Why do women love talking about logistical shit that doesn't matter?

I'm curious as to how I could go about that because I don't have a clue what she is using me for(if she even is)

Whenever she asks you for something or takes something of yours. Just make a mental note of it every time it happens. But don't obsess about it.

>logistical shit doesn't matter
it does matter it's just women aren't capable of tactical thought and neither are you cuckboi

I don't know, it's not like she ever takes anything of mine or has me do things for her. It's more of that I feel like anything she does is more important to her than I am in her mind. We discussed the fact that since she's in an accelerated graduate study program that her school needs to come first, but it feels like more often than not, it's the other non-school related activities that take precedent over me as well.

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Shut up.

dump her so she can find a real man.

this. its called the honeymoon phase for a reason.

Most women are terribly boring. I suppose they don't need to be interesting when they can get by on looks alone. Here, have a cartoon.
youtube.com/watch?v=x0cv_Ior5FY

Yeah I get that, but I guess I've never had the bubble burst this harshly before.

Thank you anons for the advice and ideas though. first time posting on Yea Forums in years and you guys made me realize there's still some people worth talking to on here.

Then don't go out of your way to do things for her, unless it would fuck her over and you actually want to keep her. A relationship is give and take. Only do the essentials if that's all she does. If she grows distant, then you know you shut cut the ripcord. If she starts spending more time with you, you know she's just been busy.

I agree with you but it already feels like I'm only able to do the bare minimum. I only get to see her once or twice a week because of her classes and two jobs. She's out of state right now with family but we'll see how it goes next week I guess.

>log
>shit

Good luck

>I guess I've never had the bubble burst this harshly before.
Maybe they weren't "pretending" (for lack of a better word) as much as she was? Ultimately if you're not happy with someone, you should leave. In the end it's kind of fucked up to lie to someone, and pretend to be something you're not, just so they'll like you. I can't say that I don't do this because imo everyone does to an extent, but there are some that just flat out lie about who they are. To their significant others as well as to themselves.

They like prattling on about themselves and seek reciprocalities and empathy and some shit to make them feel secure. Even the most hardassed of dykes just want to feel loved at the end of the day.

thanks