Last online

4d01f H17l3r

>using steam chat or discord

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>Play with friends
>Miss one gaming session
>Nobody wants to play with me again

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>online but invisible

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>last online 2100 days
>suddenly comes back on
that was a relief

what was the internet like 70 years ago?

>See this in friends list
>Remember that he told me his full name a while back
>Look it up
>Died in a car crash

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He's okay, r-right?

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>comes online
>plays smash instead of splatoon
okay buddy

>share name with "famous" person
>online friends will never know if I'm dead

We used Enigma to chat beyond enemy lines

He's moved on from videogames.

>Be offline for years
>People remove you from their friends

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>Best friends since HS
>Stop using steam because am away from computer for like a year
>He has a well paying job and lives far away anyways
>Decide to get back on steam and chat with him a year later
>Hey my man what's up!?
>"Nothin"
>How are things goin?
>"Fine. Working."
>Try to crack bad joke about his work
>"I guess."
>O-OK then. Good chattin with you.

I don't know if he's just overworked or he realized he despises me in the year I haven't seen him.

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BUT YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO CUT ME OFF

>set myself to appear offline for years
>steam updates one day, makes me appear online and ruins my 1400 days offline streak

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They fixed that issue with the new friends lists.

I probably had like 5 steam friends and I haven't been online in like 4 years. Wonder if they think I'm dead or just removed me from their list.

>Stop playing for like 6 months
>Come back
>Try to hit up someone on my friend list
>They completely forgot who I was

>have no real life friends
>have some online friends, most of them from a forum I used to frequent
>eventually fall out with the ones from the forum and block them
>have one other online friend, who I'm much closer with than any of the forumers but who seems to be depressed and possibly suicidal
>uncharacteristically blocks me a few days later for no apparent reason and never responds to any of my attempts to get back in touch through other means
>cry for the first time since childhood

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I had the biggest mancrush on him...

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goodnight sweet prince

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>Yea Forumsirgin removes me because I tell him I don't care about his depression bullshit after he interrupted me while I was talking about vidya

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>last online 3 weeks ago
>can be seen playing through ingame server browser every day
>playtime in the last 2 weeks 110 hours

Sounds like he did good

>have a friend that does what are basically sanity checks on me twice a year
>he is actually interested in what I’m doing and if I’m okay, asks genuine things doesn’t just spout memes
>I always respond with few word replies
>always say I’ll make better effort to stay in contact but never do
Why do I do this? I want friends but I’d rather just stay in my room all day.

>last online 6 years ago

>be 16 year old me
>have a clique on steam, chat for hours every day have a great time
>only "friends" I had at the time
>one night say "ok guys gotta sleep now see you tomorrow"
>somehow didn't log in ever again for reasons I can't remember
>it's been 10 years now

Dealing with babies who use their friend's list as a replacement psychiatrist gets pretty annoying user

>offline on steam
>online on epic

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Can't feel bad about your friends not caring about you if you don't have any friends haha

I'm not buying it but you do you

Why are you using your friends as discussion boxes? Why should they entertain your topics and reciprocate with their own arguments? You have to go to a forum for that.

>friend only ever replies with single sentences or single words like "lol" "yeah" and "hm"
>if they reply at all

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Tbh this is what I prefer. If you don't give a shit just straight up say so, don't pretend to be nice.

>tfw all your friends became wagecucks and are rarely online anymore
>they just go to gym, go home, make dinner, and then sleep by 9pm
>any free time they have is mostly spent with their girlfriend/wife
>there's no going back to the "good ol' days"

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they're not your friend

>"friends" who just wait for you to shut up so they can keep talking

>me and a couple of friend play games all the time
>eventually fall apart never speak again for unknown reasons
>they eventually start playing together without me but one of them becomes a female male
Feel like I dodged a bullet.

>playing vidya with some friends
>one of them loses and gets really mad
>hasn't been online for over a week now
Come the fuck on now

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>friend doesn't reply at all

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If you’re not a clingy weirdo this is the point where you cut them off. It’s for the best.

Wagecucks trade their soul for money. That's just how it is.

I used to use Slack; it shits on Discord, but both are memory hogs.

You're really underestimating how annoying some manbabies can be. I'm not talking about a friend texting me to vent, I'm talking about non-stop bitching about "I'm have self diagnosed depression" bullshit. If you're unfortunate enough to visit group chats with ironic weebs you'll quickly find this kind of attitude where they use a place with a specific theme/topic as their personal blog of bullshit that no one cares about beyond surface level pleasantries.

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>O-OK
no wonder he wants nothing to do with you if you stutter in your messages

I'll only bring up shit if someone seems interested or concerned. But it had better be genuine concern. Don't flip your shit an hour later after pretending to be nice.

>old e-friends are online every day
>haven't spoken to any of them for 2-3 years
>don't have it in me to tear the band-aid off and just remove them

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>"night bro, i'm gonna get some sleep"
>last online: 30 seconds ago

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>Online
>hit her up
>Away
I used to think my life was a tragedy...

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>haven't played an online game in 6 years

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is that sara gilbert?

>hey man can I join you?
>sorry I’m playing with someone who doesn’t want you to join

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Isn't that goatse?

>online but ignoring your messages

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When it gets too much I always tell friends the topic is giving me anxiety and if we can change topics, do it enough times and they'll go onto other friends to vent.

I have several 'friends' like this. I sometimes feel like just removing them. They respond like once every week or two if I'm lucky

>online but no one messages me

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Just do it.

>self diagnosed depression
What makes you think it's self diagnosed? You go to your GP and tell them how you're feeling and get sent to a psychiatrist for evaluation. They then diagnose you with depression, anxiety or whatevers wrong with you and offer to give you meds and usually something like CBT or whatever. It's not exactly hard to get this shit checked.

>go invisible for 2 days because i don't want to get game invites
>get asked if i'm ok and why i was offline for 2 days the second i switch to online
This is way worse than nobody caring about you. Thank good he removed me when i was i had no time for games for a few days.

>friend tells me they want to do things with me
>spend a lot of their time pretty much orbiting some tranny that hates me over a slight in a little group
>when we are doing things they'll cut things short to go do those same things with the tranny and their friend instead all the time
>rinse repeat
>end up joining the group for something
>kicked out because the tranny "wasn't comfortable"

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>falling for the psychiatrist meme
Lmao dumbass goy.

Sometimes there's just no one else to talk to.

I used to be the guy who made another dude stay out of the party. Everyone else was in on it too though. Good times.

>and offer to give you meds
They don't help shit

Man you're trying so hard to defend some loser on the internet that you're just outright ignoring what I write. He never checked a professional mate, he'd just spend all his time infesting other discussions with his personal whining. If you need another example then talk to a female who uses vidya related group chats and they'll probably have a story or two about losers who mistake their friendliness with an open invitation to being turned into a personal psychiatrists.

I don't mind venting in itself because I also like developing some personal level bonds with some of my internet buddies. This specific example was such a precious little flower that even the slightest mention that I didn't want to hear any further about his personal life was just met with hostility.

>brb, going around the world!
>last online 80 days ago

I appreciate this post.

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>join discord server with some online friends
>everyone always makes fun of this one annoying dude because he gets upset so easily and can't take banter
>i do it a couple times
>yesterday he snaps and starts typing paragraphs and paragraphs at me explaining how i took it too far
Why is it whenever I'm having fun, it's wrong?

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good post, user

Fuck off Facebook zoomer

>brb, going around the world!
>last online 81 days ago

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I know. I was on SSRI and SNRI. The SSRI made me feel emotionally numb and the SNRI made me starve myself because it fucked with my sense of taste and smell and ruined my appetite as a result. When I talked to the psychiatrist about me giving them up she got mad at me over the phone and said it could've been anything that changed my appetite, SURELY not the medication which was the only constant that changed. I stopped seeing them after that.

i have literally no friends or associates
>needing validation

>81 days

Ya slayed it.

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>This specific example was such a precious little flower that even the slightest mention that I didn't want to hear any further about his personal life was just met with hostility.
There's something you gotta be doing that attracts those kinda people though, if you open the doors for that kind of emotional discussion then I can see why someone might take advantage of that.

What I do is keep conversations positive and light hearted, not even my closest friends think it's okay to only be doom and gloom, it's kind of an unspoken agreement.

>Used to talk with this guy a ton
>Had fun and shit
>Now he just replies in single-word responses
>Only becomes active when he's bitching about his personal life
>Just deleted him
Egotistical faggots.

>no friends
>no problems
people ain't worth it
especially this guy

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This. I was very lonely. My family will talk about shit but never actually pushes forward to resolve shit. I saw this as my only option.

I stopped seeing them, when they said that suicide is my own problem and they don't care if I just stay inside. "A grown man can make his own decisions. Good luck in life! Bye bye!"

This particular example didn't get many openings from me to discuss those topics but did it anyways. He was just a specific type of manbaby that you sometimes find in group chats. As I said in the post you replied to, I don't mind some personal doom and gloom, his just didn't have any place in the context.

Either learn to read or stop being a baby

another server of cancerous zoomies "bantering" btfo by based sperg, fuck you and your gay discord friends.

>friend suddenly does a 180 in personality

I'm currently at "last online 20 days ago". Too many single player games to play.

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>Uhm user, another friend of us wants to join now. Would you mind leaving? Maybe we can play another time.
It's like being back in school again.

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>go to psych
>get long af questionnaire
>obvious trap questions
>obvious questions to see if you have autism
>evade all traps
>get desired drugs
psychology is a fucking meme science

They don't give a shit about people and are just looking to push anti depressant sales and pressure you into signing off on questionnaires about how much of a BIG IMPROVEMENT they're making to your life so they can manipulate statistics. Anti depressants, hormone replacement treatment and gender reassignment surgery will be referred to as the lobotomy of the 2010s.

>lose important friend
>remove all less important friends

This hurts my soul.

>used to play Terraria with gf into the early hours of the morning, comfy exploring
>break up almost five years ago
>see this yesterday

I really need to remove her.

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>We are going to go play with our other friends now, catch you later user haha

>All the socially inept anons itt who read too much into small things and can't hit it off with anyone
I almost want to add some of you out of pity to help but it might be more trouble that it's worth if you get upset over everything

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>co worker goes to psych because his life being a mess gave him some serious breakdowns that even impaired his motor skills
>is given a bunch of different meds
>one or some of them made him considerably more aggressive to the point where it was preferable for him to stay home instead of handling power tools around us
>he reports this aggression to the psych
>"well then let's take away these meds out of the cocktail, we were mostly checking for suicidal thoughts anyways"

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>Friend is nice and helpful when it's just me and him
>Other people join
>"HAHA user YOU ARE SUCH AN UGLY LOSER WOW WHAT A FUCKING JOKE YOU ARE LOL LEARN TO PLAY YOU FUCKING IDIOT HAHAHA WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING"

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>Says as he reads too much into things
I have enough friends so I'll hard pass senpai

it hurts.

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>BRB 5 mins
>6 mins later
He was so young

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You're insecure if you think that post was targeted towards you and not the fuckers who were baiting sympathy/worry messages from their steam friendslist.

He isn't your friend.

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>Reading too much into little things again

>playing with friend
>oh I’m going to add a guy you don’t know
>alright
>go into confidence overdrive somehow
>guy I don’t know says haha guess I’m the third wheel here
Actually a fucking great feeling.

I am that guy
A mix of shyness, fresh start and forgetting my password.

Miss you all

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Maybe not, but beggars can't be choosers.

There needs to be a bit more of a motivation to develop a bond asides from "add me on a steam friends thread". I've added Yea Forumsirgins straight from the board and the conversations would die out pretty quickly because there were no real topics to discuss and I mostly play SP shit anyways. However when I added Yea Forumsirgins I met through other platforms or group chats I ended up getting along with them well enough to consider them close friends.

same

>Join community because of porn coming from it
>Follow the breadcrumb trail to the promised land of based bros

Just bee urself

>last online
>9 years ago

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do it. move on.

I get defensive and territorial when I play with my girl friends online and a new guy joins in

I'll be your friend
If you aren't a furry

I try not to do that because I worry that it’ll seem obvious what I’m doing. Somehow I just knew what to say and how to keep things going in that moment, usually I’m fairly quiet in a group.

>Actual beta orbiters in my Yea Forums
Fuck outta here.

Suicidal people are insane
I know the type, I'm one

I have this opposite thing where if a girl joins in on our group of males I try extremely hard to come across as if I'm not hitting on her or giving her special treatment, not because of the girl herself but because I've read too many girl related drama threads on Yea Forums

I'm not a furry!

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>walking home from school with friend
>friend sees girl he knows walking other way
>sorry man I’m going to go walk home with her today
total bruh moment

Cut these people out of your life honestly

>Play with group of guy friends
>All of them except the one I actually like make passes at me despite me telling them to their face I like him and not them

Betas are the literal worst.

You're clearly treating them as more than friends, user.

>tfw

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>pretending to be a girl on Yea Forums
Fuck off

>take a couple days break from socializing to get some back log done
>log back in to talk to friends and it's been 3 weeks
Time fucking escapes me man, I hate it

I had a friend who I hadn't talked to for like 6 months come on steam a couple days ago but I just missed him by a couple hours

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>that guy that gets mad you don't want to hear his bullshit standard selfhelp advice
>flips out and leaves (again)
>tfw you realize you're better off without that negative energy and he did you a favor

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>become friends with a guy and play video games
>has a close female friend he voice chats with and plays with regularly
>can tell he really likes her but has no confidence in himself constantly putting himself down
>always reassure him and try to make him feel better whenever she's around
>"wow user, you're really sweet thank you for being so nice to him... want to play this game just you and me?"
>openly flirt at each other over voice chat while he's in the same room as us
>mfw he's constantly trying to cock block me and interrupt us but we just carry on as if he isn't there

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>lose contact with a friend
>6 months goes by
>I should talk to him
>suddenly it’s been 3 years since I’ve last talked
I should just say it’s been too long to start talking at this point right? Didn’t even want to start having frequent contact again I just want to know how he’s doing.

>away for fifteen minutes

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You're a shitty friend

How about you choke to death on the trap cock you adore so much you fucking faggot?

Just block him already and let him move on, man, don't play with him like that. World doesn't need more broken people.

This actually made me mad.

I wish I had a clingy steam friend that would talk nonstop to me and get really mad and jealous when I don't respond to him immediately.

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Me but you have to be cute irl

Is it weird to tell your friends you love them?

>erp'er mad that he's been found out
top zozzle

only if you play EDF with me

That just gets annoying really fast.

wanna be steam friends

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You either talk shit back or delete this faggot from your list.

>his female friend of 4 years comes on to me
>i'm the shitty friend for knowing him for 3 months
The friend is actually an ass hole to her, constantly kicking off and throwing little fits whenever she does something wrong that's not in her control. He's from Yea Forums after all, there's a lot of them around here that don't know how to communicate with other people let alone someone from the opposite sex

If he never got her attention he's not gonna get her later so there's literally nothing wrong with this

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>his female friend of 4 years comes on to me
>i'm the shitty friend for knowing him for 3 months
You're both shitty friends.

kys faggot

>There will come a time when your account will say you were last online 300 years ago
Technology and stuff like this will bring a lot of weird things in the future

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I'm sorry if this happened to you in real life or if the situation itself makes you angry because it seems bad to you but that's exactly it, it's perfectly normal and you seem slightly jealous and upset that you're not capable of being me in that scenario and know that you're my friend who's getting left at the side of the road and feels like the female friend he thinks he owns is being stolen from him

>so lonely that this is starting to sound nice
jesus christ

I'm sure servers will shut down before then

This isn't true. People can grow on you or at some point you can begin to see them in a different light. I'm not saying that it happens all the time, but people's feelings can change since emotions aren't that set in stone. Hell, people can wake up and realize that they no longer love the person they've been married to for years.

Then get rid of him from your friend group. Block him. He'll grow up from that a lot more than from this treatment.

By then there'll be an auto delete account function.

I don't know at all how to talk shit, and I don't want to learn. I want everyone to be nice and have a fun time, with a little joking and teasing here and there.

>want to talk on mic but too shy

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>obsessed with one game, and only play that one game
>the off chance my friends play the game is when im never home
>get home to play with them
>they dont accept my join request

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I literally know that feeling

>having friends

>tfw your accounts will outlive you and some will be used as historical evidence

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>Only 1 girl in our raiding group
>Extremely quiet, only says "hi" and "bye", maybe more if she gets called out on a mistake
>tfw uninterrupted lad banter with the rest since she's so obviously uninterested nobody orbits her
>Well except for one but we grilled him so hard on VC he only does it in private

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>last online
>1921 days ago
>leaves comment when in offline mode saying he pirated all his games like 3 months ago
Sebastian you're a douche.

>want to vc with my online bf so we can play games together and i just love hearing his voice because it makes me shiver
>i get too scared to ask him if we can call because i don't want to annoy him or interrupt him if he's busy

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Nah, that would ruin my status with my new female friend. In situations like this it's best to stay friends with them, let the problematic person make the mistakes and you sit there taking them all looking like the innocent one. If I block/delete him it would just look childish, I'll keep on trying to encourage him to be positive about playing with us to make myself seem like the good guy

I see, a normalfag and a douche. A pretty common combo

I literally tried having friends that way in online, they all ignored me. Still having no friends and i still fine with it. faggots

>want to talk on mic but my voice is shit and I have no idea how to hold a conversation

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i'm sure he'll be back

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You all normal/phonesfags and these posts ain't worth you

>online bf

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He died in a car crush

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>try to message friend
>he replies once with one or a few words and then never again to anything I say
>i know he isn't busy or anything either he's just intentionally ignoring me
Yeah fuck people like you.
I'm not clingy or anything but being purposely ignored is fucking rude.

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>I HAVE FRIENDS BUT THEY IGNORE ME!!! :c

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Almost like they aren't really friends.

>he replies once with one or a few words and then never again to anything I say
He's not your friend then, you never had any as well

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>voice is shit
boy I have literal aspergers and a lisp and I can fucking do it, once you just get on chat, things generally flow fine

I see a baby

lmao u mad?

>Friend and I have a little bit of a quarrel, but we make up later and he says he needs to go to sleep.
>Never comes back again

God, I still miss you, Roses. I'm sorry if I was too harsh on you, hope one day we can meet again.

Just straight up remove people like that, they're not worth it. Better to have 1 friend you actually engage with then 20 you get one off responses from.

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God I hate clingy fucks like you. Just leave me alone. I just want to play video games in peace.

To be fair, if that user said it was a LDR you'd probably be like "Those never work out"

But what if that friend that ignores you is your only friend

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'This post you replied to parodying this entire board and thread'

Picrelated

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yeah, i would. whats the point of having a relationship that has 0% chance of moving forward?

What the fuck is this garbage friend thread?? since when Yea Forums became such a sensitive normalfag with friends

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I think a friend stopped talking to me because he went into an autistic rage about pokemon go streaming. All I said was it look like the people doing it are having fun and who cares. Never talked to me again after that.

>friend messages me clearly intent on discussing something
>but instead of just writing the whole message he just says "hi" or "sup faggot" and expects me to greet him back before commencing the conversation
>leave him hanging to see how long he's willing to wait

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It's a shame that Gotye hasn't released another album

Then he's not your friend and you need to cut ties with him.

If you care enough about him, have a conversation with him about how you feel it's not really working out between you two and why, hopefully you can discuss it like adults and come to a agreement so there's no hard feelings.

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>tfw the only "friends" I have are from high school
>they all ignore me and just want to mindlessly play zoomer games like Apex
>even if I play something with them they have horrendous commitment issues and end up abandoning the game long before the end
>don't have any other friend groups to play with and banter with

I'm so lonely guys

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Being loner is MUCH better

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WHATS the name of this song again?

Those were some of the worst moments of my life. I genuinely considered suicide multiple times because I thought the only people I considered had finally had enough of me, and I was at the final straw after being considered too annoying by like 3 other groups. Thankfully there was one dude who stayed by my side throughout that year and kept me sane for a bit (along with finding a cool dude in High School to hang out with). Still, I was genuinely seeking death for a good while, and I'm honestly still surprised you guys accepted me back. Every day I fear it though, that one day I'll fuck up extra hard or something and once again be left alone. I've been trying to work on my impotent rage habits though, so maybe that's why this rekindled friendship has persisted for so long again. I'll never forget though; it haunts me to this day.

People usually greet each other before going straight into talking. It’s pretty normal.

haha yeah being a loner is fucking rad
holy shit i'm so fucking lonely Yea Forums is my only social outlet how did i get like this

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Some of them do. Of course it's more difficult if there's a massive distance and one person has to move from everything they know along with other difficulties. But if you're truly compatible and love each other online relationships can work out, its just more work and risk

>"friends" I have are from high schoo
>zoomer
You have no obligation to talk about this shit since you are a 2000s faggot cunt and newshit
Stop posting in a shit board first

gotye - somebody i used to know
I think

Who the fuck are you?

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>Stop posting in a shit board first
hey Yea Forums isn't the only board I browse tardface
what do you mean by this

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It's also completely pointless in the written format though. And I had plenty of autists from Yea Forums on my friends list that would greet me with a "hi" and then expect me to come up with some conversation topic so shit gets boring fast.

>imagine having non-irl friends

>hi friend, how are you?
>ahh i'm feeling a bit sick, might have been something i ate but i'll live. how are you doing my man?
>oooh what do you think you ate that did that? also do you want to play games later? ahh yeah this new game came out the other day and...
JUST FUCKING OPEN UP AND TELL ME THAT YOU'RE OKAY YOU PIECE OF SHIT I CARE ABOUT YOUR WELL BEING AND I CONSIDER YOU A GREAT FRIEND SO JUST LET ME IN ALREADY DAMN IT

>friend asks if I want to play game
>sure let’s do it at this time
>message friend since he is online
>ignored
>send another an hour later
>ignored
Just tell me you don’t want to play it anymore or something, you’re the one who asked me to play with you. What a waste of time.

Sure, you might as well tell me Yea Forums since you know. Yea Forums became shit as well, and it became downhill since 2013-2015. Now you should just disappear altogether

>last online
>7 years ago
I still miss them.

ok board elitist i'm sure the ones you browse are superior

Chances are he went through some rough shit while you were away, and he needed you to help him escape from an abusive relationship. You weren't there, and the person you used to know isn't there anymore either. Work and making huge sums of money are all he has left, with all hopes of freedom dashed.

t. projecting

If you and your friends haven't talked to each other in months, remove them.
If they ignore your responses a majority of the time, remove them.
If they give you one off responses like "lol" "nice" all the time, remove them.
If they disrespect you or are rude towards you, tell them to stop and if they don't, remove them.

You guys need to find people who respect your boundaries and make you feel happy. What you DON'T need is people who do things in the above, they're not worth it, seriously.

Then tell him that him not opening up to you is hurting your feelings and you wish he would open up to you more instead of dodging the question.

Just be open about your feelings, people.

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Wagefag here, can confirm.

me

>befriend some fags around 2009-2010 Yea Forums
>become regular friends with one of them
>somewhat paranoid guy but pretty cool otherwise
>MSN dies
>don't speak to him too much anymore
>years pass, haven't seen him on steam
>more years pass, someone adds me on steam
>he's a friend, wondering if I knew what happened to that guy
ah, "teddy weis", what happened to you?

>play tf2
>roll enemy with a medic slut
>adds me
>he has 300+ friends
>never talks to me again

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>want to make steam friends
>realize that I dont even play games anymore (only tf2 occasionally) so there is no point even trying
what a miserable existence

>log onto my old MapleStory account
>look at my friends list
>recognize all the people I used to chat with or go on adventures with
I wonder if they remember me like that

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I browse non

>tfw I am the guy that was last online 378 days ago
I just stopped liking tf2

>adding anybody with over 100 friends
Yeah I'm sure they totally talk to all of them.

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Somebody kick this kid from the party or I'm backing out.

Woops I didnt mean to reply to you (although you really shouldn't tolerate tgat shit. He wouldn't do that if he really were your friend)

>Last online
>434 days ago
He was a good friend.

>Get online
>30 messages from sister saying that she wants me to visit her and that she loves me
I just wanna play single player games

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>someone with 300+ friends removed me
I mean fair enough I never talked to him but why filter through 300 plus people to just remove me?

>playing CS:S 10 years go or more
>mic spamming
>some guy is getting triggered
>add him to friends while planning on following him around and mic spamming more
>never did it one time
>he was on my friends list for 10 years

>It's my dad's steam account, who died from fentanyl
At least I was able to figure out his password and family share his game.

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Do you bang your sister on the dl?

>Just be open about your feelings, people.
>laughs and apologizes then continues to talk about me instead
It ain't that simple, it's like he actively wants to talk about me and refuses and pushes away any attempt to talk about himself. I get that he might have issues he doesn't want to discuss, but he can't just pry into my life and not let me in on his all the time

>100
more like 20
any more and its obvious he just adds randoms just for the sake of it

this the guy that shot himself?

this thread reminded me of how fortunate I am to have the friends I have

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No? We just watch movies, eat junk food and play co-op games

call your sister, fuckface

Maybe you were just part of a bigger friend list cleansing.

Is he dead?

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ironically this is exactly how you should hit on girls on games. Make fun of her white knights and make her laugh. Thats how you slide into her DMs and groom them proper until they are 18 and legal.

So why did he do it again?

>notable friend disappears off steam for a year
>eventually find out that they had died from an untreated tooth infection
>steam profile comments are filled with confusion from users trying to figure out what happened before realizing and news and leaving "miss you" type comments

it's a sad feel, bros

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an herod

>be me 4 years ago
>friend leaves for college
>other friend reaches out to him, says hes become a really heavy drinker
>we don't hear from him for 2 years
>decide to google search his full name
>find his obituary

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>eventually find out that they had died from an untreated tooth infection
brb calling my dentist

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>get close with someone i added on steam and talk almost every day
>one day while playing a game together they get mad at me (reasonably in hindsight but it was still something super inconsequential)
>they remove me off steam while i'm sleeping and even block me on their personal twitter
>eventually they re-add me after awhile but now every conversation i try to have with them is like this and it feels awkward as shit

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>MSN dies
This hurts so bad. I have so many fond memories..

probably thought he could get away with it since vac is so shit
lmaobox was around for a year before the banwave

That's manipulative. You're above that. Come on, you can easily convince her to get rid of the guy, she likes you already. It's not worth dealing with this guy for you and sounds like for her too.

nah nah he was just tired haha :)

How do I make friends?

>Met dude while playing CS:GO
>We became close friends soon after
>We'd talk everyday and send each other videos, memes and cool new stuff we found
>A year or so later I'd realize he was a bullshiter
>He'd lie about stupid little things
>Feel really offended about him blatantly lying about dumb shit
>Unfriend him and block him
>His last message to me was "m8 why did you do that :("
Nowadays I feel really awful because I broke our friendship over something so stupid.

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>girl joins my group of friends for a game
>guy friends are very obviously excited
>only one not chatting her up
>talk to her afterwards about the game and such
>"wow, user. I like talking to you a lot more than the others. they keep asking me werid questions."

Reminder

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I don't know but when you find out, let me know.

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>friend becomes a insufferable libtard
>block him

i still think of him from time to time

>know this motherfucker isn't busy
>have thing we're both working on together
>try to get him to do his end of it so I can finish
>blows me off constantly
It's no loss to me to wait around but I'd rather either get it done soon or have him tell me he's lost interest, for fuck's sake. I've got other shit I want to do too.

>high school
>had profile pic of predator on msn
>friend tells me to change it or he wont talk to me
>don't
>next day at school whenever I would try walking up to my group of friends he would usher them all away and they would just blindly listen to him and avoid me, walking away from me whenever i got near to them except for a small few of them
even today this still makes me feel some mixed shit

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Do you think he's alive?

>used to play games with group of friends in elementary and high school
>all of them grew out of video games, built successful careers, got girlfriends, some are even married now
>all of them were last online 4-6 years ago
>only I'm still left playing games and being a loser NEET with no girlfeidnd

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>not seen any friends IRL in years
>don't talk to anyone on steam
h-haha there's still hope right?

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I have spotted a zoomer.

Find a common interest and b urself

>have a libtard friend
>he sees some news about an immigrant stabbing people
>does a full fucking 180 and lands on the other extreme

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Guilty.
People born in 2000 are now of legal age.

>have fun with other guy in one game
>he friends me
>we never talk again
>remove him
>he immediately adds me back
>still doesn't talk to me

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I'm not sure what myself is, though.

>tfw you're the friend who was lost along the way

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I'm going there, geez

>friend goes so far on one end that he can't stop talking against the "alt right" and non ironically uses words like "victim blaming" to defend retarded shit
Or on the other hand
>friend constantly talks about the evil sjws infecting his country's school system, and keeps blindly idealizing the traditional rural life+work in trades life style despite being a fat fuck nerd

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You ever hear the saying when everyone is the asshole it's actually you?

>get friends
>be constantly nagged at and asked to join stuff
>suddenly remember that i hate people
>and why i had no friends
>sneak away quietly and gradually
>have no friends again and never been more comfy
Don't get friends.

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You can only find out by interacting with other people and trying out new things.

I'm 30 and from time to time I play Mario Kart 8/Smash with 18-24 year olds from some discord I was invited to. I tend to make the girls in the group and many of the guys laugh a lot while I'm just happily conversing with everyone.

Some of the guys in the group sometimes get defensive and territorial for the girls in the group, and try to jokingly fight/one-up me, which is cute desu.

I made Kramer Hentai Adventure 3 so I'm easily able to spin their verbal aggression into comedy gold, but in such a way that it looks like they were in on the joke.

I'm completely immune to the allure of e-pussy after wasting my early 20s as a beta orbiter. If you do this, please refrain. Gain some confidence by working hard and building a career, and you will never be thirsty again.

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Let me hug_ your sister

I did this too and now it's virtually impossible for me to get a decent job in my field either where I live or in new locations. If I could go back in time I would have preferred to build up a mentality of seeing time with building connections the same way I see time spent working. It would still be awful but at least I'd have expendable income for vidya.

It really is simple.
>but he can't just pry into my life and not let me in on his all the time

Tell him that then, you need to be more assertive about it, heck, share him theses posts your making, and if he still won't comply or open up, then you're gonna have to take matters into your own hands and do something about it, like say, not opening up as much until he does. Or just simply have a proper conversation about it.

>meet guy on Yea Forums
>add each other
>we watch anime and he carries me in monster hunter a couple times
>i talk to him about this close friend/ex i have feelings for because our relationship has been rocky and we keep fighting like all the time. the relationship is toxic and we just keep hurting each other repeatedly
>ex is having a meltdown in my skype messages and seeming like a video game villain or something
>i'm in call with Yea Forums user at the time and because i want to hurt my ex, i decide to read out the messages and Yea Forums user laughs
>multiple times he's told me that my ex is trash and i'm better off without him
>i still have feelings for my ex even if we've treated each other like shit
>i remove Yea Forums user one day without warning, i got sick of him talking badly about a person i still care about so much
>me and my ex's relationship is now much better after a year apart and we're getting along well after apologizing to each other and being more open about our feelings
>pretty sure Yea Forums user has tried to contact me at least once after i removed him asking if we could talk again

I want a boyfriend to play games with

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lmao based

>I made Kramer Hentai Adventure 3
Whaaaaaat?!

>that friend who just calls you for some small talk

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Same.
Maybe we could help each other out here.

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You're an asshole

>6 years ago
>playing L4D2 online for the first time, end up with a group of people who all knew each other
>play along have fun there's a girl in the group (of course)
>we hit off pretty well meet up everyday to play for a month or so
>essentially my first online friends
>girl eventually messages me saying something akin to "I'm in love with you"
>completly taken back as it came out of fucking nowhere so I just tell her I don't really know what to say but that I appreciate it.
>"oh ok user :)"
>>last online:2293 days ago
>keep playing with the others a few times but they seem off
>eventually don't get invited or contacted for a few weeks
>Last online: 2114 days ago
>Last online: 2159 days ago
They all disappeared, I don't know what the fuck happened. They sounded real close. Did one of them die and they just stopped playing or something? I don't care much about the girl, I honestly thought she said that in order to get me to buy her games since she knew me for a month. She was nice though. The guys were cool we had some things in common.
I still check their profiles monthly to see if they logged in so I can ask them what happened. I know we won't talk again since it'sbeen so long, I just want to know why.

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Fuck off fag

>the nametag isn't reversed in the mirror

I am. ;_;

Shallowest lore

>I made Kramer Hentai Adventure 3
i didnt know i was in the presence of a legend

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You are the mirror

>look at a friend's friend list
>see 4 of my old accounts there
>oldest last online over 9 years ago
:^)

>tfw all died on the same roadtrip because their bus fell down a bridge

>used to watch some random's dude GoT reaction youtube
>look him up again to see how is channel's doing nowadays
>tfw he killed himself because he was so in debt and didn't want to tell his family
that was a weird one

>expecting people to give a shit whether you leave forever or not
I don't pay attention to 95% of the people on my friends list since they're just random nobodies I got along with for like 2 minutes so we decided to add each other.

Go out and get one then you dumb fag.

all trapfags will suffer in hell

h-hey do you mind sending me an email [email protected]

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PM'd you a fix :)

>I made Kramer Hentai Adventure 3
You're an amazing human being and truly a scholar of our day and age

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Fucking faggots. If you are so fucking lonely then why wouldn't you post your steam/discord in here and then start gobbling on each-other's dick.

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Thats not how you are supoussed talk about vidya user

>add some anons from Yea Forums
>most of them barely talk and don't play video games
>depressed, shy, don't know what to say, respond to questions with as few words as possible
>one guy couldn't shut up about politics and Trump
>another user claimed to be a drawfag girl, asked me to donate to her patreon, when I refused she removed me but saw that she kept adding people from the steam thread, probably fishing for people who would donate
>last guy actually talked and seemed normal at first but later turned out to be very clingy
How do you even meet someone who can actually talk, isn't autistic and wants to play vidya? I just have 1 friend who I've been talking to and play vidya together for 10 years now.

>wouldn't mind having some more friends to talk to
>only play SP games
>I forget to talk to people even if they contact me regularly so we lose contact over time as they think I'm not interested
>don't want to use group chats because those always have drama or circlejerk properties to them

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I would do just that but I'm way too shy.

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Friendship wont cure loneliness user

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I hope you still use a Predator as your profile pic. You can't let them win.

Here, friend.

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Do it or unless you are not really a normalfag
True. But it can convert your heterosexuality to homosexuality.

Friendahip wont cure loneliness user

T. 2 years lonelyfag

>Do it or unless you are not really a normalfag
..I'm not a normalfag so I guess I shouldn't then?

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>used to watch a channel where 4 dudes let'splayed console games, because I was young and poor
>look them up years later
>latest upload is a video blog detailing how they all drifted apart and the family and health issues they had been dealing with

i hope so, i chose not to think about it every time, most likely died

hold me Yea Forums

Neither will getting dick suck, what you need is a loyal dog and the humanity to take it out running 3 times a day.

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Do what thy heart wants best

I don't care

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You mean cat

>Kramer Hentai Adventure 3
That's such an out there claim that it's unlikely to be untrue. And the age matches up.

Good man. Keep winding up those orbiters.

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>blog posting the thread and board
holy jesus

Only problem with this is that if you decide to do your own thing at any point, more than getting mad, they might just block you and disappear for an uncertain amount of time. If you've begun to care at all for said person, they'll eventually start crippling you with their own mind games and you'll fall ultimately fall victim to them. Or you can just wait it out for however long it takes and then have a nice chat with them again in a few weeks/months/years before the cycle repeats

Cats are very nice, but they aren't active participants in human social interactions. Dogs are incredibly empathetic towards their humans and will basically be able to read your mind.

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>CBT
cock and ball torture? how does that help with depression?

>best friends since we were teenagers
>we're both really shy yet I'm considered the outgoing one of the two
>he joins a TF2 and becomes a regular there
>eventually follow him after saying I wouldn't for months
>wind up adding over half the server to my Steam list while he only has me and maybe two other people
>start playing other games with these people while my best friend remains shy as ever despite also wanting to play games with them
>have to tell him to join us because he'll acts as if he's never invited despite us knowing the exact same people and we all like him
I recently made a Lost Planet 2 discord a few months back for the sake of playing the game with some Yea Forums randos and it's the same old shit. I have to organize a game and tell him to join; he won't even ask if only he and I could play together, I have to be the initiater. Same shit happens in Monster Hunter too, all of them, even with friends we've known for years.

You stop thinking about how sad you are when you're in pain

I'm sure he just landed in some progressive European shithole and got a wife or something and never really thought about going back to videogames. Good people deserve to live on

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Thank you anons you are too kind.

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yo boi where'd you get those hentai images

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my only friend (i had him back from middle school) ghosted me exactly on my 18th birthday and stayed visible offline when i was online. i caught him a month later though, but did not confront him about the thing and just asked about a computer build. we played together about 2 more times but he was remarkably uninterested in anything i talked about and we just lost contact naturally.

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Kill yourselves

No you actually don't.
Damn now I feel bad. I have this friend who always wants to play with me Every time I'm on but 99percent of the time I tell him no because im getting on with someone else (someone he doesn't like) or I just want to play alone. I blocked him for noe because I hate saying no too much. Eh. There's my blog

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Mad beta orbiter spotted

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>having internet friends
for why?

that sounds fucking awful

Yes, and?

>last online
>71 days ago
why'd you have to knock her up man
i miss you

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Paypig.

You're right I don't. I only keep them on my list because of steams stupid festure to not archive every name they've ever had or at least show the name of the person at the time of you adding then. Niggas out here changing they're name every fucking 5 seconds. How the fuck am I supposed to tell who you are? So I keep them just incase any of them recognize me or I somebow recognize then. I added these people for a reason. This outcome has only happened once.

I meant kill yourselves since you are all normalfags who trying this hard with socialism. Social parasites.

Basically google, I used to be obsessed with hentai animated gifs and amassed a huge collection. Don't remember how I lost that huge collection.
Don't worry I won't steal your e-girl.

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>backpedal
lol

Just put nicknames on the people you actually like, dumb faggot

>Get back into contact with some of my old friends from middle school.
>Play some videogames and start talking again.
>They introduce me to their new friends.
>One of their friends says something about me behind my back.
>All of them remove and block me.
What did I do wrong?

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youtube.com/watch?v=YJey74gmkLY

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I do that now cock sniffer but I've still lost too many

Not really

>tfw you're the group organizer
>can't be around during a weekend
>later ask what they played that weekend
>"nothing"
Happened multiple times now. Thankfully one of them finally started taking initiative when I was gone.

Words cannot describe how pathetic you are.

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underrated

Not the same guy, I literally quoted the faggot as well

>tfw joining the ERP threads on /trash/ led to me having a suite of caring, loving, and reliable friends

Godspeed, mastermind, fuck shit up of that Yea Forumsirgin he deserves it

Why did they got mad at you?

What...?

>tfw I met nearly all of my e-friends in gay furry threads on Yea Forums
No complaints here

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tfw used to have hair like gotye
tfw also look simliar to him
fucking nightmare when this video came out desu the amount of somebody that I used to know jokes I would get jesus christ

>Hey, let's play some vidya.
>last online 1 second ago

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-. .. --. --. . .-.

>have a discord server of like 20 people I would have considered friends, equal amounts male/female
>5 of which I would consider close friends
>one of which I would date if I knew her irl
>speak to this group at least 3 hours every day just dicking around
>one day never log onto discord again
it’s already been a year since I dropped discord, wonder if I should log back on

Uwoooh! Shroedinger-san! If I could only see your sweet smiling neko arc face once again!

I see a lot of people saying how they met friends on these boards, how? I mean it's anonymous and all. Of course I get that you can share your info, but how do you reach that point of discussion even?

WHAAAT? fuck off retard

You cut yourself with that edge?

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Why do people do this? Are you intentionally not mentioning something or do people really just drop their cliques for no real reason?
I'm genuinely curious.

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Yes, social attentionwhore

>but how do you reach that point of discussion even?
By repeatedly running into the other person.

>irl friend group discord, very selective about who is in the discord
>friend is early 20's but cannot unvirgin himself
>known for bringing in random egirls in and i hate it
>this time it was different
>this time i hear a loud whispery voice
never invited another "girl" again after we told him

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Says the guy typing out incomprehensible posts. Off yourself subhuman.

I dunno what happened user, but I hope you are okay.

More comprehensible than your attention whoring the thread

>Friend spams me with invites
>Can never play
>Finally send them invites
>They go offline afterwards
I messed up

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Fuck off jesus

This place is so shit and you all becoming friends with eachother it makes me disgusted. Might as well make this board disleddit 3.0

Might as well up nail yourself

have a guy on my friends list that passed away. Will never remove him

>
I had a guy who would routinely suicide bait to me and man cutting him out of my life was a positive. Dude was fucking toxic and hated everyone else. Wouldn't be surprised if he was still posting on Yea Forums and being shit at Dissidia.

Were you supposed to be calling out a samefag? I'm legit confused what was your intention with your illegible post, third-worlder scum.

Mom's boyfriend died of a heart attack 3 years ago

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Who hurt you?

I had a friend on Steam who passed away and I never removed him. One day I found out he waa gone from my friends list, turns out the account was hijacked by some pajeet. Really odd that someone got into his account after it being offline for years.

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>been playing a lot of vermintide 2 with it's release and they own the game as well and want to play
>get into a quick play game
>we fail early on cus playing with randoms and kinda sloppy play
>try to suggest how we could fight to smooth things out
>gets mad at me because they thought i was being too serious about it and/or sounded tryhardy (wasn't being loud at all or anything though)
like in hindsight maybe i sounded like that but i wasn't mad at all or anything and they just got set off by that

>join discord with a tight nit group
>be in it for almost a year now
>depressive episode
>leave it, remove everyone
>starting to get better
>no one attempted to contact me or anything
>not sure if i should go back or not

I know, it's my fault. In the end I shouldn't have left. It's selfish of me to expect them to reach out when I'm the one that left. But I still feel awful.
Part of me wonders if they're happier that I'm gone.

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>friend keeps belittling themselves, saying how they're trash at the game we're playing and always blame themselves for losing, even though I anyways reassure it's not
I just wanna play games, man.

They do help, you just have to find the right mix of meds and therapy to move forward.

Why

No need to be jealous user, we can be friends too.

Sounds like you're that autistic kid who wants to be like the cool kids but doesn't understand anything about nuance.

>add rando you played one match with
>never talk to nor play with them again
>they remove you from friends list

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My friend hasn't been online for two years, I tried contacting him but to no avail.

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Cuter pupper

Why didn't he like predator avatar?

Predator is un-Christian, man

>used to watch an animal crossing channel when I was younger
>check back on it a few years ago
>last video made is “We’re not dead!”
>find out that one of the guys running the channel killed himself
>his youtube channel’s name explained his death before youtube updated
It’s really crazy how this shit happens

>ftw normie
>cant relate to all these posts

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you probably have autism and dont understand when youre going too far, or he doesnt consider you a friend so you quite literally cannot banter with him because you dont know him

>mfw last online 5 years ago
ama

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It be like that sometimes

>friend suddenly does a 180 in personality
>turns out they developed schizophrenia
that friend was me.

Would anyone care?

>meet a person through common vidya
>become huge friends outside of the game too, share all kinds of info about eachother
>he eventually tells me a terrible secret that he has kept hidden from everyone in fear of what they'd think
>he tells it to me
>it's too much even for me and we eventually grow distant
>in a matter of weeks a 3 year friendship ended

I wonder sometimes i did the right thing or if i overreacted. He could have simply kept it for himself and i wouldn't be the wiser and i'd be ignorant but with a friend i cherished

I've never seen him the same way since he told me

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sounds like theyre a huge faggot, user

Yes

He was a good man and I miss him. I hope he is in a better place now.

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why dont you stop being a huge faggot and tell us what the secret was so we can judge either you or him

What's the point of this post if you're not going to tell us the horrible secret

Holy shit this is one of my friends. I cut that faggot off and told him that shit pissed me off and now he doesn't do it anymore to any of his other friends.

It's an anonymous image board. Tell us the secret or dont bother posting.

easy (you)s

sometimes, he'd get the urge to kill things. he'd go out, lure a kitten to him and beat it or strangle it to death

The weirdest part is how he tried to sweeten the deal, so to speak. He knew i had a dog, and reassured me he'd never do anything like that to a dog "because im scared of them"

I just wish I had friends who only talked about recent games and classic stuff and didn't fucking talking about depressing stuff or spouted memes. I'm new to steam and man the steam threads didn't help at all.

But you are online right now??

Psycho, you did good by cutting him off.

>Friends for a few days with people
>They dump their life stories onto me because "I'm so nice and easy to talk to"
>Literally have played internet therapist for multiple people
>Literally people I've met hours ago decide to tell me shit about their depression or how their dad wasn't around etc etc

I don't really hate it, but is this like a common thing? I help someone do something or be nice to someone in a game and they just decide to dump everything on me. I've literally had people tell me about how they would smuggle drugs in their underwear or how people they hung out with tried to sell them for drugs????

>Told my friend if you take my food there will be consequences.
>Beautiful bowl of mac and cheese.
>Go to use bathroom.
>Come back and see my mac and cheese is gone.
>last online 61 days ago
Shouldn't have taken my mac and cheese.

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>played countless games of insurgency with this cool slovakian guy
>tells me he loves me every time we're drunk
>he gets interested in r6s
>play more with irl friends
>years later he hits me up and invites me to his r6s discord server
>getting tired of my irl friends and their shitty esports
>I just don't accept the invite and it runs out
>hasn't been online for months
why am I like this fuck

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You for sure did the right thing.

>Best friend jumped down a crane because his autism made life no fun despite decent job and luck with ladies
>Sends me a message on Steam saying, "You're my favorite human, don't feel responsible."
>Last online 6 months ago

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It's nothing personal, I just get sad looking at your "last online: 900 days ago"

I mean, you probably could've convinced him into therapy and/or developed his moral compass. After three years of friendship you should have at least some measure of power in that direction.

Did you kill him?

Of course not, that would've been manslaughter. Instead I broke all their knuckles with a mallet so they can no longer grip a controller. We still talk though. She's pretty chill.

>make long friend through vidya that I end up meeting several times in person
>we use each other for support during tougher times we both face simultaneously
>confesses that he has some serious mental problems
>apparently I'm the only one who knows this, not even his other close friends know it
>I completely disregard it or sometimes even use it as a weapon during arguments because I'm a shit person and didn't put the effort to get over my tough times but also resent anyone who did and was met with success like he did
We're still friends but boy are we drifting apart.

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Is that the one where you talk to God at the end? That part fucked me up as a 9 year old, I had like a weird optimism epiphany and was in a great mood for weeks.

as soon as I get the sense that people might start to dislike me, even if completely unprovoked, I drop them because I’d rather be forgotten than disliked
I’m aware it’s an awful thing to do but, I don’t knoe maybe I have some sort of undiagnosed asocial disorder. I am sorry for doing it but I’m too scared to reconnect with them

>own a ktichen safe
>Lock chastity key away for 3 days so I don't fap
>Steam friends keep sending you cunny in offline messages

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Trust me i tried. Talked and talked about what he did and how messed up it was.

he said he didn't believe in therapy so he didnt bother with it

There really wasn't any reasoning with him cause he didnt see what he was doing as wrong. It's how i grew distant from him. By having that discussion many times over, i realizd that the person i was friends for so long was completely lacking in empathy.

There were signs here and there, like him being nonchalant in telling people to kill themselves in videogames, that i initially chalked up to usual Yea Forums edginess, but then he hit me with that bomb

But i assure that i've tried to salvage that friendship as hard as i could because i couldn't believe what he was telling me. i asked him if it was a joke too many times to count

dab on mental illnesses

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The degree to which personality disorders are real is debatable but you've described the textbook motivation for avoidant personality disorder.

>havent talked to my childhood friend in 7+ years because my parents moved
>found his steam and youtube account today because of this thread
>extreme amounts of weeb and trap videos and posts

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>Childhood friend fucks your ex after breakup
>Moves from Europe to LA
>Marries an older Jewish woman with a black son

I hope she cheats on the side

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant_personality_disorder

Just have to fight back. Seek some sort of therapy.

explore new mmo territory with my newbie friend and me also newb
>dude actually fuck videogames I'd rather go out chilling with my friends this isn't fun
that guy logged out of draynor manor 11 years ago. In hindsight probably a good decision but I had no friends anyway so who cares.

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Should have called him out on that bitch shit

In that case burning the bridge really was the best course of action. If he didn't want to listen at all then you can only hope that ending the friendship showed him that he was doing fucked up shit.

I despise self-diagnosis but I don’t know how to explain my social motivation, or lack thereof, to a GP so I’d likely be misdiagnosed as I have in the past
I don’t know if the way I think is rational, or even ordinary, because I’ve always been like this

How do they do it? The most I have ever had was 50 hours and I was really burned out.

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There's enough of a separation in online interactions to make any sort of prodding or guidance effectively useless, unless the other person is 100% on board with the course of action to begin with. I've been friends with a handful of mentally ill people over the years and while I can generally persuade the ones I've known in real life to better themselves in some fashion, despite resistance, no one online has proved receptive to advice, at least in any way that necessitates action on their part or going outside their comfort zone.
Basically, they're going to have to find the solutions themselves and online friends aren't real friends, just people you play games with. shikata ga nai

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I had a friend who told me narcissism was a personality trait, he also told me about the first time he had sex was with a 13 year old he babysat as a 17 year old.

I've never distanced myself faster from someone.

thank you but I’d feel guilty if I get misdiagnosed
I know I’m not making any sense, I’m sorry

should have reported him to somebody

it's not fair

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He said they became friends outside of the game too, and because of that bit about his dog I'm assuming there was some irl interaction.

Tfw never got an email from user. I want a bf so bad bros

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Let me rephrase that then.

Seek a trained medical doctor/physician, talk to them and tell them about your problems. You're making perfect sense don't worry. No reason to feel guilty for needing help.

>friend from high school links me a steam profile from some weird guy she's been talking to in cs:go
>he's a furry with a bizarre personality and membership in a shit ton of porn groups, plays 80 hours of videogames a week
>slowly reveals to her details of his life including his real name and hometown
>remember that I mercilessly bullied this kid in 6th grade up to and including making him leave school early crying

Hope I'm not responsible for this

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Well you are apparently a clingy faggot so I'd fuck off too

I talked to my psychologist about possibly looking into getting a diagnosis for this because it's me down to a tee, but he was evasive about it and I somewhat got the feeling that he doesn't feel it's necessary or even believe in the disorder. I really don't understand.

find him and fucc his boipussy

>mfw I was friends with that NZ shooter on steam for years

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What games did he play?

Partially

I tried, and what said isn’t me that posted it but the exact same thing happened to me because to “qualify” for AvPD it’s so vague and subjective
I reckon any other qualified professional would diagnose me in a heartbeat but I live in the middle of bumfuck nowhere so we don’t have any trained psychologists here

I did this too a couple of times. Its best to quit while you're ahead. Linger for too long and people get tired of you.

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Unlike Borderline or Narcissistic, Avoidant doesn't have a ton of research behind it and isn't necessarily indicative of a deeper personality dysfunction, you could just be shy and have low confidence, and semi-valid reasons for feeling that way.
Also, when a patient comes in with a diagnosis in mind any psychiatrist is going to immediately attempt to get that thought of their head since there's a risk of tainting their reporting/responses in favor of their preconception.

Hard to say without knowing them, therapy is very subjective. If you make the therapist think you're a certain type of person, they will believe that.

But yeah it's understandable if there's not a lot in your area because the therapy for it alone might be a lot more stressful. It's not something they'll throw drugs at all though, more so just trying to get you more used to social interaction as a whole.

But you have to work through it either way, I'm sure your friends enjoy you guys around. There's no other reason they'd hangout with you.

Misquoted

thats why nobody likes sayings. They are often wrong and full of pretentiousness

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there’s a fucking myriad of reasons why I can’t get an ordinary diagnosis, but to shorten it to a paragraph the path of getting diagnosed is far too long and winding to be considered practical so my GP would rather put me off the idea of having AvPD than try to diagnose then refer me to someone qualified to treat it
I’ll stop blogposting on Yea Forums like a faggot and I thank you for the advice/insight, you’re a good guy user

That’s the one. I’m glad it had a positive impact on your life.

He cares about you user. Play a game with him, catch up.

Not just one user btw, but I do hope you feel better.

Godspeed, we're all in this together.

This. If they can't be fucked to at least try to converse they can fuck off.

to steer this back to the thread topic I went back online and one of the friends I was closest to went immediately offline
maybe it’s not such a good idea after all

>Do this to people sometimes because I want to respond to them before I forget while playing a game.
>Feel so bad I usually apologize

So don't do that then, user. Get through those tough times and become a better person.

>have friend IRL (wow ikr?)
>gets so absorbed by vidya for ljke 7-8 hours at a time he neglects everyone and everything around him
>literally have to call him and be like "hey man, we had plans?" or "let your damn dog out and get off that shit for a minute"
>"ok ok dude i will"
>reluctantly takes a break to care of himself and his pets
fucking addicts man

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Probably just a coincidence, but if even so, let niggas live, don't let them stop you from living though. If you don't want to message them don't message them, if you want to talk to them just drop them a message where they can see it and if they don't respond oh well.

Worry about what you need then worry about what you think other people need.

Can't be arsed to put in the effort. The time window's gone and I've grown into too much of an edgy shit who can't be around people out of resentment.

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Thru luck. I'm that user you are looking for but never had a chance to meet, such a life, bro.

>IRL friend never plays any of the games you both have
>only play when I initiate never the other way

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>friend messages me everyday
>don't want to talk, just leave me alone
>always the first one to start a conversation
>reply with short responses
I don't know if I'm a piece of shit or he is for not giving me space.

Unironically based

I really need to take that last part to heart. An extreme case right now, a good friend that was part of a child sex ring and abused every day for years is saying that she's tempted to go back to her abusers because it's comfortable to her. She's 24 and her mind is do damaged, I'm worried sick she's gonna end up dead, either by her own hand or the people harassing her.

It's old school but you probably just want to look for a clan for a game you already like and then see if those guys like playing other shit too.

I hate that so much.

so not do* fuck

I ghosted my only online friend on steam because I couldnt stand telling him that I lied about having a job, that I'm just a smelly neet and have all sorts of problems
it's been over a year since I last logged on
I'm so sorry
I don't know what to say

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i hate furfags but /trash/ is the least cancerous of all boards, ironically

Looking for that perfect friend is a herculean task, it's better to just accept and deal with flawed people. Of course you'll have to set good boundaries for yourself and them, but it can actually be pretty rewarding talking to them, finding out why they are the way they are and sometimes even subtly influencing their person by asking the right questions.

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He's a little bitch, sure, but you're worse.
I hope that you do break him, so that he an heros and takes you with him.

It's readable user no worries, just do what you can and offer support where you can when feasible. Don't kill yourself over it though, if you're really worried call the police in their area and explain the situation.

Just like I worry for my fellow anons here, I can't do much more than that. It's just not feasible. Having a friend in a shitty situation you can trust is more valuable than you can imagine and you're probably helping more than you think.

Should have lied about getting laid off
It's what I did

>Have friends in high school and afterwards.
>turn 22 and basically no one is left
>good friend won't even talk to me anymore and I don't understand why
>friends are having awesome lives going on road trips and renting apts together
>when I see them at parties they act like we're all still friends but they never actually message me or invite me just to hang out on regular days
>mfw I don't know where I stand with anyone I've ever met anymore.
Something happened to me and I don't understand it.

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hello r*ddit

Because you're a huge faggot that pushes people who obviously have issues with being pushed, autist.

I lied so much that I just decided to abandon my 200 games steam account instead
we were online friends for at least 7-8 years...fck im crying
whatever I have it makes me lie and avoid

I'm like that with people because I don't like talking about myself. Maybe he's the same.

>tfw high ranked player in dota
>people add you after every game on first page because they think you're fucking pokemon and it's cool to have you on a friendlist
>most say "I want to watch your replays and learn how to play"
>sometimes there are girls adding you and asking to play with them
>act nice but then block them all anyway because they are too fucking annoying to deal with

>become great friends with a guy online
>at some point we both figure out we're manlets
>I called him Shorty a few times in sort of an autistic way of trying to relate to him manlet-wise, but I never meant it in an actual fuck you way
>he says "would you please stop making fun of me and calling me names all the time?"
>mfw I said shorty maybe 3 times over a period of days
>now he just doesn't want to talk to me, also he's a Chad now
Why am I such a fucking faggot bros? I had a decent friend and he got offended over weakass banter, I feel like a prick.

>tfw dropping an entire steam account with 200+ games to dodge a bunch of clingy neets
Erp can be one hell of a drug

Same thing happened to me but at 18. My highschool friends ended up going out together and never called me for jack shit, but as soon as they saw me on the street they would act like they were still my best friends but never actually called me anyways. Eventually I told them to fuck off and started to hang around with my cousins friends. Took me some time but 10 years latter we are still great friends.

>online
>but won't respond

Now and then I think about when we were together....

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