Are single moms really this bad?

Um.
You really expect your mother to continue taking care of you into your 40s?

>it's user has a nightmare about repressed sexual abuse again episode

Went therapy 6 years ago, barely helped. What helped was distancing myself from my toxic family and seeing them get all needy once they realised that I really mean to cut them off my life forever and also seeing their own lives fall apart. The anger is still there, but I feel like every year, it is becoming more of a distant memory. Gyming helps. Best thing for me is to be successful in my own life and surround myself with people who love me, and arent going to stab in the back when things get tough. I just want to forget about those fuckheads, but sometimes things like this movie triggers me because I noticed I was on a Joker path once when I was a teen.

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Relationships between parents get strained and should be cut in a while. It's sad but it has to happen. They shouldn't live together that long beyond visits.

I enjoy making dinner for my mom desu. Seeing her get older every day kinda sucks, but I will do my best for her later years.

One of my best friends growing up had a mom like this. She was such a cunt to him, made him clean, cook, run errands because she never left the house. She did irreversible mental and emotional damage to him. Still see him around from time to time, he's doing decent for himself. He does oil changes at like fucking Penske or something, a girlfriend, no kids. He's a good guy just his mother fucked him up.

kek, the juxtaposition of these posts cracks me up. gonna go hit the garage gym now.

You can't punch your trauma away, pal.

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>Are single moms really this bad

My mate's mum asked him if she should get an abortion or not when he was 14. I dunno, it seems like once you get past a certain age single mums just treat their kids like half kid/half partner

All of them? No, my mother has a lot of flaws and bad temper, but she would never treat me like a slave, in fact I should probably help her more than I do.
Too many of them? Yes, it's a big problem for a lot of kids around the world.

Oh yeah I'd like to add his dad was murdered when he was 2 by a n*gger. Not even making this up.

Broken home here. I despise both of my parents like you wouldn't believe. The only thing staying my tongue when it comes to my mother is I am not financially independent yet. After that, I fully intend to cut that fucking henpecking cunt out of my life.

>All of them? No, my mother has a lot of flaws and bad temper
I think it comes down to the fact that a lot of these women are simply, as people, fucking arrogant ill tempered bitches. They may not be truly abusive or evil at heart but who the fuck wants to be around a bitch? I certainly do not. I'm quite grateful that despite being raised by a single women I haven't become so mentally broken to simp and idealise her and women in general.

That's because they are poor

Can relate to, worst thing is, that she only does this shit to me not to my other two bothers. Woman are really evil and they will never admit to it because in their head is not like this.

>vulchers

>you don't clean a room to their exact standard and miss shit that never even entered your mind (like some dust/dirt on the skirting boards) and instead of calmly suggesting you do x, y, and z on top has already been done, makes these suggestions in such a bitchy, naughty, venomous and then accuses you of being le violent when you express irritation over this henpecking bullshit and nasty attitude
Worst part is, I sometimes am unsure if it's me being unreasonably irritable or if she actually is a cunt

how is it wrong to take care of the person who literally birthed you and raised you from an infant and pays for the roof over your head? arthur was an ungrateful little shit

We're both gonna make it friend

fuck you pig

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t. single mom
wipe your own ass, bitch

Nothing, but in this specific case his mother was a schizo that let him get beat by her boyfriends daily and fucked him up for life.
From how socially stunted he is, she probably also never bothered properly educating him.

no one:
OP: DuUuUUHhhh is da comic book movie real life?

>At 14, forced to promise single Mum I'd have her euathanised in Switzerland if she becomes a potato/terminally ill
Had sweats about that for months.
The local child welfare team were involved when i was 11-13 and during the introductory meet she broke down crying, so they gave me anger management training and other therapy. These sessions felt like I was being gaslit by therapists, while her behaviour remained unchanged.
How the fuck does a therapist miss the key point of young nature being a reflection home life?
I get life's difficult as a single parent with financial stress, being constantly busy etc but being an alcoholic just damages you.
She really Hasn't changed over the years - never apologises for her mistakes or acknowledges she's wrong even if she's had a an hour long meltdown about it.

My aunt used the wrong pronoun during a birthday speech and my mum completely blocked contact with her.
>"I'm so happy my family is here etc"
>Instead of "so happy our family".
My mum stoped spanking me after social got involved when she backslapped so hard her watch left a bruise on my face l.
Not my blog etc but it feels wrong to talk about this in detail with irl friends, I've compared healthy home life/family relationships to my own and realise how messed up/destructive ours was.

>irl friends
Get out of my board filthy normie

Bruh,
She'd get so mad when you asked her to look for something you couldn't find, like it was beneath her or a waste of time to help you.
She couldn't last more than 30 mins helping with homework beforeblaming, name calling and shouting.
It's like they expect kids to grow themselves into these perfect children and future adults "just like other people".

>Nooooo, you have to be a slave to the person who forced you into existence!!! You just... you just have to, ok?

>Not knowing women constantly test men and single Mums treat their kids as potentional mates with bullshittery.
Good dad's take all that from the mum leaving the kids mostly free of it.

If the parent treats them with respect and compassion sure but it's impossible to care for and be around someone that constantly pushes your buttons to get a negative/spoken reaction that they can feel offended by, then personally attack you in retaliation.
They have no pattern of behaviour you learn and trust, their responses are at 2 extremes (love bombing or complete disdain)
"Get out of my house never speak to me again" then 2 weeks later "oh would you like this and this and this"? While being unwilling to discuss the events of last time and if so they're unable to take accountability for the event, blaming everything on you.

so youre just supposed to abandon her because she has a few issues? wtf is wrong with you people.

Americans have no concept of family, they get thrown out of the house when they reach 18 and learn to hate their own blood.

>It's like they expect kids to grow themselves into these perfect children and future adults "just like other people".
As much as I detest my mother, this was very much my absentee father. He expected me to turn out perfect without doing a fucking thing to raise me. I remember one time he had a full blown tantrum when I was like 12 over not knowing a term like 'twenty five to the hour' to denote a time like 3:45am even though neither he, my mother, nor school did it. I could fully tell the time but raged simply over me not knowing a term like that, and then another time over me not knowing my phone area code. No body, fucking no one, decided to teach me this stuff. He raged and raged at me for not being shit out of the womb a perfect fully formed mind. Fucking entitled faggot.

>arthur was an ungrateful little shit
She let him get raped and beaten so hard it traumatized him for life.

My mother destroyed all my confidence, until she threw me out of the house when she found a new husband.

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>"Get out of my house never speak to me again"
Kek, whenever getting into an argument with my bitch of a mother over some anal bullshit like the kitchen or something else, she usually spits out the 'If you don't like it you can go and live someone else!' thing as me. I personally suspect she'd hate it if I became successful because that means I'm fullly out from under her boot, and I also believe she's too stupid yet arrogant to ever be capable of enough introspection to be honest about herself and her flaws.

Overbearing control freak mothers are the #1 cause of their son turning into an awkward beta incel freakazoid

Man's never got victimized in a classroom, that's for sure.

>twenty five to the hour' to denote a time like 3:45am
Kek, I meant 3:35am. It's like I'm proving his point with that typo.

Kinda bad. Single mom down my street has 3 boys and a girl. Girl seems pretty normal. Youngest boy is strange. Oldest two are mutes. Lived in the same neighborhood for 6 years and have never seen them play outside or talk to anyone. Another single mom in the neighborhood has two teenage boys that were born while she was a teen herself. She is a drunk junky and her boys always vent their issues to me of how bad it is. Another boy I know down the street is 8yo with single mom and already saying he's gay, and he is a thief and punk and beats the shit out of random kids he hangs with. Shit be crazy.

>cousin raised with his mother and father, two sisters, and since he was 11, our grandparents living 5 minutes away from their house
>grew up to slay, have multiple pretty blonde girlfriends, etc.
>I grew up being raised by a single mother with two step fathers that came and went and a father that couldn't give a shit about me and made no effort at all with - indeed, the woman, my mother, had to get a lawyer to contact him about trying to see me more and fit me into his job schedule
>I grew up to be a 25 year old virgin filled with rage and hatred towards most things, including women - however irrational any anger/hatred may be, it's still there
Kek, thanks mum and dad. I hope you both get bone cancer and die in agony.

>Treated him more like a husband or slave then a son.
Good thing he wasn't her son then, and just somebody she stole.

To add to this post, my best friend is a 32yo virgin, his eldest brother is a 45yo virgin, his sister is a 48yo femcel, his other brother is a 40yo skeleton gaming addicted fuckup that ran away from his accidental kid 13 years ago. Single mom raised.

It's called emotional incest

I don't know why so many people don't realize that giving positive reinforcement before criticism is so important. My mom acted exactly the way you're describing.

All I required was politely being told to do the skirting boards and get at the limescale but no, instead a haughty fucking tone. And then you get lambasted for not even noticing the shit they want you to do - basically henpecking over not being a fucking telepathy or something that knows and notices everything they do. I genuinely would never want to introduce a girl to my mother. She embarrasses me.

my mom definitely has that problem.
growing up, whenever i would call her out on being a borderline helicopter parent, she would get passive aggressive and say she was "sorry for caring. would you rather i didnt care?". it made it impossible to have a real conversation with her because thats an unwinnable argument so i just stopped talking to her, which caused its own problems.
its like it was somehow everyone elses fault when she had obvious emotional issues.
what can you do about someone that loves you too much?

When I introduced my wife to my mom 14 years ago while visiting my home state my mom fucked with her constantly and insulted her. I visited home again in 2019 for my grandpa's funeral and my mom refused to even show up or meet my son she's never met. Cut ties completely after that. My Dad is an absolute narcissistic nutjob but he is very loving and is always there for me and mine. Glad I left state with him after the divorce when I was a kid.

I'll complete and fulfil family/social obligations/duties to her as an only child but ours is a superficial relationship without genuine love and support.
I want her to he safe and secure during old age but it'd be too stressful to be her full-time career as she's only getting worse.

it's an unfilfilling relationship that won't improve due to her difficulty with growth and change as a person due to her own insecurities which she again represses, projects and displays outbursts of extreme emotion whenever confronted/in discussion.
She had 2 decades to change her behaviour which she hasn't, as a result I need to rpotedt myself from her negative influence.

The 2 extremes, unable to negotiate or listen to a middle ground.
"My way or the high way"

>Don't do the dishes
>She throws a tantrum how I never help her
>Do the dishes
>She nags how I never do anything without her asking me for it
>Do the dishes without being asked for it
>She nags how I didn't wipe off the stove like it was obvious part of doing the dishes, even though I never did it before
It's not that extreme, but really pissed me off. Why the fuck do they expect 13yo boys to reason as adults housewifes.

Bout the same for me but I noticed far too late. When my mom came by and stole my son's bike he got for Christmas that he had been asking for everyday, specially designed just for him and rode everyday it broke my heart. I was able to get the slip from her from the pawn shop and get it out and told him I took it in for repairs before he found out but I cut her out for good after that. This was a few years back and I've since changed numbers and addresses and vanished off social media.

yeah. i picked the highway and now shes depressed and taking it out on my dad. i feel kinda bad for him. basically every problem with their marriage has come from how they handle parenting differently.
what sucks was if he was being a shitty parent and my mom and i both told him he was, he tried to change for the better, but he was always too much of a pussy to call my mom out on anything to her face but would take my side on things behind her back. happy wife happy life i guess.