Genuine question Yea Forums

how old are you?

You don't deserve anything except a length of rope.

Finding people:

1) Be more willing to initiate discussion. Making friends never happens unless someone initiates. It won't always stick, sometimes you'll only talk once or twice, but that's absolutely normal and is an inevitability no matter who you are. Just keep trying.

2) If you REALLY struggle to initiate then instead, present yourself in such a way as to invite others to initiate (put that you like getting messages on your profile, enter guilds and be in sub-groups that are open to invites from others etc.). This is going to create less opportunities than 1), but is easier to do.

3) Engage in communities in general, even if they don't necessarily result in friends. You never know where people can come from.

Maintaining friendships early on

1) Be passionate, but be reasonable. A boring person who cares about nothing is not an interesting person to talk to. Do you have something you like? Don't be afraid to talk about it (unless they say they specifically don't want to hear about it). Even go in to detail about it. They might not be invested, but they'll at least appreciate you care about something.

2) Don't be a depressing cunt. I know it's easy to default to being defeatist, I used to myself, but that will only worsen your situation. That's not to say you have to be an obnoxious optimist either, but don't talk about yourself in such a way that makes you think you're worthless.The fact of the matter is no one wants to hear other peoples shit constantly. Sometimes? Sure, they'll listen, but constantly? It's a drain. I'm a NEET too but I don't present myself as "rock bottom of society" because new people I talk to don't want to hear me say how awful of a person I am.

post lolis
let people see your lolis

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clean yourself daily
go on walks daily, just to get used to going outside and for some exercise to help with your depression
find a stable job with sustainable income so you gain some discipline
work on getting your driver's license
find a small comic shop or other hobby place with not an overwhelming amount of people that share a common interest, could even be some community anime club or something
never accept being mediocre

Thats a good question. Im a semi rehabed neet whos still losing frens iver dumb sperg outs but im determined to change. Just sadder.

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i have never had any except for my normie friends. and im totally fine with it.

i dont really want to talk about vidyas with anyone irl. guess now its very difficult to handle it irl unless you are either a total nerd or a total casual cause aaa shit and niche games are totally separated.

Same as me I used to have friends but after two years neet and not talking to anyone I completely forget how to do it or even have a conversation besides small talk.

I try not to think about it and just play games instead. Been playing zelda and Mario and it takes your mind off everything because they’re so fun.

all of those things require an immense amount of effort

odds are I'd randomly die of cancer before I'd accomplish half of that list

>showering and going for a walk
>immense amount of work

Surprised to find actual quality advice here

>Vidya friends
They are not friends

>and despise the west
This is probably step one that you can fix. you could have stopped this sentence before you said this and you would have appeared like less of an autistic weeb. Normalfags don't like negativity so if you go around showing your revulsion of the west people are always going to think you are a weirdo.
Just stick to the things you like and stop sperging out about the things you hate and that's step one, but don't kid yourself you still have a long way to go to make it in society.

you dont. loneliness is a part of growing up and getting older. the older you get, the lonelier you become. that's just a simple fact of life. i've added people from here before and they're either extremely autistic and wont shut up or they're just massive faggots that cant go a minute without being a massive faggot. i just play whatever i want alone now - usually drunk.

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Living in Europe must be suffering
Immigrants taking over your country
Brexit destroying your currency
Bad teeth and weather
Bad enough you shitpost here everyday. Sage

yeah being fake is the way to success in human society I knew that already...

it's not like the US is much better with its school shootings and obesity but yeah I'd probably prefer being born in the US over EU still. japan is infinitely superior to both though so I'd lose either way.

>Bad teeth
We aren't nearly as fast food obsessed as meriturds

>he doesn't have a wife and child to spend his time with

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not him but showering fucking is

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steamcommunity.com/id/nlolicon
add me up losers

step 1: Buy some cute programming socks and panties and put them on
step 2: make a discord account
step 3: start posting pictures of yourself on Yea Forums and discord trap groups
There. That will give you plenty of friends

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You sound obnoxious and that's through anonymous messages. Can't imagine how you are IRL

If you're extremely obese maybe

You mean a wife and child to eat up all your time and finances and leave you dry

and you do?

>eat up all your time from your precious video games
big yikers

you sound like an npc and that's exactly how you are irl

yeah I know saw that coming but it also takes up alot of time and water and shit.

learn japanese language then and be active there. its relatively easy.

you dont really need vidya friends. its not that fun. if they are westacucks you cant really share a topic with them. if they are weebs but ff14 addicts you either.

japanese games are pretty diverse, and its hard to find out like minded people even in some weeb community.

true, I should do that. I used to learn it, but I gave up after realizing I have no chance of going to japan so I can't use the skill outside of reading manga (which I eventually grew bored of too). but yeah it's probably the most fun/rewarding/useful thing I can do in this situation, so if I have energy for something then I get back into that. thanks user for reminding me of that possiblity.

If you are 21+ you won't make any new friends.
Sorry, that's just how this world works.

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You get 1 cringe from me my friend

If you ever need help with your anxiety then try meditation. I don't mean like listening to some faggot say relaxing things while you sit down with your eyes closed, I find it easier to relax by just closing your eyes in a quite place while trying to pick up any sound at all. But find a method that works for you

we'll see about that once I fuck your ass

Having a decent amount of income in any way by 30+ will make you swim in desperate pussy, just don't settle

>I just like japan and despise the west

I'm surprised there are still weeaboos in 2019.

kill yourself

what's your steam bro

Find the nearest psychiatrist and... It doesn't matter what you do after that, he'll handle it as soon as he sees you.

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If you aren't Chad then you have no chance.
Prove me wrong.
You can't.

genuinely hope none of you shut in faggots believe this garbage

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You’re wrong. The problem is NEETs like OP never do anything in real life or be the one to initiate hanging out
t. Not Chad with like minded group of friends

t. Chad