Comfy vidya to play with GF

How do I get gf? The only place I have to interact with other people is at work but there are no girls there.

>Must be able to played in stop and go sessions with no pressure to act immediately or have any complicated controls.
Given the choice of eating shit or not eating at all, you should opt to go hungry.

Animal Crossing. Best time of my life was when New Leaf released, met this cute girl, and I finished a job and decided to be unemployed for awhile. Played AC with her all day and fucked like rabbits. Was the actual best life.

Just b urself. Hasn’t worked for me yet but it will soon :)

STOP INTRODUCING YOUR WIFE TO GAMES.
You're not making your wife better. You're making games worse.

gotta go outside. also every girl isn’t dating material. It takes time, like many other things, to find what *you* want. never relinquish yourself for someone else. compromise is the best position.

Death Road to Canada

I guess what I’m trying to ask is where can I go to meet people? I had a gf in high school, but these days I just go to work and go home. “go outside” could be anything

you are fucked

Don't know, sorry.
Definitely don't use social media or dating websites though. Fruits of the poisoned tree, those ones.

Borderlands / Borderlands 2.

Did you get a waifu yet?
If not, why not? If you're just bing urself you should be getting waifu offers every fucking week.

Why shouldn’t I use those, seems like my only option at this point

Let me put it this way.
If you liked good games.
Would you shop on Origin's store page?
No, you wouldn't. There are no good games there.
And I'll say it again: If your only options are eating shit or going hungry, better to go hungry.

My fiance and I have over 24 hours in dragons crown. She's not much of a gamer but quite enjoyed the game.

What you need to realise is "a girlfriend" is a vastly overrated meme and seeking one out is shooting yourself in the foot.
Now, a _competent_ girlfriend who actually tries to do her job as your gf properly, yes. Those are valuable. But you will not find them on dating sites.
Dating sites teach women that:
they can slack off and fail to perform their duties, to have a mindset of "I don't have duties at all. You have desires but that isn't my problem.", and to aggressively attack anyone who dares suggest women be encouraged to be good partners,
and then still get 30 messages in a day from people asking the woman to be their partner.
That's the type of thing that'll poison a woman's mindset and make her think she doesn't HAVE to be a good partner.
And it's not like you can force her to be a good partner against her will. You'd get arrested, for one.

And think of it this way.
Suppose you're playing some bullshit multiplayer game, and one of your teammates goes AFK, smokes weed, refuses to position properly, picks a sub-par class, and could not give a single flying FUCK about team performance as long as he personally is having fun.
Is this a fun teammate to have on your team? Or is this a teammate who'll be a burden?
Now, imagine your girlfriend has the same mindset.
Is this a good partner to spend your time with?
Or is this a woman who'll be a burden?
Exactly.

Using a dating site is like joining a team that has NOTHING but brazilian weed sniper AFKers with wireless controllers.

Though now that I think about it, it might be fun to pick up chicks on dating sites purely to grief them.

grown up answer: depends on what you want. dating apps aren't dating apps, they're hookup apps. you can start dating someone from one. but endless easy sex is not going to undermine most of your ideas of an exclusive lover (or even romance and intimacy.) a lot of people are invested in denying this truth, but it's childish to not realize a basic fact like that. sort of the reddit hug box idea- they think if they by denying a cynical truth it will never happen to them, but in reality it makes them a bigger mark to get used.

but other user is deluding himself if he thinks almost every girl isn't on these apps already. just because you didn't rail her off okc/tinder doesn't mean she didn't have that phase, or isn't doing it in between dates with you.

>but endless easy sex is not going to undermine most of your ideas
sorry, meant to write it *will* undermine. my bad.

lmao

What if you meet while playing vidya?

You're probably right about that, you know.
So is there any solution to the problem of gfs with poisoned mentalities that doesn't involve violent revolution or kidnapping?

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Eh, it’s not so bad I guess. I only have a really minor longing for a gf these days, I’ve adapted to the solitary lifestyle. Highschool sweetheart was a normie cunt, but she broke my heart. I’m just bitter.

>What if you meet while playing vidya?
If she's ALREADY not a casual you hit that with the force of 1000 suns. Hopefully she encourages you to be a non-casual boyfriend too, so you can both encourage each-other to get good.

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Meeting a girl while playing vidya has the same stipulations as with a dating app. She’ll have gotten used to getting endless attention with absolutely no effort.0

Eh kinda. She gets attention for being a chick, but most of the games I have seen her play people like her due to being good at what she does.
That's how we meet, she was a healer and I was tank. We pretty much played off each other fairly well. I felt confident in her skills as a healer, so I would pull harder and harder. She trusted me as a tank so knew I could hold my own as needed so she could DPS more often.

She's still a little autistic but it's somewhat expected since she tends to play the economy in MMO more than anything.

True, but if she's playing a game where you have to get good and you can't just sit around making excuses and getting carried, she's a lot more likely to bring that attitude into her relationship with you.
You're right in that it's not a guarantee though. I've been burned by dating a woman who figured she'd use me as a relaxing break to the stresses of getting good, not as an amplifier of them. I guess it was my fault that I wasn't clear about my expectations though.

well I mean the question you pose is sort of on a societal level. you can debate that stuff but whatever answer you have isn't going to have any utility for dating. you don't have to lay down and die just because times are complicated. your ancestors went through bad stuff too.

my advice is have a good sense of what real red flags are and drop out immediately if you see them. never tell a girl what you're looking for, or how you notice it. just have fun and stay observant. sometimes the subtle stuff will be the only tells in the honeymoon period of relationship. like when she speaks about opinions, how much are they derived from life experience and how much from media and social media? I don't care if we disagree with stuff, just that we're discussing stuff we see with our own lives and not dogma.

ultimately the goal is knowing what real is. the more you're honest with yourself the more you can sort out others. it's tough, and people sometimes have a complicated past that makes them real, but good people are still around.

>people like her due to being good at what she does.
True, but you're going to have a hard time convincing anyone of that.

>you don't have to lay down and die just because times are complicated.
Assuming that I RISE UP, it's going to be for users being able to host and connect to each-other's custom servers over Hamachi rather than having to deal with company-run servers holding content hostage, forced matchmaking and bans for toxicity.
>never tell a girl what you're looking for, or how you notice it.
But how will she change and improve if she doesn't know?
> the goal is knowing what real is. the more you're honest with yourself the more you can sort out others.
Good advice, I'll remember that.

>But how will she change and improve if she doesn't know?
I'm talking about personality defects. The forces that shape personalities are larger and stronger than dating, it's the baggage they're bringing to the relationship. If you notice dishonesty, find someone honest instead. I'm actually pretty forgiving of flaws, just not selfish or destructive ones.

I say don't tell her these things because a girl who is super into you will almost do this shape-shifting thing where they speak and act according to what they think you want to hear and see and they'll agree in conversation with almost anything you say. If you say something like "social media is such a red flag to me" she will start to conceal those habits from you. A dumb guy will think "wow this chick is perfect!" I'm not saying call chicks out on this stuff, or don't appreciate the moment at all, but it is something a more mature guy needs to see past in thinking about the future.

I see. Thanks for the advice.
> a girl who is super into you will almost do this shape-shifting thing where they speak and act according to what they think you want to hear and see
I see this and it pisses me right the fuck off because they'll pretend to be into videogames, and yet their taste in videogames will be CASUAL SHIT.

yeah no problem
>I see this and it pisses me right the fuck off because they'll pretend to be into videogames
lmao true but the fucking worst is when they pretend they're more than casual. then they get frustrated at losing and they find a reason to blame you.