RAPE it's worse for a guy,
When a woman is raped there is less psychological and physical damage done, this is not just comparative statistically when considering both allegations and convictions of rapists but it is objectively obvious too.
RAPE it's worse for a guy
I'd let her rape me any day
I'm inclined to agree. When a guy gets raped by another guy, he loses all credibility as a man; he's seen as weak and a faggot.
At least when a woman gets raped by a guy, there's a small chance she'll be believed and garner sympathy and be taken seriously by the authorities.
if a woman gets raped people might question it but they wont be dicks about it just potentially skeptical
guy gets raped same reaction but now they wonder is he a fag and even stop treating him like a guy
there is something to be said for psychological preparedness, no amount of don't drop the soap jokes are gonna give u enough life experience to asses and repair that damage
rape is not that bad, society makes it bad and expect you to be ashamed beyond belief.
Everybody gets forced to do something they would/could have done willingly in other circumstances. They are ashamed they let it happen, but they get over it. It being sex should not change anything.
Don't get me wrong, rape is high up there but it's not as bad everybody makes it out to be. I'd rather get rape than lose an eye or an arm.
physical damage doesn't always go away true but neither does psychological damage and rape isnt always about sex
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nah rape is worse for a woman because she could be made pregnant and have to take care of the baby for the rest of her life. that's way worse than just taking a dick up the ass. no contest.
rape is pretty much all about sex, I don't know what you are talking about.
The thing is, rape is something that, if people did not make a point to remind you how they see you differently and pity you, you'd be able to forget about most of the time. Just like other bad experiences.
Unlike physical damage, you can choose to ignore a rape and move on with your life. You take lessons of karate or whatever, carry weapons you are allowed to, you make sure it won't happen again, regain control. Unless of course it was a nigger and you have aids.
yes
this doesn't make it worse there are options available for most women in this situation with only a minority running into moral ethical issues on deciding how to proceed
right but all those options cost money and all of them carry heavy stigma in society. all a dude has to do is let his ass heal. it's much more psychologically traumatizing to conceive a child from rape and have to face that uncertain future, and be judged no matter what choice you make, than it is to have a cock in your ass for 10 minutes.
rape is about power. See Weinstein for example he was an old, nasty man but he wouldn't have to rape to get laid since he's rich and influential. However he got a kick out of the dominance he had over the women he assaulted, thus continuing with this behavior that would eventually cost him his career
abusive rape over a continued period is more about domination and power particularly in the prison systems or lightly in the presance of authority figures.
in the hypothetical scenario of not having it referred to again, agreed it can be forgotten about or repressed but prevention is not so easy as the only alternative is at times to replace the current circumstance with a live or die option.
>right but all those options cost money and all of them carry heavy stigma in society
No. Adoption is free and people will understand given the circumstances. The baby will be adopted in no time if newborn cause the demand is so high, and they will never know who the dad was.
I get what you’re trying to say but barebones rape is totally just about sex.
If there’s nothing sexual happening and someone is abusing their power over you, then that’s all they’re doing - abusing their power.
>rape is about power
lol you're a morron. I don't give a shit what the motivation of the attacker is, power is being exerted on people everyhour of the day. It's the sexual component of the equation that it is the problem and you're just playing on words...
she still has to go through 9 months of pregnancy and all the associated costs and endure the way people judge her because the results are visible unlike with a man, plus the trauma of having to give up her child and live with the knowledge that her body was used against her will to gestate and birth a rapist's child. men don't have to worry about any of that, they have it way easier.
You are obviously an incel, underaged virgin could you make it any more obvious with that retarded black and white way you look at things? Women are fragile beings, thus why man is here for protection and providing; rape will absolutely shatter a women's psyche and probably destroy any trust or happiness they have for a while so no its not just glorified sex
at first sex is likly the catalyst but sexual urges are fleeting and they evolve with the person depending on the context.
women recieve support for all of these issues regardless of how they choose to proceed they are also prepared by society to know what to do if it happens men have no such training and are by default more vulnerable weather this is to be considered infantile or not is perspective but that is what occurs when a population is raised and spoon fed by an over arching culture.
But we’re talking about the constituents of rape. It literally cannot be rape if there’s nothing sexual about it, by definition.
I’m not disagreeing that the whole power thing is a major factor but at the end of the day, for it to be classed as rape, the rapist would have to do something sexual.
lmao women aren't prepared by society for that, what do you think they take rape lessons? wtf are you on about?
let me make it simple, what's worse?
>ow, my ass hurts and maybe i caught an STD
or
>ow, my pussy hurts and maybe i caught an STD and maybe i am pregnant
once again, no contest. not even close.
>rape will absolutely shatter a women's psyche and probably destroy any trust or happiness they have for a while
I think you don't understand my point, I know that's the truth, I am just saying it should not be that way. I am just saying that in my opinion, the way society looks at rape victims and the expectations that people have of them contributes to making it a trauma they will have even more trouble to overcome.
Because at the end of the day, we're not going to stop rape, I am sorry to burst your bubble. I wish rape victims could be treated like other victims of a crime, normally.
I’ll be honest the whole “worse” argument is retarded.
Like women have it a bit worse in one way and men have it a bit worse in another way. It’s still shit either way.
come on, man. being forced into an unplanned pregnancy can ruin your life. being forced into anal sex can ruin your underwear.
>treated like other victims of a crime
Sometimes people (read: women) who are mugged or burgled end up with similar effects that you quoted. Even if rape was treated the same way I don’t think people would get over it as easily as you think user. Especially because of what rape actually is, i don’t think the treatment of the victims will change their psyche much if at all
But again there are things around the whole pregnancy stuff. Like the majority of people wouldn’t really say anything against an abortion of a rape baby (except some super super religious people). I don’t think adoption would be as good a choice because you would still go through the pregnancy.
And again, it’s worse in different ways. Physically ending up with an unwanted pregnancy is infinitely worse than what a man would end up with. Agreed. But the problems with rape aren’t skin deep and especially with men you could argue it’s much worse psychologically because of how women tend to support each other outwardly but men don’t really show support in the same way.
It’s a complex issue. That you can’t just say “anal isn’t as bad as getting preggo”
i probably mistakenly led you to believe there was nothing involving sex, or penetration or violence this was not my intention as it is largely considered in my own argument.
I think it's a special kind of crime, because it fucks with someone mentally and emotionally. Sex is the most intimate and passionate act you can share with someone, and when the crime is violently forcing one to have it, it becomes different than simply taking material items by force or just dealing physical damage. And if you look at Japan you'll notice they have virtually no crime,including rape because there is a strong social culture to not be a rapist, not to not be the one rapes. While I agree they should not be treated differently because of it (which I think most people do, maybe people talk behind their back) but I think it's a different issue than say robbery due to the nature of the crime
Not fact checking your Japan claim but even if that were true, that’s probably the result of many generations and respect for the previous generations teachings. One of the biggest differences between the east and the west imo.
Not having heard about your Japan thing before though my opinion was that as much as you can teach people something is bad, it isn’t going to stop them from doing it. On top of that, western culture doesn’t celebrate rapists as much as shills want you to believe it. We don’t go round high fiving someone who just raped someone.
I’m loterally just talking about your Japan point because it’s pretty interesting, more or less agree with everything else you said
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