My girl dumped me for another guy. We were together for many years and since they hadn't had sex yet (I know the usual cliches and red pill stuff, inb4 she fucked him already, etc.), I was hesitant to let it go too easily, and I got her to agree to give it a bit of extra time with me first. I'm not certain that I want to keep her, but I don't want to let go just yet, just in case I'd regret it in the long run.
Well, long story short, we shared some cute moments last night, and then I seduced her, we had sex, and she came after just a few minutes of the ol' reach around. I sort of thought that giving it to her good would help win her over somehow, but she started crying about ten minutes after we finished up. She had to leave due to a scheduling thing that I was aware of before we did the deed (meaning it wasn't just an excuse), and she's coming back later tonight.
What does this mean? Should I simply give up on the idea of this relationship? I don't have a ton of trouble with women and I think I could do better if I put forth the effort but I've got some lingering romantic feelings for this girl, so if it can be saved, I'd like to at least try in the short term.
Idk man. I know she doesn't love me and that's not such a big deal. I'm just wondering if she can love me again in the future or if it's guaranteed to be over. I know countless men have been in my position before and countless will be in the future... surely one of those guys out there has managed to salvage it and go on to marry the woman, right?
I don't really have a plan and I'm just playing it by ear, trying to do all the shit I didn't do right over the last few years. I was also planning on fucking her a lot and just doing a lot of coke or something... I'm a bit confused right now, actually. I have good self-esteem, and if all I get out of this attempt is sex, then at least I won't feel like a cuck when she finally leaves.
