Well first of all get out of South Africa because it sucks.
Landon Ward
>Trans girlfriend You mean a boyfriend
Julian Morris
>it's not gonna be a forever thing Not that you should expect every relationship to go that well, but the fact you immediately just dismiss it means you're just thinking with your balls instead of actually wanting to care for another.
I'd highly suggest developing your sense of empathy before you go into a relationship- especially one with a trans person who has probably suffered enough with being tossed away so easily.