This is because you suffer from a mental illness called "depression". The difficult thing for depressed people to understand, is that their mind is diseased, and they can't trust their own thoughts. They will think other people hate them, or that they are being judged constantly. This, however, is not the case at all, but they keep finding evidence for that, because their diseased mind is constantly generating it. Depression is rarely cured by thinking. Like other illnesses, it has physiological causes, and its cure is physical as well. But those who are depressed have mechanisms that prevent them from seeking out those cures. They believe that their soul is rotten and they need to sit still and fix their soul from within, by thinking and talking. This, however, is exactly the least effective cure. Their brain tells them to keep thinking and talking, but they shouldn't trust their brain. After a while, it has become such a habit, they don't know what else there is in life. They try to think of things but their diseased brain makes them unmotivated and they go back to thinking. It's very frustrating to watch from the outside, because they are actually very close to curing themselves.
Why can't I accept myself for who I am?
doubleldubs
>They believe that their soul is rotten and they need to sit still and fix their soul from within, by thinking and talking. This, however, is exactly the least effective cure
not him but HOLEY SHID
THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE
WHAD LE FUG.....I UNDERSTAN EBRYTHING NOW...
so THIS is why i constantly push everything away! it makes perfect sense!!!
ty random anone!!!!!
Thinking and talking can be helpful. The problem is rumination, which is different from solution-oriented thinking.
Probably because you're a shitty person. Try being a better person, post results.
penis (ironically)
Rumination feels like thinking if you don't know the difference. But you're right and you got dubs.
These dubs hadn't been checked before.
THIS
No one I've ever known really accepts themselves. The happier people I've known are always working to improve, the sadder tend to be stagnant and unmotivated. Personally I think the key is to stay in motion. The sense of accomplishment is the only important thing.
But I failed life, so why listen to me? LOLE!
Worship my feete, baby
I guess they never miss huh?
Thank you for those kind words,
I take your words to heart.
no they never miss...
i don't think there exists anyone who accepts themselves
well except for people with anti social disorder but that's usually just the narcisism talking
i hope this makes you feel better
I understand that now, but as the wise Anonymous said, it would be nice to have a sense of accomplishment again, so at least I have a foundation to build on.