Friends told me I am a negative person

because charity is good for your soul, as a young dude your time isn't worth much and the reason people feel alienated and depressed is because they aren't exposed to the real problems that people have and the smiles they have when someone helps them even though they think they're worthless trash. as much as you want to pretend humans aren't social/emotional creatures, you're wrong.

get hiv

I focus on problems to the point that I dont get any pleasure from the things I achieve because I am already on to the next problem.
My negativity is only directed towards my own life and I am never satisfied with it.

Holy shit dude I thought you would make a bunch of gay excuses like the faggots who make these threads every day. Just do it. The time invested will be worth it I promise and if anybody says ur a negative shit you can be like BITCH I FEED THE HOMELESS TWO HOURS A WEEK WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU DO?!

Whoa slow down there buddy. Firstly, I never made a claim that humans aren't social creatures, so I don't know why you're making that claim. Secondly, you didn't even answer the question; why help people who don't deserve it. I didn't ask, why help people - I said why help people who don't deserve it.

Lrn2read

I appreciate that

Did you read what I wrote? It answers your question lol.
>Lrn2read?

Okay, but what was the specific circumstances surrounding your friends telling you that you're negative?

say to yourself 'fuck it'. it's just who you are

I seriously hope you do it because it worked so well for me and it makes me feel good to help other anons too. *Thumbs up*

you might be negative

but nowadays everyone is a flaming actual faggoty snowflake and there is a thing, more so in america but def in europe too in my experience, called "negativity fear" growing more and more

If anything isnt SUPER POSITIVE RAINBOW GOOD VIBES BRO THANKS BRO people will block it out, deny it, negate it, or blame you for "bringing bad vibes" simply because you're stressed, unhappy, or challenging their complete and utterly bullshti behavior or speech.

FUCK THAT NOISE.
If you can admit to yourself that you are being unrealistically and overly negative for no apparent reason other than to pity party yourself and bitch, then yes theyre probably in the right.
but if youre simply stressed out by shit and venting is how you help yourself feel better and your friends cant handle that because theyre emotional boundary-less faggots, ditch your friends. they are useless and will never help you become a better person because they themselves are stagnating cuntrags full of shit and faggotry.

God your dumb. You answered the question of why help people. Not people who "don't deserve it". If you're making a claim that there are people who "don't deserve it", you can assume that your help would essentially be a waste of resources in comparison to helping someone who does deserve it, i.e. someone who could use assistance getting on their feet financially versus someone who wouldn't appreciate it, would squander it, and end up in the same position as they started.

this. Be careful with people who say you're being negative. People these days are such faggots, that they feel the need to insulate themselves from anything even remotely critical. Everything has to be positive. The reason why this is stupid, is because if you don't pay attention critically to the world around you, you'll end up getting taken for a fool. It doesn't mean you have to be an asshole all the time, but just remember, there's advantages to being disagreeable.

Women are the cause of most problems though.

*You're*

Really should learn the difference if YOU'RE going to assert YOUR point that the other person is dumb.

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How do you know if your negativity is justified? Isn't it always possible to rationalize your negativity? I am going through a stressful time, broken marriage and stuff. Is that a reason enough to be negative?

hung out with friends, we started discussing my broken marriage and financial future.

They concluded my pessimistic outlook on my future life hinders from actually living the good life I have. I should rather think that everything is working out for me, because I could be happy all this time worrying for nothing, or everything goes to shit and I still was happy at least while it lasted.

No I answered why you should help people who "you don't think deserve it" which is what I said. It's ok if you try not to understand but it's pretty clear what I'm saying. :)

These threads are always the same. Two anons who know what they're talking about recommending positive changes and ten other sad faggot crabs trying to drag OP back into the bucket. If he says 'im bummed and I want to change it' and your response is don't change you're already perfect lol you sound like fat apologists. OP is already one step on the right direction and you don't understand the important thing is flow and movement and what you learn from that you stagnant faggots

That's why you're a negative pos

Wow, thanks for that grammar nazi. One spelling error and you throw out the whole point. Fucking faggot

No it's not. You have down syndrome.

Sounds like your friends are shit. You're going through a tough time, it makes sense you're gonna be shitty. Try the volunteer stuff though, it's nice to help out. Plus you'll meet people, and socialising is nice.

Samedepressedfag lol

We happy fam. We volunteer. Your rage and sadness has no power here. Go back to /pol/. Yea Forumsros will be bros sometimes. :)

Sorry to break it to you.

OP is a negative cuck and I have no idea what you're on about, but you already like to come to your own conclusions so I'm not surprised either

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kys faggot

Die.

For me, a great deal of my negativity comes from judgements. Looking at someone or some situation and letting my past experience and ego tell me that I know exactly what to expect and how everything will work out. Who am I to judge anyone or anything?

Help for helping's sake, not just people who you think deserve it.

Oh hi mobile poster! I wonder if you turn off your WiFi if you can screenshot without a (you). Hmmm that'd be real tricky right! And then you can be angry because nobody can prove you're a sad little faggot. But you know. You know. Hi to therapy. Volunteer. Turn your life around. Get a job that doesn't require you to be awake at 6:30am on a Saturday. (Or more likely, go to bed.)

Do you constantly compare yourself and your life to others? To what you see on the internet? On TV? Gratitude for what you do have is important. Especially things you take for granted; the 5 senses, 6 if you count emotional awareness, the function of your limbs, your family, your health, etc. These things have a great intrinsic value but many do not appreciate them because they are taken for granted.

Hey OP.

Most of the persons i've been surrounded in my life have told me such things. They've called me toxic, and that I corrupt their lives and make them worse.

I was trying to fix this for decades, till I decided to go to a psycologist. Then, after a few sessions, he told me that people that was actually telling me how bad I was, even if it was because they were worried and wanted the best for me, were causing my shit. Because they didn't let me express myself as I felt, and everytime I did I was called out, I ended believing I was inheritedly negative. He told me I had to make the decision of change my friends, or I wouldn't improve.

I'm not actually really positive right now, but not having to deal with bullshit from people that doesn't really understand you is way worse.

Fun fact: it was my friends who told me to go to a psycologist to "help" me. When I told them my treatment was to tell them bye they went apeshit and started to tell me the psycologist was not a solution. kek.

Just shut up more often.
People don't want to know problems they want solutions or to enjoy a distraction.

Think of that shit from.the bambi movie. The skunk said something about stfu if you gonna bitch.

*way better, i'm retarded.

They told you to go to a therapist to help you. And it helped. And that makes them assholes? Lol

yeah, this

What made them assholes is that the therapist was right. They didn't want me to improve. They wanted me to stop staining their lifes.

Same poster.

I'm saying they helped you find out y'all are a bunch of codependent shitlords so the advice was good. Not that they aren't shit lords.

flip your polarity

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Yeah that's cool then. Glad they gave you the advice tho fam!

becoming a faggot might be good advice if you're into gay shit. they have fun and party a lot.

yeah but they get the hiv and can't into kids

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ur an idiot

HIV is effectively cured and who wants dreamkillers anyway. They take ur money and shit all over ur house.

Go to bed.

seriously? u don't want kids? how old are you?

If you bring a child into the hellscape of 2019 I hope they strangle you in your sleep lol.

Check the "group" dynamic duderonomy. Get more then one human together and you have a psych ward. you get comp to be the cool one, good looking one, tough one, smart one, etc. Knock the one offf the top and become the ALPHA, and fuck all the rest.....literally... G>

>wanting to change yourself to please the others
if they're your true friends, they will accept you as you are and you'll all engage in the dutch rudder

have fun, faggot

Embrace your autism, OP. Never change.

>I think don't deserve it
it's a suprise you still have friends

Wow. And apparently you're the one who's calling out others for being depressed. How depressing is it to consign the world you live in as a hellscape unfit for another generation. As long as you put a lol at the end though right? Giddy simpleton.

Hey, OP. On the off chance that this is a real question, you need to look at the source of your negativity.

In general people have negative attitudes because they're suffering without recourse.

Do you have something in your life to strive for that makes your suffering worthwhile?

Are you standing up for yourself appropriately? Is there something you need to say to someone instead of swallowing it up and letting it fester until it becomes a boiling resentment?

Are you clinically depressed? (I don't mean are you sad because life sucks, I mean are you sad even when life is great.)

If you really want to change your attitude then you may want to do some reading or even consult a professional.

Jordan Peterson (inb4 bullshit political responses) has developed a pretty good starting point philosophically, and has a magnificent reading list if you're looking to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. If you're educated then you can look at his YouTube channel. Check out his latest iteration of "Personality and Its Transformations". If you're not well educated then you could start with his book, "12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos", which is less technical and more practical.

Good luck, OP.

Faggot.

learn a fortnite dance and do it in public in a swag manner
G U A R A N T E E D sexi tym

You need to be charged positive.