Get ghosted again on tinder

>tinder

My buddy has had nothing but shit luck with that app. For me, I took the trappill and am living with my gf in a house I bought for us. Found each other on here and we're pretty much the same person, I couldn't imagine dating someone who goes on tinder.

OP just stop relying on women to make you happy. Gotten my heart broken and ego stomped so much I have a hard enough time trusting any of my female friends. It's a shitty outlook, but it keeps you safe and sane
Traps are not girls user.

Nothing wrong with having a gym friend.

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She cooks and cleans, looks and sounds like a girl. The only worthwhile woman I've met, roasties are hardly women to me.

Online dating can be fine. The reality, OP, is realising that putting your time into people who don't want you will always make you misreable.
Yes, sometimes you really like someone and the feeling isn't returned-that's fine.
It's likely that someone has or will feel like you didn't return their feelings either.

The thing nowadays is that it's so easy to meet people that people really do just not bother if they feel even slightly off about you.
Some won't mind, some will give the benefit of the doubt, but on an app primarily used for hooking up most won't be paying enough attention.
Your best bet is to be funny, but actually interesting as well. If you don't find yourself interesting, get hobbies that do.
If you find think fulfilling your interests will make someone not like you, then why would you want to be with them in the first place?

I had a gf for about 3 years that I met on tinder. The relationship was great and the breakup sucked but wasn't super unpleasant. Turning the corner and realising that sexual/romantic relationships really aren't that big a deal in the grand scheme of your life makes it easier.

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>emotionally investing at such an early stage
Lmaoing@ur life kid

Tinder is good. Have a few friends who met their husband/wife on Tinder, had a gf of a few years off of it, but you have to accept that 99% of the users are gonna be not for you.

together you would get sweaty, you'd smell a weird smell and while with a girl you bat it off as something that happens to everyone but with a guy you suddenly realise that you are getting hot and sweaty with a dude.
A shaven asshole is still a dude's asshole and that dick and balls aren't going anywhere.

Well I can't even start a relationship with a girl anywhere and I can't even convince girls to be dtf. Kinda wanna give up

Hasn't been a problem for me, friend, when it gets that far I just smell her shampoo/conditioner.

Of the worst feelings I've had was messaging someone on Tinder for a couple of weeks and setting up a date at a bar.
Went to the bar, after they were 15 minutes late I checked Tinder to message them, and they had unmatched me.
I sat there with a beer and thought about what I did wrong and eventually called my brother who lived a block away.
He came down and spoke logically that this shit happens, that she was shitty for handling it in the worst way possible, and had a really nice night having a few pints and shooting the shit.
Getting ghosted is a good way of separating the chaff.

Do you work? Study? How often do you have opportunities to meet new people? Do you have a large or small friend circle and how often do you see them?

There's a common trap that people fall into with dating apps/online dating; they think it's a way to circumvent the difficulty of meeting people through more orthodox means. In reality if you aren't really socially networking whatsoever, limiting your interactions to people who you explicity want to have a sexual or romantic relationship with will always end in failure.
You'll get far too invested, far too early.
If you haven't even really dated them, you shouldn't be thinking about them for more than a day or two.

Hard to find a girl when you're a self-defeating gaylord. Who are you kidding? You already gave up.

Yeah, I bet it's good for the few people it works out for. I just think I'd be too autistic for it, so I'm thankful I already found someone.

AAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>caring about modern western women

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>caring about women
ftfy

>trappill

I'm not surprised reading this shit here out of all places but I'm also obliged to call you a faggot.

Fag.

>trappill
>financially stable
>meeting on Yea Forums
gr8 b8

>She
>looks and sounds like a girl
>like a girl
>woman
fucking YIKES dude holy shit

I hate dating but got pushed into it, it was as miserable as i expect it, she would not shut up about her ex and some other crap i don't give a shit about, i'm pretty blunt and really can't help myself with that, i tell her most of her problems were created by her and she should stop playing the blame/pity game because its really annoying, she gets angry and goes home but whatever i was eager to play DQ11 anyway, we don't talk after that and end up meeting in the market by chance, she is angry i didn't try to talk to her again or apologize so i just say she is playing the blame game again and why the fuck just i try talking to her again? bitch gets seriously pissed but a few days later wants to go on a day again because "she can't forget me". What the fuck? we barely talk and all i did was "insult" you, now i'm unforgettable? woman are crazy user, if you just want to bang just pay a pro because it's not worth the trouble.

>trappill
you are gay user, no need to sugarcoat it.

The problem with your kind of messages are, that I am never sure if I should put a constructive message with detail what you should do, or just say things straight.
Gladly you got both answers already, but I realize the fact you feel miserable because you don't feel equal to others as you haven't been in relationship. Its natural, but you can either do something about it, or go full SJW and blame everything except yourself about it.
In the end it isn't that big of a deal, but it doesn't matter how much I tell you it if you haven't felt it yourself.
So, gud luck I guess. Or actually, no luck for you.
Just hard work
And one more tip.
Don't make your whole life about the relationship.

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hi hru
wyd?

I love hikes and long walks at the beach. If you cant handle me at my worst you dont deserve me at my best. My interests include Netflix and Rick and Morty. Massive nerd. I love Star Wars!

>get plenty of matches on Tinder
>message them
>almost none respond
>the ones that do are just looking for more followers on their shitty wannabe model instagrams
>tell them I don't even use instagram
>oh
>unmatched

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>talking with some girl through discord
>things seem great for about a week, getting to know one another and occasionally lewding
>realize I'm always the one initiating conversation so don't say anything for a day
>continue this for almost a week and still nothing from them until I eventually remove them and move on

This had happened twice now, I don't get it. Are women to retarded to start a conversation or were they just no longer interested? If the latter why not just say so?

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a best bud isn’t good enough for you?
your problem is seeking romance

This, based user.
Also if you accidentally knock up a girl in your conquest of women, it will solidify how little all this shit matters.

Well, you need to understand you probably won't meet 99% of the girls you are talking if you are not a gigantic chad. Chads are playing the game on easy mode, but even still I get girls now and then too. Girls always come back because I'm great at oral sex and have a big dick (not pornstar big, but need to use XL condoms big) despite being a balding overweight guy. You just need to be yourself with room to improvement always

as normie as this is, it's correct

*his

Seems unusual, but that's exactly what happened and where I'm at. I don't make loads of money, but I have a good loan product, it's one of those subsidized USDA loans.

My guy, that girl has about 100 other guys messaging her on a daily basis. She liked you enough to include you in the 20 she actually messages back. When you stopped initiating the conversations, your slot was just filled by another guy. She has plenty of guys initiating conversations with her, she doesn't need to do shit.

Now kiss. You fellas would probably make better girls for other anons, too. Just look at this thread, roasties are almost never worth it

based bro

real shit, I'm pro-feminism and shit but I understand that women have it easier finding people, but not meeting THE right person, just a lot of fuckers instead

>Tinder
I'm so glad I met my wife before having to resort to any online dating shit. Dating is fucking awful, and online dating sounds humiliating.

read If you don't stick out from the masses, you don't matter. She will have literally *hundreds* of guys messaging her.

Tinder has a notification to inform you when you hit milestones like receiving 2000 likes. If you havent seen this notification and it's been a month in a populated area you might be in deep shit.

Unless you're a guy in which case dont worry because the odds are stacked against you.

>I'm pro-feminism

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>subsidized USDA loans
so you live in bum-fuck nowhere out in the country? Is she your cousin by chance?

Why are your friends marrying through a sex app?

You're probably right, but she reached out to me about getting to know one another and potentially starting something together in the first place. That's the only reason I find it so weird to just have stopped so suddenly.
And that's fine, but why not just say something? I hate having my time wasted.

Faggot

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>we're pretty much the same person
Especiaply in terms of genitalia.

>install tinder for two months or so
>0 matches
I'm not that ugly

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>I hate having my time wasted
Welcome to sex apps when you aren't a woman.

Stop being so invested and your time won't feel like it's being spent, never mind wasted.

>posts on Yea Forums
>doesn't think he's an uggo social reject

Shit, it took me like a month or two to reach 100 likes. But I'm in Yurop in an area where very few girls actually use Tinder. After 30 swipes or so I was already getting girls that are 100+ km away, in a neighboring country

but I'm not an incel like you user

Yeah, rural Oregon. And no, she's from the south.

Adjust your standards. If you were only swiping right on 10/10s then there's your problem

Lift faggot.

>be me
>just masturbate when dick get horny
>hate people
>love sleep
>never give a shit about having a romantic relationship
life is good

>Stop being so invested and your time won't feel like it's being spent, never mind wasted
This is terrible advice. Your time is valuable, even worth money in many cases. This kind of advice is what makes kids work for free with skills they should be charging for when they help friends and family. Do you think a professional photographer should not value their time?

Has anyone paid for Match before? I can't imagine girls would bother using any paid apps when they can just get thousands of matches on Tinder for free.

I wasn't
at first I was just swiping right girls I could have something in common
in the end I was just like "wow I like your shirt *swipes right*"

keep telling yourself that :)

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Why couldn't women just have male's sex drives? This is bullshit that you have to pursue bitches just get some nut out.

Honestly this, pursuing a relationship is pointless if you can jerk off to whatever you want.

big difference between professional activities and lazily swiping on an iphone, lad

She probably just found someone better and dropped you like a bad habbit lmao

Frotting is one of the hottest things I've done, no joke.

I've had several gfs and fucked other girls
are you telling me it was my imagination?

Post your internet speed

How does it feel to fall in love with a straight dude? Being a heterosexual guy I can't really imagine loving a lesbian only to find out the hard way