Is it worth it to have a gf?

Is it worth it to have a gf?

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most of the time, no. but pussy whenever is really, really nice.

Pandalee has cute feet

Do you love yourself? If you don't, why would a girl?

You're not very good at Loving yourself are you?

If you love yourself, and you love them in such a way that they feel free, it is worth it

All my time on this world I've come to realize that Love is one of the only things worth nurturing.

If you dislike yourself, don't even try to date. You'll bleed on somebody who didn't cut you.

No, whenever that relationship ends it's the most regretful thing to happen to you

>waste of money, time, could've gotten other pussy

The only thing good that comes from a relationship is if you get consistent pussy. If you can bare to stand the constant bullshit for that then more power to you

this user gets it.

>I am shallow
>women are fleshlights

this is your brain on NEET

half or double

I mean, if you really like having sex maybe twice a week, then putting up with her getting mad when she catches you masturbating to sexier women, then sure.

I hate myself like a normal person, user. also tits or gtfo nigger

This. I can be a fucking nerd, work overtime and play with my kids all the time cause I dont need to go hound for pussy.

Occasionally she feeds me and makes me alcoholic beverages.

fuck off phil
no one wants you

Absolutely not. I've given it a lot of thought, so I've never had one.

Pandalee. Always in the dsp threads.

If you find a good one who won't use you, yeah.
They can be supportive, your friend, and someone who can experience life with you. It's not all bad if you find a good one.
That's the only catch though; finding one worthwhile. Modern culture is kind of teaching women to act like spoiled princesses with only their own self interests.
Trust me, I speak from experience.

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>you'll bleed on someone who didn't cut you
This is a great fucking analogy and I'm stealing it

With only their own self interests in mind*
You get what I mean.

may I just say there's a significant amount of dubs in this thread

Found the cuck

found the beta NEET

Can be if she's the right girl. Ask yourself why you want a gf. For sex? Just don't feel like shit for not having one and all your buddies do.

it's not normal to hate yourself.

I'm not a girl, or a nigger

steal away ^^
I stole it too

Nice buzzword, highly original idea

Have you ever been in Love user? Or is consuming media and food your only aspirations?

assuming it's not normal to hate yourself and your theory is worth it's weight in dog shit, why do so many people have so much trouble with relationships? I mean all you have to do is love yourself, right?

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no

>For sex?
are you retarded or what? it's the reason we all want a gf. yourself included. the rest is semantics.
>here come the incel NEET replies
I've been in several serious relationships, the longest of which was just shy of 6 years. no kids or anything, thank fucking god. but they've all ended the same way. I've been single for the last 3 years and I'd rather get a couple of pieces of tail a month, or none at all, and continue to be able to do what I want. fuck that noise.

Loving yourself is not an easy thing. It takes knowledge and practice and determination - and most people never consider that it is a REQUIREMENT to loving somebody else - until they learn it the hard way.

Our culture does not teach you to love yourself, it teaches you that you have many problems, and it also teaches you to purchase solutions to those problems (cosmetics, clothing, cool shoes, face lifts, etc)

Loving yourself is an idea largely preached by Eastern practices like Buddhism and Hinduism. You will find very little Western material that will help you with this.

I have been learning to love myself for many years now, and I still catch myself every day trying to sabotage my sense of self worth. It is an uphill battle user, in a culture that feeds off our discomfort.

Loving yourself requires a certain level of alienation from the world around you. Be mindful of what ideas you subject yourself to.

There are many many ways to learn to love yourself! As you go down this path, Love will find you. People emminate this feeling. And as you learn it for yourself, you will begin to feel the emmination from others, as well.

You will meet a rare type of person. Before you even speak, your heart will have already chosen them. Before you even know their name, and at the moment you lay eyes on them, your entire body will tell you that they Love themselves, too.

I have met 6 of these people. Sometimes they're not "the one" for you, but sometimes, they will gift you years of their life.

I spend most of my time and energy learning about love, relationships, sex, and presence. I am fascinated by the ways that humans connect.

We must learn to love ourselves! It is a path leading to endless beauty. Our bodies, our "Self" is the lens in which we view the world. Our perceptions, our experiences - they are all viewed through this lens - if our lens is dirty, we will be unable to see how beautiful life is. Clean your lens user ^^

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>It is, as long as she isn't a bitch and puts out a lot.

Just don't move in with or marry a woman. The second you do that, having a woman in your life, goes from being fun to being a total chore.

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user speaks the truth. If you aren't happy alone then you will be miserable in a relationship.

I'm single because I get more shit done when I'm not attached at the hip to someone of the opposite gender.

Does that make me less of a person?

Absolutely not. You are always a whole person

I agree that a person needs to be self-sufficient both lifestyle-wise and emotionally/psychologically before they can pursue a relationship, but why do you have to dress it up in such faggoty terms?

The truth is that some people "mature" earlier than others do, and some people never mature. Ultimately, long-term partnership is an investment you make, and, like all investments, it can go bad.

Choosing a good wife can be the best decision you ever made. Choosing a bad wife can be the worst decision you ever made.

The gamblers inherit the Earth.

Faggy terms..? is that what you call everything that you don't understand?

Sex is a strong motivation but is it your main motivation for entering a relationship? Some people are just lonely and are looking for companionship. Not every dude is going to dump their girl just because she sucks in bed

That's a non-answer. Take two people, both emotionally and psychologically developed and, thus, not susceptible to base distractions or obstacles, both with clarity of thought and purpose.

One is in a relationship, the other is not. Is one better than the other?

Okay, when someone addresses what you posit, and you bog the discussion down in semantics, you actively degrade the quality of the discussion.

You're trying to present a relationship as something fulfilling, but only if you're already fulfilled. It is practically pointless to the vast majority of people on this website, because they are not fulfilled. A small percentage might recognize what you're saying, and agree, but the others don't understand because they haven't reached a level of awareness, yet, that allows for it.

You can't preach the value of mutual development to a person when they see women as property.

>Gatekeeping

No. There's no such thing as better or worse, only what works for you, and what doesn't.

This all comes down to preference user, it's not a game or a race to be won, or to choose the "right" path.

What do YOU desire?

I know that my words will only reach a few eyes, and that's why I wrote them. Maybe an user will find my posts curious and begin to learn for themselves

The best I can do is try

No idea what this means, I'm a hippy retard not a gate keeper

this

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*snort*
Dude only if they pay bills, you know what I mean ack ack ack.

Jokes aside. I don't think it's worth it.
I can pay my own bills, cook for myself, masturbation is fine and when I need to talk I hit up the boys for a couple of beers.

I never really understood that relationship crap, but then again I might just be autistic.