My ex got engaged today.
She posted a "So happy I met him" post last month on the same date we started going out.
I'm getting drunk alone on a Thursday night. I have to wake up at 6 AM for a lecture tomorrow.
Sorry this isn't a porn thread. I am sad.
Pic unrelated but it's my favorite beverage.
it's okay dude, just keep on keepin on.
i knew my ex for 7+ years, only dated for a year. found out she got married last year like 6 months after i broke up with her.
All I'm really trying to say here is that the past is the past and your'e gonna be a-okay
I feel for ya man. Don't worry though just keep moving you'll be alright. I'll smoke one for ya. Arnold Palmer is a great drink too!
You often smell like feet and corn chips. You’re not a good person and you should feel bad.
Also: post her noods dude.
Thanks. I thought I was over her and this comes out of left field. I'll get over it eventually.
Sorry user she's not the kind of girl that would send nudes. Religious and shit.
Nigguh my fiancee left me suddenly without warning, and over time the story unwound as to why and what happened... Well.. let me put it this way.
It's too confusing and insane too explain and I wish to God she cheated on me. It would have been way more straight forward and easier to take than all the horseshit she actually caused.
I also lawl now when Incels are like "women cheat hurr" lol really? Which ones? They sound like angels.
Jack?
Honestly man, 99% of the time your better off without her, If she's getting married so soon that says something about her. Just keep on going man, we're here for ya
>Sorry user she's not the kind of girl that would send nudes. Religious and shit.
Well then think of it as her giving you an easy exit from a dead-end relationship.
Be thankful that she's giving you the opportunity to find someone who will care for the person that you are.
She's letting you have a fresh start with someone who will appreciate you.
Because the woman of your dreams is out there, my friend.
She'll love you...
She'll fight for you...
She'll stand by her man...
She'll appreciate the nice things you do for her...
She'll be afraid to lose you...
And you could meet her tomorrow. But you'll never get anything started with her if you're still tearing yourself up over a woman who wasn't right for you.
That's right: she wasn't right for you! And you (for whatever reason) weren't right for her.
Be thankful you found that out before you knocked her up and she ruined your life.
I'm sorry that happened to you user. It sounds much worse than anything I've experienced in my life. Feel free to take over this thread if it would help you, but it sounds like you don't want to dwell on it.
I'm sorry I don't know who Jack is
Sounds like an evil cunt. Why are you wasting your energy on that? Snap the fuck out of it bro. I know what its like. I dated a girl for 5 years and i had no doubt i would marry her one day but shit fucking happened and she ended up losing her virginity to someone else and shit started going south. I thought I'd never get over her. I still think of her every day but you know What? I know we're not meant to be. Sometimes you need to take a step back and see shit for how it is. If she doesn't feel about you the same way you do, why would you want to have anything to do with her?
The brain is kind of an optimist sometimes and it likes to only remember the great times, but you must remember all the shit times too. We all go through it. Many people have that significant other that they like to think about and wonder "what if?" about. You know what? "What if" doesn't fucking exist. There is only one possible reality and it is the one happening right now. Get over the cunt and don't let her make your life any more miserable because this will only make you weak and unattractive to other women and people in general.
Hope this somewhat helps.
also, Arnold Palmer is the shit.
Both of these are really good advice
yes yummy drink very good. Hope you feel better
Thanks user. I thought I was over her and I've tried dating since then. I guess this incident has made it clear that I'm not over her. I'l work on it. Thanks.
That's the awful part though, she wasn't evil she was great. I just wasn't good enough and didn't have my shit sorted out. Thank you for the words.
This should cheer you up, OP
>Thanks user. I thought I was over her and I've tried dating since then. I guess this incident has made it clear that I'm not over her. I'l work on it. Thanks.
Hope it helps, user.
Remember: Breakups suck -- for a while.
But you know what sucks more? Being with someone who walks all over you because she has no regard for your feels.
Then get your shit sorted out, but do it for yourself. Do not do it for her, or anyone else for that matter.
And if she was such a great little angel, why did she post "so happy I met him" on the day yall started dating?
:'(
I've been working on it. Got into a good comp sci program at one of the best uni's in my state and the job search is going, but not well. I'm getting there.
I don't know. In all honesty it was probably a coincidence. She only ever said good things about anyone for the years I was with her. As far as I'm aware she's just not the type to do some lowkey passive aggressive bullshit like that. It still hurt like a stick up the ass though.
Dub checks
Who cares. Just live your life alone, faggot. Women are whores.
Things get better, was with a girl gor 7 years, she had a kid and got engaged within a year. I met a girl that does anal so whos the real winner?
Maybe it was a coincidence, maybe not. Anyways, that's besides the point. Keep doing you and make yourself a better man and your situation around you will inevitably change for the better as well. Your consciousness and attitude literally creates your reality. Be strong and be thankful for your weaknesses, because withour our weaknesses, we wouldn't be able to gain our strengths.
Watcha drinking user? That's some shit. Women are garbage.
Is the kid the girl that does anal? >:)
Sounds juicy give us the story
I know it blows but ENJOY FREEDOM
Having somebody to answer to (wife, kids) all the time is worse
So what you want.
41 Year old with 3 kids under 7 here.....
I personally prefer the sweet tea, but you have to find the strength within yourself to pick yourself up and carry on. She wants you to suffer and if you rub it in her face that you're better without her it'll eat away at her for as long as she lives.
Incels like the supreme gent are just nihilistic retards who feel entitled to an autistic, absurd amount of success with all women at all times.
Women are just incredibly crazy and disloyal
Thanks for the laughs anons.
Southern Comfort (cheap whiskey). Also homebrew apple cider.
Probably, the dad looks like the type.
Are you college me, as I was four years ago, user?
Well that depends. were you a 3rd year Comp Sci major struggling to get a relationship or an internship in his state four years ago?
Yes, actually, at uc Davis. And I'd constantly have a jug of Arnold palmer by my desk that'd I'd drink or use to chase vodka whenever I got depressed
It's the most cliche saying of all time but time really is the only thing that will make you feel better. I was dumped about 2 years ago now and lost a lot of weight because I was too sick to eat, heart broken as fuck. Thinking about her these days though I seriously feel nothing. You learn a lot from this shit, it definitely changes you as a person and hopefully for the better. Chin up user.
Oh and also Arnold Palmer tea is flames
Well shit sounds like I am you three years ago. To the T. Texas A&M though, not UC Davis.
Well in that case do me a favor and go through with volunteering at the student radio station and doing your own show, I always regretted not doing that in place of getting drunk/high
I can't say I have any passion for student radio, but you did get me to just find out we have a student radio. Listening to a guy ramble about how he took three exams today and play some chill vaporwave. Thanks.