Hello,
I need help socializing.
Let me give some background about myself. I have been homeschooled my whole life so making friends has always been on the tougher side. When I was younger I befriended neighbors and would hang with them; however, the people I used to know then has since moved away. Further, my brother has gotten into some rubbish arguments with the neighbors my age, so they dislike my family. So the people who live next to me aren't a good option for friends. The last good friend friend I had was 6 years ago and since then just nothing, and when I say "nothing" I mean no text, no calls, just the abyss. I'm in my senior year of HS. I'm taking duel credit classes at my community college and I work as a cashier. I thought once I get into CC I would make friends. However, my social skills are as dull as a butter blade. My social skills are like a black void that keeps me from interacting with others. My lack of social skills have manifested in loss opportunities. For example, my first class at CC there was this girl my age (and my type) that I thought was giving me some suggestive looks. Further, she would talk about her home life (which was wretched). But these conversations never lasted pass 2 mins so I thought she was just finding someone to vent to. The night before the last class, I was going to give her my number; however, I realized I didn't even know her name and I thought "wtf am I doing asking a girl out if I don't know the very basics." On the last day I was waiting for my mum (who was late) to pick me up from class, and the girl asks if I want a ride back. I said no, but she ask like 3 more times and kinda insisted. At the time, I thought she felt bad for me and just wanted to help me out. I've had other situations like that one. However, I'm not sure how to improve my social life. Most people I meet like me but just kinda overlook me. Like my coworkers. I can't take the isolation anymore. I feel I'm about to break. help.
I can't keep dealing with the isolation
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i feel for you OP, i really do. but youre in the wrong board brah
just hang yourself, queerboy
Who cares blog posting faggot, kill yourself.
No one cares blog posting faggot, kill yourself.
why this board?
/adv/ is better board for seeking advice
since you came to Yea Forums watch hidamari sketch then seppuku because you think hormonal emotions matter at all.
>doomer wojak
Wrong board, OP, you'll have better luck in /r9k/ or /adv/.
To be honest with you, I always had it easy when it comes to talking to people, you don't have to be afraid of them, you must identify something you might have in common with them and start from there, you said you met that cute girl in class, right? Start from there, talking about the classes and shit, start with something common to both parties before moving in to other subjects, movies are also a good subject to talk about, talk about what kind of movie it is and what it is about, it's shit like that that makes people talk and people are more eager to talk than to listen so you have to be a good listener too.
Music is also a good conversation topic too, try to get a list of good topics to talk about, read briefly about the more popular stuff about it and when an opportunity arises use it to strike conversations.
I could give you more advice but part of the problem is on you too, don't be afraid of people and try to be more confident.
While you're clearly in the wrong board, I can't give any meaningful advice since I'm selfish as fuck in life, maybe being talkative in the internet is a start?
Do you play vidya user? Make some friends online. Find a discord community or something. Also, what's your favorite anime?
Fuck off.
Wrong board get out.
But I will say I was also homeschooled and had a very tough time talking to people in community college, it gradually (very very slowly) got better as I practiced but I weirded out a bunch of people. Keep practicing small talk, keep your grades up, and find a job. Having a job while in school gives you the best of both worlds for socializing.
It's /sociopath/ time
First, get off Yea Forums. Not good for your mental health, and not the place to make friends. Social skills are just that, a skill. They can be honed and improved. It just requires you to keep practicing. I promise, if you can persist, then things will improve.
I tried posting in adv but I got error 504. Anway, is there any website besides Yea Forums that is more well suited for me?
sounds extremely dull but I'll give it a shot, where can I watch this?
I'd do my best to just get off the computer, and go out. Maybe find a hobby: people can become very talkative on things they geek out on. If you need a website, maybe Meetup?For me, its been tough to find the group I click with, but I think it may be a good start. Else, if you're not ready for face to face, maybe Reddit? Despite the flak it gets on here, there's absolutely a bunch of genuinely helpful and passionate people there.
It only gets worse
maybe r/makenewfriendshere. I'm gonna go to sleep, but I wish you luck, friend. Just don't give up, it can get better, but its up to you.
I know Isekai LNs follow the trend of using long titles but this one takes the cake.
He who seeks advice from Yea Forums seeks their undoing.
>blog fag
>wojak poster
>wall of text
>Thread still up
Jannies please do your unpaid job for once.
If you’re already losing it at 18 wait till you become 30. You don’t know true despair
Just relax first off. Second watch this video:
didn't read
kill yourself normalnigger
Unironically get a hobby and talk with people about it. You watch anime, you can shitpost on Yea Forums, you like DIY, programming, porn, guns, origami, paranormal shit, reading, you'll find people here willing to talk in their respective boards. Autism is no barrier when it comes to pastimes.
Anything but videogames, Yea Forums is a shithole.
Imagine asking for advice on how to make friends from the anime imageboard that houses the most amount of fucking losers on the planet. Stop whining about how bad your social skills are and work up the balls to talk to people. It's the only fucking way.
Disregard society, acquire anime.
Alternatively, .
>telling user to go to the saddest shithole on this site
at least point towards he'll have a good 0.1% chance of making it
Just isekai yourself
eventually you will find that all people are shit and no one loves you and just give up.
Try a suicide instead.
That's the secret, if you pretend that they're not shit they will love you.
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>getting your wojaks from youtube
Just give up, you're a pathetic failure at life.