Should I delete my gaming friend from steam?

Just ghost him like you've been doing to everyone else your entire life

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Delete him
Nothing will change, you don't have a friend now and won't have it after you delete him
You are alone and nothing will fill that hole
Not even GF/sex/whatever it is you think will help
You are broken and will remain broken, some online faggot will not change that

Same happened to me deleted my only friends, feeling lonely, but they only dragged me down with non stop toxic shit, literally turned into /pol/ incels brought negativity in every theme we've talked about. Been feeling better emotinally since I deleted them, but have no one to speak to.

Anybody else can't log into steam because they too shy to talk??

It's only been a week since and the longer i take, the more awkward it's gonna get when i come back...

Try remaking this thread in a couple days and next time don't use words that trigger Yea Forums: toxic, males, gaming, etc

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Nope, I have no friends there

If you're a lonely person and this dude makes you miserable drop him. Think about it the dude must be insufferable to bother somebody as apathetic as you.

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don't do it OP. your friend is just lashing out because its his defense mechanism. you need to open up and demand he opens up to, maybe he's in love with you?

>You are broken and will remain broken, some online faggot will not change that
this is also true. can confirm that having had no IRL friends for around 15 years now, online friends have never filled the void

basically this

In what way is he "toxic" OP?
if it's banter just give it back to him, especially in a group

Honestly had this dilemma this week too. Was wondering if it was worth flushing 8 years of friendship together down the drain. But in the end if its a "friendship" thats just causing strife and no ones willing to talk about and work it out its best just to ghost them and move on. Like others mentioned, you'll probably feel better and not much really is going to change if you feel lonely already. If you have actual friends, how could you be lonely?

Mine wouldnt shut up about their deepreshun and their romantic relationships with people i dont give a shit about and how busy they are with all the new friends they manage on discord and Overwatch. Its fucking annoying. Felt like i turned into someone to keep around when no one else is willing to talk to you. Shoulda cut the cord awhile ago when they started talking about getting onto a professional team for OWL.

Theres other opportunities to make new gaming buddies anyways. Dont let their shit and dumb choices drag you down.

You could talk to him about it. Maybe he isn't doing it intentionally

Delete that bitch forever OP. he's not worth your time and he is probably tired of you and a hating individual

If you don't like him make him delete you instead. Spam him with some scat porn or something.

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i wish people would talk to me on steam

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Hello is this the gay anime tranny thread?

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Call him out and ask him what's up. If you want to rescue the friendship it might be better to do this in a 1 on 1 instead of infront of everyone else, that might make him more angry at you.

bump

More like a bother, I only opened steam when I wanted to play something, but if I spend too much time offline the other guy may think I deleted him or something.

lmao weak faggot can't handle some banter
he's better off without you

Kek, /jp/ being bullied is cute.

You gotta call him out on it. This kind of thing is just part of human interaction and sometimes you just gotta yell it out for a bit and then come to a mutual understanding. If you can't be honest with your friends and stand your ground when they're starting to walk on you how are you gonna do it with people in work or social environments? If you get pissed off and he doesn't turn around and you end up not hanging out anymore at least you stood up for yourself and tried. It's better than ghosting him and wondering what could have happened if you showed some courage and way better than just taking the abuse.

What games do you play user? If we've got anything in common I'll add you.

this
man up or fuck off

>have an online friend that I've been playing regularly five years and counting
>can't meet because in different countries and all real life contacts are normies that I share nothing in common with
>gaming is still seen as a waste of time for losers where I live so I don't even bother bringing it up

where are the steam friend threads? remember those?

Those were fun!!!

sent ;)

...

If you don't know him in real life then you can cut him off when the bullshit starts without actually having to delete him.

Fag

Been wondering about that myself. Used to see tons of them before. Back then I was happy with my group of friends. Now that my friends aren't around very much anymore, I never see Steam friend threads.

Why would you get upset at someone for bringing attention to the group?
thats literally the entire fucking point of perpetuating this: you get attention and then dicks
>Look how gay I am come RP and fuck me
>GO AWAY
absolute autism

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I was friends with a internet douchebag for 10 years. I kept giving him a pass whenever he did stupid rude shit because I enjoyed playing with him as part of our group. I called him out on it all the time, but after apologizing he would eventually go right back to being a shithead. Just remove him if you're not having fun with him, life's too short to get worked up over a person you don't actually know.

You need to just do it. Stop worrying too much about nothing.

Mods delete them on sight, have done so for half a decade.
They were comfy and I'd enter them each time only to be disappointed to see Cebruz, Kawaiianimeshoujo and various friend collectors, but I still miss them.

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Most friend relationships work like that, you know, there's a dominant guy and a passive one. Almost like sex desu

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quit being such a faggot pussy

shut up tranny

>all those bitches that cant ha dle the banter in this very thread
remove him, you will be making him favour by not being around little offended bitch

you are gay lol

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so what do? would you suggest suicide unironically?

Grow some balls and tell him to fuck off

He could be going through some shit confront him and say dude what's going on? why are you being a dick so much lately? if some shit is going on in your life you can talk to me dude.

if he shuts it in and continues being toxic remove him, there's no saving him.

Has he got a girlfriend as of late?
Or has his lack of girlfriends got to him?

Either way, he's being controlled by the cunt.

Cut ties to this sub-human that lives below the livestock that are females.

>fantaisies
How can you run an ERP group with shit grammar?

How are so many of you such goddamn wrecks. Yea Forums taught me to stop being such a pussy and not give a shit. How has shitposting failed you all so badly.

you should watch "El Patron del Mal" and not this shit show

youtu.be/OoCZY9GRlD0

>every ancient meme is now trannies

One half is newfags, the other half are people who react differently than you to the same treatment because people are different.

I swear to god, if this is you Nick.

Stopped talking to my friend group about a year ago now after they started harassing random members of the group to thr point that they'd ask me to tell them to stop. Kinda lonely without a group of memers to play games with especially since we played together for like 6 years

>tfw got added
Only losers will never know this feel

Boomer here, what does toxic mean?

too gay
didn't read

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Song by Britney Spears. Millenials love it.

Being such an ass to the point where you don't realize you've gone past being ironic, or can't pick up on social cues that what you're saying is actually hurtful and unfunny.

>hurtful and unfunny
Opposite of cunny then.

call him out on it or just delete him and move on like a bitch

Let's conclude, anyone who isn't into loli is toxic.

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>toxic

You're a smart guy.

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>friend
>toxic
Kill yourself

>my group of friends

this is the most normalfag shit ever, I have individual friends, not a herd of people I cling to like a dumb animal. The drama that happens when multiple people get together in a clique is the dumbest shit on the planet

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t. can't play 4v4 or 5v5 games because he only interacts with one friend at a time

this
Replace the words respectively with: "a piece of shit" (adjective) , guys, (nothing, or maybe "internet friend")

>If you are the smartest in the room, then change the room

Don't allow yourself to be surrounded by mediocrity, even if you must be alone, else it might rub off on you.

Either stand up to this guy and put him in his place or move on and leave him behind.

>Go to another room
>People are smarter than you
>They abandon you
And being abandoned sucks.

If you are the one with hurt feelings and acting like a bitch boy, you should be the one to confront your friend. Just don’t be a bitch or an asshole, and talk it over with him. If your friend isn’t autistic, he’ll agree to tone it down.

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then you've refused to grow as a person or they were shitty people. If you have to then isolate yourself and focus solely on growing, at some point you might even find a space with other people that see your efforts and accept you for it.

I moved state - abandoning everyone i knew, took up a job that im not qualified for and customers and coworkers alike can see the effort i'm putting in accept me for it.

Just pointing out the hypocrisy of your argument. If one should leave others for being "lesser people", then you will without a doubt find yourself left behind as well.

Like a lot of people said you could at least confront him once and see if anything change.
I mean i wouldn't really know I have been friendless for a decade.

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Suck his dick user, that'll show him.

>uses toxic unironically
>isn't serj tankian

Yeah, fuck off mate.

idc lol

no, that's just how things work. Nowdays how many companies have workers who have worked there for life? How many NBA players spend their entire pro career at one team? How many people live in the same house their entire life? Only the incredibly poor or the incredibly dumb stay stagnate forever.

Everyone trades up at some point, but we all face different challenges and have different level of awareness of this fact so it all happens at different times and to different degrees.

>Companionship = business
What an autistic post.

I did find some genuine people to play with.
But those threads don't last long anymore because they're filled with attention-craving retards who just want to act "cutesy" and are in fact insufferable faggots.

how about you just tell him to fuck off because he is being an asshole, instead of deleting him like the passive agressive bottombitch that you are

remove and don't talk about it with anyone unless prompted, and even then, just say something noncommittal and vague about how you grew apart or some shit.
trust me, went through something similar a few months back. also be aware anything you say to this person will literally be used against you. it's part of their personality.
and stop using the baby term "toxic", you sound like a pussy looking for a safe space. proper terms would be annoying/rude, none of this nuspeak shit

get a dog

Delete him bro especially if you aren’t close to him geographically.

Lmao couldn't handle the bantz

>WAHHH WAHHH DRAMA!!!
This is the most cringe shit anyone can cry about. If drama is that big of an issue you need to either stop hanging out with literal autists or realize that emotional investment makes relationships of quality stronger.

Same to you.
Oh wait, you can't do that. A dog is lesser than you. That means you have to abandon it and upgrade. So sorry.

yea fuck him
let him suffer in his own lonely prison

Not thread related but any tips for someone planning on ditching state/ family

why are you exactly?

I'm too shy to talk to people even online. Except here, because I'm anonymous.

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this but unironically

Family is a bunch of assholes and I cant take it any more, found a nice apartment like a state over and considering just packing all my shit up one night and leaving.

If you have any self-respect you will get rid of him. Don't endure that shit for the sake of not being lonely. Or you could just try and belittle him back and put him in his place.

If you play in a group what good is deleting him gonna do? You gonna stop playing with the whole group?

You've robbed yourself of growth because of fear of constructing a lackluster identity. The longer you wait to deanonomyze yourself the harder it will be to feel like you have a place in this world.

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Good doggo.

You don't have to use your real name when making accounts online.

>lesser
you keep using that word without defining its context.

Dogs are loving, loyal, promote exercise and patting them literally releases Oxycontin and reduces Cortisol creation. The only downside is if you need to travel a lot, otherwise they're nothing but a benefit to your life. There's nothing lesser about that.

>you keep using that word without defining its context
You defined that back here Being afraid that "mediocre" companions who aren't good enough for you will "rub off on you" and spread their sick mediocreness.

sounds like your brain is calling for a time out. it doesn't have to be permanent. why exactly are they assholes?
it's possible you're not seeing all angles.
either way, you would have to be financially sound or you'd be running back within a matter of weeks/months. and you probably need friends for support.

>save money before hand, you'll end up needing more than you think
>go to the gym maybe do boxing/hema/powerlifting/etc on the side for a bit of teamwork
>maybe get a pet
>find a job you can put overtime into, even if unpaid
>all the dating apps you can
>get a vehicle that can do everything, ie ute/truck - you cant fit a new fridge-freeser in a skyline after all

gym and pets help stress relief, if nothing else. Find a job that even if you don't like there are aspects of it that you do, keep one eye on what you're doing and one eye on what your bosses are doing, look for opportunities to learn and climb.

what ever you do, don't allow yourself to fall into old habits. If you're going to the trouble of moving, especially to better yourself, then you're just wasting your time by being complacent.

>all the dating apps you can
Degenerate as fuck.

I'm basically the scape goat/errand boy for everything(like driving my tard siblings, fixing the ruined house they bought, etc) on top of having an almost full time job(they pretty much purposefully teeter 40 hours so I'm not full time) and I've like 3~ months of what I think my expenses would be like rent utilities and food. No friends though I'm socially autistic

let me give you context then.

I was personally surrounded by people playing the victim, blaming everyone else for their problems, who wouldn't even look for jobs, who didn't want to do anything other than eat canned soup and play vidya - these people are in the late 20s and early 30s.

That is lesser, lesser than i am and far lesser than i want to be. There is no pulling them up with you, there is no betterment to be had. They will only drain you and bring you down to their level.

agree, decent advice in general to "stay busy" but dating is literally the gay lifestyle. if you're going to be with a woman then she should be the one you intend to marry. there's no such thing as shopping around consequence free. divorce statistics prove this.
have you tried putting your foot down? leaving could be your go-to threat if they won't take you seriously. i dunno the details but it's possible you have a limited perspective. to me it doesn't sound all that bad to help out with family stuff, as long as you're not being used like unpaid help. family's supposed to help family, but there are limits to how someone should be treated.

You are stupid user, you won't make a rich person poor because you aren't rich.

huh?

>dating is literally the gay lifestyle
we're talking about someone who is intending to move away from everything he knows, hows he supposed to find someone to marry without dating?

It is possible to have friends and companions who are not "on your level" and still have a good time with them. You don't have to treat them as equals, that's when you'll get dragged down, but you don't have to cut contact with them altogether either.

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No one's gonna marry him if he isn't established with a home and a job anyway. And when you're established then you have non-degenerate venues to go down.

dating implies nothing but sterile sex and wasting time + harming your ability to be with one person when you inevitably break up because you flipped relation building on it's head just like in da moobies.
people who "date" and "have a significant other" (ie. little to no investment in one another and one fight away from breaking things off) end up getting a pet (the pretend child) and traveling every year instead of doing something that actually matters, ie creating a family.
people need to be up front about what they want and dispel any notions about "first girlfriends" and other stupid bullshit.
you've been sold a lie if you think "dating" is anything but an attack on families.
but i'm saying this on Yea Forums, who am i kidding.

>i'm saying this on Yea Forums, who am i kidding
I'm with ya, but it's completely irrelevant to me.

>It is possible to have friends and companions who are not "on your level" and still have a good time with them.

that works in my favor as much as it does yours. I'm a fan of applying mathematical or physics laws to "social science." Take newtons 3rd law and apply it on society then you understand that for every interaction you have with someone it impacts you too.

Which, imo, is to say if you continually associate with the lowest common denominator then you will likely suffer for it. Anecdotal as it is, i've never dated a happy social worker - they might not become alcoholics or abusers but they're definitely affected by the experience.

top kek, imagine socializing on the internet in 2019. back to >>>/discord/ with you faggot

Going with your example, you can't really apply Newton's 3rd law to social interactions because people are very different and you can interact with others in many different ways.
It's true that if you spend your time in a working class environment then you may pick up some working class habits, and vice versa. However that doesn't mean that you should completely cut connections with those of another class than your own, simply take some precautions when interacting with them.
Now go back to Réddit, you spacing normalfag.

i don't understand, i truly don't. Do people where your from just suddenly meet someone one day and marry them the next? What do you call the period of time between meeting them and marrying them, lent? Does god just take a rib and form a breeding partner for you on the day of your bar mitzvah?

noone has mentioned that you need to be fucking around and trying to collect every STD known or possible, this isn't venereal pokemon we're talking about.

He said, as he socialized on the imageboard known as 4channel.

constantly talking to someone every day, getting to know them in detail somehow equals posting anonymously in a basket weaving vietnamese imageboard apparently
tl;dr You Are Retarded As Posting In Yea Forums(nel) Is Not Socializing

>noone has mentioned that you need to be fucking around and trying to collect every STD known or possible
Uh, >all the dating apps you can
Heavily implies that you'll be thirstier than man in a desert and need to HAVE SEX.

>Make a short post
>Make a TL;DR
>The TL;DR has all words capitalized despite you otherwise not using grammar at all
>It's wrong as well
What an awful post.

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i'll accept that i have an extreme position, my own circumstances were fairly extreme.

also, been here 11 years kiddo.

>toxic
How to spot a huge faggot, you probably deserve any shit you get OP.

most of the people found in those are not worth adding
really, the best online (((friends))) are usually found while playing vidya

these rates are ridiculously cheap.a "TF2 hat" is as low as 6cents and as high as 30cents and a scrap metal is less than a penny.

my point still stands correct, talking to someone everyday about themselves and their personal lives be it online or IRL is in fact socializing, while none of that holds true for an anonymous image board and you can't deny it. you're not socializing. you're not making friends (unless you are a /bant/ tripfag in which case it might be true) and you're not getting to know anyone in detail, maybe only the community in general and how everyone behaves and reacts.

>been here 11 years
Sure thing, retard, and you had also been here 11 years last year. Go back.

or it implies that dating apps are inherently flawed, that different demographics us different apps and the optimal way to find people who are most suited to you is to look at all the options rather than pinning you hopes on the flavour of the month.

or you could just read into it however you want i guess.

>while none of that holds true for an anonymous image board
But that's wrong. In fact it still does hold true on an anonymous image board. If I go to the public square talk with strangers I'll never meet again I'm also socializing.