Friend removes you

>friend removes you

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kek thats a big feel

I did that after we got mad for some reason I can't remember, thought it would be awkward adding him back and now years have passed.

>you remove friend you were once best boyos with

>friend is hyper autist
>refuses to talk to you because of something inane
>havent heard anything for over a week

I, myself, added one who removed me in the same situation years later but in a few hours I removed him when realized how much disappointed he brought me over years and that he actually doesn't care about me, he wanted to add me back just like you but never did.

>removed all my friends

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>female friend removes you cause she said you creeped her out

maybe you shouldn't have been an obnoxious retard

>having friends
lmAo @ all of you

>tfw you ghost all of your online friends

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>friend spergs out and abandons your e-group
>cuts you off too even though you avoided the drama

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>having friends

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>become friends
>known of years
>he gets all the benefits of being my friend
>I get none
>Call him out on it and argue
>Shit goes on and off for more years
>Eventually tells me I try too hard and that friendship should happen naturally
>He says that while passive-aggressively sabotaging the friendship
>Decide to just stop talking to him
>He removes me a couple of months later

Yeah naw he was a shitty friend

>had a friend since 14 years old
>he becomes mentally ill and starts talking utter nonsense
>hard to have a conversation with, always responds in one worded answers, or just sends random "funny" images
>try to get him to stop saying crazy shit and sort himself out and get better
>not getting through to him
>start distancing myself from him
>get a message: GOODBYE FOREVER YOU FUCKING CUNT
>delete him

I still wonder if he off'd himself. What a lost cause.

Can't get blocked if you don't have friends!

>t.

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What game

>Have 30 or so people on my friends list
>Steam encourages name changes so much I'm only really certain who 4 or 5 of them are

>when overwatch's competitive mode came out I met a guy who was pretty cool and we added eachother
>played together for about 3 months and we had fun even when we lost
>one day he invites a bunch of people to make a full 6 man team
>one of the guys is a pissy brat who starts raging when we lose the first point
>blames me because he doesn't like my pick
>starts calling out other people on our team whenever they make little mistakes
>after the game he says none of it would have happened if I just picked a different character
>I get kicked from the party
>guy I thought I was friends with deletes me without a word

Why can't people just stick with one damn name?

The only true friend you need is yourself vee

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Set nicknames for them

>meet person i want to be friends with
>last talked to them a year ago
>not even in the same server anymore
they were a artist i really liked too, i fucking BLEW IT bros

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Friends are for losers

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Neptunia
Noire is worst girl though

>Person realizes you're a Wojakshitter
>Drops you immediately

Good for them. They seem incredibly wise.

>ghost people regularly for about a year now when I get uninterested
>meet someone who I actually don't want to ghost
>he doesn't want to either
>we're both simple and just want someone to hang out and relax with
>talk nonstop
>exchange and listen to music together we both love
>one day he says "I love you user"
>you too
>"I'm glad you said it back. I hope we can be best friends"
>ghosts me a few days later

>go back to ghosting people again but feel emptier
I'm not sure what went wrong, but I guess it's what I deserve for ghosting people so much

I'm sorry user

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>fren stops being fren with me because his other fren hates me

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Sounds like it was a drunken confession and he was embarrassed by what he said.

>refuses to talk to you because of something inane
this shit is insta-removal, fuck anyone who does this

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>have a mental breakdown
>lose job, no family, start lashing out
>get in a fight with a friend
>try to reconnect months later
>request: pending

building life back up from ground zero is an odd feel, i never should've given up if i was too pussy to pull the trigger

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>crazy shit
>one word answers and memes

if this isn't bait, please explain

>2007, play TF2 with a bunch of people online, become friends with about 9 of them
>we all start to meet up semiregularly
>2010 a girl starts coming on our server
>she gets me to slowly isolate myself from my friend group and by 2015 i'm friends with none of them anymore
I fucking hate women
the worst part is is that I'm still fucking this bitch everyday

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>have friends
>randomly remove everyone one day

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It's your fault for being a beta male, and for not really caring about your supposed "friends" in the first place. If getting some pussy seems worth removing 9 friends from your life then you need some help.

>Google many friends's steam names/URL names out of boredom one day
>Find some results for furaffinity accounts or pony websites
>One was even a kigurumi performer
>Remove them all, even the ones I liked and had regular conversations with
>Tough, but it had to be done

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>sex is better then having 9 good friends

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>I solated myself from my friends
>I hate women
>I still fuck this bitch
What a weak faggot, you didn't deserve those friends you piece of shit

AHAHAHA

>wants friends
>seeth cause everyone else already has friends
>give up on the whole idea and distance myself
>
>oh and time zones those suck too

Im kinda feeling this feel right now. I know i'd come to regret it though. Frustrating.

If you try to talk to him about anything, even just having a good bit of banter he would barely respond or would reply with single words or "lol" and just kill the conversation. But if you find yourself talking about him and his problems then you'll get a big rant and a lot of crazy talk.

>always have to talk to him first
>makes no effort to have a conversation
>remove him because it's like trying to be friends with a bag of rocks
>why did you remove me
why do you think you dopey cunt

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you gotta be baiting, have a (you)

>you were the friend that got removed

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Yeah, fuck 'em.

> tfw friend whom I’ve Been with for over 20 years removes me from friend list
> refuses to talk or play shit
Do people suddenly change?

>managed to get in contact with an old FFXI/WoW guildmate
>having a good time catching up
>him: btw dude I don't care either way, but are you a furry artist now?
>nigga what
>him: google search your old character name dude
>do it
>some guy used my name for his furry OC
>100% has to be someone we knew because my name was pretty unique and the character was i bull (i played a tauren in wow)
We tried contacting the guy but he never responded

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Yes. They do. Why haven't you?

Clearly he didn't want to annoy you and ruin what little friendship he already had, so he figured shutting up was the best action.

I fucking knew someone who went through your situation but they’re a massive fucking retard that deserved it.
>two owners of this community server are both massive edgelords even though they’re well into their 20’s
>one is a really fragile boy who spends hundreds on edgy masks of metal bands he likes, makes the maps and basically is the real owner
>other owner is just his friend, barely was around at all but when he was he was throwing his military status around even though he just went through training
>both act really close to eachother for a long time, irl meetups, main owner denanding everyone gets into vc when the other is on, etc
>one day a pretty chill girl joins the server, friends with her still, but she and the other owner have an online relationship that offends the main owner like hell
>doesn’t say he loves the other owner but bans the girl so then they can’t see eachother
That server is pretty shit, it has a fuck ton of kids in it’s discord that act like they’re in the middle of a drug gangwar and they’re the dealers. Massively autistic.

Yes, it's called mental illness, quite common you know.

shameful

i hope you get stuck raising her boyfriend's children. and i hope they all disrespect you

All 9 of them.

Having someone never talk to you unless you remind him you exist is more annoying than whatever dumb shit he could say.

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>no bad blood with best friend but just drift apart

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This, it's pretty annoying.

>friend was okay, liked idol anime,JRPG's and VN's
>friend was decent to be around with
>friend discovers tumblr
>friend gets heavily into tumblr's inane shit such as otherkins and gender spectrums
>friend starts identifying as trans male and then genderqueer and kins yohane from LL
>one day, friend randomly blocks me and she starts doing RP with her tumblr friends
thank god tumblr is losing traffic and making less people insane.

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>still logging on to play with friends like 3 years after highschool ended

meh. I think I might prefer lone-wolf style. all we do is play league for like 3 hours while chatting then get off. pretty empty relationship

>Cant get any conversation out of anyone in my friends list
>Cant get them to play anything with me
>they notice Im alone and feel down
>but user we're your friends
Fucking hell. Posting memes non stop is NOT CONVERSATION YOU FUCKING NIGGER NO WONDER I DONT REPLY TO THAT SHIT

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>constantly removing people from my friends list in wow when i realize i gain nothing from them

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he said it again the next day and started sending me irl pics saying I helped him a ton emotionally and was a huge boon for his confidence. I honestly liked what he sent too. He was a smooth femboy. I guess he realized he was getting too far into it and dipped before he got any closer or more attached. It could have just been disinterest or mental illness though. I hope he's alright.

He actually sent me a friend request a few days ago now but has said nothing yet/has been invisible. I'm expecting to get ghosted again tbqh. Thanks for reading my blog

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I second this. Fuck these people, it's highly annoying there is no excuse for such behavior. I usually delete them in the end, no regrets.

>add woman from game
>try to treat her like a dude friend
>she never wants to play games
>just unadd her instead
Why can't women be normal?

>want to use invisible mode to hide from friend because i dont really feel like games after work anymore
>always have fun and regret thinking about ghosting
Just power through the depression bros your frens will make it ok

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>gay

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friends are a liability

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eh i get like that sometimes, major depression sucks

but if it kept going for years then that's just who he is

>friend removes you from the discord server

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>lost friend to TDS
>tries to turn other friends against
>they all tell him they only tolerated him cause of me
>brain breaks, moves off to oregon to live with a married gay couple as their dickwarmer.
>miss getting dick sucked while playing baldurs gate. but oh well.

>friend never invites you to game sessions
>always have other steam friends he prefer to play with over you
Why is finding a steam friend to play games with like finding a gf? Everyone already has a partner

>treating women like dude friends

Stop this.

>remove a female friend cause you said she creeped you out

>Removing friends for interests that you would never have known otherwise and had no effect on your previous relationship
Shallow

I refuse to talk to people that talk childishly or only post memes

>treating them like theyre super special
Stop this.

He's absolutely a lost cause. It's like trying to get blood out of a stone. It's not just depression either, he's been on the psych ward. He's completely nutty. I'm better off not inviting that into my life.

>friend whines about how casuals are ruining the game industry and all AAA games are shit
>try to have a conversation about literally any other game
>"never heard about it lol"
>proceeds to not give a shit and goes back to whining about casuals ruining games
90% of my steam friends. And most of them are regulars here.

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>have group of steam bros
>play vidya, talk all the time
>less and less each year until dead group
>remove them from friends
>"Bruh why did you leave?"

seriously?

Exactly man and then they complain I don't reply.

Did I say treat them like they're super special? No I didn't.

Wtf are you me? I started doing that like 2 years ago.

I've known someone like that too, good riddance my dude.
It's not worth the headache.

>she

Find some excuse and try it for a while before cutting ties you might regret losing

>they all keep playing like nothing changed

If I find out someone faps to furfag vore, dresses up in a dog costume and fucks other dudes at conventions, or dresses up in anime girl mascot costumes and fucks other dudes at conventions, it's too weird for me to talk with these people anymore. I regret googling, it was better being in the dark. I did it for my own sake.

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Establish with the friend your communication habits. There's someone I became friends with through vidya gaems who only ever talks to me first and we've been talking for a year and a half. He knows I never start conversations with anyone but and knows that if he does talk to me that I'll talk back with him. Not because I feel obligated to but because I enjoy talking with him, I just don't like starting conversations or saying "hey, how are you doing?" in case someone really doesn't want to talk. People are weird and unpredictable and they also won't tell you the full details so for me it's better to just not try and cut out the risk of annoying someone instead of forcing them to engage with me because they're too kind for their own good to say "listen, i don't want to talk right now" in fear that they'll think I'll get pissed or annoyed at them somehow

Can't say that's why your friend never spoke to you first, but at least I make an effort to have a conversation with my friend. Maybe just ask them? If you're going to delete them then what's the harm in being secretive about the issue? Could easily be resolved if you asked why and if then you already deleted them so nothing of value was lost right

If you're like that, THEY'RE probably better off.

I held on to him for the longest time. I didn't have the heart to cut him off and I tried to give him advice to sort himself out but ultimately I had to remove him. That last message he sent was the final straw. I won't be blamed for his situation.

Huh didn’t know it was that extreme. Nevermind then.

nigga you post on 4channel

They're the weirdos, pal. You're not one of THEM are you?

>equating vidya with fursuiting
Check Out Special Agent Big Thonk.

You may as well go full hermit then because pretty much every human on the planet has some sort of degenerate fetish. You could have a friend who eats poops and covers himself in fecal matter and gets off to it for all you know.

You hipocritical cunt.
see

>fucks dudes as an anime girl
That’s hot desu

Furfags, everyone

Can confirm.

Have a bunch of irl friends from whom I'm actively distancing myself right now because reasons. They notice something is off
>just talk to us
Yeah.. no. I know why I'm keeping this kranken in chains.

All in all, I hope they do not take it too much to heart. They're good people for the most part

Posting on 4channel equates to getting fucked by men in fursuits?

Do you know for sure that they do all that. There's different tiers of degeneracy

I never said it wasn't annoying but that's what made sense to them; they would rather the friendship die out from inaction than risk being hated because they said or did the wrong thing. Does that make sense?
No. No it doesn't, I've done it before.

You've never been in a situation where you've found out something incredibly stupid, weird, or embarassing about someone and from that point on you can never interact with them without constantly reminding yourself about that "thing"?

I tried to carry on. I just couldn't do it. I could not play vidya with him anymore without continually remembering the fact that he wears a dog suit and gets fucked in the ass by other guys at furry convetions.

>meet a guy in a dota game
>like 8 years older than me
>talk to him every day because I'm a whiny teen
>play together for like a year
>become really close friends
>I get him to play in an eu4 mp game with me once
>think it'd be wacky if I were to backstab him
>guy unfriends everyone, including me
>being an edgy teen, I send him insults and minions on Zuckerbook
>"It's not about the game, I thought we were real friends."
>"You made the game unfun by ganging up on me."
>"Enjoy the rest of your life."

4 years later, still feel bad and confused when I think about it

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>group for 10 years kicks me out
>only one of them still cool with me
>others have no interest in and wont return messages
Excellent

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same
stockholm syndrome is real

He's offended because he is one of them. He wants you to like his degeneracy.

>playing with friends
>all between 30 and 40
>buried in several problems
>impossible to talk about something positive

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There's nothing embarrassing or weird about coming here. Not on Yea Forums, at least.

They didn't see you much of a friend. Change your life.

>sick of my main group of so-called "friends" mocking me and ignoring me
>remove them all, change my name and avatar, change steam url and clear all known aliases

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I wish I knew how to make friends in games but I'm incredibly shy online

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>the only thing on my friends list are pending requests from people who shit talked me after the game

Nah he sounds like an absolute sore loser. He should've just had fun and he was older he should've known better. The insults might've made things worse but if it's just banter then he should've just rolled with it.

And shy offline too?

discord.gg/nf7Z8R
>join
>get friends
>profit??

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kek, surely this is bait

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Not him but every male fursuiter has sex in them and every male kigurumi performer also has sex in them

>never add a lot of people to fl, always just wife/rl friends/family
>wife and i always play shit together so shes on all of them
>she passed away and I still haven't removed her from any of them and it fucking hurts any time I accidentally see my friends list
fucking kill me

>discord
fuck off, tranny

you are one overthinking weird dumbass, try to be more simple and based in your life

No thanks. The last thing I need is an army of gay autists and furries breathing down my neck.

>Reddit but with no names, more shitposting, rampant contrarianism, and racism rule is hardly enforced
Wow... this is on the same level as furfaggotry...

Are you sure about that?

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>meet friend through a game
>friend complains about the game's flaws all the time
>suggest playing something else
>says he will look into it
>but he never does
>goes back to complaining the next day
>7000 hours played

Perkele

>Have plenty of friends for a multiplayer game
>Stop playing
>Don't talk to any of them ever again

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kys spic

>try to meet friends for gaming on discord because it's advertised as a chat for gamers.
>meet someone to play dota with
>flirty but I don't mind because I am a faggot irl.
>is a furry autist
>wants to stop playing in the middle of a game to basically masturbate on mic with me
>just want to play games
>tell him stop
>gets pissy and says I don't pay enough attention to him.
>alternates between being a giant fag who says he wants to fuck my ass to some autistic retard ranting about how /pol/ is right and furries are degens (despite being such a furfag that he has his own oc he paid for) and rants about the day of the rope.
>leaves cringe flirty comments on my steam profile
>tell him to stop
>gets so upset he stops talking to me for 3 days.
>block him and go back to playing games
>encounter more retards on discord
>decide to give up and only play games with my irl friends who still play them.
I should mention most of the people I encountered were from Yea Forums
you people fucking suck. Just act normal ffs

Furfags are delusional. They forget Yea Forums is one of the only boards that tolerates their faggotry.

Jesus fucking Christ why would you post that? You sick asshole.

>when komo just wont nej.

>hey dude join our discord
F U C K O F F

>Search old freinds on Facebook
>I'm doing better then 90% of then
Name for this feel? Like, kinda sad but also weirdly smug?

>There's nothing embarrassing or weird about coming here.
The claim wasn't that it was on the same level as furfaggotry, it was that browsing Yea Forums isn't weird / embarrising.
Especially after Christchurch, this place will forever be associated with far-far-right ideology and hate in general.
Although I'll admit this has place has become fairly normalfag, especially after gamergate / the elections, if we're speaking about the absolute run of the mill normans, browsing this place is very strange indeed.
>Not on Yea Forums, at least.
And even if we DON'T talk about the biggest normalfags, Yea Forums is probably the worst board on the site given the popularity.
Browsing /g/, /his/ or even Yea Forums if you're a teen, is far more respectable than fucking VIDEO GAMES

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>Make friends with these two much older guys in L4D2 as a 14 year old wee lad
>Had a blast together, solid versus team too
>Generally seemed we all had fun together
>Out of the blue they both block me and leave mean comments on my Steam profile

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they weren't your friends

It's called shame.

A faggot

Nah u

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>beats you 10 matches in a row
>sends you friend request

t-thank...

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GG EZ

ShamWow.

You shouldn’t give up rebuilding your life instead

>have to keep up an elaborate web of lies for all my steam friends because I didn't want any of them to know I was a neet

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If we haven't talked or played games together in months, you don't deserve to clog up my friends list.

>graduate high school
>move to college
>game with dude through college
>graduate college
>he turns into a bitter cunt
oh well

>it was that browsing Yea Forums isn't weird / embarrising.

Not embarassing:
>Browsing Yea Forums

Embarassing
>Joining a "Yea Forums" server on a game
>Joining a "Yea Forums" guild on a game
>Putting "4channer" on your steam profile

>absolutely mops the floor with you every game
>messages you telling you you're shit and that he's so angry having won every game

Fucking Koreans, man.

What do you play? I'm an incredibly shy person both online/irl and going out of my way to meet other shy people is what worked for me

If there's someone constantly pushing you to talk on mic or fill dead air then it won't work for too long. Try finding other shy people who are comfortable with dead air and then see if you could connect further from there. You just have to have some luck finding them though I guess. It also helps to keep in mind where you're looking too, so try games with friendly communities and minimal elitism. Co-op focused games might be a good place, but I don't know any right now. XIV/mmos have lots of attention whores so be careful user. You'll make friends one day

>Just act normal ffs
says the literal faggot. Kill yourself.

>Hey, user! You came early from work again?
>user? Online at this time?
>Hey user wasn't [Person] death?
DARKNESS
IMPRISONING ME

retard

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thats their fault for being retarded, any account I have for degeneracy is under a different name, who would be retarded enough to use their gaming tag for porn

>Yeah, it's the website that Christchurch shooter came from, but it was from another board--
>Oh, you know, it's divided between boards, so I look at video games while this guy discussed politics haha
>But yeah, they're not all like that at all, I swear!

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you're all social retards

Christchurch shooter was 8c retard.

BASED

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I try to only have people I know IRL on my friends list.

I ruined it with the girl from last night lads. I thought we had fun. We went out together for paddys day with her friends. She seemed to enjoy herself. Then this morning I sent her a message asking her if she had fun yesterday and she replied back saying "Yes it was great fun :). Did you stay in the pub much longer after I left?" I replied back saying that "I met up with one of my friends and stayed in the pub till midnight. How is your head? You didn't drink too much did you? :p" She hasnt replied ot that message and I sent it 5 hours ago.

>Multiple cases of school shooters/rapist having reddit/twitter accounts
>they join suspect groups on said websites
>No one associates the website with the shooter
Hmmmm....

>one of your regular online buds has been awol for years

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oh shut up, autist. Don't pretend you aren't also some faggot with an anime avater erping that you're a loli getting fucked by old fat men right now

>normal people know the difference between 8ch and cuckchan without you explaining it to them

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thank god for family sharing

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That's oddly specific user, seems like you're projecting.

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>last time online
>5 years ago

You were too good for this world
F

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>reddit and twitter
>vastly more popular, normalfaggot websites
>Yea Forums
>literally only known for their politics board, whose only fame comes from being absurdly racist

It's because I was in a Yea Forums server and met multiple people who did exactly that. I just wanted to play videogames but you NIGGERS are too busy gossiping and being retarded to actually play. I hate you

Why are so many of you so weird? Do you have jobs? I come here everyday but I work in HR and deal with people everyday and act normal around them. Why can't you do that?

>friend I regularly talk to every day just disappears
>couple months later google his name because I'm a weirdo
>find obituary saying that he died the last day I played games with him

same, feels bad man. On the flip side, it helps me feel better about not prioritizing looking for a gf, or starting a family in general. Sure it sounds like it brings happiness sometimes. But also seems to bring a lot of frustration, despair, and inconvenience. I feel like i get enough of all that being alone.

how do you feel about this?

No need to pretend to be normal on an anonymous website

>I work in HR
FUCK YOU, YOUR QUESTIONS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE JOB I'M GOING TO DO JUST LET ME TAKE THE FUCKING TECHNICAL INTERVIEW
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Probably upset, eh?

>have a crush on this girl i was friends with on tumblr
>find out she lives in the same city as me
>hang out in person whenever possible
>try to talk to her whenever she logs into steam
>confess my feelings and ask her out on a date in person and she accepts
>later she sends me a message saying shed rather just go out as friends
>this sucks but i like her so much i still want to be her friend and hang out with her
>we go out as friends a number of times and have a good time
>she makes a post online about being asexual
>thats fine i still like being her friend
>one day ask her online if she wants to hang out sometime soon
>she never replies
>she never logs in again
>her steam account disappears from record, may even have been deleted

Im worried i came on too strong
I just wanted a friend

ive seen her in person at events a few times since then and its been really hard to resist approaching her and saying hi but i feel itd be best to just leave her alone

Nigga chill your nutsack
It's not unheard of that people do not respond even for days at times, because, you know, life happens.

>still goes to 4channel
Fuck off, normalfag.

I don't really know I mean it sucks but what can really be done. the obituary doesn't really have details. I remember he had kickstarted LWA 2 in the 400 dollar tier and he never got to watch it.

I had this in an online game and then he proceeded to teach me and brought be to a high skill level. Ended up being his wingman in high level play in Halo

>work in HR
roastie detected

On the other hand, if she was in any way interested she would've found a minute to reply.

Normalfag women are glued to their phones user

But she replied to my first message this morning almost immediately

For you.

>I work in HR
So you don’t do anything

People have jobs, it also looks pathetic to message twice

>that new guy who instantly wins everyone over by being funny on the mic
>you've been around much longer and it took months for everyone to accept you as a part of the group

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Are you tried...calling her maybe?

She's not 100% normal. Shes in her early 20s and said she doesnt want to have sex before marriage.

>Do this but in order to hide the fact that I'm a fursuiter from anons like
what I do in my private life is my business

Liking moe anime and vns is the first step toward insanity like that
At least you arent too far gone yourself

>he went into a Yea Forums server expecting there to be videogames

retard

But I was replying to a question she asked in my second message.

No that would look desperate

i did this, at first i felt like a cunt
but when we haven't talked for over a year, we're not really friends are we?

Using :) and :p
Goddamn fucking cringe

charisma and int are op in current meta

I thought girls like that sort of thing?

>Liking moe anime and vns is the first step toward insanity like that
explain more

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>tfw too stupid and uncharismatic to be a streamer
>finally got my first job wagecucking at age 23 since no viewers after 5 months of streaming

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based

sounds like you dodged a bullet

well that's why I left

>tumblr
she was a he

>friend is an asshole
>put up with his shit for years
>get tired of it
>friend starts ignoring me to be a dick
>constsntly makes fun of my hobbies
>block him first and get hate messages on psn

Top kek

>tinder match immediately unmatches you

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that's literally happening to me
>on of my "friends" istrying to imply that Yea Forums is bad
>my other friends are thinking the same
at this point i dont feel like i will try to talk i just wait until they ask me why im not sending a message

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I'm not re-adding you fag

>swipe right on everything
>the only matches are hambeasts and obese single moms
Maybe I should just give up, also VIDEO GAMES

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You should add him. For closure if nothing else

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>the guy you removed adds you from another account because you blocked his main account

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Dude you might as well be trying to tell fortune with such methods.
Guess what: even flat out rejection will lead you way further than continuing this platonic act of being nice and reading into 'hints'.

Go out there, and do not return with this bullshit until you got some solid evidence out of her.
(Of course not immediately, you guys are hung over)

wta gaen

>All the benefits of being your friend
>You get none
What are you saying, that he wasn't actually your friend? That's not how friendship works user, it's a two way street

So what should I do? I'll see her at work tomorrow. She sits beside me at work. We had today off work.

This legit made me lol, just picturing a normie HR guy who browses Yea Forums casually wondering why the turbo autists and broken near-sociopaths on here can't be normal. I'm a normie too (salesman IRL) but after 14 years I know who's really on here.

>Tfw all your gamer friends are getting Married
>They have less time for vidya/hanging out
Feels like I'm being cucked out of friends

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they are right, Yea Forums is bad

Young people are susceptible to believing the fantasy of the cute anime with cute characters of being the ideal world that they wish they could partake in instead of the harshness of reality
People often become trannies because they want to be the little girl or favorite character they idolize like in their anime
Tumblr and twitter supports this idea by being populated by users telling you that it is possible and they have already done it

You misunderstand. I'm weird too. But I can act normal at work or social settings. I only got into HR because its easy. I'm just wondering why people here can't just pretend to be normal in social settings.

we are 4 in a cellphone group i feel like one of them is trying to cut the friendship but is weird the other day he invited me a pizza and now seems like he's trying to just end it

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should've married your friends

thank god we browse this jaded, pessimistic and shitflinging website instead
unironically

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She actually had pretty nice tits
They were so soft whenever we hugged and they pressed against my body

>be best bros with dude since we were kids
>played vidya all day errday
>dude suddenly stops wanting to vidya
>tries to act like it's beneath him
>doesn't want to be caught associating with any nerd hobbies
>"okay. your loss"
>friendship falls apart pretty quick
>find out from mutual friend that he's fucking playing larp d&d in the local park

I still laugh about it to this day.

In what world is Yea Forums 'good'? Gtfo underage faggot

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>friends of 15 years stops talking to you because timing didn't work to see them when you were back in homestate for a week

I don't know, I don't care, begin by growing a pair

Just don't try that confessing your feelings bullshit. It overwhelms people.
And for the love of god please don't be a bitter beta if she does reject you.
State that this doesn't mean for you, things have to be awkward because of it, keep some distance, see how she reacts after things settled down for her too.
After all you likely had more time to ponder the issue.

>fuck I did care. May it help him grow a pair

I'm too short (and pale) to be a pro basketball player even though I enjoy the game and did well on teams in school. Sometimes we just have to accept our limitations user.

No, I know. I'm weird the same way (14 years on fucking Yea Forums?), but we're both normal enough to function IRL. A lot of people here literally can't do that. This is their life. How do you not realize this?

Get new friends
I mean start playing with randoms, you’ll eventually meet someone who might become your gringo

if you gave a shit you would have made time desu, even for an hour or two

>friend

Normalfags and genuine Boomers/Teens who think they're weird vastly outnumber the actual weridos and autists on Yea Forums nowadays, especially Yea Forums.

If it's you, just don't be an insufferable fag that talks about politics all day long. If it's just them, don't worry about it and meet more people

>still here waiting for replies
She doesn’t want anything to do with you because you’re a needy faggot

That was me. You're never escaping user.

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>tfw I am a near sociopath

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I forgot that i was supposed to post once in a Yea Forums thread and then leave im sorry

I have this one guy who was on my 3ds friend list from my Pokémon friend safari days. Nobody I know for real, probably just swapped friend codes on /vp/. When I synced my account info with my Switch, he got brought over. He's the only person on my Switch friends list that isn't someone I know in person, but after the few instances where I've deleted him, he sends me a new friend request within a couple of days, despite me having no goddamn clue who he is and never having actually interacted with him.

Took me literally years to get this kind of act together. Still have my sperg moments. But I care less about them and even embrace them at times.
Those who secluded themselves entirely early on obviously lack the knowledge how to fake it.

Anyhow: if in you, reading this right now, is even a fraction of hope left, know, it's never too late. Good luck

Always feel tempted to kick my friend from my smash arena with no explanation just to see how he'd react.

Fair enough. I just thought a lot of people here were sociopaths who would actually be good at acting and masking their true self in public.

>female twitch streamer you follow blocks you after saying "hello"

FUCC!

I'm the one doing the removing

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I kind of always thought most of you were only pretending to be weird as a joke.

Keep it simple "Hey, I had a good time. Want to do it again sometime?"
If she says anything other than "sure! when?" take it as a "no" and say "ok cool" and move on with your life, that door is closed my dude.

Where do you think you are

Gold

>now you know even fake smiles release dopamine. Which makes your fake smiles genuine at some point

>add a guy as a friend
>never talks
>never bothers to actually engage in any discussion and just responds with "lol" or "oh" most of the time
>feel like he d9esnt really like me and we arent connecting so unfriend him
>get a message almost immediately
>DUDE WTF WHY DID YOU UNFRIEND ME :^(((((
>add him back and apologize
>goes right back to doing the same shit
Fuck online friends.

Any anime image? I delete. Any weebshit? I delete. Anything else, I keep.

Why do women always cause disparity in group chats

Grow a pair and remove people who talk like this.

clarifying:
"friend" removes you
is like a cheating whore dumping you, literally doing you a favor. just ride it out and find better people

Succubus in human form.

>meet someone from Yea Forums
>immediately hit it off
>have great conversations for weeks on end
>decide to meet up
>fall into a deep depression
>ghost everyone including him and get unfriended
>a few months later realize what I did

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based Grug smashes anime with a rock

Time to let go fren

>make 2 friends in vermintide 2
>theyre top lads and we all have equal skill level, can handle essentially any deed and map
>remove them one day when i planned on selling my computer because i had no money since i wouldnt be playing vermintide anymore and i'd be using my shitty laptop
>end up not selling it after 3 months, just set it back up
>find them in a game by chance
>"what happened man"
>re add them
>not a week later, remove them again because i'm joining the army
>now i'm done with all my training and set my computer up
>scared to play vermintide 2 because ive already proven unreliable

>only interact with best friend
>play games weekends in his or my house
>my family loves him
>in the other side, I can't interact with friends family
>one day he invites me to launch
>have to greet and talk with other humans beings
>after that day, I erase any contact with him
This is the fifth friend I block for life for the same reason.

Anons, we dont care about your girl problems, this isnt twitter

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Are any of you reasonably normal though? Like if I met up with one of you for a beer would you embarrass me?

We value women much more than they value us.

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The majority of posters here are, which is why I would never want to have a beer with any of them.

I usually do and nothing happens but he freaked out when i removed him from my friends list even when we rarely talk and he never bothers to engage with me.

Fucking lunatic.

>add a random 8 years ago on LoL
>start playing everything together
>introduced to real life friends who play online games with me
>all become friends
>exchange of Christmas/Birthday gifts through the years
>now 23 years old, him 20
>were all meeting up in real life for the first time next month

Anyone else ever meet offline with online friends? This is my first time and ONLY online friend and I'm fairly excited.

I've friends of friends hate me for unexplained reasons. They barely know me. The fuck is that about?

No more than how much you embarrass yourself

what the fuck do you even want to tell us, where is logic and shit in your ESL story?

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Im not cruel like that. Hits to close to home.
That being said, it's hard to embarrass a person more than s/he does it to themselves already. No implications, merely a statement.

It'll be awkward at first but you'll both relax after a bit, I met up with a friend and we sucked each other's dicks

>his primary concern is "not being embarrased"
you don't sound worth knowing in the first place.

Because most internet groups are full of hormonal, stupid virgin males

are you both cute tho

Yes, if I met you I would embarrass you. I would shit, piss, and cum in my pants upon any interaction with someone from here.

Speak for yourself, cuck.

it had to be done

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yeah. He's in between cute/handsome with long hair and I am too.

Id drop you too, you wojak posting shitposter.
This shit isn't video game discussion, take it to or

These, fuck incels and fuck women

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You don't have to be weird you know. You can enjoy video games and still be a normal member of society.

It's not gay relationship at all, so that won't happen.

>constantly have fights with best friend
>each time it gets more and more petty and worse
>haven't talked in 8 days with him just because I said he plays a lot of indie games and he got mad
>even though he does

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fucking retarded faggots, try acting like grown men for once and get over your retarded problems.

yeah but the combination of 4channel and video games means the chance is low

>play every day with friend
>be depressed about life
>he bullies me daily to look cool infront of e-friends
>remove everyone
recently got back in touch but its not the same plus hes still doing drugs way more than before :( apparently talks to himself and shit
>have group of friends where we play and have fun
>help friend build his pc
>someone tells me this pc build friend was not inviting them and being mean
>stand up for faggot
>shitstorm ensues, im depressed and stressed
>insult pc build friend
i think i lost one of the best dudes i have ever known that day
now i have no friends because the dude i stood up for and defended turned out to be a cunt that treated me like shit and backstabbed me

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is that all you said or did you give him a hard time about it

you'll eventually end up like one of lost cases of this thread if you not change your life

I just removed my friend a week ago. I've done it before, out of depression, but came back eventually. Not this time. Over the past few years he's become obsessed with /pol/, Trump. and the alt-right. Even after telling him I don't want to discuss politics he continued. I couldn't be myself around him for fear of being judged, so I just had to let him go. We had years of fun together, but we grew into different people. Good luck, buddy.

I'm saying: I can't interact with relatives of my gaming friends, hate that kind of shit, but I have because here "family" is a "great value" between friends.
But I hate that shit, and when one of my friends wants me to join to his family dinner, I feel bad and ALL the friendship is forever lost after that day, is total autism.

just fess up and tell the decent one you made a mistake and you're sorry and drop the faggot. a good person will understand

>Friends bitches at you for playing Monster Hunter with some randoms instead of exclusively asking him for help every time you want to get a hunt over quickly
>Always snarks about it
>Just don't talk to the guy till he stops being a bitch

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That's all I said. The conversation literally went "You should play an indie game. You play a lot of indie games." and he got pissy.

But I didn't do anything.

This guy has sex!

>stranger adds you and never speaks a word

>Have a fantastic group of friends dating back to pre-school
>everyone finished college, moved out, relationships, all that
>Regularly hangout every week

I think I got super lucky with a great group of friends, its like 8 of us.

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LMFAO
its not enough to ignore the behavior, you need to call it out or he'll think he's in the clear. likely already does. trust me, i've known people like this and it always ends badly if you just let it slide. these people are mental midgets and need clear and frequent reminders you're not their whipping boy

To be honest its a good feeling to remove the weed that makes your life shittier.
I had to realise that I'm a different person now than I was and I can't tolarete his stupidity anymore so I deleted him.

i do this

didn't meet an online friend but bf. was super worried but everything went well and now we're making plans for moving together.

I can't stand this shit. Everyone I try to be friends with online is like this. Friendship is a two way street.

>have handful of good friends +gf
>don't give a shit if some autistic retard removes me
As you grow older you realize it's not quantity but quality that matters. Finding some people it's easy to talk with and sticking with them for a bit is basis for solid friendships.

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I mean your hatred for each other will only be escalating until someone remove other, get your shit together and stop it now

much rather this than a stranger adding me and asking intrusive questions and talking about shit i don't know/care about

based

Shut it ESL

That's actually the complete truth though fagnuts, women don't give two damns or a fuck about you if you don't have money, good looks, and stability. Most guys only care if a chick is at least decent looking

But I don't want to remove him. We've been friends for 3 years. Maybe he'll grow up and stop starting fights.

>friend confesses to you

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>had a friend sine kindergarten
>he eventually starts getting into weed, and also tries other drugs like shrooms
>weed being le bad is le government propaganda
>he starts pushing drugs and ends up getting in trouble with the police
>is scared of jail and wants me to sell all his stuff. Smartphone, furniture, PC
"I will borrow you this money, but i want it back, or we are no longer friends."
-bail him out.... he bails on me
I don't even wanna see him ever again. His mom had cancer, but thats not an excuse. I feel ashamed for both me and him.

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>tfw this post made me check my friends list

>get in group
>everyone tries to be a smartass correcting each other all the time
>everyone is raging in vidya instead of having fun like they think they are going to be progamers at the age of 27
>realise as a younger dude that they are stupid manchildren who are failure in life
>move on
>my life feels good again.

at some point you have to realise you living for you and not for others.

>Maybe he'll grow up and stop starting fights.

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>friend for over 3 years
>develop feelings for them
>they reciprocate them
>few months pass
>they get into a bad situation and take it out on me
>blames everything on me
>leaves me and I haven't heard from them in months

I know you browse here so I hope you're ok.

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Improve now before you start burning bridges

you are literally a gay pussy

sounds like 3rd world's autism, are you from Muslim country, by chance? they usually do weird shit about families and stuff

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You must be desperate.

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ITT: High school drama.

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Oh, I told him. I'm simply not going to talk to him now until he mans up and admits to being a bitch. I'm not his girlfriend, so he shouldn't be so damn clingy.

not him, but some bridges are worth burning.

>get rando message on wow (i had rp/erp profile, they were interested)
>happy to not be the one starting convos for once
>weird and awkward, ends up rping then shitposting between it
>almost 3 years later argued, raged, bonded over games, media and irl stuff good and bad
>my turboautist self at times tried to cut things off, wouldnt let me since i wasnt thinking right at the time obviously

so this is what having a good friend feels like

wise user giving life advice
a sight to behold

holy shit anonymous BTFO

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Fuckin fag

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>if I don't keep regular contact with someone I feel like we drift away as friends and it is hard to recover from
>feels like this time period is a month or so
>constantly juggling conversations between the people I know even though it always feels like I have to initiate
>feels like nobody puts the effort into me like I do them

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its been years though, im sure he moved on with his life but mine has been filled with tragedy so im still thinking about the past
also i have no ways to contact him either, i dont like vidya anymore and im just alone and bored he used to like to actually hang out and talk shit... idk life sucks

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you must be very judgmental for no reason

>he fell for the friends meme

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>you don't remove each other
>but you don't talk anymore
>you just stare at their name thinking of past events before going on with your day

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>be depressed at uni
>reunited with a gaming friend
>start playing games
>constantly thinking about him
>we got bored of each other and we argue a lot
>i'm not invited to discord anymore

should I delete him bros? I already did 2 times but readded him.

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Okay but that has nothing to do with my post, if you can sense you're being a dickwad that's when you have to stop and make an effort to discipline yourself.

fuck his ass

>get close to an opposite sex online friend
>platonic, but fairly intimate friendship forms
>they start acting weird and distant
Oh no. What the fuck did I do?

I used to do that a lot when things in guilds would get serious, as in, I'd be offered Officer or Co-GM and I'd sperg out from the potential stress, remove everyone from friends or in most cases, quit the game entirely.

Feels bad.

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>constantly thinking about him
nigga you gay

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i was in a similar situation, idiot sperged out and removed me which was all the excuse i ever needed not to talk to him again (tried to readd me lmao then said i was being bitchy because i wasnt into it and removed me again). sounds like you should make your exit, there's zero reason to take shit from people in your life. they'll just drag you down and try to blame you for everything along the way. you either fall for that bullshit or you spend a lot of time feeling shitty that you're not able to help them stop being retarded. it's a huge waste of time and energy either way

HEY EVERYONE! THIS user DOESN'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS!

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>finnish friend i've known for years removes me for joking about PUBG
sensitive bitch

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no u

I'm not gay, I constantly fap to girls. Idk why am I so attached.

>have a friend
>play games all the time
>he gets a girlfriend
>his pc dies and doesn't bother on fixing it
>we stop talking
i hate women

Yea I'm a fag, so what?
That doesn't change the fact that I miss him.

If you say so basedpup.

>have mental break down due to stress in life (committed against will for a couple days)
>take it out on those closest to me
>ghost them out of shame
>live a boring and alone life after getting mentally better
I don't think there's any going back after this

rip my friends just know it wasn't your fault :)

>tfw use people's attitude towards me neeting as a filter for trash people
It works a lot better than sticking to virgins that's for sure. Easiest way to get reasonable people is to get those that understand the bullshit to be bullshit.

>tfw meet up and cum on your steam friends face

just act like she doesn't exist and if she cares she'll come back into your life normally. honestly though you should just remove her, girls don't make good friends. one day she'll be talking to you about guys she likes. unironically.
you're a disgusting gay, the majority of pedos are faggots, same with std and partner rates. you people will never get advice from me, just bullying lmao

You don't get it, HE might remove you.

Your own fault user, you either:
1- suck at vidya
2- don't even play vidya
3- are an annoying piece of shit
4- all of the above

>finnish friend removes me for uttering a word to him
>readds me a month later
>is completely silent when we play video games together

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Tfw met up with my friend from another board and he came on my face

Gay baby jail is that way homolord

what did he mean by this

>tfw a girl likes you

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>almost all IRL friends remove me eventually because I get too close or clingy
>I remove almost all my online friends eventually

>tfw I'll never cum on a qt user's face
why live

>friend doesn't remove you
>but he no longer tries to reach you either
>whenever you talk to him he just does small talk and doesn't engage in further conversation

That's actually more sad to me...

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Whats your name friend?

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forgot to add, he once removed me years ago cus i said on my xbox live profile "WOTG SPAM BEST" Cus he got mad I spammed Wrath of the gods in dark souls, so mad he deleted me. then a year later he re-added me.

>getting this triggered over me liking another guy

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What a cunt.

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA you guys actually let yourselves get close to people? No wonder you got hurt. Fucking dumbasses.

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He wasnt your friend, you were only his social fix for his free time. Now he has another with a pussy that he can bang. There is nothing more to it.

Friends are just conveniences that people plug or unplug from their lives as time passes.

>try to redpill people on facebook
>constantly lose friends over it
>mfw ppl still has fond memories of me despite everything

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At this point I'll just have to deal with that. I'm tired of begging him back after fights he starts.

This 8 day period of us not talking is basically just whats happen if I don't beg him to make up, and it's the first time I'm not going to. He obviously just doesn't really care. It's upsetting, but not much I can do.

this is a dangerously high IQ post

I did this and don't regret it. I can't stand online friendship anymore.

>triggered
ok , lets pretend i am. i'm still not a faggot. nice life bro, enjoy lmao

maybe instead of hastily removing people like an idiot you should just tell them that you won't be online and let them make the decision instead

>dude tells me on discord to kill myself talk shit about me all the time etc
>finally delete him
>dude why do u delete me
>readd him
>feel regret

thinking about finally removing him from my life
what to do?

you definitely fucked up user, I have someone like this I only leave on my list because I know irl

reminder: internet friends aren't real friends. they can ditch you at any second and you can't do shit about it.

I know, the bitch cheated on him three times and he always forgived her, he was a tool

use either humor or ridicule. anything else is too high effort (hard sell). if people want to remain asleep after that just let them and live your life, at least you tried.
remove without a single word

>Tfw really disconnecting with one of my High School friends
He's turned into a bitter asshole. I don't pay any attention to politics but he constantly talks about how evil SJWs ard and how bad Star Wars is now for being "feminist propaganda".
I was actually playing Super Metroid about a week ago and he asked "Why are you playing an SJW pandering game?" So I asked how it panders to Sjws
>Samus is a woman. She obviously couldn't do all the things she does in her series
I also really like the Souls series, he hates them. He's said he wishes Hidetaka Miyazaki would die in a car crash. He apologized for it. But he just hates them for being quote
>Bullshit difficulty that treats the player like they're supposed to know everything
I've considered ending my friendship with him honestly

i don't drink

Now you got me wondering how many people here actually didn't realize that accepting attachment is accepting equal loss. Either way I'd still take loss over no friends.

I always try not to get too close but somewhere along the way I'll be convinced they're like me and I drop my guard. Why am I so weak

Idiot

>one day she'll be talking to you about guys she likes. unironically.
This hasn't yet happened but I think I just figured it out. She has told horror stories about guys confessing love to her online and maybe she thinks i'm going to do the same shit. Cutting her off would feel like such a waste of a several year long investment of friendship.

based rockposter

This but when I dont talk to them or ignore they start asking why god i hate them

I'm so fucking sick of negativity in this stupid hobby. There's this guy at work who only plays RTS and looter shooters on PC and straight up refuses to discuss anything else unless it's in a negative way. Tried to get him to play RE2 but he said the game looks like shit.

Fuck you if you're cynical. No one wants to be friends with you if you're like that.

That wouldn't be a surprise in the slightest. I have too much emotional baggage and anxiety to be a burden more than a friend, user.

>try to correct everyone
>people get tired that I'm the smartest
>stop inviting me to play games
>still feel like I was right all the time

So yes, then.

>1st grade
>quickly flash my dick to classmate because their reaction would be funny
>tells teacher
>only friend tells me I'm gay
>distance myself from everyone from then on
>never outwardly show emotions or an interest in sex again
>parents had me playing football to toughen up
>hit as hard as possible to express my rage
>now have early onset dementia a decade later
>too tired/stupid to enjoy the small pleasures in life I once had
>only stick around here because it's the only place I ever felt belonging

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>used to have lots of friends
>gradually stop talking and unfriend them
>only got one friend left
>havent talked in months
>cant make new ones because my crippling social awkwardness IRL is seeping into how I act online
stop

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I wish my friend would ask why I'm ignoring him. Or show even the slightest bit of concern.

i have a group of friends that i've known for 8 years but i've drifted from them all and don't speak to any of them anymore. the only time i do it's always me initiating the conversation, and it never lasts too long, and we never play games anymore since we're always busy.

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>unironically crying about someone pointing out shoe-horned elements in games/movies
back to your containment site, redditor. unfriend him, he'll probably feel better knowing you're too retarded to see reality for what it is

Call him out on it. If he really wants to be your friend then he'll work on it.

it doesn't matter :)

there's nothing inherently embarrassing in the hypothetical about one person sitting with a drink and another sitting without one unless you're just uncontrollably insecure

>play a great game
>shoot the shit in team chat
>guy friends me after the game
>hit decline

Each and every time. I want to play with randoms in my games. I'm not looking for fake online friends. Why can't they understand that?

>they're a ugly, fat, dumb, memester doing nothing with their life except drinking and drugs.
Grats man, happy for you. Iktf. Goodjob. Awesome. We're gonna make it bros.

maybe just ask her what's wrong before you make assumptions and may ruin something? she could also just feel down. can always remove her afterwards if it doesn't turn out well.

>going through some rough times in my life but try not to bitch about it to my two closest internet friends so they have no idea what my situation is
>feel as if both of them are getting tired of my immature personality and pessimism though
>jokingly mention im a drug dealer in chat and friend freaks out about it and gets really high and mighty
>at that point realize that we have absolutely NOTHING in common with each other anymore and I can no longer relate to any of them
>our worlds are just too different at this point
>besides that i felt it was better I removed myself from the group before id say or do something id regret even more
>dont talk to anyone for 3 days before finally leaving
>try to gift one friend Spelunky as a goodbye present
>he blatantly doesnt accept it and lets it sit there until steam automatucally refunds the game for me

On the off chance you read this Joe, I wish i could readd you but, if I did things would be too awkward now and ive mostly moved on.

Have a nice life dude

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That's not true at all. People (guys and girls alike) play hard to get because it weeds out the clingy faggots.

What do you call it when, instead of feeling smug and superior for being right, you feel miserable for not being able to stop yourself from trying to be right at all cost and push people away with such shitty personality?

>have group of friends I play games with
>new guy joins group
>over time he just becomes really bitter and nasty, we constantly talk shit about him because of how awful he is
>he stops coming online for a bit
>figure that he just changed friend groups, finally
>comes back
>turns out his home life went to absolute shit, parents were cheating on each other, bad shit
fuck man, he's an asshole but he didn't deserve that. I kinda feel bad for all of the times we made fun of him.

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>tfw want to try getting online friends but I only find clingy retards, attention whoring cunts or erping trannies
why is it so hard to find normal people

what games you play? I'm the same way

He's too negative. And I don't mean in the bullshit "he's toxic" way, but in the way that he's inconsiderate of your friendship and your opinions.

>there are people on 4channel now who have friends
>there are people on 4channel now who had more than one friend when they were kids

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How to get over gaming friends ? I've been left out of Discord and I'm alone, it feels like I got betrayed since they play with others as 5. How to move on with my life?

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I stopped talking to my best and honestly only real friend after we graduated high school because he had his shit together a lot and I couldn't handle that, probably just weighed him down anyways is what I tell myself sometimes
fuck it I got like 2 internet friends, a third didn't remove me but just stopped replying, can't fault the man

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sounds like you're projecting.

>tfw took the black pill that friends will leave you in the end
>never made friends to prevent this
did i mess up anons?

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>try to chat with person in your guild while out adventuring
>always have to put your best foot forward while they barely make any attempt to communicate
>they get invited to hang out with others while you're left alone
>get that creeping feeling that you're so fucked up that you don't even know if what you're saying sounds weird to other people, even random internet people

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Smartass?

>early onset dementia
I'm really fucking sorry user. I'm glad that our shitposts can bring you some pleasure.

I have asked her and she dodges the question or is otherwise elusive about her behavior. I'll try the apathetic approach and see if she budges, but you're right about women being annoying to be friends with.

this is a blue board you degenerate

>be good friends with someone for a year+
>play game with them one time
>they get mad at you over something really trivial
>next day find out they removed you and blocked you
>eventually they unblock you and accept your friend request
>try to talk to them normally like before but now it's all awkward and they barely respond
and to think i'm autistic when people do this

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Wouldn't it be better to just call it "autism"?

>I work in HR
i hate so much about the things that you choose to be

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Are you honestly expecting being a drug dealer to go over well with anyone except druggies?

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>Be a redditor
>have friends and fun
>Become a 4channer, start to correct everyone
>lose all my freinds

maybe this place just sucks?

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why don't you tell him why you're ignoring him? Being ignored by friends hurts

>tfw you are part of the discord, but just the regular one not the secret inner circle discord

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Yes you fucking retard, humans are by design required to have some friendship otherwise we break down, look at this fucking thread as a result.

ive lost all my irl friends since im a neet and they all went to college and moved on and now ive pretty much drifted apart from all my online friends

i dont think i really care to find any new ones either. i think at this point i want to just be a ghost online and play games online in complete isolation. the thought of it sounds actually pretty comfy.

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>Play with group of pals in HS
>constantly playing
>get to College
>we all plat together despite stydying different stuff
>we all get our majors
>Stop playing together
>still talking on discord but stagnation is setting in

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do your own thing and learn from what happened there. sounds like they weren't worth considering as friends
stop talking to them, they obviously dont give a shit. its not on you to help people flick some imaginary switch that has them caring about you. not everyone you meet has the potential to be your friend

How the hell is Super Metroid some SJW pandering game just because Samus is a woman? It makes no sense. He's dissing one of the best games ever made, solely for the main character's gender

you put a lot of effort into this one

It's not autism if you are just smarter than them and correct them and give them new info, they should be grateful, also why should you play with people who bore you because they always say stupid shit.

Ahhhh someone be my muscle hunk degenerate (gamer) bf

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Just grow a pair and stop being an anti social lunatic or accept it and stop bitching. Preferably do the first user, you will enjoy life so much more.

I'm going to die alone and no one will remember me

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Because this is showing his true colors, that's why.

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At least you're fucking her so it can't be all bad now can it?

The real world isn't like the internet. Video games are still seen as a childrens activity by 90% of normies.

>Hey user, happy new years!
>Thanks!
>No messages in 3 months after

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you and everyone else

Everyone does drugs.
Ive sold to firefighters, college kids that make straight As in school and business men.

Stop acting as if "druggies" are some lower caste system of untouchable.They are often well adjusted consumers of a product im willing to vend and make up a signifigant portion of your community.

to be fair tf2 is ded now

Because I want to have people in my life and have meaningful connections with them, but the autism of my ego gets the best of me and end up pushing them away with my shittiness...
I want goof friends but also want to be right... Is it possible to have both?

So this thread shows how everyone is so insecure and trying to make it but fucking affraid to leave their ego and be themselves.

Prove me wrong. :) You can't

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people you talk to online arent your friends. friends are people you have experiences with in person on the regular, someone you feel comfortable around so much so that you can sit in silence with eachother, share personal info like you are family, and everyone in your family knows them and regards them as a mutual acquantaince.

If it was one person I can understand, but this is almost everybody, and I can't figure out what the deal is. I don't even say the usual homoerotic shit people on this board who add each other on steam say. Even people I was on good terms with and spoke to every day just got weird one day and stopped making the effort. It's like having internet aids or some shit.

Ironically, he's playing an indie game RIGHT NOW.

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what kind of material do you have stocked

There couldn't be another reason he hasn't asked?

But what if they are waiting on you to make the first move and be sure that you're not ignoring them out of hate or boredom?

>now have early onset dementia a decade later

holy shit dude, you sound young so thats fucked up, best of luck

I don't but your attempt to rationalize it is worrying.

>work in HR
women aren't allowed here

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Considering this website has been proven to be compromised by the FBI im just going to leave that to the imagination.

>dont log on steam for a month
>nothing happened, just playing other games
>get a message from one of my friends
>'user where are you i miss you :('
>dont log back in

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delete him
1. he won't care/won't notice/will move on
2. he'll try to add you back

hey idiot, theres a difference between using drugs and actually selling them

>It's been 6 years since my fiance blocked me
>31 soon
>All friends have slowly drifted away because I still haven't gotten over it

>"You'll find someone else!"
>"You'll get over her soon!"
>"Time heals all wounds user!"

>All the people who've said that have stopped talking to me since I've unintentionally proved all that shit wrong

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>tfw friends don't like video games anymore
>don't have anything else to discuss since I'm not interested in anything else

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>life after high school happens
>one close friend drifts away
>calls me one day
>let's chill
>fucking yeet
>comes through with lsd
>feels like days since we seen each other instead of years
>says I'm the only one from the friend group who actually replied to him

It's not like he does anything other than lsd, but these guys can be kinda bitchy sometimes so I'm not shocked if they wouldn't want to talk because you were actually too busy with real life

>have a depression fit one day
>remove everyone
>none of them ever cared enough to add me back and ask me what was wrong at the time

Not gonna lie, I've grown into kind of a sociopath over the years. People suck.

Nigga you dodged a bullet like the other user said, she's garbage tier

I DID make the first move. He didn't want to listen to me. So now I have to continue ignoring him until he shows some concern some day.

He'd definitely get mad at me if I removed him. Especially since I've said I wouldn't do that.

ok well for a neet fag who missed this boat in high school how the fuck am i supposed to get drugs

i have no contacts and live in a fairly small town but i known people do them

most people in this world are either fake and not worth knowing, or just already get their fill of friendship from other people and have no need/interest in more. it's possible you're exuding some kind of desperation. impossible to tell with this kind of surface level information, but i wouldn't take it so harshly, just take the time you need to figure out what the problem is and go from there.
depending on what game you're playing, just friend randoms and play with them, if you're in a guild type game just play well and be friendly. stuff will happen naturally. relationships of any kind is like farting, if you have to try too hard, it'll be shit.

you missed the point retard

>can't handle the bantz

it's my birthday soon
nobody besides my family knows, i will send happy replies when they congratulate me
i will get drunk in front of the computer on my own
when i visit them the weekend after i will pretend that i did stuff with my college friends

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Yea I wouldnt expect some yuppie who has probably never known financial struggle in his life to ever understand my "rationalization".

ITT
>people don't know their places
>you can't be everyone
>you are either alpha or not
>being a follower or not
>you either agreed to be equal or have your place on the food chain

I'm the quiet type who is always right so people respect me and when I raise my voice they have a crying sound. Trust me it works kids. I might be a sociopath but i love it

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no you did, which is why no one wants anything to do with you

I know the fel

>watching females on twitch
you deserved it

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he'll get mad at you regardless of what you do, but if you put your foot down and delete him it'll at least establish that you're done taking his BS and that he can either add you back and try to sort things out like an adult or can stay deleted

You find a local vendor using those social skills and charisma of yours , gain his trust and hell help you get started
:^)

Nerds are spergs who don't realize these women aren't worth the effort
zipcode thread?

6 years is too long. the problem is you. get over yourself and realize you're keeping other people out & that it's not some inevitability that just keeps happening to you. nobody wants to be around a mope for long, you dont have the right to drag other people down with you

are you me?

>mfw friends talk about anything else besides video games

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go back to r*ddit and never come back faggot, jesus look at the fucking filename

Not everyone's friends are as garbage as yours. Some actually deserve the title of friend.

Why do “friends” get upset when they’re late to raids and we start without them? We had a time and date fucker

>join discord group because old friend invite me
>everyone likes me except some older dude
>he keeps talking shit about me

how to deal with this?

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>in love with online friend of 3 years
>incredibly physically attracted to him too
>live thousands of miles apart
I just want to cuddle against his fat belly and play Dreamcast games and also have him plow me

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try not being uncultured retards and actually learn things or pick up other hobbies

fucking even do something as simple as consume other forms of media like literature or film and television

>friend in school
>he would brag about his gf and stuff he does with her
>while knowing i was a khv with awful social skills
>he'd give me awful advices, keep telling that online dating is not worth it (while he met his gf on tinder) and that i should just give up
>also he'd just "gang-up" with others against me as in just make stupid jokes/annoy me every second that you couldn't hold conversation
>one day just stop talking to him and ignore him
>realise that i'm actually happier
>'user why did you stop talking to xxx??'
>say he's a cunt
>'wow you're so cruel...'

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The situation would just move from him not giving a shit as to why I'm giving him the silent treatment, to...him not giving a shit as to why I'm giving him the silent treatment, but now he's off my friends list. Either he tries to talk it out with me some day or he doesn't.

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>always right

heh, doesn't work that way, kiddo

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That wasnt me, but hes right.
You completely glossed over my post.
>thats why no one wants anything to do with you
Oh well, im fairly popular irl so im not lonely. And if my internet pals didnt agree with this choice then thats cool too. They are destined for better things than me.

I'm sorry to hear. Well, only you know what else has transpired between you two, so, if he's a good friend, think carefully about your next actions. I hope it works out, fren

if anyone is alone and needs a friend I'm in the same boat
I have like 400 games in my steam library I'm sure we could find something to play together

I have most co-op games of old
just reply with some way to get in contact with you cause I'm neet right now and have all the free time in the world if anyone else does as well

>best someone in Soulcalibur that is a streamer
>check the vod later
>”Wow that guy was really good, I wonder if he plays in tournaments, his name isn’t familiar”
>Not five minutes before I was getting down on myself thinking I was a shit scrub brainlet

tell him to fuck off

>fat
fucking kill yourself

Tell him to fuck off. Assert your dominance.

the only multiplayer game i've played in a while is the isle and even then it's just because of the time ive put into it already (714 hours). i'm just bored waiting for barotrauma to come out on steam.

I don't really go above and beyond so I doubt it's desperation. I'm kind of torn between saying too little and saying too much, but more recently usually the former. I almost always make the first step to getting to know people but they don't reciprocate, time after time, and I feel like an ass for even trying.

Not really a friends story, but feel like I gotta share in this thread
>Work at grocery store
>Don't like the job and most of the people, but the pay is good for what I need (In college right now, and my family's not rich, so I work here part time)
>Today, ringing up one of my regulars, just scanning her stuff, never looking at her like usual, and right as I finish and say her total, she interrupts me and says
>"Why don't you ever talk or look up at anyone?"
>Nearly freeze, and literally don't know what to say, so just say sorry.
>She says to me I should really try opening up more. Maybe go to some social circle, and gives me a pamplet for some introvert social group thing, don't fully remember, as I didn't even open it, and flushed it down one of the toilets in the guy's room.
>Can't stop thinking about it
Why can't some people just leave me alone? I don't like talking to people I will literally never know outside of work.

ridicule them for not understanding the concept of commitment, they'll either realize they're being retarded or do you a solid by fucking off from your life

How can I pick up other hobbies if I'm not interested in other hobbies?

>fat

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stop being a fucking faggot user holy shit

he obviously doesn't value you as a friend if he's constantly treating you like shit without any attempts to make amends or questioning why you've been acting different lol

cut ties nigga, get some common sense and realize when someone is no good

Thanks, stranger.

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I'll do film (only kino) and music, but miss me with that politics shit or books.

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Tinder actively fucks with your chances if you mindlessly swipe right on everybody. Be a little pickier.

>24
>just got out of 8 year relationship
>only becoming more bitter
That was a 3rd of my life, high school was easy to talk to strangers because they made me be in rooms with them. Now I have no idea how to start a conversation with an adult woman. And to make matters worse is that I'm attracted to hispanic women but have no interest in their culture. I've gone on one date and neither of us talked to each other after. I didn't reach out, but she didn't try to either

>do this thing to appease these other people

nah, fuck you.

you can't please everyone

>friend has never given me cause to doubt him
>still have trust issues and I'm paranoid as shit about everything
sorry

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Yeah, I know. It's just hard to move on because we've talked (almost) every day for over 3 years, and I don't really have a true replacement ready. I have other friends, yeah, but I don't really care about them as much.

>high school, 2008
>always play Halo 3 with online bro
>continues for several years and many games
>finally build pc in 2010
>haven't touched Xbox since then
Didn't think about it until years later that, from his perspective, his bro had just vanished one day without a trace.

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she just wanted to help an autist, you're supposed to smile and say some normie shit like "oh i'm tired", women can't grasp the concept of not talking to other people and actually doing the job

>playing new vidya with two friends I know from real life
>it's the first time in a while we've all played together and we're having fun
>they start making fun of me sperging out about something relatively minor in the game
>instantly clam up and spend the rest of the session saying nothing but one word answers to questions, making the rest of the evening awkward
>don't want to play the game any more
I hate myself

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dont think too much about it, like i said if you have to actually try hard then it's an indicator it's not worth it. if you're not using voice, you need to start doing that. i've gone periods using voice and not, and people definitely like you more when they can hear you. when i wasn't, i was basically a faceless ghost.

>Play games with friend
>He always throws friendly banter my way when I'm losing
>One day I throw friendly banter at him and he ragequits
>Haven't heard from him since
What is this phenomenon known as?

Being a solo player for a while usually makes you a pretty dependable person in a team setting. This will make you friends, user.

Why does ex gf contact me 2 times a year to check up on me? Usually every 5 or 6 months she sends me a facebook message asking me how I'm doing and that shes been thinking about me lately. Then we talk for like a few hours and then NOTHING for another 5 or 6 months. This has been ongoing for almost 4 years.

I'm already self-conscious about being afraid of annoying my friends, as it is. There's no way I'd do it to a stranger.

the 'tism

Having trust issues fucking sucks. I wish there was a way to just remove that part of me and be truly happy for once...

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try not being a dishonest retard and actually try things instead of sitting on your morbidly obese ass and pretending like you actually have done anything to advance yourself as a person
lol imagine being so insecure and inept as a person that you think any attempt of growth is a threat that you actually think its for anyone else BUT you

if you're literally incapable of understanding the concept of exploring other things in pursuit of finding something else that may interest you, you might as well just kill yourself. you won't amount to anything and you will never anything more than just "that faggot that did nothing but play video games lol"

i think only two or so people on the discord like me at all

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> wanted to play MMO game with group of friends
> unironically calls themselves BitchWatch on overwatch but ignore that
> talk to regulars of the group and they help me learn the lore before i buy a sub
> however, i laugh at david cage game losing some shitty award
> "user! that's not very kind of u uwu"
> ???? ESPECIALLY since they always talk shit about others and even worse
> suddenly two of the regulars removed me over it
> another regular is completely cold towards me now
> still wants to play that MMO but now not as much

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>Well, only you know what else has transpired between you two

Also this is basically what happened
>I need a new game
>You should find a new indie game
>Wow you're being unreasonably offensive
>Oh god, this again for the billionth. You best explain because Im not apologizing this time.
>No thanks I dont wanna talk about it
>days pass without a word
>he starts playing a new indie game
>I ask wtf
>he says he doesn't want to talk about it again
>more days of no talking to each other

And that's where I'm at.

Everything you said is right user, I wasn't blaming other people, 100% on me

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