>Bored of vidya
>Bored of movies
>Bored of tv
>Bored of forums
>Too short of an attention span to read
How do you cope bros?
Bored of vidya
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time to get fit and have some sex then, right user?
we aren't gonna do shit
Start a long time project and learn discipline as you tackle it. Like going to the gym to improve your body or learning a new language like Japanese or something.
>why am I depressed
Night drives
What have you tried reading?
>too short of an attention span to read
quit being dumb
look into 3D modelling
I just constantly switch between those things. If I marathon the fuck out of a game, tv series, comic or whatever else I burn myself out. Gotta take breaks.
You are depressed which is a physical condition not a mental one. Get more sleep, eat better, get some exercise, get some sunshine, drink more water and most of all masturbate less. You should aim to masturbate at most once a week. Every time you ejaculate you are throwing all your testosterone in the garbage and fucking up your brain chemistry.
Be a man and get over it
Joke's on you, I was clinically depressed before I started doing most of those things.
what if you have no testosterone and you've been fucked by SSRIs for 10 years and are overweight lump of depression? are you just fucked?
Been trying to read lotr and a spy thriller. Get bored every time. Only book I got through in the past 2 years was 'And then there were none'- Agatha Christie. But it was quite interesting.
What if I dont do any of those thing except some gaming?
You will have testosterone if you stop masturbating for a week, trust me. You will feel yourself becoming more aggressive and energized around day 4.
I have low testosterone because I can't sleep for more than 4-5 hours, im only 21 whats causing this?
Consider buying a noise canceler theyre very cheap.
25 same issue. Never sleep more than 5 hours in a row. Usually its 3. Then if I'm lucky I can go back to sleep for a couple hours. But usually I'm on 4 or 5 hours.
"Happiness" is the release of dopamine in the brain. If your brain is not producing dopamine (you're not feeling happy) it's not because of what you're doing, it's because something is wrong with your brain. You need to take better care of your body.
By not being a permavirgin weeaboo faggot. Your life is meaningless and you have no one to blame but yourself.
I still enjoy reading, vidya, anime, and drawing.
It's your head telling you it's time to get a disciplined hobby so it feels like your life has some long-term goal to aim for. Try programming, drawing, sports, music composition, etc.
For normalfags, a long-term goal is called "raising kids", but banking your happiness on something you ultimately have no control over seems reckless when you're already depressed. Try the hobby thing first.
Music and Exercise.
I still enjoy those things, just in moderation.
All of this applies to me except pot, alcohol and the Prozac. Why would the anti-depressant be on there anyway? Its mean to treat depression not cause it.
A lot of the advice given in these threads comes from Snake Oil types that'll tell you to go off your meds and other stupid shit.
Anti depressant is a scam. Diet, exercise, sun, sleep, and less masturbation. Treat the cause not the symptoms.
Because it's an aid, not a cure. People who solely take medication and do nothing about their worthless weeb lifestyle won't see any results.
what is wrong with being a weeb?
Lie down in bed for a day or two until I get over it
go to a doctor and tell him you have a depression
Literally everything. Why do you think all of you faggots are depressed? You have no social or romantic life and try substituting shitty cartoons which are made by those same types of people which subsequently rots your brain from understanding how the real world and people actually work.
It's devoid of any substance, the most base of all forms of media. It's the artistic equivalent of consuming nothing but excrement and wondering why you're malnourished.
I am a weeb and live a very healthy lifestyle. I do agree being a weeb makes it harder though because anime is so sexualized so youre constantly feeling pressured to masturbate.
Very descriptive, I'm sure many people will have improved their lives as a result of reading your post, user. You're doing God's work.
You didn't describe anything bad about being a weeb, you only described what weebs lack. You could say that people who read books or work out can also lack a social and romantic life. You're not providing any answers.
If you just consume the media then you're just wasting your life away, always on a never-ending hunt for quality shows/games.
A healthy balance for a weeb is consuming some media but also contributing back to the culture somehow, like making your own weeb art/games.
Comic books and making art
Funnily enough it even got me laid
A healthy lifestyle doesn't include lying to people. I'm sorry you're in denial, but it's not surprising since weebs chiefly abuse lies to make themselves feel better.
Anti-depressents are not really a cure. There supposed to help you get out of bad lifestyles choices but if you're doing the same shit you'll associate the boost in mood with doing them and you'll never get out.
Except that's all weebs do, people who go out and read or work out clearly have self improvement as goals. Weebs lack that and just consume the worst media known to man.
No work, no social/romantic life, no self improvement (typically due to denial e.g ) no responsibility, etc.
Weebs should just disappear and free up resources in the world for better people.
Hey is this the Jordan Peterson thread?
post your clean bed or fuck off nigger
how?
You are delusional. Anime is a popular hobby, it isn't the crazy niche it used to be.
Japan is one of the most advance countrys in the world thanks to everyone being so socially abcent
>fapping every 2 weeks
>no drugs
>one fasatfood in a month
>spending time with my friends almst every weekend
>physical work
>drinking twice in a moth
>4 hours of internet/games a day
>no drugs
>8 hours of sleep
Yeah, popular with faggots.
right now just constantly switching between Yea Forums, youtube and sites that have content for my niche fetish
life is very boring and pointless
Go exercise! Lift weights, run, swim, do something. Do something so that you'll be a better person one year for now, and keep doing it until you're the best person you can be.
t. pharma jew
Low test post
get a job, faggot
t. Steve Jobs
watching prowrestling but i get bored of that too
It's called growing up. Find something that will inspire you to develop discipline and make it into a habit. Habit is the essence of your every day life? Want to read more? Then fucking do it every day even if you don't want to and eventually you won't be able to stop.
>people who go out and read or work out clearly have self improvement as goals
Why do you assume that? Those two activities don't necessarily equate to being productive. Again, you don't specify what makes weeb hobbies bad and keep saying they don't do anything else. You just want to assert yourself because you think you're better.
>Low test
>Look I have arms that anyone can build with frequent masturbation
What a frail little basement dwelling faggot. I can't believe you retards waste all of your money on retarded looking toys too.
Give me a reason someone should get a job if they're already getting by.
Post body
>Doing things that actively improve you doesn't mean you're being productive
Says the retard that thinks rotting in his mom's basement and consuming trash cartoons made for permavirgins is productive.
>arms that anyone can build with frequent masturbation
Sounds like you're both in denial and have no knowledge of exercise or working out. Nice Reddit spacing, by the way.
It's amazing how great I feel for doing something as simple as cutting my lawn. The hard part is actually getting started.
For you to jerk off to? No thanks, faggot.
Took an art class, I was the best in it and a girl there started crushing on my art. We began to talk and eventually flirt. Then we banged and have now been together for a bit over half a year.
It helped that she has adhd and is very openly a sexual person.
Drink more water, if you're not eating normally take vitamins, drink water, take little walks every day, if you sometimes see stars when getting up to fast or something get iron
I make vidya
Work unironically makes you free, and I'm not talking wage slave telemarketing shit, I'm talking getting a plot of land and practicing permaculture to create something to pass down to your children.
I never said it was productive, I'm saying that enjoying those things does not negate the possibility of being productive outside of those hobbies. You are arguing that enjoying those things means you cannot be productive outside of it.
Again, you are making assumptions.
Leave the house. Go for a walk/drive. Hang out with friends if you still have any. Visit a relative. Go to the mall or the beach.
But what if I don't want to be a farmer?
Getting a job doesn't help if you're a depressed piece of shit, you will still feel miserable, just now miserable, tired, hopeless for the future cause you're stuck doing some irrelevant shit (if you were s totally skilled enough to do something relevant you'd be employed to begin with) and maybe, just maybe, with some spare cash. Discipline and doing something out of your comfort zone mean fuckall if you don't feel like doing it to begin with.
Just start running.
>I'm talking getting a plot of land and practicing permaculture to create something to pass down to your children.
Why should people find that meaningful?
I work out and browse /tg/. Haven't been on steam in months.
Yeah it does, because that's all weebs do.
Never see weebs doing anything besides watching faggy cartoons and jerking off. Literally human parasites.
don't, there's no meaning so don't worry about it and continue being a loser
Because humans have evolved for millenia to find meaning in that. This new age individualist movement is producing so many depressed people it's out of control.
>there's no meaning
So why did you suggest it?
Do literally any yard work, you get exercise and the feeling of completing something. Being worn out and laying in bed to play vidya or watch shit is a very nice feeling
I just want to be able to go find some work again, fucks sake the job market here is so shit
So if you watch cartoons and jerk off it's impossible to do anything else outside of it; it literally incapacitates you. Great logic there.
Where do you live, user?
I like this post. Entertainment must be treated as a reward after doing some hard work, or it just becomes boring as fuck. Good ol dopamine.
When I feel depressed, I listen to this and think about dancing penny pinchers.
youtube.com
Popular so good!
I had to quit job cause my doctor said it was the reason i was getting hard depressed.
I tried a lot of things before doing it, but it was the root of my disease. After 2 months I was almost 100% fine. Studying and searching for new jobs now, but don't tell user to get a job because it can be a nightmare and make his state even worse.
Find a job and get a girlfriend and start lifting
Stop playing life like a fucking casual, it might be hard at first but once you git gud and do shit it's very rewarding
By listening to repetitive shitty music on youtube while browsing sites for like 5 minutes at a time and while edging my cock for hours at a time
Become disciplined and go straight savage mode. You're a man, become a fucking beast instead of being a nerd who feels sorry for himself and drowns himself even further into pointless passtimes.
What job was it? Sitting on your ass indoors all day?
South FL, fucking shitload of retailshit service jobs everywhere but they just dont want to answer any applications because fuck white people. Also any decent white collar work means get your ass in debt in the Uni and hope to god you have connections
>he says as he drowns himself into a pointless passtime
Jokes on you, I'm listening to an audiobook on botany atm.
Physical work in a factory.
>Do things to cope with depression
>"Well obviously you need to stop doing those things, they're the cause of you being depressed"
Why botany?
You can never escape your issues, you just have to live with it
Go outside OP
because I'm trying to up my skill level in understanding plants. I'm trying to get into foraging, herbalism, and ultimately permaculture.
not him but I like to give decent advice and not actually take it myself because my brain is cool, it also slowly builds up my motivation to do shit.
>Your children
If I was attractive enough for children do you think I would be depressed in the first place?
Good on you, user. I hope you're successful.
Yeah, I do that too sometimes.
Humans have evolved to survive and have something tangible out of your work. Most jobs today have 0 impact on your survival and so irrelevant in the grand scheme of things of even a small department, let alone company, let alone job sector that you don't even feel like a cog in the machine, you feel like a fucking speck on that cog. And it's true, most jobs that require you to be physical can be done much better and efficiently with the right business automatisation and optimisation of the workforce and white collar garbage jobs are mostly about fixing their own inefficiencies of handling the data and battling with neverending bureaucracy. Same shit for junior and sometimes even senior developers, all of them can be replaced or even removed and nothing would be lost. Jobless neets have no chance of getting a job that requires you to have 2 brain cells and be initiate on your own, or they'd have the job to begin with.
Maybe? I don't know you well enough to give you an answer.
lol
Peak normalfag advice right there
watch the second half of end of evangelion and really take in the dialogue
That's why I promote working the land, it produces something tangible that humans have evolved to take complete satisfaction in.
You know what to do
It's time to learn japanese
できません!
I'll adopt some with you.
Go for a long walk in the woods. Turn off your cellphone.
Substance abuse. I'm clean and sober now though.
tons of /fit/ fags are asocial depressed weirdos as well. But at least they look good.
get a job
Night drives feel so fucking good. It's soothing.
Try getting into a tabletop RPG, OP. That might be a good transition into something activities that stimulate your brain a bit more than just consuming media.
Go for a hike in the outback. Go do aome community service that deals with people. Attend live games or spectate in competitions you find interesting. Just leave your room OP, you'll find the world to be a great place if you look for the right stuff
just be yourself bro
this the suffering of working for a living out shines being bored and you will no longer be bored.
or you could just join the military
It's been forever since I've seen it but I don't buy the whole "oh social connections don't matter you can be happy alone if you belieeeeve" bullshit people are peddling me nowadays.
or you could find a hobby that isn't based on mindless consumption
Please. Neets are nothing new. For example it was fairly common in Sweden during the 1200s to sell yourself as a slave because you were to poor and lazy to take care of yourself. Which got so bad that it had to be made illegal (too many lazy slaves). Which is pretty fucking hilarious.
Is clinical depression when you have been diagnosed?
I can’t stop fapping or I’d give into fucking the nearest skank/fat chick and it ain’t worth it
sorry but requires money, and not everyone here who has money ins't wagcucking it Mon-Fri
Yeah, you should watch it again.
Train your attention span faggot
You cant go outside nowadays because pretty much every place requires you to spend money. And its extremely boring to just sit in a park.
>How do you cope
sounds like someone needs to get physically active
If you keep doing something for a long time without a break, even hobbies can become tedious and boring
Have you tried cooking, walking on a trail and enjoying nature?
tl;dr take a break and go outside
or you live in an area without any cool nature parks or worse
>your parks are full of druggies and hobos
>South FL
My uncle lives in South FL and asks me to come live down there like once a month. I've even put some job applications in over the internet/phone out of curiosity and it took like a week to get replies. There's still damage from the last hurricane, there should be more work than you know what to do with.
>decent white collar work
oh wait, you're a pussy, nevermind
Literally go outside or exercise. It's a hard barrier at first, but once you start it, you'll feel much better. Makes you appreciate vidia more too.
faggot
I'm talking about working/lower middle class areas, not your gated community in a nice part of broward you fucking jew
Depends where you live. I can just go take a walk around the lake and I won't get bored.
>guhh i like working non standardized hours doing blue collar work where i'll be crippled and useless after 15+ years in any industry you wouldnt be considered a pussy for working in
blue collar workers are apes
>you'll find the world to be a great place
i have unlimited income and tons of free time. cannot find a single place on this gay earth that is not fucking terrible.
>i have unlimited income
Mind sharing some with me?
Obese retard detected.
Sure thing bro, then you're saying I cant be happy because not interacting with people more than 1h/week (not even my will). I'm not ugly and everyone keeps telling why I dont date someone or go out more often, tired of that shit.
If you need someone to be happy go get your attention, I would do the same in your situation.
What a sad person you are user. Tried going to another country yet?
Get a healthy lifestyle, nigger.
>tfw poorfag and I can name with my hand a few places where I will find peace and enjoyment
Wealth isn't everything m8
I'm talking about the shittier parts of the Keys so make of that what you will.
If you are smart the only thing it will make you is stronger and more knowledgeable.
Programming + exersise is the best combo to get you from a shitter to something of value.
do it
>Wealth isn't everything m8
Oh I know, that's why I came to have so much of it. No reason to spend anything.
>Tried going to another country yet?
Like where? Everywhere I look everything is shitty.
bars
Where do you live?
>Living in the Keys
I don't consider that to be South FL, To me it's PBC all the way to Miami-Dade. Still it's not too bad actually, take it easy and go to Sunset Grill in my place will ya?
I like going to Fisterra, or Finisterra, which means end of the world, it's in Galicia, my favorite region of Spain
>programming
programming what? videogames?
NJ
No wonder you think everything's shit.
Don't ever come to Florida, we already deal with too many of your fucking people
The only relevant information for people with depression in that picture is social interaction, the meaningful kind, preferably friends and coworkers, anything that can pressure you slightly (that means face-to-face interaction) the rest has literally no impact, except MAYBE porn im not sure, the rest are as much symptoms as they are causes.
If you have sistematically isolated and conditioned yourself to not like people or interaction, or have some pathological anti-social behavior then i suggest you just kill yourself now. Without interaction and social pressure you will never be rid of depression, it wont go away eventually, no one will rescue you. You are just in for a long life of misery and poverty.
You sound like a woman
based
>Without interaction and social pressure you will never be rid of depression
Social interaction and pressure doesn't help either though.
>applied to 20+ places and no response
Fuck this gay earth, I want out
>programming
Fuck this, the school made me hate it so much. I literally want to puke when I go to the classes.
>exersise
I have too low self-esteem, like, I'm so scared of going to the gym where people will point and laugh at me.
lmao stop being white haha
I fucking know bro
lmao'ing at all these fucking jordan petersons in this thread just clean your room bro
I'm racist on the internet to fill the void of having nobody love me.
Go on a jog or run up and down the stairs 20 times. You can exercise outside a gym
>tfw just re-arranged the room to give me more walking room and being able to face the TV at a more comfy angle to better play console games
not a bad idea honestly
>not being racist for good reason
Creative endeavors.
I'm not defective, sorry, can't help you.
There comes a time when you have to face the fact that in general, sitting in front of your computer has lost its magic
>unlimited income
Send me $20 so i can buy magnesium to help my insomnia
paypal.me/hondaissace
I'm not a brainlet so I don't have that problem. Read a fucking book, it's not that hard.
You don't have to go to the gym to exercise.
shooting a hot load down your throat isn't a bad idea eithedfasfadsfgadsihufgad
I've never once seen anyone get pointed at and laughed at at a gym. You'd know this if you went to them. Take twenty seconds to muster up courage and do the things that scare you.
I know i cant speak for everyone, but the most effective thing i ever done was work on college projects with my classmates, the pressure of not disappointing along with the banter and discussions was a huge boost for my general motivation.
Although im pretty sure i have like twice the anxiety and half the depression of most people.
>t. uppity black
Cutting the lawn is fun though.
As a baseline though, are you performing basic upkeep on yourself as a human being? There is literally no downside to that.
I used to be an A student then became depressed and lonely. Grades dropped like a rock, in Ds and some fails. In 12th grade I got 50 or 60% in every subject except computer applications. In that I got 94.
But my discipline is fried after years of mindless consumption. So its hard to sit and program.
sounds gay and boring as fuck. I'd rather watch braindead anime
Peterson is basically status quo disguised as self-help, he doesn't want to solve your problems he wants you to be a good little cog and get back in the machine, because surely after 20+ years of cogging that's the thing that will fix you! This time shall be different!
stop consuming media and work on something
eventually youll enjoy all the stupid shit you used to enjoy
>not cutting the lawn to spite the wetbacks and prove them wrong that white people are lazy cheap fucks and grin as they go home
I've been stuck in college for 3 years and this post really speaks my thoughts about it
>25 year old neet with no degree
>cousin got me a job in a marketing firm
>but I had to use the phone and cold call people
>quit in 3 days
>neet again since
If it was anything else I would've stuck with it. Talking to unknown people is terrifying for me. But in hindsight I should've given it a few months...
I was an already poor student, now I barely keep up, math is basically killing me. I wanted to like programming, but my teachers made it impossible.
>regularly do week-long mini-nofaps because fap isn't always convenient
>feel anxious by day 4
>feel tormented by day 7
It's like I'm addicted even though I don't even fap often
lmao. kys. i hope nobody ever helps you again you loser
Why are you so obsessed?
If they at least sent back a rejection email it would be better but they don't, fucking sucks
You can get a pound of frozen spinach for like a dollar. Don't try to hustle me.
>neet since 4 years
>never worked in my life
>suddenly get a job where I have to do the thing I hate the most
>Travel 4 hours a day in the subway
>All this while being depressed and fat
It was too much
I got rejected the day after the interview
>be dressed professionally
>mention 2 years experience working grocery markets and mention good work ethic
>Get called the next day
>"user. we're sorry but we couldn't fit you in"
Oh but you could fit in the two lazy improperly dressed sheboons huh?
All for a fucking gas station job.
That I didn't fucking get
And I was interviewed by two white dudes btw
Does anyone else have a burning/cold pain in your penis? I've went to several doctors but they can't find anything wrong with it. I'm getting desperate and the pain is unbearable sometimes
Sounds like you were genuinely overqualified.
oh yeah i was getting paid half of minimum wage. At least for 6 months. My shoes cost half of the money I was making monthly. How does someone motivate himself in this situation tbqh.
>Overqualified
motherfucker my ass is stuck in college but I also want a part time job to start paying my own shit. Christ employers deserved the bullet
>tfw you’re better when at work since you’re given a purpose and practical goals to set your mind to instead of wasting a day at home accomplishing very little
It’s funny
Burning/cold sounds like squeezed nerves and/or veins.
Do you have any deformations? Mutilation scars? Sitting on your dick, sleeping on stomach, death-gripping during fap?
I'm happy that you found a job that pays well and respects your work-life balance
Those are symptoms of a nerve problem. No fix for it unfortunately. Except pain relievers/ anesthetics.
are you cut or uncut out of curiosity?
And also ensuing argument
Shit taste in anime
The world is built with assumption that everyone already has what is needed.
This is why people who end up bums generally never recover - once you drop, there is no way up.
Yes. Not that poster, but I did go to therapy and was clinically diagnosed with depression when I was about 18 or so. It's actually really frustrating when you try to help other people who are depressed, give them advice, and because it doesn't work instantly they act like it doesn't help at all. Especially going outside, fresh air is actually really good for you, as well as just trying to have a better mindset. It's usually just countered with "happy thoughts isn't a cure", which is true to an extent, but the mind is a lot more powerful than we think. Perspective can really fuck with how you view things, including yourself. A lot of people who kill themselves or stay depressed forever usually have a warped perspective of themselves, they'll think everyone hates them, or nobody really cares, and most of the time that's just not true. But when you think it everyday, it's very hard to break that thought pattern. So even reminding yourself that people care, even if you don't believe yourself, can help change that perspective and attitude over long periods of time.
Depression is something that takes everyone different amounts of time to get out of, and it usually just kind of ends, something small and stupid will happen and you'll just laugh at it and feel better. But it's very important to things that are healthy for your body, like exercise (not necessarily /fit/ levels, but taking a 30 minute walk or so is fine), eating right (again, don't even have to be a super health nut, but just not drinking 2 liters of soda and eating fast food every day), and socialization (even if it's just talking with your friends, doesn't have to be going to bars and parties).
For everyone depressed in this thread, that's my advice. Life can't be a parade of good things for everyone, but appreciate what you have, and for God's sake stop browsing Yea Forums 8 hours a day.
I have a weird vein so maybe it's that but no deformation
Please don't say that's true Uncut
Dumb question, but are you sure you aren't dehydrated?
Nah man, I drink a shit ton of water
That's partly because they keep hearing really, really shitty advice from subhuman normaltards from /fit/ or /pol/ style garbage "self improvement" societies.
When most of the advice you hear is pure shit, you get used to ignoring advice.
Look up neuropathy. Btw do you have diabetes? If so control it or the pain will get worse.
Also funny how doctors couldn't diagnose you but a neet on here can.
>I drink a shit ton of water
You can drink tons of water and still be dehydrated if you aren't getting potassium and the like into your body.
>Work out
>Go for a walk
>Right something down in a journal
>Stop eating junkfood
>Try something different
Yes because Normie advice works so well
This is actually good advice. Thank you for posting, user.
I've made several blood tests and the only unusual thing is my low testerone
Neuropathy seems to be it. It's extremely sensitive to touch. Can't even wear certain clothes without it hurting
Well I eat a lot too, variably too but I can look it up
Go find some good video games then instead of boring ones.
Like the rest of the good advice already posted, it cannot be stressed enough, go and exercise, it literally changes you. Another important aspect is eating good food, high protein, and getting a schedule where you go into REM and sleep 8 hours. Have varied hobbies. Go into hiking, rock climbing, learn to shoot guns, hunting, fishing.
>people want me to go out
but where?
>people want me to exercise
BUT I'M LAZY!
Just stop asking questions and start doing it.
>BUT I'M LAZY!
Right now, some fatasses are taking the initiative to head to a gym or even working out at home. If they can have the will to do it, you can.
I get morbid satisfaction from actually trying my best at following advice only to show that it's shit.
I exercise, go for jogs, get jobs, read, eat healthy, do nofap, stop nofap, do short term nofaps, stay hydrated, avoid shit food, sleep etc.
I didn't get therapy yet, but I've got it planned and I stick to my plans even when they hurt.
When I finally an hero, I'll die with a smug satisfaction that I didn't just try to follow the advice, I followed it really well, it was just shit.
Pathetic. You always have an excuse huh? There's always reason why it's just too hard to change right? Just lay down and die already
>Just lay down and die already
Heh... Not today, kid..
>try all of the normie approved "solutions"
>feel just the same
>turns out I'm just resentful and edgy
Well considering how stubborn you are in following advice you want to believe to be shit, it's no wonder it's not working.
You're not following any advice if you're just doing it to prove people wrong instead of trying to help yourself.
Based
TRY WEED
Smoke some weed.
It'll make all of those fun again.
Not alone buddy.
Reaching your wit's end and giving that advice the benefit of the doubt to try it anyways is not the same as wanting to believe it's shit.
No, I actually follow it well, making sure that if I listed all that I did, no one could point out mistakes to meme at me and pretend it's those tiny mistakes that made me fail.
Proper form, enough proteins, complete set of all practical behaviors that help with sleep.
It wouldn't work if some chucklefuck like you came up and had a good reason for why I failed.
If I committed any real errors and someone pointed them out, I'd have to try again.
>anime poster
>double digit IQ so he cant read because hes illiterate
EVERYTIME
There is an important lesson in this comic.
The man who did everything he was told to do and never what he actually wanted. All of it hoping that it would magically cure his mindset.
Life is a lie and it is endless waves of struggle and existential dread. If you don't consume this as fuel you'll live in fear and doubt your entire life, never accomplishing anything you trully desired.
Why did he want friends?
Why did he commit to physical fitness?
Did he trully understand the benefits of those things or did he just acquire them because he was just told to and because he believed he would just be given the benefits rather than realizing you still have to reap them yourself?
Based, I feel the exact same. I even got a qt patootie who loved cooking, baking and learning about the vidya I played just because she liked to listen to me talking about my interests. None of the advice normie shitters give works because it only works for normies in the first place.
>There's always reason why it's just too hard to change right?
Yep, what are you gonna do about it? Also, you need to realize that some people have been called pathetic their entire lives, you think it has a sting to it, but it doesn't.
You hyper vigilant, high conscientious types think being seen as pathetic is the worst thing that could ever happen. It's like your self image matters the most, despite you preaching about hard work and contributing to others. Call me when I'm starving to death, or I've been in some terrible accident or on the verge of homelessness, then I might do something about it.
I don't think you understand what I'm saying here. Your mindset is literally the most important thing. If you do it just because you think all advice is shit and you want to prove it, then of course nothing is going to help you.
But that smug satisfaction that you give yourself by pressing on with this routine whilst keeping an active focus on how little it does for you deep down is the mark of your desperation. Seems to me like you follow this routine out of being desperate for cure, but if that's why you do it, you will gain very little from it.
It's alright anyways. You're not really doing anything wrong, you're doing what you can and I respect that.
make sure that your gravestone will say something like "Told y'all"
People follow this advice because they want to better themselves and be happy. Then they hit a wall when they realize it's all for naught because the problems they have aren't fixed by following self-help advice for normies, but with a rope
his mindset is literally following the advice of happy, healthy people to the best of his ability
Do something productive with your life instead of sitting at home consuming media all day, and these things will become fun and rewarding again.
I have weeb friends who do the exact same shit and they’re playing a different game every 2 days because they’re never content with anything BECAUSE they’re literally wasting away in their homes instead of going out and enjoying life. Bonus points if you’re in your 20s because you dun’ fucked up and you’re never going to get this peak young adulthood time back where you can just do shit whenever.
Drugs
H-ha
And? Can't get work keep friends or even find a reason to go outside anymore fuck it let some chink bugman work for me so I can shitpost and neet it up
Fuck wagies fuck normal people and fuck you
>DURRR depression is fixable
Yeah if life wasn't completely fucking shit go take your happy pills faggot and fuck off to your bloomer echo hole
My entire weekend consists of browsing Yea Forums, reading manga and playing video games.
I have no fucking life or ambition.
>Hating anime on an anime discussion forum
>stop browsing Yea Forums 8 hours a day
This is my biggest problem right now. I work, then I'm exhausted and don't feel like doing anything but Yea Forums. Need to force myself to play games at least.
Yea Forums hasn’t been an anime discussion forum since it’s inception and you’re so new it hurts.
i be happy
it's that simple
alternatively take amphetamines
that works too but i don't really need them anymore
I like how you didn't mention anime. I completely agree that I'll never get bored of it. Anyway, you cope by doing really lewd stuff with your bros. That never gets boring.
Quoting memes as a reply doesn’t mean much, champ. Lurk moar
Go outside more.
>t. actually retarded
Video games made you think you're a hero and you look for “baddies” because of it. You easy to brainwash fucking loser
My mindset is to get the best out of the advice I get, but then, when I'm done, to show the advice givers that my doomsaying wasn't a cope and laziness but accurate predictions.
The cope and laziness is generally on the side of advice givers.
I admit my errors when I fuck up or give bad advice. Why can't normaltards?
Yeah i know this isnt the place and
>>/fit/
But btw is exercise/workout 3 times a week ok or thats not enough
>How do you cope bros?
I don't, sleep, masturbation and mindless twitch streams. That cute anime girl helps with the emptiness though
I write.
Usually just smut, but it's something to keep me thinking.
CAN WE PLEASE HAVE A MATRIX ALREADY! I WANT TO LEAVE THIS WORLD LIVE IN A FANTASY THAT COULD BE ANYONE OR FUCK ANYONE I WANT!
No advice anybody can ever give you is guaranteed to work. Anyone pretending to have a recipe for success in achieving peace with yourself is simply seeking validation through the success of others who may have followed the same path and won. This is mere insecurity and normals, if you want to call them that, are very insecure.
But so are you and so am I abd so are we all. Humans are insecure, existence is scary and all you can really do is do your best with what you have. People just do what they can. Trying to do more can often lead to horrifying existential dread.
The best anyone can do for anyone else is help them find their own answer. Being at peace with your lufe and yourself require tremendous ammounts of self-honesty and a great will to find this answer. The advice people give you will, at best, be a tool to reach that goal, but never a cure.
I am content with my life now, but that is very recent. I am 30 and it took me decades to understand why I felt so anxious and why I was so intolerant of my own mistakes. I hated myself and my weakness, I felt helpless and sought balanve through years of martial arts and Zen bhuddism and I was still a huge knot of anxiety. I didn't understand why anything I tried worked and I became an extremelly aggressive and bitter person in private whilst trying to keep a facade of optimism to my social circle, but the front often fell because I snapped quite easily at any form of confrontation, joke or banter. After losing my job and out of a shit relationship with a thot I had enough and really had to look at myself and figure out WHAT fucking scared me that much. That's when I began to slowly forgive myself for simply being human.
Simply doing things will only get you so far. Are you sure you trully understand yourself?
Have sex
I WANT TO
Well what's driving you to stop yourself from achieving it?
>No friends
>Can't draw because dyspraxia
>Want to play drums but literally know nobody close who plays music
>Too lazy to learn programming or learn game design
My life is fucking meaningless, I'm never going to kill myself, but damn
Only thing I care about is building my own sex robot, how do I even fucking get started on that?
There's a difference between knowing that things are healthy for you, and actually wanting to do healthy things. The only reason I'm slowly fixing my toxic habits is because I fucking bore myself.
I'M UGLY
What a pointless wall of text
Because admitting your own faukts requires courage that not anybody can muster. You might need to learn to firgive others a bit more.
Trying to drag them down to your level of misery is neither helping them or yourself. People like that rarely have nefarious intentions and they might simply be seeking validation that their path is a good one by sharing some pointers that may help you ease your dread.
You don't have to listen to anybody anyways so don't waste so much energy trying to prove them wrong.
>bored of vidya
Let me break it down for you.
You're on the internet. You have every video game ever made FOR FREE. This should be great.
But your adult brain says "i need vagaaayyynnaa"
That's why so many guys cut their dicks off nowadays. There is no cure, sorry.
>incel weeb
>hes fucking ugly
EveryTIME LOL
You don't have to read it anyways, but what's the point of your feedback?
You didn't have to read my post anyways, but what's the point of your question?
Don't do this, you don't want to be a tranny.
That's a lie and I'm sure somewhere that you know it. Don't keep reminding yoyrself this pointless perception and girls who may be rejecting you over your looks are not worth your time anyways.
>he wants you to date ugly girls
Don't read his advice, it's pointless.
None, I just don't understand why you're engaging me.
You have too much dopamine in your system at all times if you feel that way. You legitimately just need to go do some work and be productive in something outside of your comfort zone. You literally cannot be happy if you are overindulged all the time, its a biological problem with humans.
If you don't believe me, look for some volunteer work at a food bank or soup kitchen or somesuch. After only a couple hours, you'll be ready to come home and all of those things that lost your interest will suddenly become very interesting again.
And I don't understand why you engaged my post to write a pointless wall of text bro
I never said shit about ugly girls though.
No, I don't think of myself as a hero and I don't see others as baddies. Being a hero would imply I have meaning to pursue, which is obviously something I have consistently failed to find. If anything, being easily brainwashed would mean I would have an easier time believing in something to strive for, right? Think before you post.
>Family abandoned me
>Have to work 12 hour shifts five days a week every day just to afford to live in my shitty town
>Working third shift because it pays more so the most human interaction I when I go grocery shopping and say "Thank you" to the cashier
>No friends (Even if I had them I'd never see them because of my schedule)
>So tired from work that I don't even have any leisurely activities anymore, I just waste away staring at the wall wondering why I'm alive. Sometimes I open video games to their main menus before immediately turning them off again
>No money for anything because of extremely high cost of living
>Have this to look forward to for the next 40-50 years
>Yesterday I slept for 16 hours straight effectively wasting half of my weekend and I still feel exhausted
Haha
Well you replied to me so I was under the impression that maybe you were open to a discussion, but I'm sorry my pointless wall of text ruffled your testicles.
>You don't have to listen to anybody anyways so don't waste so much energy trying to prove them wrong.
I honestly do it more because I still hope to be proven wrong.
Is there any way that you see how you could improve your quality of life and maybe not have to exhaust yourself with long work hours?
Go get some student loans and get your ass unto uni or a trade school. I was in that same position about 8 months ago and am getting a CCNA right now, and just the credits alone helped me get into a kushy state government job, and things are only getting better for me. Only issue I've had is full time student full time working is very difficult to keep my sanity, so I'd recommend you do it part time.
It didn't ruffle my testies mate, I'm open for discussions with people who don't write meaningless trash that just reiterate a point that had already been made and that was pointless in the first place
I understand and respect that. Seeking peace with yourself certainly is an exhausting endeavor that can throw a man to his lowest point. I hope that you end up being proven wrong and find peace.
This post tells me that you're an underaged shitposter and therefore worse than anyone in this thread
Unironically kill yourself
>not fat
>not on drugs
>don't eat like shit
>never did weed
>don't jerk it to 3D
>have a decent sleep schedule
>still depressed and cry myself to sleep often
wtf bros
maybe I should do drugs?
>Have to work 12 hour shifts five days a week every day just to afford to live in my shitty town
Holy FUCK user move out of that town or go bust your ass to get a better job through post secondary or something, This is not okay.
Why do people find it so hard to believe that some people are just ugly? Fine, maybe with some herculean effort I could be average somehow, but considering I played sports year round in high school and still looked like shit even then I don't really believe it.
Sure!
>No you didn't offend me
>proceed to really try hard to make me feel like shit for doing whatever the fuck I may please to do with my day even if it's to write novels on basket weaving weeaboo socializing online platform.
Free country I guess. Have a goid day and I love you.
LEAVE.THE.HOUSE
Even if you have no place to go or no one to hangout with, go for a walk, you'll feel a million times better when you get back home, force yourself to leave, I know you'll fight yourself every step of the way, but once you get outside and just start walking, you'll feel better.
>implying
>it vaguely states that your only chance is to date other ugly girls that are in the same league as you
That's how I see it, there's no way in hell that a 6/10, 7/10 or 8/10 would get near you unless they find you interesting. Only 5/10 and below would find you interesting because they are unattractive, fat, or not interesting. I would rather be alone then get near any of those disgusting fucks.
isn't there McDonalds or office depot? Those jobs pay enough for a single man to live on his own, and you can rise up to manager in a few years if you're disciplined
lol first you have to want to actually change your lot, if you don't want things to improve then all of the help in the world won't do a damn thing. Fuck you OP, its obvious you don't want things to change for you
Well first because it's Yea Forums, I don't know you and I've never seen your face so there is a chance you might simply be insecure about your looks and not actually ugly which is something a fuckload of people do.
Also I don't believe every single girl you find attractive finds you ugly. Just think about it. Are you trully ugly or do you find yourself ugly?
>y-you're mad bro
Sounds to me like you're still an extremely bitter person. Shitposting on Yea Forums requires literally zero effort and does not equate to me being upset or offended. Have a good day and if you're gonna keep wasting people's time with blogposts at least learn to format them and to spellcheck.
>walk out and do nothing more than just walk
What kind of advice is that?
Better than sitting inside rotting away all day, get out and go do something, I live in a city, I walk to the arcade every day, go out to bars at night, so many places to walk to
You don't live in a shitty town in the middle of nowhere, do you, user?
I do most these things, but since I work I'm not depressed. Nice strawman though.
Cum hoc ergo propter hoc
Correlation does not imply causation
On the other hand, you've posted this reddit picture so many times for the wrong reasons, it seems like you need that dopamine boost in feeling surpirior far more than people here need actual help
Kill yourself
i didnt mention it because im not a degenerate weeb
pretty much this, longer you stay inside, the longer you stay depressed
> trade school
Be careful with handing out this meme advice. You don't know his country and for all we know it might be one where trade work has crap working conditions and pay even if it's in constant/high demand like mine. Most trade work isn't actually for everyone, either because of the work or because of the environment and the people in it.
>tfw going to kill myself after my dog passes away
Why do you rate people on scales dude?
And, really, I never said shit about ugly girls. Why would you even want to date someone you feel no physical attraction towards anyway. I don't know how you guys fucking look dude so I can't just assume you're the ugliest fucking thing in the world. I'm just trying to figure out why you feel that way so strongly and maybe see if it's not a big part caused by your own self-hatred.
>just go for a walk bro
>just lift bro
>just wageslave bro
Jesus fucking christ this thread
A lot of the advice here is awful and surface level at best, it comes straight out of shitty self-help books that assume every person is in a poor situation because they placed themselves in them purely because of their own mentality. Your average person can't even begin to comprehend what it's like to be outright repulsive to other people
That's not a good advice.
Failing advice will only make people less likely to follow similar advice in the future.
For walking to have its proper effect, it needs to be a walk in daylight, in relatively clean air. Walking along a smelly road at night can be worse than sitting in basement, doubly so if it triggers allergies.
This thread is full of fags who think they're certified therapists.
>why does my life suck
>here try these
>no that won't fix anything
but weed helps me not be depressed
Don't do it please, i want to talk with you.
Those things are all designed to distract you and make you be a cog instead of stopping to fix your problems because the government is scared of what will happen if you stop cogging and realize you can't fix your problems.
shut up
Leave your moms basement and actually do something
Nah man fuck your opinion and I really don't feel like listening to any of that stupud shit coming out of your mind right now, but thanks for the confrontation, I hope it helped you expell some of that frustration.
If I want to put effort in my posts as opposed to being an epic shitposter like you, I'm gonna do whatever the fuck I want. Stop trying to kill my buzz, it's not gonna work.
And don't act surprised that I eventually get bitter with you when yoy've been spending several posts tryingvhard to antagonize me. I don't need to be a bitter person to think that you're acting like a dick because you're mad I'm not acting according to your expectations. You're not the Yea Forums police so shut the fuck up.
And I don't see myself as a bitter person, sorry you see it that way though. Maybe I could change your mind over a beer, but you've disgusted me, I'm done exchanging pointless banter with you. Hope getting me irritated with you really made you feel good. Rent free am I right?
>don't have the balls to do it
>it's the only course of action that makes sense at this point
My only hope is that shit goes so bad that I can override my natural instincts and take that leap. You're a great guy for caring for your dog user
Guess you're also still an extremely aggressive person too lmao
>stupud
People like you spend all your lives feeling sorry for yourself that everyone else just gives up on you for good reason. You are not the only person on the planet with a hard life.
A lot of people can't even afford to live the NEET life and are just out on the streets not knowing if they will see their next meal.
You are a literal burden to people around you and guilt is the only reason why they stick around. Your death would be a relief to those around you.
your death would also be a relief for many people
I've been pretty much everywhere in the city where I live and none of it was interesting enough to be worth more than one visit
>spacing
Cool story, bro. Write a novel.
Haha cool spacing bro
I agree user, I just don't have the balls to follow through
You're 100% right. These retards just won't admit it.
well since I already do all of the things mentioned above and I'm still bored of everything, it obviously didn't fix anything
Sorry if the truth hurts boys but maybe you'll come to terms with it soon.
There really is no correct way to format your text on this board is there?
.
It's called doing this
fucking newfag
>not
this shit
Fucking newfag
ask your friends on reddit
yeah, eventually you might and end up killing yourself, hopefully.
To be fair, when people are confrontated to think about their issues, it's natural that they become defensive and aggressive.
Imagine being so mad that you have to complain about spacing on the internet.
lmao get a life nerds
What if I don't give a shit? Baby's mad the world doesn't exactly work like he wants?
Fucking newfag.
can I have your stuff?
I'll use your resources to make otaku suicidal lives better
Yea Forums and Reddit have different formats, dipshits, fuck off to reddit already
Nobody cares newfag.
>people use resources when they're not working
>the fact that other people have it harder than you somehow invalidates any hardship you experience
>just kill yourself lol and I assume that the people around you think you're a burden despite not knowing them
Wow, such insightful observations from kawaii girl poster! You're the hero DABBING on all these baddies!
>leshitpostingderpinamegustairony
you need to go back
Balls don't mean shit. I've gotten the motivation to improve several times with no avail.
REDDIT REDDIT REDDIT REDDIT REDDIT REDDIT
REDDIT REDDIT
THIS GUY IS REDDIT
EVERYTHING I DON'T LIKE IS REDDIT
>>>/9gag/
It's funny how you newfags end up spreading more reddit memes than reddit because of your butthurt cynical le epic ironic shitposting.
These are the people who think they have the world figured out.
Good, I hate them because they're stuck up normies trying to act like they're nerds, no one fucking cares
I was talking about the balls to neck myself. I've given up on improvement memes a long time ago.
We got a pseudo intellectual right here.
Wow way to go billy!!Accute observation.
lemonkeyface.png
>excuse me sir but 2 be fair they are just defensive and stuff!
You might as well kill yourself too because you don't know anything.
Just stopping by to see if you guys are doing anything cool and exciting in this thread
are you?
Just telling retards to kill themselves, hoping that they do it.
Yes, the experiences of people on here are:
>Working a job is TOO hard, I can't talk to people after a few days, I need to quit and continue being useless even though my family is literally giving me opportunities to better myself.
You are a burden on your family both financially and emotionally and too weak-willed to do the bare minimum expected of you in life. Please stop fooling yourself and either fix it or end it.
Nothing, I just made 1 funpost and that's it. Keeping it alive in a tab to see if it got fun or interesting but it wasn't.
Ay why don't you suck on this dick instead of running your bitch mouth for nothing?
I love this clueless girl!
>Your death would be a relief to those around you.
You say that but the suicide of a son will probably still be a big emotional shock to their parents, even if he's a parasite.
I'm gonna suck out whatever resources I can from society to feed my hedonism before I pull the trigger
Yeah eat shit
B&R
Listen to audio books. If you cant focus on that alone, use another medium to help concentrate without taking every bit of your process power. I found Tetris to be great for that.
Normies usually have the right ideas however they lack nuance and precision in their advice, they just go with the generic ``just lift bro`` instead of going with a more specific ``you should do some exercises, even a walk is fine`` or something more adapted to you personally.
I like walking around late at night, go to the airport look at the night crew working the runway, if I'm lucky come across a rabbit or cat that I can have staring contest with.
It can be cozy, but I don't think it helps all that much. Depression-wise I mostly only feel better when being outside in a warm, sunny day, which is kind of difficult if you live in a place where that doesn't happen very often.
That's fine, just don't complain about how depressed you are on the internet.
NEETs who brag about how much they get is way better than sadfags who just whine about how it hurts to exist, but they are apparently too woke to do anything to fix themselves.
Is audible a good site? Any recommendations for learning programming concepts in particular java or ruby?
>Normies usually have the right ideas
Only by the vaguest possible measure, when it turns into a tautology.
Normaltard advice:
>exercise
Translation into a good advice:
>go for a walk
>but only if it's sunny
>and you have no active allergies that will worsen
>and do shave that bum beard first, so that you don't feel like hiding from every passing person
>if any of those can't be met, it's better that you do bodyweight shit at home, but stick to an actual plan like 100 pushups in x weeks
You could turn any vague hint into useful advice, but at certain point you're basically discarding the original hint and just giving good advice from nothing.
Normaltard advice is like trying to read bible: if you're gaining any sensible insights, it's because you already knew better and this only reminded you of those insights. If you don't know those, you won't learn anything and may even get worse.
go do exercise
I read (listen to) mostly fiction (historical and science) to be honest I am now not sure if audio books would work for learning complicated stuff, maybe that would require actual videos. Youtube is the classic but youd need to find a good channel, there is other university like website with good stuff too, but I cant help you on that. But yes Audible is a good site but I just don't know personally if listening to complicated learning books will work, since it usually requires exercises, practice, and examples visualization on top of the reading.
Holy shit I just realized that
>have sex
is normiespeak for
>go fuck yourself
holy shit this is why idiots like you are sad sacks of shit. You fags over analyze everything
Kill yourself
Or should I translate that into good advice by telling you to use a gun or an exit bag?
Pretty much. It's a lot more effective than "go fuck/kill yourself", since it puts them on the high ground and pins all the maliciousness on you
Ok...I'm going to take some of your advice. I'm going to leave the house soon, where the fuck should I go? Reminder, it's about to 4 PM and going to a bar isn't going to be interesting at the moment.
BUT DOCTOR
I AM PAGLIACCI
Maybe you're depressed? I've been going outside and getting back into old interests. Whenever I feel empty I realize it's because I've done nothing but consume and haven't created or been productive in a bit. When that bug bites I'll grab my sketchbook and go to a park or forest by my place. Hell even just walking outside, finding projects to start or shit to fix around the house feels great. Once I've done that it's fun to sit down and enjoy vidya.
Have you tried just "exploring"?
Pick a random spot of the city you weren't in yet and go there.
Though if you can, it's much better to find a more natural place. Park is OK, field is good, forest is best.
Edgy and retardpilled
try not to get killed. someone might kill you.
I work....
This. I do it all the time. You actually get to know your way around town and it kind of helps get your mind off of things.
>being this paranoid
I could try. Thanks.
you're the one that is paranoid. now that you're finally going outside i'm just telling you, you might die. try not to be part of a murderer's scheme, or get in an "accident". good luck.
>bored of movies
Then you, my friend are watching the wrong "movies"
cinéma connoisseur reporting in, reply with your favourites and I shall recommend some kino for those who ask
stop frying your brain with anime
Innocence by Lucile Hadžihalilović
Blade Runner 2049
Akira
Ghost in the Shell
Fantasia
Memento
Waking life, Amelie, Temporada de Patos.
Increase your attention span you dumb motherfucker
Is it possible to learn or develop interest, drive and ambition late in life? I feel like that's one the fundamental things that's always been missing for me.
I have a decent job and all that, but I don't talk much to people because I have nothing to say, no life and no interests. I'm thinking about stuff like exercising, cooking, traveling, painting that normal people are into, but literally the only reason for me to do any of that would then be for the external approval of others and to have something I could interact with others about, and not seem like such a loser, which seems kind of... backwards? I don't know if that's how normal people do it, or if it would even help any, since I have trouble getting into conversations even about topics like vidya that I do know something about.
I often wish people could be more like dogs, just be present and show occasional affection, but you need to talk talk talk and be witty and funny and interesting all the time otherwise it gets uncomfortable and creepy.
I get what you're saying. Been in a similar situation for a few years. Try to think back on your life, especially your childhood, to see if you remember anything you really liked but stopped doing for some reason or were particularly good at. You can also just try out new things to see if you find anything you like. That's how I found a few hobbies that I enjoy and that will make me seem less like an uninteresting loser to others.
small talk is easy. other than that, i don't care.
The Thing
Alien 1
Day of the Dead (1985)
Sleep
Fedora making scientific statements based upon no science. Theres absolutely nothing suggesting that jacking off reduces testosterone. Kys cumlet
I don't, I just hope that I will get used to this feel sometime.
Akshuly, there are many studies showing short term changes in muh T after cumming.
It's mostly a meme because testosterone is greatly overrated and small changes in testosterone don't explain anything, but jacking off does affect testosterone.
it does, and it makes you weak
>Date A Live
My nibba.
I don't like movies, play a lot of FPS and Kirby platform games, and make music. Change my mind.
That doesn't seem like the right thing to do. Try to find something you enjoy.
I wish I could sleep all day
Sleeping bypasses my anhedonia and makes me feel good in a way that doing things can't.
Waking up from a nice dream is fucking shit, though.
Fuck dreams about being loved.
Sounds like depression being bored. Talk to your doctor, tell him you've lost interest in things you were once passionate about. They'll hook you up with some anti depressants maybe recommend you get daily exercise as well. Both things help especially in conjunction with one another.
>I don't know you therefore I'll make assumptions about you
Worst people.
>self improvement memes
>self improvement results in a net win for everyone around you
>extremely resentful towards the idea of making the world even a slightly better place because fuck normies and fuck niggers
How does one become this bitter?
>(((anti depressants)))
*rubbetti rubb*
Stop depending on screens to be entertained
Make some mods buddeh. Stimulate your creative juices and make a level or two for you favorite games.
I stopped enjoying videogames, I stopped enjoying anime, I stopped enjoying manga, masturbation doesn't ease the pain anymore, books are hardly working anymore and might stop soon, only listening to music feels empty and finallly, I have no skills to draw/paint/write/compose/whateve/create which limits me to eating media. What do I have left, bodybuilding?
It all starts with getting enough sleep. If you're fucking yourself up with 4-5 hours a night, you're done. Good luck being interested in anything for more than 20 minutes that day.
Exercising actually can help, yes. Do you have any friends to do stuff with?
>confusing the symptom with the cause
Those don’t cause depression, people do those because they’re depressed
Interesting, it's on my watchlist. I didn't care much for Evolution, however. I trust that you've gone through Noé too?
Wong-Kar Wai seems like a good fit for you, check out Fallen Angels first.
It's been a good few years since I last went through Memento, do you prefer the original or chronological version? Watch Teshigahara's The Face of Another (if you can find a solid copy, BFI and MUBI both have it)
That's quite the mix. Tampopo
Possession, I Saw the Devil
By reaching the conclusion that it makes no sense to benefit a society where other people try to actively or passively fuck you over. Even the idea that my tax money can be used to improve the life of the people who ruined aspects of my life fills me with disgust.
I have been at this for years and have attained a level of peace that is indistinguishable from the goal. I persist. There is no goals, joy, or anything else. I get up and do what I will do that day. If this changes one day it will do so organically, but it is not expected, hoped for, or anything like that.
I don't know if I want to wish you luck in getting here or not. It's not bad, but people should have to end up in such a place imo. But with a lot of effort, I got there, so I'm sure you can too.
Thanks, that's good advice, I might try that. One thing I keep meaning to check is if there's any kind of volunteering or something dealing with animals, like a dog shelter, since keeping a dog myself is difficult due to living alone and working a lot.
I have a hard time with even that beyond "Hi / How are you? / I'm doing good". I've isolated myself for pretty much my entire life.
just do heroin or kill yourself op
I prefer the original version. Thanks for the recommendation, I'll check it out.
Porn
nigga I watched that shit for the nude little girls.
Let go of your hate user. You'll be much happier.
time for anime and manga! Also audiobooks.
I empathize with that but the good outweighs the harm longer and broader term. They may be a detriment to you now, but if we all keep trying to improve things for the dregs/societal floor, they may become less ignorant, more patient, etc. in generations to come.
We must act in that way for those of tomrorow since those before us did not for us of today.
The good bit is that things of this nature can often benefit your in the present as well as the future, while spite helps nobody.
Don't be afraid to just do it. I isolate myself a lot too but I managed to get out of my comfort zone a little to be able to do things I really enjoy. Also if you have any friends you haven't seen in a long time try to get in touch with them again.
>user, how have you been?
>options are to lie and say "alright" or say "not great" and become avoided
just fucking kill me
>Even the idea that my tax money can be used to improve the life of the people who ruined aspects of my life fills me with disgust.
I know that feel.
I am surrounded by "people" who vote to deprive me of rights while taxing me to support their animal lifestyles.
If I can't be an equal, why should I support that society? I'd rather be a detriment to it.
Accepting a moderate sense of happiness or being "content" while you benefit the group that actively fucked you over in hopes that in future generations someone won't fuck someone else over is literally a fuck boy mentality. Even my own family members tried to make me and my younger brother homeless and debt ridden. FUCK NORMIES AAAAAAAAAAAAA
Hate and resentment accomplishes nothing. Achieving a happier lifestyle is worth it no matter if it also benefits others.
Based
>Hate and resentment accomplishes nothing
On its own anyway, it can be a good motivator though.
It's not hope if it's what you're actively doing. As you said, you're benefiting these people. It's reasonable to beleive if everyone does this in some capacity that as a whole we will improve gradually.
That being said, if you wish to be as independent as possible, I'm not going to say that's an invalid stance to have either, but one that mostly conflicts with society in principle.
Man you sounds clinically depressed. Not meme sadness depressed but actually have high levels of neurons misfiring levels depression. Exercise helps enlarge the hippocampus in your brain, helping ease that. There are meds you can take to also help and help reverse the negative spiral your minds going through. Therapy will help teach you how to get out of the ruts you put your mind into and finally stop ruminating/adopt another person's thinking to get out of your thinking. The longer you don't get help, the greater the damage. Sometimes this shit is linked to your past and how you see your life. Sometimes it's genetic so you'll need meds to help balance yourself. Good luck user, the worst mistake people make is thinking it HAS to be like this and for most people that isn't true (and for those at that level I recommended electric shock because believe it or not it actually insanely effective due to up-regulation of neruo-protective genes (go google if you don't believe me)
I've gone so far into the deep end of being resentful and hateful towards others that I just can't tolerate the idea of normie trash benefiting from any of my work or actions.
>last work place had a registry for clients to leave feedback
>tons of pages packed with praise for my work and how I made their experiences memorable
>I hated every single one of those fuckers, even the ones that tipped me with a full course in the best restaurant in town
Fuck'em all. I'd rather die bitter than bending over for everyone that either fucked me over or would throw me under the bus for 20 bucks. Happiness isn't real for people who couldn't properly insert themselves in a society that hates them in the first place
Have you tried forgiving yourself user?
I've done nothing wrong. Social rejects aren't a new concept, some wish they could belong and some wish they could leave that's all
get a job you lazy fuck
>inb4 boomer xD
Lmao Hate and Anger has done more to push humanity further than anything. All of our modern technology comes from or were weapons of war
Stop caring about people you hate. This isn't about them, it's about you. Hating them is nothing more than waste of energy. Trying to make your life better is where that energy should go instead.
boomer
Hire people who want to work, stop hiring lazy welfare leeches and illegals. and actually pay so my ass can stay loyal to you
>like writing
>also like writing smut
>spend all day thinking about how I'm going to write more for my elf rape
>end up doing nothing but browsing Yea Forums and playing Granblue all day not writing at all
>repeat for two weeks
Lurk more
Stop thinking about it and start doing it, user.
I like this user.
this. it even makes me good at video games, i get more focused after hitting a good sativa strain.
Sorry user, social rejects can't happily coexist with society
I have accepted Marie-sama as my current god.
You can but only if you stop letting assholes influence the state of your mind.
It's not about being influenced, it's knowing I don't belong to any sort of tribe and not wanting to contribute to the one I was impinged on.
read up on Cognitive behavioral therapy
if you dont believe that your sedentary shut-in lifestyle is your main problem and you need to gradually change it to save yourself
Do what makes you happy. Stop caring if it also benefits other people. You should only care about the people who also care about you. Not knowing where you belong isn't an uncommon feeling at all. Just giving up and convincing yourself that you belong nowhere isn't the right answer.
Having to alter your state of mind to coexist creates a paradox. One way or the other, rejects are influences by those that are accepted.
Your options are exile from the people you hate, or adopting a persona to adapt to and coexist with them.
I think the majority of these people share this sentiment
>I want to be a (contributing) member of society, but not the ones available to me
Which is a very difficult position to be in.
> Do what makes you happy
Nothing does
> You should only care about the people who also care about you
No one does, I am appreciated to the extent of my utility.
>Not knowing where you belong isn't an uncommon feeling at all [...]
I agree, however I do know where I belong, it's any place where other people aren't around. However this is impossible for me so my only alternative is being a bitter resentful shit who is going to jump sooner or later. If the purpose of life is to be happy, but a person can't be happy then there's nothing wrong with being resentful. The idea that one should strive to "try to be happy" and follow all the meme advice on this thread is only good if you're looking to set yourself up for disappointment and even more anger.
CBT is waste of fucking money, just do drugs like a normal person and realize that no matter what you're probably going to be a sad cunt some of the time
gimme da sauce
Hijacking this thread to ask:
Is it worth downloading Street Fighter V if I'm just gonna play Akuma and Ryu?
>be depressed for past 20 years, don't remember what being happy feels like
>decide to start working out
>whole body just feels like shit and keeps getting worse
>not even out of shape, above average due to job
this is a meme
I don't like that people treat solitude as an inherently bad thing just because it is for some. Silent orderships have been part of many cultures for all of history and often have fantastic results.
Introspection is not somehow going to be gained or enhanced from being anything other than alone. Everything on this topic seems to be gross conflation between things like being alone and doing nothing whilst alone, or generalizing that just because your sample group from the city had negative results when put in isolation, that everyone must be the same and the minority disregarded completely. In a highly subjective and personal topic.
As with most things, it can be equally good or bad and effective or ineffective depending on the individual and how they use it.
I'm sorry that that's the way you see things. If your response to anything undesirable is anger and you show no willingness to try and change that then there's nothing you can do. Change only happens if you want it to, so in the end it's all up to you.
It's getting late here and I need to go to sleep. Thank you for talking to me and I wish you all the best.
>this is a meme
I wish I knew why people where spreading it so bad. same for no fap. just for laughs?
Good night user. Sweet dreams. I'll spare you when the day I pull the trigger comes
I want to miserably share a domicile with this user.
Yeah a couple years ago I was able to run 13 miles straight as a workout, but I wasn't able to maintain it because frankly it didn't make me happy. Working out makes me feel absolutely nothing besides tired.
I've tried to get into a lot of creative endeavours to give myself meaning and failed at them all. I'm just not a creative person I guess.
I really don't know what to do. Like says I just want to give back to my weeb hobbies but I can't find a way to do so that doesn't inflame my depression even further.
In the last couple of months, I've taken up reading 40k books. It's to bad most of the megas on /tg/ got hit.
I was depressed not that long ago (the no energy and motivation, always anxious, extremely psychotic, mind fogged kind) and when i found the solution i recovered very fast, like one week to remove the anxiety and lack of motivation/energy, two weeks to fully heal like nothing happened and let me tell me you that: This is easy and (it should've been) intuitive and logical as fuck. Before all things, consider yourself as a sick person (yes, you are sick, this is not your normal state, you aren't lazy and probably even less than usual because sometimes depressed people do extreme efforts in hope of inversing the processus, in vain of course), stop blaming yourself except if you don't actually want to heal (if that's the case you're a huge faggot and should kys) because pure willpower won't be enough for the battle, the enemy is bigger and stronger than you
>Then how i do it?
It's easy as fuck, you just have to stop "feeding the beast". And by feeding the beast i talk about stop fueling him with your anxiety and wasted energy. When it comes to depression i always hear the same advices like:
>Just man up, dude
>You aren't trying enough
>You need more discipline
>Cold showers
>Strict diet
>No-fap
>Stop/limit vidya/tv/screentime
>Just go outside
>You need more physical activity
>Get a job/learn a trade
>Start reading.
These advices are good...except they don't work for you, in fact you can't even do it. It's like prescribing good medications for the wrong illness, they don't work and have side effects that worsen your situation. It's like going to gym for the first day and the guys there say:
>Just lift 1000 kgs, dude! Those who can lift it are strong asf
Physically impossible. You can't do it because you aren't strong enough for now, and you need to build strength slowly. Not tryharding and eventually failing every time but actually recovering on a solid base. Consider yourself as a sick person that needs reeducation.
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It's great if you can appreciate the masochistic aspects of it. It's like being rewarded for getting beaten up.
>driving your body to full exhaustion right before bed
>pain and soreness that lasts for days while your body strengthens
>contrasting relief when it's over
>repeat
No fap is definitely not a meme, but people push it for the wrong reasons. This board has an enormous problem with porn addiction.
inb4
>b-buy my book!
Depression is deeply linked to the anxiety and activity levels, what you theorically need is to reduce anxiety and increase activity which can be considered hard on first sight because increased activity leads to increased anxiety, decreased anxiety leads to decreased activity and decreased activity leads to...increased anxiety for obvious reasons.
But don't panic! The solution is motherfucking simple (and satisfying too).
Relax completely and reduce your stress as much as possible (really, there is nothing to be anxious about for the moment). You'll probably feel slower and lazier at first as you release the nervosity but worry not because you'll make up for that very soon because your progress will be daily and will last on the long term. Every next day that'll come, you'll just have to do "a little more" than the previous day, just be careful not to overextend yourself or increase your stress levels (you'll feel it if that happens anyway). And don't forget to always stay as relaxed as possible, decrease your anxiety as much as possible and ignore your black thoughts as they're only here to sabotage you, they are the enemy, you know deep inside you these thoughts are wrong and irrational and you just have to ignore them and continue replaxing. Those are the only two rules: Relax as much as possible and do a little more every day. This requires minimal effort, will have solid long term effects and the best thing, is that you'll make progress daily. You'll just have to be patient but know this: It may seem slow as fuck at the beginning but it'll be way faster than you think because the progress is exponential, the more you heal the more you'll have the tolerance to do even more every day and you end up recovering faster than what you would predict.
And when it's done, it's done: no relapse, your body and mind has adapted to your new activity levels. I still use that simple method for self-improvement and hope it'll work for you anons too.
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You were never depressed in the first place you fucking faggot. Stop repeating this garbage as if it can cure a fucking mental illness.
I can't appreciate the masochistic aspects of it because I have to do it to myself and eventually after a long enough time period of doing it I will just stop caring regardless of how much I try and it kills my ability.
I spent 2 hours cooking yesterday to eat something I only spent 5 minutes halfheartedly enjoying. I feel like this experience sums up my entire life.
Kek, i know what you mean don't worry i replied here . It's just the fucking 2000 character limit that fucked my post, i really didn't know i would write that much when i started. I'm not some specialist or some shekelberg that want to sell his overpriced ebook, i'm just some faggot normie that found an easy way out of my hellish depression and wanted to share it because i consider it's important and could help others
Based and redpilled.
>if that's the case you're a huge faggot and should kys
Edge and 14 mentally yearoldpilled
Remember Yea Forums, life is a struggle and living is learning how to dance with what comes to you.
Work with things one step at a time.
Open up the window, sit out in the sun, try something new.
I've found myself after years of boredom, sloth, and distress, having something you need to rely on everyday helps.
I mean that in the sense of some kind pf daily chore of routine.
When growing up, I had to take care of my grandmother's garden.
I'd always hated doing it when I was little, but for a week she was out of town and relied on me to take care of it for her. Something about having to hold myself up under the sunset as I listen to my favorite song and watered the plants everyday made me feel good.
I could relax and be myself on this big empty farm plot, with my own nightly routine.
There's an underlying need for humans to have some kind of consistency or a job.
Some goal to work towards.
I'd say, even if it's something small, it could bring you happiness.
Start a little backyard garden and see a literal fruit for your efforts, or maybe even a pet.
Knowing that something relies on you and grows with you is shockingly helpful in building consistency or even happiness.
There's no one answer for any person, but there's lots of little things that can just make you feel better.
Even little things like cognitive behavioral therapy or giving yourself a pat on the backs works wonders.
How though?
get a real hobby
>an easy way out of my hellish depression
you were just a sad faggot. there's not an "easy way" out of depression.
>tfw don't have anyone to act as references on my local commissariat's gun permit application
I hate this state, user.
Imagine having such a basic bitch life that watering a garden for a week becomes a life changing revelation
Just get a job and take antidepressants. Gets better after a while
>when there's too much effort for it to be bait
Well hey, we live in a time where we disregard what people did before us because it's boring or impractical.
Traditions weren't traditions for no reason, there's good to be had from what our grandparents or great grandparents did.
There's good to be had in doing impractical or old fashioned things.
Honestly, I can't even think of any Zoomer kid I know who's watered a garden, let alone even been to a farm.
What I'm trying to say is, for people who are aimless, tired, or recluse; something as small as having your own little garden can help.
It builds structure, or some form of meaning.
>about to move to a rural area for at least two years for a contract
>coworkers will consist of two middle aged women
>already have no social life currently
haha
>videogames work on abusing your dopamine brain reward system
>play them so much your response to the dopamine drops off
>life loses its lustre
The solution is literally play less videogames. Your attention span can also be increased through hard work
>he liked something I disliked, quick, better channel the edge
Nigger just try to read what he's trying to tell you instead of going for immediate hurr durr that's stupid. You didn't even argue against anything, just sperged out.
There is being depressed and then there is being an edgecuck.
I can understand these reactions, i would've felt like that too when i was depressed. You're angry because the solution is simple as fuck yet you've been struggling hard with your depression. I'm not mocking you, don't worry, this method is genuine and it doesn't cost anything to put it into practice if you're not a turbofaggot that actually want to stay that way. I wouldn't have taken my time writing this from scratch, on my goddamn phone on top of that. If i wanted to troll or bait on the videogame board of a norwegian whale hunting forum i would've done something else.
I have done these things and it gets EXPONENTIALLY worse.
read a book
what book
No, I'm just saying that
>if you don't want my help then le rope urself
is tardkino
Your post would be better if you simply skipped that part and didn't try to appeal to edgy mental teenagers.
I don't cope, I simply live with the pain. I'm waiting for this Clown World to light up in flames.
Guards Guards by Terry Pratchett
>Take Effexor
>Don't eat like shit
>I'm actually borderline too skinny
>Have qt azn gf who's 8 years younger than me so has the sex drive of a rabbit so never need to fap
>Exercise 2 times a week at the company gym after work
>Get 8 hours of sleep daily
>But I do weed to try to get some enjoyment out of my weekends
>Still depressed as all shit
Fuck mental illness. At least my gf is understanding and babysits my pathetic ass by doing laundry, dishes, and housecleaning. Only chores I do are cooking and unclogging the toilet.
wtf are you doing to my wife's wife?
Read any cook book and make some good food.
Find what you like.
I personally like nonfiction books on psychology or history and can't really focus on fantasy novels.
Find a topic that interests you, maybe learn something new.
>tfw I have aphantasia so enjoying books is almost impossible for me because no matter how descriptive a writer is, no images come to mind so it's just a string of words for me
I've had a lot of success with phenylpiracetam + tetrahydrocannabinol + meditation.
>is a phenylated analog of the drug piracetam
>Some sources suggest that piracetam's overall effect on lowering depression and anxiety is higher than on improving memory.
Then follow up with your own research on effects of THC on the brain, as well as meditations positive benefits.
And do more physical research on yourself.
It's weird to treat your body more like a vessel, but it is something that needs maintenance, and it's not always just muscular fitness, but brain/mental health as well. We have the ability these days, to manage. But the path requires a lot of self study, and medical knowledge. But it's all public stuff.
Consider it may not be possible for someone else to fully comprehend your mental state, better than yourself.
fuck them dood
Have you ever tried an audio book say on a topic you're interested in instead?
So you can hear about new information instead of having to visualize the words.
Antidepressants are bad though. They're good for reducing anxiety on the short term but they have dangerous side effects and makes your brain addicted to it. Another (((pharmaceutical business scheme)))
That in itself, is the "repeat" portion. From my perspective, I almost look at it abstractly like a, test of discipline. But when passed, I don't need to suffer that maintenance, because I don't care. Until I need to test myself again.
This is my life cycle at the moment. It's not that bad. It's like a work and a break cycle. Some may disagree, but fuck them.
I'm not trying to be edgy. There simply isn't anything new or worth while in what was said, we all know that we need something to keep our mind's busy. But if you had read carefully the thread is infested with instances of how not even that fulfills the mind anymore
Yea, hard to keep focus. I listened to a few.
>I'm not trying to be edgy.
Then you could have made an argument instead of just shitting on him.
Even something like
>it was suggested before, finding a routine of "little things" only works for a small minority of people
would be leaps and bounds above
>lol imagine thinking that it helps