You're right. I'll reply to your post in good will this time.
If you don't have a pushy teacher you'll never escape the hikikomori lifestyle of shadowing someone's job on a whim, going to the seedy parts past sundown, going to crowded events to meet celebrities, Participating in large scale marathon events. and going out with your friends to drink coffee, engage in small talk and buy underwear.
The real, Hikikomori lifestyle.