It really be like this

Daily reminder if you haven't gotten laid by 21, it's over. You are never going to fuck.

user, dating apps make it HARDER to get laid

It used to be you had to talk to a girl, get to know her, then sleep with her. But now, all a girl needs to do is go on tinder and she will have a lineup of tall handsome chads willing to fuck her. Think about it. If you're a woman, and you're looking for the best genetic material, why would you give the average looking boy next door a chance when there's a rich, handsome entrepreneur on tinder who's willing to take you out on a date?

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Bullshit. I lost my cherry at 25.

>It used to be you had to talk to a girl, get to know her, then sleep with her.
that wasnt if you were a friendless talentless jobless NEET. same rules apply

4 more years. should I ask Hollywood if they want to make a sequel about my life?

archive.4plebs.org/tv/search/image/Qr7L81r-kZt4yrr0q3Go1Q/

Hookers don't solve adult male virgin problems. Mere sex mechanics are not the main problem here.
If an adult male virgin goes to a hooker he's still a clueless adult male virgin IRL

from the producers of
archive.4plebs.org/tv/thread/166176503/

but he'll get sex and not be a virgin anymore. how hard is this to understand for you?

>friendless talentless jobless NEET
i'm none of these and still a virgin
explain?
not ugly or fat either

archive.4plebs.org/tv/search/image/tZA1P28RAyhSe8aILhPHYQ/

having to pay for losing your virginity is the ultimate defeat, i will never do it and die a virgin instead. a couple of years ago i would still panic about that but i've accepted that it'll never happen.

>having to pay for losing your virginity is the ultimate defeat,
why? most guys do it with a chick they will never marry and dont even like, thus creating another whore

paying for it is just taking advantage of a broken system

I'm a 31 year old virgin.

I think I'm asexual, I legitimacy have to no urge to pursue sex.

Same but 28 so I'm superior to you.

I’m ugly, weak, boring, and don’t have money

You still don't get it.
The problem isn't just le no penis in vagina, in fact that's like 0.01% of the actual problems of an adult virgin male. Paying to insert his condomed penis into a vagina would not make him any better in not "being a virgin" when it comes to anything outside of a hooker situation. Again, learning sex mechanics are not the main problem here.

Yes, on paper technically he's no longer a virgin. But in reality he's still a "virgin" in every other way since he's just as clueless in how to get any female of any kind interested in him. Who cares that you paid to insert your latex bag covered cock into a hooker at 30 years of age if you never even kissed a girl in your entire life?

Do you jerk off? Yes? Then no, you're not "asexual", you're just coping.

paying for it just means that you accept that it's the only way for you to get laid, might as well not do it at that point. it's meaningless.

>paying for it just means that you accept that it's the only way for you to get laid,
no shit, its the only way for most of the male population to get it. why is that shameful??

>most guys do it with a chick they will never marry and dont even like
key part is that the girl wanted them. they wanted to get fucked. paying a disinterested hooker to allow you to insert your dick into her hole is just masturbation by proxy

What's wrong with getting your dick wet with a hooker. I got my first squirt at twelve but my older friends still thought I was too timid so they payed some whore to obliterate my dick at 13.

>key part is that the girl wanted them.
that is just cope. she wanted them then not later. the infatuation wears off for everyone, welcome to reality. at least going to a hooker you know you dont have to pretend and you can just get off

same but i got to touch massive fat girl boobs with the clothes on them still

>she wanted them then not later.
No shit, doesn’t change what he said.
>college freshman Alisa wanted you to fuck her but no longer 10 years later

not true, i may get to nut inside a husky girl one day ;)

There's a large difference when a teen goes to a hooker and when an adult male virgin goes to a hooker. When the teenager goes to a hooker it's not an act of self defeat, for the adult male virgin it is.
A 16 year old virgin going to a hooker is completely different to a 32 year old virgin going to a hooker and you know it

I literally cannot comprehend the thought of a woman finding me sexually attractive in any way
I'm invisible to them

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do you know that feeling when you stand next to a chad on the train and you catch your reflection in the mirror? I think the feeling we get there is the same thing women feel when they have to look at us

>she wanted them then not later
And? A standard adult male virgin was not wanted at any point his life not even for a second. You're aware that even just a single genuine kiss from a female is something beyond alien and foreign to an adult virgin, let alone being wanted so much that the girl wants you to fuck her?

Same here
I am entirely asexual in the eyes of women
Skinny manlet with no facial hair and incel glasses and ugly face

There's no difference. Especially in her mind since you're just another punter paying to get his nut off.

If he pays for pussy, he is no longer a virgin. He is, however, now a trick - which could be said to be worse. All of this is mind virus induced mass psychosis. No men are virgins. There is no empirical way to prove the virginity of any man. Virginity as a concept was always meant to be reserved for women, who bear hymens and can have their virginity verified. The hymen is nature's way of proving chastity and preventing disputes about paternity. Applying the concept of virginity to men is part of an elaborate attempt to produce a shallow, hypersexualized culture that values sexual experiences over personal enrichment.

>doesn’t change what he said.
actually it does. hookers get infatuated with clients all the time. all women are whores, user.

>3 years
I give up

>There's no difference
Cmon now, even you don't believe that.
>Especially in her mind
Who gives a fuck what's on the hookers mind? Yeah of course she doesn't give a fuck. But the 32 year old virgin processes the encounter in an extremely different way than a 16 year old virgin and you know it.

If you take this logic to its end, only violent rapists escape virginity.
>buying her dinner just means that you accept it's the only way you can get laid
>drugging her drink just means that you accept it's the only way you can get laid
>if you dont pin her down and violently rape her the moment you make eye contact, you didnt really beat elden ring.

So why do you think you guys are virgins?
Plenty of ugly, short, and fat people get laid, if they can do it then so can you

I was born with social anxiety

Going to a prostitute is more than just a mechanical thing. You have to overcome shame and do something you never even considered yourself doing. If you're a virgin, you will never go to a brothel alone. So that's the first problem: you need to have a bro and you need to have a bro that's close enough to you, so you have a 'chaperonne' to take you there. Which, I'm guessing 95% of the virgins don't have.
Tinder is out of the question.

Prostitutes for me were a nice experience and girls in general are nice and understanding and non-judgemental. You could argue that's because that's what they're paid to do. But that doesn't neccesarily mean it's a bad thing. They're worth a lot more than just ' getting the mechanics of sex down'. You compare it to something cynical and sterile. I'd compare it more to people working in health care.

If your requirements for escaping any sort of state you deem unfavorable involves the thoughts of a woman, you have failed as a man on cosmic level.

i lost my virginity at 29 to an 18 year old. i had 3 different relationships with 18 year olds while 30

Pic related illustrates most of my problems.
I've been told to be nice my whole life, from my mother especially. Be nice, be polite, be nice, treat everyone equally. And I was nice, so much so that I even got the most embarrassing "Most Polite" award possible back in school, twice.
Being "nice" was just ingrained in my being and I couldn't help it, so much so of that I became incapable of flirting/showing sexual interest towards women without feeling as if I'm being extremely rude to them.

So nothing ever happened in that department

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bullied throughout entire school life, that meant most people wouldn't approach me anyways but it also turned me into a social retard. even if i was attractive i would still have no idea how to talk to people, let alone women.

Has anyone here ever fucked a hooker? Was she decent?

i refuse to be a wageslave/participate in the fake and gay society

it’s really not that difficult to shag

>a girl kissed me when we were in kindergarten at like 6 years old.
I’m sure it’s her biggest regret to this day.

>If you're a virgin, you will never go to a brothel alone. So that's the first problem: you need to have a bro and you need to have a bro that's close enough to you, so you have a 'chaperonne' to take you there.
Yup, and that is way easier for a teenager or someone in their early 20s.

But a virgin in his 30s getting any of his peers to hold his hand while entering a brothel? Close to impossible. At that point it's just awkward for both parties, the vibe is no longer fun but serious in such a situation.

Using an app doesn’t suddenly make people fuckable. Are you fucking stupid? Lol nobody is going on these apps to fuck virgins anyway. Why are YOU still a virgin?

Yep, same.

I was raised to be a nice, compassionate, respectful person, traits that are not at all desirable in men
I'm trying to transform myself into a cold-hearted, apathetic, dark triad asshole so women will finally be attracted to me but it's like trying to redo my entire personality, it's really difficult
Why can't women just like nice guys bros

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Beyond based

If you are an adult virgin, a prositute is 100% will solve your problem. Which is in your head. You feel shame and you’d overthink it with a “real” woman etc.

Here is a thing: “normal” (non-virgin) people go to prositutes all the time too and they arent sex gods. Any prostitute will tell you that some guys wont be able to get an erection or only can cum from weird shit etc…Trust me, you thinking you being “bad” first time will make her think nothing. If you have all your teeth, showered, cut your nails etc you’re already beating 50% of the male population who goes to prostitutes.

Once you are a non-virgin (and you should probably go to a prositute every other week just so you “practice”.) it will be much easier to know how to handle a real girl…Btw many girls are virgins way late and many couples barely have sex…Dont think everyone but you have a fullfilling sex life.

Besides that, nothing wrong with being a virgin: the problem is your mental state and your association of sex == success, which causes shame

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How much did you pay or how long were you in prison for rape? How many times have you gotten laid since then?

>“normal” (non-virgin) people go to prositutes all the time too
No they don't

Yes they do. Hint: most married men go to prostitutes because they dont have sex at home

t. My former flatmate was a prositute

what about physical sensation tho, just feel for one time how dick in pussy feels like

What's there unfavorable about being a virgin. Theres nothing wrong with remaining celibate whether by choice or not. The only thing that's unfavorable is that you want to coom in a girl but can't so you lash out in pettiness at anyone that does.

>If you are an adult virgin, a prositute is 100% will solve your problem
Absolutely wrong.
The mere fact that you spend the majority of your post talking about sex mechanics says enough.

Protip: for the standard adult male virgin he has absolutely no clue how to even get any girl to willingly kiss him, let alone to fuck. The problem isn't in knowing how low the hole is, the problem is getting any girl remotely interested in your in any shape or form in the first place. A single date would be a miracle for most adult virgin, while you talk about erections and sex mechanics.

This is not abnormal anymore.

Finally! I'm not a virgin anymore. Now I can laugh at you pathetic losers instead of whining all day.

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How do retarded fucking normies not understand that their looks are what gets them sex and not their fantastic personality or sense of humor?

i am both very lazy and not very interesting. Never excel in school or work. I dont like doing anything

All sorts of successful married normal guys regularly visit prostitutes. Keeps it clean and professional no messy shit like having a schizo mistress or girlfriend.

Nice post user.

The problem is he is afraid of approaching a girl sexually. Its not about penis in vag, its about learning how to touch a woman, and rewire your brain from porn into wanting to put your penis in a vagina (which is the instinct you deliberately supress by cooming to porn).

For most virgins cuddling with a girl, kissing her, holding her etc will be an actual bigger benefit than fucking. And you can pay a prostitute for that. Hell, you can pay a prostitute to spend the whole night at your place. As I said, virgins simply overthink things and their mental block is the main problem.

The wife isn't giving the pussy, so most married men go to prostitutes. In the past, wives had to give it up.

Pretty sure most of the mare filled with bots by now. Maybe 10 years ago you could find a real human on them, now you're more likley to Lakshmi trying to get you CC info.

>brothel
there are freelance sexworkers i was in one

Hint: it’s not just women that don’t respect patient men, it’s everyone
If you let someone get away with one thing, they’ll take it as you letting them get away with anything
No disrespect but people walk all over each other if it’s possible, it’s how we are

Should I even bother trying to get laid if I live with my parents? I'm a 22 year old college student.

Aside from this, I'm a fairly desirable person, this is the only thing that's kind of ruining my chances

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>what about physical sensation tho
Again a perfect example of the difference of a teenage virgin going to a hooker and an adult virgin.
For the teenager it's all about the physical sensations for the most part, while for the adult virgin it's all about the mental state. The teenager cums and thinks "haha boobs are so cool and epic" while the adult virgin gets near suicidal thinking about how much of an unwanted failure of a human being he is.

If you have a car just fuck in there

Go to a brotel. Get drunk as hell, pick up a drunk slut, and run train on her in a cheap motel roy with the homies. You'll have friends for life.

i was at a hooker, and i forget to take my wallet with me to bathroom - she would easily take a snap of my id and credit card, that bit fucked up my meeting and entire next week i had paranoia... but nothing happend at least. Funilly people say first time sucks because they cum in 10 seconds... I was unable to cum, probably deathgrip from countless hours of masturbation. All of that felt pretty nice, relaxing, but i did not felt a lot, it felt bit meaningless when i was doing it, mechanically it felt nice, but i would not be able to smile or say a nice thing or something - then i realized i am dead inside...

I think you're pretty cool, user. Fuck women.

>Fuck women.
Yeah that's the goal