Relationship advice/vent thread? >we were eachothers first >young one week fling type deal >drops off the earth cause she was "self destructive and didnt want to bring me down with her" >sit in the shadows waiting for her to come back >really love her, really miss her >feelsbadman.jpg >she got in hella relationships before coming back >get back together >5 years together >known eachother for 9 years >lived together for 3 years now >decided to talk about our pasts >I've bed 9 women and 4 guys >shes bed 4 girls and between 8-12 guys (it started as 8 but when we went deeper it just kept adding on, possibly could be more but it's better than my guess of 20 I suppose.) >told me shes never cum in bed from any of her partners >dont buy it but whatever >says I'm the 3rd or 4th biggest guy she was with but that doesnt matter cause I take the time to get her there >last night >dumb drunk together >gobbling me up like she watched that grapefruit video >going all the way down legit every time (shes never veen able to do it that well before) >after were done she says something along the lines of my gag reflex is really stifled when I'm drunk >all I can picture is her slurping up her exs >try passing joke of is that why all your exs got you plastered >I dont want to talk about that >shrug it off and cuddle with her til we fall asleep trying to push out my thoughts >sitting at work td hung over and thinking about what her and her exs did, how it was, if she truly never got there with someone else or if shes just lying to spare my feelings.
How do you get over the past Yea Forums? I know it shouldnt matter but it gets to me for some fucking reason.
so what dude, you've kissed other people but she still kisses you. You'll probably feel jealous for a while when you think about it but you can get over that. My gf is still close friends with her long relationship ex and when i get drunk i get uppity about it too, i think its normal
John Mitchell
Fuck I feel you op.
If you really don't trust her it's best to leave now. If you really want it to work, you must be open and honest about your feelings. Consider couples therapy and marriage counseling.
But if she just a hoe then don't worry op, there are more people out there for you.
Jason Young
She's fucking the ex. Not even trying to troll. If you can't work up the manpower to leave her, wear a fucking condom
Angel Morgan
So I'm not king autist for getting in my feelings? Shes waved past my past and doesnt care cause I'm slamming her now and not anyone else, and I wish it was easy for me to have that approach too. But sometimes all I can think of is how she did shit for people who literally didnt care for her they just wanted to fuck, and I get casual hook ups I had a few too but to manipulate someone into thinking they're in a relationship with you just so you can fuck them seems a little sociopathic doesnt it?
Juan Bell
I trust her with all my heart, I know shes mine and mine only. But the times when she wasnt haunts the fuck out of me
Blake Collins
thats a pretty big claim to make with so little info, internet guy
Carter Morgan
Me too op. Me too. Cheers to you. Hang in there
Grayson Cruz
Maybe but all the women I've dated her were in any contact with their ex were fucking them
Robert Jackson
Can partially confirm. I've had it happen to me but I've had 1-3 people who had contact with their exs and didnt do any funny shit. The other ones oh yeah guaranteed, a few I actually caught in bed with their ex.
Levi Hernandez
I think its the opposite to autism to have those feelings man. I don't care so much about sex and we have had threesomes with other people. Then sometimes she talks with the ex and theres a spark of what used to be and my brain gets so mad for not being included, I just need to calm down and remember what WE have IS different.. and thats okay
Wyatt Jenkins
Shes told me if I want to bring a guy over to do stuff with me that's fine and she wont even worry about getting involved because she doesnt have the specific part that men do, as well as offered bringing a girl home if she thinks I can handle it. How do threesomes work out? I'd hate for resentment or a stake to be thrown into the relationship because I was slinging dick to another girl infront of her.
Dominic Turner
Look I can only speak from my own experience and I'm pretty outside the norm. For me I enjoyed watching her be all sexy riding dick from another angle and then I got to swoop in and make her cum, hottest shit out. With another girl I get a bit flustered not knowing what to do with all these titties and all this attention on me but its still a lot of fun with all those extra parts. If you don't like to think about her with other people I'd avoid if I were you, hard to forget her pleasing someone else if you're right there. Maybe watching porn together and having sex will be a good start for you.
cont. It sounds like shes a bit more open sexually than you so you set the pace and !!!dont be afraid to stop if you dont like something!!!
Jackson Sullivan
you both fucked same sex people? you fucking trash motherfuckers should hang yourself. disgusting faggots
Liam Rodriguez
Well the thing is is she says I'm more than enough, shed never want to be in bed with another guy. Bringin another girl in would just be for us to mess around and change it up, a guy would soley be me x him, her not involved more than likely playing a game or sitting in the living room watching a movie
Jordan Murphy
hahaha grow up mate its just sex I gotta go to bed good luck OP
Jordan Garcia
eh, dont complicate a good thing
Jayden Wright
>grown adults >comfortable with their sexuality >you more than likely watch lesbian porn but want to criticize "faggots" Calm down there little dick, you're just sad you've never watched your girlfriend tongue kiss another girl
Zachary Cooper
Have you ever watched the movie "Clerks", user? Your answer lies there.
Logan Green
I'll give it a look
Logan Parker
The one with silent jay?
Christian Wood
I think its normal OP, you just have to try to get over it. I'm still with my first, and we've talked about possibly having a threesome sometime but the thought of anyone else touching either of us pisses us both off. Being jealous is a good thing cause it shows you still care, just don't let it over take you otherwise you'll push her away.
Also at least you're getting some still. Even though my girl and I have talked about a threesome doesn't mean we have sex often. I have a list of how many times we've had sex this year, because i feel like we don't have sex enough. We've fucked 3 times this year so far.
>I have just dumped my gf >She is utterly devastated >The last things she said before I left was that she loves me and that she is gonna miss me
I feel like fucking shit right now
Anthony Peterson
>Live with boyfriend of six years >He cries a lot to try and manipulate me into doing things >Extremely clingy and unreasonable >Today he cried because he didn't want me to go see my dad for two hours because I love my dad and seeing him makes me happy >Would prefer I just sat in the dark with him and did nothing >Went anyway >I obviously love him since we've been together for six years, but I'm not okay with that level of clinginess and I sometimes wish he was more manly and less manipulative
Ah see we've gone to a strip club together and not only did we sit at the stage but she bought me a private dance and told the girl to fuck up my world, so yes while we are strictly each others we established as long as were both okay with it if we find the right girl we can bring her in for the night
Jason Butler
Whyd you break up? Try to reason with him, if he doesnt want to give you freedom or put in effort hes not worth it hun, theres someone out there for everyone but a manipulator deserves no one.
Colton Hernandez
They relation was exhasuted, we fought a lot and I am going to ve out of the country for a 3-5 months, so Ii thought the relationship would be broken anyways. So I decided to break up before I go so she has time to heal and don't waste time arguing with over the phone.
Mason Wright
hahah OP u f bisexual degenerate , you'll burn in hell for all eternity. Secondly obviously she just says it to please you. Come on now we all know size is what matters. I bet she creamed on thos hu ge fat cocks all the time and just fakes it when she's with you. Probably fucks her well hung ex bf's behind your back. That's probably also the reason why she mentioned it. degenerate bisexual cucked motherfucker i hope u die off niggeraids
