and made a group of friends.
You can always find people to talk with! You need to do activities!
I really wish you the best buddy! I really do, there's so much negativity but let me tell you, people care about you. I don't even know you, but I care user, just imagine how many people in your life care about you, so you OWE them and yourself to be happy.
See ya in a couple of years user, hope you'll be with that girl and do what you want and love.

What I meant by the message up is that I've made my decision. I was stupid ,shouldn't have told her what I felt for her. I should of never left my pc because I can hurt people with my stupid decision making. I won't involve anyone into any of my trash like my dad did. I think I can be happy with video games but I can't be happy if I don't tell her this and push her away.There comes a time in a man's life when he must choose a path. I've always known the right path ,with no exception ,always.But I never took it because it was too god damn hard.Now I'm here and I accept the decisions I've made.I won't die ,I won't be happy and I won't be sad, I'll just be.

Life is too short to just be, take the chances you want to take when you have the opportunities to do so.

Trust me in the fact that the worst feeling on the planet is the feeling of "what if".

What if my parents didn't have me as a second child ,then they wouldn't have had financial problems.My brother would of lived a better life,maybe my parents would still be together.There's all sorts of what ifs out there.

Life is long enough for you to strive and find happiness brother.

You blame your existence? Don't do that! You equal all the money in the world for your parents.
What if's don't really mean the situation would be better, we live in an unlimited possibility reality but that doesn't mean you can change the past.
Don't blame yourself for the troubles of others when it wasn't your fault.
You live in the present and strive for the future my friend.

I've said what I had to say. I'll go to sleep. Thank you for your words. Tomorrow I'll make a YLYL thread after the job is done.

Goodnight dude, hope OP will find hope where it seems to be none!

Exactly, you don't need more "what if's" in your life.
I know all too well the feeling of spending so much time thinking about what has passed and who you've ended up being, that you miss the opportunities that do come by when you're lost down memory lane.

For your sake my dude, let the past go and focus on what you have infront of you. Focus on building a life that's comfortable for you, and not just staying in your comfort zone.

Aye, exactly.